The Flourish Feed Podcast

Gillian Stovel Rivers

A series of curiosity driven deep dives into the nature of flourishing through wealth.

  1. #28 - The Architecture of Human Connection

    3D AGO

    #28 - The Architecture of Human Connection

    Explore how intentional gatherings around food and shared experiences can restore human connection, with insights from Brady Lowe, a visionary hospitality entrepreneur. Discover the power of food as a technology for trust, the importance of relationship networks, and innovative approaches to sustainability and AI in event design. This is a fun, engaging and incredibly insightful conversation about the ancient technology of breaking bread, and how the answer to deeper social connections in your world are literally on your front porch and your backyard.  Key Topics 🥘The role of food and shared experiences in building trust 🫶Brady Lowe's journey and innovations in hospitality 🥘The concept of the 'red thread' in event design 🫶Relationship equity and network building in the food ecosystem 🥘Sustainable practices and the future of experiential marketing Quotes “Food tastes better when you know where it’s from.” “The event begins when someone accepts your invitation, not when they walk through the door.” “Take someone from trust to telling someone else - that’s how you build real connection.” “We’ve reduced the center of the table to ‘put your phone down and eat.’ That’s not enough anymore.” “The best experiences have a red thread—from the moment you arrive to the moment you leave.” “If you’re not growing food in your yard, at least grow relationships there.” “People don’t want to be sold they want to be seen.” “We didn’t build a business - we built relationship equity.” “It stopped being the ‘me show’ and became the ‘we show.’ That’s when everything scaled.” “It takes a lifetime to build a brand and minutes to unravel it.” Chapters 00:00 The Power of Connection Through Food 02:21 Brady Lowe: A Visionary in Hospitality 04:47 The Evolution of Culinary Experiences 06:28 Psychology of Gathering: The Red Thread 10:21 Designing Memorable Events 13:22 Scaling Culinary Experiences 16:24 Passion Behind the Culinary Mission 18:34 The Dynamics of Leadership at the Table 20:06 Building Relationships in Culinary Networks 25:06 Nourish: A Sustainable Culinary Experience 32:06 Creating Community Through Simple Gatherings 34:01 Leveraging AI for Enhanced Engagement 36:48 NEWCHAPTER Check out Brady’s work here! Taste Network - https://tastenetwork.com/ Global Fire - https://globalfire.com/ Piggy Bank - https://piggybank.org/ Peach Fest - https://peachfest.com/ Nourish Project - https://nourish.com/ Brady Lowe - https://bradylowe.com/ #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca    https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstov...  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    37 min
  2. #27 - The Biases Standing Between Us and Our Wealth

    APR 2

    #27 - The Biases Standing Between Us and Our Wealth

    In this first episode of Season 3, Gillian Stovel Rivers and Preet Banerjee delve into the complexities of financial stress faced by Canadians, exploring the intersection of behavioral science, decision-making biases, and the role of financial advisors. They discuss how present bias affects financial choices and the importance of having a structured financial plan. The conversation also highlights innovative approaches, including the use of AI to enhance financial literacy and connect individuals with their future selves. Ultimately, the episode emphasizes the need for a more human-centered approach to financial planning that addresses emotional and psychological aspects. Be sure to check out Preet’s incredible contribution to wealth advice in Canada: Your Money Degree is the premiere self-paced practical guide to saving, investing and building wealth in Canada 🇨🇦 Let’s dig deep, tap into amazing resources like this and raise the floor for everyone.  Takeaways 💸Financial confidence remains elusive due to complex systems. 😌Present bias leads to poor long-term financial decisions. 💸Behavioral science plays a crucial role in money management. 😌Having a financial advisor can help mitigate decision-making biases. 💸Cognitive load can be reduced through structured financial planning. 😌Stress and uncertainty can derail financial plans. 💸AI tools can help visualize future financial goals. 😌Social media can negatively impact financial confidence. 💸Financial education is essential for all income levels. 😌Understanding personal values is key to effective financial planning. Quotes "Why does money still feel stressful?" “We’re kind of hardwired to make bad decisions about money because we’re wired to think in the moment.” “Every financial decision is a long-term trade-off, but our brains are built for short-term survival.” “It’s not just a literacy problem — it’s a behavioral and emotional problem.” “When you can make decisions in advance, you’re more likely to make choices in service of your future self.” “Money is really in service of your life and your values—not the other way around.” “If you don’t have a sense of purpose, you’re less engaged in the strategies that improve your financial life.” “The best thing you can do is often nothing—but emotionally, people need to feel that something is being done.” “Financial planning isn’t really about money—it’s about life planning.” Chapters 00:00 Understanding Financial Stress in Canada 02:24 The Role of Behavioral Science in Financial Decisions 04:32 The Impact of Present Bias on Financial Choices 09:10 Strategies to Overcome Decision-Making Biases 10:31 The Importance of Financial Advisors 12:00 Cognitive Load and Financial Planning 13:33 Navigating Stress and Uncertainty in Financial Markets 19:07 Using AI to Connect with Future Self 23:04 Challenges in the Financial Ecosystem 26:41 Your Money Degree: A New Approach to Financial Literacy 31:32 The Global Need for Financial Education 34:11 The Broader Impact of Financial Planning 36:44 Engaging the Emotional Side of Financial Planning #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca    https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstov...  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    41 min
  3. #26 - The Hope Episode: Wishes Are Medicine

    MAR 26

    #26 - The Hope Episode: Wishes Are Medicine

    In this conversation, Gillian Stovel Rivers speaks with Meaghan Stovel McKnight, CEO of Make-A-Wish® Canada, about the profound impact of wishes on children with critical illnesses and their families. They explore the science behind hope and resilience, the role of wishes as a form of medicine, and the ripple effect that wishes have on communities and healthcare workers. Meaghan shares personal stories and insights into how wishes not only uplift children but also provide essential support to families during challenging times. The discussion emphasizes the importance of community engagement, philanthropy, and the need for a more integrated approach to healthcare that includes emotional and psychosocial support. Click here for details about how you can get involved and support our mission through partners, as it houses our ongoing national partner campaigns. Both Make-A-Wish and The Flourish Feed Podcast would like to make a special shoutout about Rocky Mountain Chocolates who have partnered to create a special collection of five limited-edition chocolate bars with wrappers illustrated by wish kids themselves, inspired by their imagination, joy, and dreams. 100% of proceeds from this collection will be donated to Make-A-Wish Canada to help grant life-changing wishes for children living with critical illnesses across Canada. You can experience these very special treats by placing your own order at Make-A-Wish® Canada Chocolate Bars x Rocky Mtn Chocolate – Rocky Mountain Chocolate Factory here. Takeaways 🕊️Hope is a force that shapes how we cope with adversity. 🧬Wishes provide measurable medical impact and improve mental health. 🕊️The journey of a wish is carefully curated to complement medical treatment. 🧬Wishes uplift not just the child but the entire family and community. 🕊️The ripple effect of a wish impacts healthcare workers positively. 🧬Wishes are essential to a child's treatment journey, not just a nice-to-have. 🕊️Community support is vital for the success of Make-A-Wish. 🧬Philanthropy plays a crucial role in funding healthcare and support programs. 🕊️Emotional wellbeing is as important as physical health in treatment. 🧬Engaging with charities can provide a sense of purpose and connection.  Quotes “Hope isn’t just an emotion - it’s a forward-moving force that shapes healing.” “Wishes aren’t moments of joy. They’re carefully curated journeys that complement medical treatment.” “When hope increases, cortisol decreases - and sleep, pain, and resilience improve.” “Wishes stimulate endogenous opioids - real chemistry that reduces pain and anxiety.” “A wish gives a child a positive future to focus on when everything else feels uncertain.” “Hope is not a nice-to-have. It’s essential to coping, engagement, and recovery.” “The goal isn’t just survival - it’s helping families flourish through adversity.” “When systems are designed around hope, behavior and healing change.” Chapters 00:00 The Power of Hope 02:14 Understanding Make-A-Wish Canada 02:52 Wishes as Medicine 06:26 The Ripple Effect of Wishes 10:32 Curating the Wish Journey 13:08 The Science of Emotional Wellbeing 17:01 Wishes Are Medicine Platform 20:52 Community Engagement and Corporate Partnerships 25:53 Lessons from Families Facing Adversity 29:09 Imagining a Better Healthcare System 33:36 The Essential Nature of Wishes #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSub Send TFFP your thoughts!

    39 min
  4. #25 - The Resilience Episode: It’s a Team Sport

    MAR 19

    #25 - The Resilience Episode: It’s a Team Sport

    This episode explores the true nature of grit and resilience, emphasizing their trainability and importance in team dynamics, leadership, and personal growth with Mark Gasparotto, a Canadian Armed Forces veteran, resilience trainer, and founder of immersive field-based programs that help individuals and teams build capacity under pressure. Drawing on decades of military experience, expedition leadership, and entrepreneurial work, Mark specializes in teaching grit as a trainable skill - not a personality trait. Mark shares insights from military experience, practical programs like Outside the Wire, a 1,000km experiment in the Canadian wilderness, and the science behind overcoming adversity individually and in teams. Takeaways 🪖Resilience as a trainable skill, not innate 💪The importance of shared challenge and trust 🪖The role of friction and struggle in growth 💪Psychological safety and vulnerability in teams 🪖The 'Outside the Wire' program for experiential learning 💪The four pillars of resilience: body, mind, heart, and soul 🪖The cross-stressor adaptation hypothesis and its applications 💪The significance of recovery, sleep, and gratitude Quotes “There is no growth in comfort. There is only growth in struggle.” “Resilience is not an innate trait - it can be learned, practiced, and forged in adversity.” “The number one factor for resilience, longevity, and happiness is the quality of our relationships.” “Nothing builds trust like chewing the same dirt together.” “You can’t click your way to resilience - you have to do hard things.” “Recovery isn’t the reward for hard work - it’s what allows you to do hard things again.” “If you don’t train all parts of your humanity, stress will expose the weakest leg.” “Psychological safety is built through vulnerability, and trust is built on top of that.” “Discipline equals freedom - because systems take over when pressure hits.” Chapters 00:00 Understanding Grit and Resilience 04:13 The Military Perspective on Resilience 08:59 The Importance of Struggle for Growth 13:58 Navigating Psychological Safety Under Pressure 18:39 Building Trust Through Vulnerability 21:35 Chewing the Same Dirt: Shared Experiences 23:14 The Paddle for Resilience Experiment 26:02 Phases of Resilience: Preparation, Performance, and Recovery 32:41 The Importance of Community in Resilience 37:35 Outside the Wire: Stepping Out of Comfort Zones 43:25 Moments of Bliss and Daily Gratitude #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca    https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstov...  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    45 min
  5. #24 - The Art of Money Episode

    MAR 12

    #24 - The Art of Money Episode

    In this insightful interview, Gillian hosts Carl Richards, a world-renowned financial philosopher and sketch artist. They explore the emotional and narrative aspects of money, the power of visual storytelling, and how understanding these elements can transform financial decision-making. This is a truly powerful episode about how stories shape our relationship with money, the role of simplicity in complex financial concepts, and the potential of artificial intelligence to enhance human connection – and depth - in finance and in life. Enjoy more of Carl Richards' Sketches and Books by visiting https://behaviorgap.com/ and be sure to check out Your Money: Reimagining Wealth in 101 Simple Sketches here:   Takeaways 🎨Visual stories help bypass fear and shame around money. 💸Storytelling and sketches can externalize financial problems. 🎨Money is deeply tied to emotions and personal experiences. 💸Simplifying complex financial concepts through sketches is an iterative process. 🎨Stories shape financial markets and cultural perceptions. 💸AI and automation can enhance human conversations and creativity. 🎨Authenticity and depth are crucial in financial advice. Quotes “Money really is nothing but a collective story that we’ve all agreed to.” “You’re taught that money is math,  and then you’re surprised when two plus two equals envy or greed.” “This is not math here. This is feelings.” “I didn’t know the dollar symbol was a provocative symbol — that it actually provokes feeling.” “What I was after was clarity — the simplicity that lives on the other side of complexity.” “The market for feeling productive is orders of magnitude larger than the market for being productive.” “The specific investment decisions are downstream artifacts of getting clear about what you really want.” “When your circle of concern is bigger than your circle of influence, you become paralyzed.” “The art of money is about connection… and depth.” Chapters 00:00 The Power of Story in Finance 03:00 Emotions and Money: A Complex Relationship 05:54 The Impact of Personal Experiences on Financial Perception 08:36 The Art of Simplifying Complex Financial Concepts 11:52 Cultural Influences on Money Perception 14:40 The Role of Media in Financial Decision-Making 17:44 Crafting Meaningful Financial Conversations 20:29 The Future of Money: Self-Driving Finances 23:17 The Art of Money: Connection and Depth 26:29 Moments of Bliss and Personal Reflections #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca    https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstov...  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    34 min
  6. #23 - The Venus Mars Money Episode

    MAR 5

    #23 - The Venus Mars Money Episode

    In this episode, Saijal Patel, a wealth coach and strategist with a background in journalism, joins us to explore how women can rewrite their relationship with money. Discover the mental shifts, practical tools, and community support that empower women to build financial confidence, autonomy, and impact. Learn more about Saijal and her incredible programs at https://saijelle.com  Takeaways 👩🏻How women’s money narratives are formed in childhood and how to uncover limiting scripts 📈The emotional nature of money and the importance of understanding feelings over math 👩🏻The journey from financial hesitation to confident stewardship: key stations and mindset shifts 📈The power of community and shared learning in transforming money beliefs 👩🏻The unique strengths women bring to money management: outward focus, risk awareness, and nurturing leadership 📈Overcoming cultural and generational biases around women’s ambition and earning potential 👩🏻The systemic challenges women face in balancing caregiving, career, and wealth-building 📈Practical strategies for couples to align their financial goals and communication 👩🏻The importance of financial literacy in advocacy, influence, and policy change 📈Saijal’s personal moment of bliss: daily gratitude and positive energy practices  Quotes “Confidence doesn’t come from the money. It comes from the person - and from the process.” “Women don’t wake up one day confident with money. Confidence is built through education, time, and practice.” “Our relationship with money is way more emotional than it is rational. It’s not math - it’s feelings.” “By the time we’re seven or eight years old, we already have a money script - and most of it is subconscious.” “Women aren’t risk-averse. They’re risk-aware - and that’s actually a strength.” “Not investing is often riskier than investing, but fear disappears once women understand the system.” “The biggest transformation isn’t knowledge - it’s realizing, ‘I can do this.’” “When women see the system, they stop self-selecting out of financial power.” “Money has no power on its own. You give it power by attaching your values to it.” Chapters 00:00 Transforming Women's Relationship with Money 05:25 The Emotional Side of Money 11:27 Building Financial Strategies 17:24 Barriers to Financial Confidence 23:22 Understanding Risk Awareness in Women 28:30 The Importance of Financial Empowerment for Women 34:13 The Role of Community in Financial Education 39:29 Harnessing Women's Strengths in Money Conversations #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca    https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstov...  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    44 min
  7. #22 - The Mortality Episode: A Powerful Multiplier that Buys Back Your Life

    FEB 26

    #22 - The Mortality Episode: A Powerful Multiplier that Buys Back Your Life

    In this conversation, Gillian Stovel Rivers and Greg Barnsdale explore the critical importance of mortality planning, discussing the universal challenges surrounding death and incapacity. They highlight the alarming statistic that only 15% of Canadians have an estate plan, emphasizing the need for open conversations about end-of-life wishes to reduce stress and strengthen family relationships. The discussion delves into the financial implications of poor planning, the role of communication in legacy planning, and the potential of online will creation. Cultural perspectives on death planning are examined, along with the necessity of executor education to ensure effective estate management. Ultimately, the conversation underscores that handling mortality planning well is a profound act of love for one's family. Gain incredible tools and insights from Greg’s book which you can learn about at Do Not Ignore Your Mortality Takeaways 💌Death and incapacity are universal issues, not just Canadian problems. 🪦Only 15% of Canadians have an estate plan, leaving 85% vulnerable. 💌Planning for death reduces stress and strengthens relationships. 🪦Estate planning alleviates the stress of aging and increases resilience. 💌Conversations about end-of-life wishes are crucial for families. 🪦The financial implications of poor planning can be significant. 💌Effective planning involves open communication with loved ones. 🪦Online will creation can be a viable option for many, but caution is needed. 💌Cultural attitudes towards death can influence planning behaviors. 🪦Executor education is essential for effective estate management. Some notable online estate planning platifforms: - Willful Canada - Legal Wills Canada - Epilogue Wills - Ontario.ca - LegalZoom (USA) Quotes "Death and incapacity are universal issues." "Only 15% of Canadians have an estate plan." “Having our final affairs in order gives valuable direction to those that we love most.” “The tax planning opportunities basically disappear when someone dies.” “Settling an estate is like a bureaucratic ultra marathon.” “If an estate is not structured properly, it can lead to complicated grief.” “End of life planning should not be done at the end of li Send TFFP your thoughts!

    36 min
  8. #21 - The Attention Episode: Brain Capital You Can't Afford to Waste

    FEB 19

    #21 - The Attention Episode: Brain Capital You Can't Afford to Waste

    In this conversation, Gillian and Dr. Jennifer Churchill explore the multifaceted impact of AI on leadership, productivity, and personal identity. They discuss the psychological challenges leaders face as they integrate AI into their work, the concept of cognitive debt, and the importance of maintaining human skills in an increasingly automated world. The dialogue emphasizes the need for leaders to protect their cognitive reserve and foster psychological safety within their teams. Additionally, they touch on the gendered aspects of brain health and the significance of rituals in enhancing cognitive resilience. The conversation concludes with insights into the emerging concept of brain capital and its potential economic implications. Subscribe to join Dr. Jennifer Churchill’s AI Without Anxiety private podcast here! Guests of The Flourish Feed can use the promo code FLOURISH for a reduced entry fee.  And here is the link to McKinsey Health Institute’s “The human advantage: Stronger brains in the age of AI” Takeaways 🧠 AI is reshaping how we think, lead, and live. 🫆 Leaders are experiencing a decline in productivity despite using AI. 🧠 Cognitive debt arises from outsourcing cognitive tasks to AI. 🫆 Maintaining human skills is crucial in the age of AI. 🧠 Personal identity should not be solely tied to professional roles. 🫆 Cognitive reserve must be protected to prevent memory loss. 🧠 AI can create blind spots in our thinking. 🫆 Psychological safety is essential for effective team dynamics. 🧠 Rituals can help restore cognitive resilience. 🫆 Brain capital is a significant factor in future economic growth. Quotes “AI is not just a productivity tool - it’s a psychological environment.” “Attention is under siege, even as intelligence becomes more abundant.” “When we outsource our thinking, we create cognitive debt.” “Cognitive reserve has to be exercised, or it weakens.” “Beliefs don’t fail first under pressure - attention does.” “Women need to protect their cognitive reserve like it’s a lifeline.” “We are more than what we do - and AI can’t take away our story.” “Human skills - not technical ones - will matter most in the years ahead.” Chapters 00:00 The Psychological Impact of AI on Leadership 08:45 Cognitive Debt and Its Implications 17:56 Gendered Perspectives on Brain Health and AI 26:52 Navigating Identity in the Age of AI 27:56 Exploring Meaning and Purpose 30:42 The Human Connection in a Tech-Driven World 34:32 Rituals for Balancing AI and Humanity 40:09 The Importance of Brain Capital 43:28 Introducing the Private Podcast Series 49:20 The Moment of Bliss and Daily Joy #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself Connect with Gillian: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca   https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstov...  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/   Send TFFP your thoughts!

    49 min

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