The Flourish Feed Podcast

Gillian Stovel Rivers

A series of curiosity driven deep dives into the nature of flourishing through wealth.

  1. #15 - The Intelligent Movement Episode: Aging Is Optional

    4D AGO

    #15 - The Intelligent Movement Episode: Aging Is Optional

    In this episode of the Flourish Feed podcast, Dr. Edythe Heus discusses her revolutionary brain-body training system, Rev6, which aims to help individuals of all ages unlock their potential for strength, balance, mobility, and cognitive clarity.  The conversation explores the importance of fascia, the role of movement in health, the significance of the pelvic floor, and how embracing instability can enhance resilience. Dr. Heus emphasizes the interconnectedness of body and mind, the necessity of community support, and practical steps for aging gracefully. **Rev6 & Dr. Edythe Heus have generously offered a limited time discount!** Go to Rev6.fit and enter code FLOURISH to receive 50% off your first 3-months of Rev6 On-Demand subscription!  More About Dr. Edythe: In 2003, Dr. Edythe Heus’ book ProBodX came out.  In 2016, Dr. Edythe created Rev6 Vitality, a seated workout program for seniors. In 2023, Rev6 became an NASM/AFAA Continuing Education Provider.  Rev6 has been featured in Oprah Magazine, Vogue, Cosmopolitan, Sporting News, the Los Angeles Times and Time Out New York.  Takeaways 🐬 Your most vibrant decades can be ahead of you. 💪 Fascia health is crucial for aging well. 🐬 Movement impacts both physical and cognitive health. 💪 Instability training enhances resilience and balance. 🐬 The pelvic floor is essential for overall stability. 💪 Healthy fascia contributes to better movement and function. 🐬 Engaging in risk can improve quality of life as we age. 💪 Community support is vital for health and longevity. 🐬 Regular movement can transform lives and perceptions. 💪 Finding purpose through movement can lead to a fulfilling life. Quotes • “The fascia can be remodeled at any age, and it happens faster than we think.” • “It completely changes your perception of what the rest of life is going to be." • “Instability is essential for longevity.” • “When you change your physical structure, your whole life reorganizes.” • “The pelvic floor is not optional - it’s central to balance, breathing, and independence.” • “We bubble-wrap people as they age and they lose agency.” • “Flourishing doesn’t stop when work ends. It begins when connection returns.”   Chapters 00:00 Unlocking Longevity: A New Perspective 03:02 The Role of Fascia in Aging 05:58 Understanding Movement and the Nervous System 08:56 The Importance of Instability in Training 11:56 Flow State: Achieving Peak Performance 14:56 The Connection Between Mind and Body 18:04 Practical Applications for Seniors & Core Training 24:00 The Impact of Modern Lifestyles on Movement 26:57 Injury and Its Broader Implications 30:12 The Foundation of Movement 35:53 Creating a Movement System: The Birth of REV6 38:47 The Importance of the Pelvic Floor in Aging 48:44 Flourishing Through Movement: The Connection to Purpose 55:29 Embracing Risk: Small Actions for Big Changes #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself Connect with Gillian: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca  https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/  Send TFFP your thoughts!

    1 hr
  2. #14 - The Travel Episode: Media Diets, Dopamine Detoxes & Leaps of Faith

    JAN 1

    #14 - The Travel Episode: Media Diets, Dopamine Detoxes & Leaps of Faith

    What if adventure is a wellness practice? World explorer and best-selling author Robin Esrock  reveals why fear is learned, joy is social, and meaning lives just beyond comfort.  From media diets to dopamine detoxing, this conversation reframes travel as a tool for resilience, perspective, and human flourishing—at any age. In this engaging conversation, Robin shares his insights on how travel shapes our identities and experiences, he discusses the importance of stepping out of comfort zones, the right timing for travel, and the balance between media consumption and real-life adventures.  Robin emphasizes the value of family travel, the impact of community on happiness, and the evolving nature of travel preferences from budget to luxury. He also highlights the significance of volunteerism and experiential travel, connecting with locals, and the joy found in outdoor adventures.  Ultimately, Robin encourages listeners to embrace the moment and pursue their travel dreams, reminding us that happiness often lies in the simplest experiences.  The Great Canadian Bucket List now in it's 3rd incredible updated edition.  Watch Robin's world-famous talk from TedxVancouver: 1.1 million views to date! Flourish Family Wealth is thrilled to be partnering with Robin later this winter for more great intel and coaching on creating your very own bucket list, your way and for your authentic reasons.  Stay tuned for how to apply to experience this custom collaboration by subscribing to The Flourish Feed at www.flourishfamilywealth.com  Takeaways  ✈️Travel is about courage and curiosity, not just distance.  🏞️Personal journeys through travel can lead to self-discovery.  ✈️There is no perfect age to start travelling; it's about the moment.  🏞️Facing fears is essential for personal growth and adventure.  ✈️Dosing travel experiences can help combat anxiety and negativity.  🏞️Family travel enriches children's lives and perspectives.  ✈️Happiness is often found in community, not wealth.  🏞️Volunteerism adds purpose to travel experiences.  ✈️Experiential travel fosters meaningful connections with locals.  🏞️Outdoor adventures can be accessible and enjoyable for everyone.  Quotes  “Anybody who travels for a long time is usually running away from something or searching for something - and both are perfectly human.”  “You don’t need a perfect plan. You need a moment that shocks you out of complacency and reminds you that now is the time.”  “It’s never been about age. You’re not too old - and you’re not too young - to do the thing that matters to you.”  “We’re constantly fed fear, so we assume the world is dangerous - when most of the time, it’s generous.”  “When our brains consume garbage information, it’s time for a media diet - just like when our bodies feel off.”  “If you don’t know how your day is going to turn out, you’re not on vacation - you’re on an adventure.”  “Luxury raises the bar so high that people forget how to feel joy from anything below it.”  “The happiest people I’ve met live the simplest lives - and community is always at the center.”  “Travel isn’t about distance. It’s about courage, curiosity, and stepping outside who you thought you were.”  Chapters  00:00 The Essence of Travel: Courage and Curiosity  02:12 Personal Journeys: Discovering Oneself Through Travel  05:02 The Right Time to Travel: Age vs. Triggering Moments  10:13 Dosing Adventure: Balancing Media and Travel Experiences  13:03 Family Adventures: Different Personalities and Travel  16:11 Luxury vs. Budget Send TFFP your thoughts!

    43 min
  3. #13 - Sleep: The Highest Form of Active Recovery is Anything But Passive

    12/25/2025

    #13 - Sleep: The Highest Form of Active Recovery is Anything But Passive

    #wealth #investing #wealthmanagement Sleep is not something we fall into at the end of the day. It’s something we design. In this episode of The Flourish Feed Podcast, Gillian Stovel Rivers sits down with Aimee Griffiths, sleep and recovery expert and founder of Rise Lifestyle Co., to explore why sleep is the most powerful performance tool we have—and why it’s foundational to health, happiness, relationships, and longevity.  From nervous system regulation and emotional resilience to athletic recovery and cognitive clarity, this conversation reframes sleep as an active investment, not a passive necessity.  Together, Gillian and Aimee unpack the science of sleep stages, the role of technology, and the small, practical changes that can dramatically improve how we rest—and how we live. If you want more energy, better focus, stronger relationships, and a longer, healthier life, this episode will change how you think about sleep.  Takeaways  😴sleep is the foundation of our entire health  🛏️our wellbeing and our performance are linked to sleep  😴sleep affects our happiness  🛏️better sleep leads to better relationships  😴performance at work improves with good sleep  🛏️every part of our lives is affected by sleep  😴sleep helps rebuild our bodies  🛏️the brain cleans and processes during sleep  😴well slept individuals are healthier  🛏️the importance of prioritizing sleep in our lives  Quotes  “Sleep is the foundation of our entire health, our wellbeing, our performance, and our happiness.”  “Every single part of our lives is affected by how well we sleep.”  “When we sleep well, we’re healthier, happier, and we have better relationships.”  “Up to 80% of our daily growth hormone is released during deep sleep.”  “Sleep helps improve our recovery, our longevity, and even how we’re perceived by others.”  “Sleep isn’t something I’ll sacrifice anymore—it’s my superpower.”  “The best sleep technology is still sleep.”  Chapters 00:00 – Sleep is not passive: why rest is foundational 02:40 – How sleep supports health, happiness & performance 03:40 – Sleep, exercise & recovery: a powerful feedback loop 07:30 – Deep sleep, growth hormone & physical repair 12:45 – Nervous system regulation & emotional resilience 18:30 – Designing the ideal sleep environment 23:50 – Sleep technology: enhancement vs confusion 30:10 – Reframing sleep as a longevity investment 39:20 – Why sleep improves charisma & relationships 40:30 – Aimee’s “moment of bliss”: bedtime rituals & family connection #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca  https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    42 min
  4. #12 - Flow Will Always Follow Focus.

    12/18/2025

    #12 - Flow Will Always Follow Focus.

    #wealth #investing #wealthmanagement In this rich and fascinating conversation, psychologist and FlowxLife founder Marianne Cottin, M.Sc., Ph.D., breaks down the neuroscience of flow and why it’s one of the most powerful states for human flourishing. Marianne explains how transient hypofrontality, clear goals, challenge-skill balance, and immediate feedback create effortless excellence — and why flow is not reserved for elite performers, but available to everyone. Together, Gillian and Marianne explore how flow reduces rumination, strengthens mental health, sharpens attention, and can be intentionally designed into work, relationships, and later-life learning. They dive deep into group flow, curiosity as a longevity tool, and how to build a life that naturally invites presence, purpose, and peak experience. This is a masterclass in using neuroscience to live more fully and flourish more deeply. To engage with the research of Marianne Cottin and other psychologists in her field, explore her portfolio of work on LinkedIn here, and through such academic outlets as Google Scholar here.    Takeaways 🌊Flow is a state of consciousness where time disappears and performance peaks. 🔬Dr. Cottin emphasizes the importance of focus and clear goals to achieve flow. 🌊Flow triggers include challenge-skill balance, clear goals, and immediate feedback. 🔬Group flow occurs when individuals are in sync, working towards a common goal. 🌊Failure is a crucial part of achieving flow, especially in sports and high-performance settings. 🔬Flow can be experienced in both simple and complex tasks, providing joy and satisfaction. 🌊Creating an environment conducive to flow involves minimizing distractions and prioritizing important tasks. 🔬Flow is accessible to everyone, not just elite athletes or high performers. 🌊Music and rituals can help individuals enter a flow state more easily. 🔬Flow contributes to mental health and well-being by reducing rumination and increasing 🔬engagement.   Quotes Flow Follows Focus: “Flow will always follow focus. If you’re not in the present moment, flow can’t find you.” Effortless Excellence: “In flow you can do very hard things without feeling effort. Work becomes play.” The Sweet Spot: “Flow lives in that perfect space where challenge meets skill — just enough stretch to grow, not enough to panic.” Purpose Supercharges Flow: “Flow becomes transformational when you use it for something that matters to you — something larger than yourself.” Flow and Mental Health: “When you’re in flow, you’re not ruminating. The problems are still there — but you get a moment to breathe.” Design Your Life for Flow: “Choose what you care for. If everything is important, nothing is. Clarity creates the space for flow.”   Chapters 00:00:00 Introduction to Flow and Dr. Cottin 00:03:00 Understanding the Flow State 00:09:00 Flow Triggers and Techniques 00:15:00 Group Flow and Communal Dynamics 00:21:00 Flow in Everyday Life 00:27:00 Conclusion and Key Takeaways #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca  https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/  Send TFFP your thoughts!

    45 min
  5. #11 - The Algorithm Is Lying: Your 20s Are For Struggle, Not Comfort

    12/11/2025

    #11 - The Algorithm Is Lying: Your 20s Are For Struggle, Not Comfort

    #wealthmanagement #investing #wealthmanagement In this conversation, Paul W. Lermitte discusses the importance of financial diligence for young adults, emphasizing the need to save and invest wisely. He highlights the distinction between good and bad debt, particularly cautioning against the pitfalls of credit card debt and expensive car loans. The discussion encourages young individuals to be proactive in their financial planning and to make informed decisions about their expenses. This is an episode that is as much about making great decisions as it is about building strong financial partnerships based on your deepest values.  Learn more about Paul’s financial resilience teachings for all age groups at https://www.paullermitte.com/ Takeaways  💰Young adults must be very diligent at making sure that they save money.  🚘Investing money is crucial for young adults.  💰There's good debt, and there's bad debt.  🚘In your twenties, you're likely to encounter bad debt.  💰Avoid expensive car loans; consider buying older cars.  🚘Traveling should not be financed through credit cards.  💰Having savings is essential before making big purchases.  🚘Financial literacy is key for young adults.  💰Understanding expenses is vital for financial health.  🚘Budgeting is not a bad word! It can help manage and even avoid bad debt.  Quotes  • “Sometimes that hard work, that getting uncomfortable — that’s exactly what we want in the 20s.”  • “We told our son to give $25 to a charity, and it changed his trajectory. When you think of others, you suddenly see how fortunate you are.”  • “Debt is the biggest anti-flow force working against young people. Good debt builds your future. Bad debt steals it.”  • “You don’t deserve a vacation — you earn it. Work, save, stay financially sound, and then you can travel for the rest of your life.”  • “Every young person can own a home. Your grandparents did it, your parents did it, and you can do it too — with discipline and smart decisions.”  • “Financial resilience is simple: cash, savings, investments — and zero credit card or car debt. That’s power.”  Chapters  00:00 Introduction to Financial Foundations  00:56 Debt Management and Financial Freedom  #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca  https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial https://flourishfamilywealth.com/  Send TFFP your thoughts!

    41 min
  6. #10 - Clients Don't Want Fast Advisors - They Want Deeper Ones

    12/04/2025

    #10 - Clients Don't Want Fast Advisors - They Want Deeper Ones

    #wealth #investing #wealthmanagement In this episode, Gillian Stovel Rivers and Julie Littlechild delve into the critical role of trust in sustainable business growth, particularly in the wealth management sector. They explore the gaps between advisors' perceptions and clients' realities, emphasizing the importance of understanding clients' feelings and concerns beyond just financial metrics. The conversation highlights the need for a shift from efficiency-focused practices to more engaging, personalized client interactions, leveraging technology to enhance human connections. They discuss the evolving role of advisors in facilitating deeper conversations about clients' broader life concerns, ultimately aiming to build stronger, trust-based relationships. Learn more about Julie's award-winning research and advocacy at https://absoluteengagement.com Takeaways 🧠 Trust is the foundation of sustainable business growth. 🤖 There are significant gaps between what advisors think they deliver and what clients actually need. 🧠 Clients prioritize how they feel over mere service delivery. 🤖 Conversations about clients' concerns are crucial for building trust. 🧠 Efficiency in client services can lead to commoditization. 🤖 Technology can enhance human relationships in client engagement. 🧠 Advisors should address broader life concerns, not just financial ones. 🤖 Asking the right questions can lead to deeper client insights. 🧠 Starting with small changes can lead to significant improvements in engagement. Trust must be earned through consistent, meaningful interactions. Quotes • “I don’t walk away from a meeting thinking, wow, they’re really using their CRM well. That’s not what grabs me.” • “When it’s efficiency, everybody looks the same. It becomes commoditized. It’s not differentiated. You could go anywhere and get the same.” • “Solving for efficiency is a safe route. It doesn’t require you to ask a tough question. It means we can see more people—but not see them deeply or truly.” • “We tend to over-index on efficiency. It’s foundational, but it’s not the full experience.” • “Clients’ real gaps aren’t about service. It’s their confidence and clarity when they look forward.” • “Advisors are well-positioned to support clients emotionally, but they have to ask the right questions.” •“It’s not about replacing advisors with technology—it’s about using technology to be more human.” Chapters 00:00 The Essence of Trust in Business Growth 02:22 Identifying Gaps in Client Engagement 05:34 Expanding the Value Proposition 08:14 The Shift from Efficiency to Engagement 12:13 Balancing Technology and Human Touch 15:55 Understanding Client Concerns Beyond Finances 19:14 Building Stronger Relationships Through Broader Conversations 23:26 Facilitating Deeper Conversations in Wealth Management 26:24 Taking Steps Towards Enhanced Client Engagement 28:02 Moments of Bliss and Personal Connections #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca  https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    32 min
  7. #09 - The Third Revolution: Evolving from humans doing to humans being

    11/27/2025

    #09 - The Third Revolution: Evolving from humans doing to humans being

    #wealth #investing #wealthmanagement This episode of The Flourish Feed Podcast explores the concept of longevity, emphasizing the importance of intentional living and redefining aging. Jonathan Ainsley, a longevity strategist, discusses how to shift mindsets from fear and frailty to opportunity and fulfillment. The conversation covers the need for a new approach to aging, focusing on purpose, community, and financial readiness. It also highlights the role of advisors in guiding individuals through this transition and the potential for creating a scorecard to measure one's flourishing longevity. Learn more about Jonathan's InvestInU Program Platform here. Quotes “Most people don’t age by design — they age by default. When we bring intention into longevity, everything changes.”“We don’t have to look far to see people living far longer than expected — but very few set out with the intention to do so. Longevity without purpose is just time.”“60 to 100 is not the wind-down window — it can be the true performance window of life.”“We are more capable than we allow ourselves to believe. We are infinite beings handicapped by limiting beliefs.”“Aging has become reactive — two and a half percent of healthcare spending is preventative. We wait for decline rather than designing for vitality.”“The greatest breakthroughs happen when fear gives way to possibility. With guidance, people shift from ‘I hope I make it’ to ‘I can design my future.’” Takeaways 🧬 Living longer doesn't guarantee living better. 💡 Retirement is a concept that needs to be redefined. 🧬 Aging should be approached with intention, not passively. 💡 Mindset plays a crucial role in successful aging. 🧬 Fulfillment and purpose are key to a flourishing life. 💡 Advisors need to shift their focus from numbers to meaningful conversations. 🧬 The future of aging involves multi-generational relationships. 💡 Creating a scorecard can help individuals track their longevity journey. 🧬 Joy and fulfillment should be prioritized over traditional retirement models. 💡 We must challenge societal norms around aging and retirement. Chapters 00:00 Redefining Longevity: A New Perspective 02:20 Living by Design vs. Default 05:37 Rituals for Successful Aging 10:19 The Performance Window: Ages 60 to 100 14:17 Shifting Mindsets: From Fear to Opportunity 19:35 Navigating the Future: The Role of Advisors 23:08 The Three Revolutions of Aging 26:30 Creating a Flourishing Longevity Scorecard 31:26 Reverse Engineering Your Desired End State 38:15 Finding Bliss in the Journey #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself  Connect with Gillian:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca  https://x.com/GillianStovelR  https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial  https://flourishfamilywealth.com/   Send TFFP your thoughts!

    41 min
  8. #08 - Beyond Toxic Positivity: Leading With Humanity

    11/20/2025

    #08 - Beyond Toxic Positivity: Leading With Humanity

    In this episode of the Flourish Feed podcast, host Gillian engages with Deb Knupp, founder of the HX Collective, to explore the concept of human flourishing. They discuss the mission of the HX Collective, which aims to create a community where individuals can thrive personally and professionally. Deb shares her journey of loving people into loveliness, emphasizing the importance of authenticity, curiosity, and connection in fostering a flourishing life. The conversation also touches on the barriers people face in embracing human flourishing, the redefinition of success, and the lessons learned from different generations, particularly Gen Z. The episode concludes with a Deb’s beautifully poignant moments of bliss in everyday life. Takeaways 💗People want to be seen, heard, and valued. 💫Love is the essential throughline of human flourishing. 💗Selling should be viewed as an active service. 💫Human flourishing encompasses work, relationships, and self. 💗Curiosity and authenticity are vital for growth. 💫Retirement should be seen as a new beginning, not an end. 💗Asking the right questions can lead to meaningful insights. 💫Community and connection are essential for flourishing. 💗Barriers to flourishing include impatience and unrealistic expectations. 💫Moments of bliss can be found in everyday interactions.   Quotes “Toxic positivity and trying to talk someone out of their pain isn’t just ineffective — it’s injurious. What people need is to be seen, to have their suffering validated, and to be met where they are.” “When my daughter entered a period of deep struggle, we realized we didn’t have the emotional tools to support her. That was the awakening — not to fix her, but to learn how to show up for her.” “Flourishing isn’t about feeling good all the time — it’s about being real, being supported, and being human through all of it.” “We built HX Collective because people don’t need to be told to ‘stay positive’ — they need communities where they can be fully human.” “Validation is not agreement — it’s acknowledging the truth of a person’s lived experience and honoring it.” “Our culture celebrates strength as independence. But real strength is interdependence — it’s knowing how to ask for help and how to receive it.”   Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the HX Collective 02:48 The Concept of Human Flourishing 04:59 Personal Journey and the Birth of HX Collective 11:20 Understanding the Audience of HX Collective 15:05 Defining Success in Human Flourishing 19:46 Measuring Impact and Outcomes 25:36 Challenges in Promoting Human Flourishing 28:08 Navigating Vulnerability and Growth 30:09 The Power of Relationships in Personal Growth 31:06 Redefining Retirement: A New Perspective 35:06 Imagining Life Beyond Work 38:51 The Role of Community in Transition 39:50 Learning from Generations: Curiosity and Authenticity 43:53 Moments of Bliss: Finding Joy in Everyday Life   #flourish #wealth #wealthmanagement #investing #advisor #KnowThyWealthKnowThyself   Connect with Gillian: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gillian-stovel-rivers-ma-cfp%C2%AE-cea-997094124/?originalSubdomain=ca https://x.com/GillianStovelR https://www.instagram.com/gillianstovelofficial https://flourishfamilywealth.com/ Send TFFP your thoughts!

    51 min

About

A series of curiosity driven deep dives into the nature of flourishing through wealth.