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I’m Geneviève. Genevieve. Gen. Entrepreneur. Community builder. Research nerd. And your biggest fan. Every week we explore the psychology behind ambition; through honest conversations about business, relationships, grief, creativity, health, purpose and everything that shapes the way we show up in the world. Expect research-backed episodes, real-life stories and conversations with incredible people from around the globe. Because building a successful life starts with building mental wealth. Welcome to Team Hot Mess.

  1. 2h ago

    You're Not Inconsistent, You're Exhausted

    I'm on vacay, y'all! So here's a little replay. Please take care of yourselves, and in doubt, join the WhatsApp community for free-hee (insert Michal Jackson here) https://chat.whatsapp.com/JG8VnsltAVLB3nHRhAqKMB If you’ve been telling yourself you’re inconsistent, lazy, or behind... this episode is for you. In this solo episode, ⁠Geneviève⁠ talks honestly about unlearning the belief that consistency means showing up the same way every day, no matter the cost. She shares how fear-driven discipline slowly turned into self-abandonment, how her body pushed back, and why learning to work with cycles changed everything. This isn’t a motivational episode. It’s a permission slip. In this episode, we talk about: why forcing consistency often leads to burnout how your body keeps score when you ignore it what “productive rest” actually looks like redefining compassion as regulated care and why showing up softly can still count If you’re tired but still care deeply, press play and take a breath. Links & mentions: 🎧 Conversation on PMS & cycles with Amy Dave → ⁠Click here⁠ 🌿 Stay in touch with Gen → ⁠Find her on insta ⁠ Want to get in on the WhatsApp community? Join us for free! 👉 If this episode resonated, consider sending it to someone who might need a little permission too.

    You're Not Inconsistent, You're Exhausted

  2. 6d ago

    The Familiar Hell: Why We Repeat What Hurt Us with Tasch Rogers

    What if the thing that feels like home… is actually the thing that hurt you? In this raw and wildly honest conversation, Gen sits down with Tasch Rogers to talk about the familiar hell: the patterns, relationships and survival strategies we keep returning to simply because our nervous systems learned to recognize them. Together, they unpack what it means to become the black sheep and cycle breaker in your family, why healing can feel incredibly lonely, how childhood wounds follow us into adult relationships, and why finally experiencing safety can sometimes feel more uncomfortable than chaos. They also get personal about abusive and narcissistic relationships, people-pleasing, nervous system regulation, boundaries, neurodivergence, relational healing, self-worth and the strange experience of realizing that some of the things you once called personality traits were actually ways you learned to survive. And perhaps most importantly: healing does not mean becoming so understanding, forgiving and regulated that everybody gets to keep access to you. Compassion isn’t the same thing as proximity. If you’ve ever wondered why you keep repeating a pattern you know isn’t good for you, felt like the difficult one for changing your family dynamic, or found yourself learning what safe love actually feels like… this conversation is for you. 🎧 In this episode:Why familiar doesn’t necessarily mean safeBecoming the black sheep and cycle breakerHow childhood wounds show up in adult relationshipsNervous system regulation and relational healingPeople-pleasing, boundaries and self-abandonment 💬 Don’t do the messy middle alone. Join the free WithGen WhatsApp community and meet other cycle breakers, overthinkers, neurospicy humans and beautifully complicated people figuring this shit out alongside you. You can find the link by clicking here! 📖 And keep your eyes peeled: Gen’s upcoming book, Keep Going, But Softer, is on its way — 46 lessons for navigating life, grief, ambition, relationships, nervous systems and everything in between without constantly declaring war on yourself. Find Gen on insta: https://www.instagram.com/withgenevieve/ Or her articles on Medium: https://medium.com/@genevieve_pool Tasch on insta: https://www.instagram.com/taschrogersofficial/

    The Familiar Hell: Why We Repeat What Hurt Us with Tasch Rogers

  3. Sep 6

    How to Find Yourself Again After You’ve Lost Yourself

    What happens when a chapter of your life ends, and part of your identity seems to disappear with it? Maybe it was a breakup. A friendship ending. A job you’d built your life around. Burnout. Caregiving. Or simply realizing that the version of you who built your old life isn’t quite who you are anymore. In this solo episode, Gen explores the psychology of why we can genuinely feel like we’ve “lost ourselves” after major life changes and, more importantly, what to actually do about it. We’ll work through 5 psychology-backed steps to help you get reacquainted with yourself, including how to name what you really lost, separate what was theirs, ours and mine, collect evidence of who you are now, experiment with possible versions of yourself, and decide what you want to remember, keep, release and discover. Because maybe you don’t need to reinvent yourself. Maybe you need to get curious about the person who’s already there. Grab a pen for this one. You’ll need it. 🩷 🎧 In this episode: self-concept, identity after loss, self-expansion, possible selves, journaling, relationships, career changes, grief, caregiving and finding your way back to yourself. Want somewhere to figure out the messy life stuff alongside other humans? Find Gen at the WithGen website or DM her on Instagram to join the free WithGen WhatsApp community. https://www.instagram.com/withgenevieve/

    How to Find Yourself Again After You’ve Lost Yourself

  4. Aug 31

    What The Heartbreak Forces You To Face - with Sarah Curnoles

    Heartbreak changes us, but not always in the way we expect. In this episode, I sit down with breakup coach Sarah Curnoles, host of Breakup Pep Talks, for a conversation that starts with our own breakup stories and quickly turns into something much bigger. We explore what heartbreak really forces you to face: childhood wounds, shame, people-pleasing, friendship breakups, rebuilding your identity, and why sometimes the most painful moments become the biggest turning points in our lives. Together, we talk about: Why the pain isn’t actually the problemThe difference between making a mistake and believing you are oneWhy friendship breakups can hurt just as much as romantic onesThe role therapy played in both of our healing journeysLearning to repair your relationship with yourself Whether you’re healing from a breakup, grieving a friendship, navigating a career change, or simply trying to understand yourself a little better, this conversation is an invitation to slow down, reflect, and remember that healing isn’t about becoming someone else. It’s about coming home to yourself. If this episode resonated with you, I’d love to invite you into the free WithGen WhatsApp Community, a space for ambitious humans who want to feel more like themselves and have conversations that go deeper than surface level. 💛 DM me HOME on Instagram @withgenevieve, and I’ll send you the invite. https://www.instagram.com/withgenevieve/ Or get into the fun and healing right here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/JG8VnsltAVLB3nHRhAqKMB Connect with Sarah Curnoles🎙️ Breakup Pep TalksSpotify here, and Apple podcasts here📱 Follow Sarah using the link below. https://www.instagram.com/sarahcurnoles/ If you enjoyed this episode, don’t forget to follow the podcast, leave a review, and share it with someone who might need to hear it today.

    What The Heartbreak Forces You To Face - with Sarah Curnoles

  5. Aug 25

    Soft Leadership Needs A Spine

    What if being “the understanding one” is actually helping a dysfunctional system stay dysfunctional? In this solo episode, Gen gets into the uncomfortable side of empathy, boundaries and leadership — not just at work, but inside families, relationships, friendships and communities too. We talk about why culture is shaped by what we tolerate, how reliable people become responsible for everyone else, why “that’s just how they are” is such a dangerous sentence, and how empathy can quietly turn into enabling when accountability disappears. Plus: why therapy language isn’t a substitute for conflict skills, how systems train behaviour, and five questions to help you audit the culture you’re participating in. Soft leadership doesn’t mean spineless leadership. Sometimes compassion sounds like: “I understand. And this still needs to change.” Follow Gen everywhere at @withgenevieve and join the WithGen Instagram channel for more conversations about psychology, mindset, boundaries and becoming a little more yourself. Website: www.withgenevieve.com

    Soft Leadership Needs A Spine

  6. Aug 19

    The Future Of Leadership Starts Here - with Felix Schorre

    Leadership looks glamorous, until it isn’t. In this episode, I sit down with leadership consultant and multipreneur ⁠Felix Schorre⁠ to unpack what leadership actually means in 2026. We talk about: Why ego-driven leadership is holding us backThe moment leadership stops being status and becomes responsibilityPresence as the most underrated leadership skillTaking hard decisions without becoming harshFemale energy, emotional intelligence & balance in powerWhy real change starts in your microcosm, and not at Davos This is a grounded, honest conversation about self-leadership, power, and responsibility in a world that feels increasingly loud and reactive. Because leadership starts with you, while it’s not about you. ⁠🔗 Connect with Felix Schorre⁠ Leadership consulting & conscious leadership development Instagram & ⁠LinkedIn⁠: just search Felix Schorre 🔗 Connect with me Find me everywhere at @withgenevieve ⁠Instagram⁠ | ⁠LinkedIn⁠ | ⁠Threads⁠ | ⁠YouTube⁠ | ⁠Substack⁠ ✨ Curious about the creative side of what I build? Keep an eye out on www.withgenevieve.com - you'll find my 12-week program there and my new book "Keep Going, But Softer". Have a great one! If this episode resonates, share it with a leader who needs to hear it.

    The Future Of Leadership Starts Here - with Felix Schorre

  7. Aug 13

    What If That's Not Your Personality?

    What if your independence, perfectionism, people-pleasing or constant need to stay busy aren’t actually personality traits? In this solo episode, I explore the survival strategies we build as children, and how easily we mistake them for who we are. I talk about becoming the responsible one, learning to earn love through caretaking, and why the patterns that once kept us safe can become incredibly heavy in adulthood. We dive into attachment, confirmation bias, neuroplasticity, co-regulation and collective healing... but in normal human language, promise. Because healing isn’t about shaming the person you became. It’s about understanding what that version of you was trying to protect. Maybe you’re not broken, difficult or too much. Maybe you simply became very good at surviving a situation that no longer exists. And maybe healing is gently telling those old protective parts: "You can rest now. I've got it from here." Follow me around: Insta | LinkedIn | Threads | Medium | Twitter (haha) | Website

    What If That's Not Your Personality?

  8. Aug 7

    The Patterns You Didn’t Choose (But Can Break)

    You didn’t choose your childhood. But you can choose what happens next. In this deeply honest conversation, I sit down with systemic business coach Jonathan Bouter to explore how the patterns we learned as children quietly shape our relationships, self-worth, business, and everyday lives. From family systems and generational trauma to nervous system regulation, reparenting, and the inner child, we unpack why so many of us keep repeating the same cycles. And, more importantly, how to break them. We share our own stories of healing, the survival mechanisms that once protected us, and the practical shifts that helped us build healthier relationships with ourselves and the people around us. This isn’t about blaming your parents or chasing perfection. It’s about understanding where your patterns came from, taking responsibility for your healing, and learning that you are worthy of love, even on the days you don’t believe it yourself. If you’ve ever caught yourself thinking “Why do I keep doing this?” or “Why does this trigger me so much?”, this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk about: Why survival patterns aren’t personality traitsThe role of your inner child in adult relationshipsSelf-worth, shame, and learning to receive loveBreaking unhealthy cycles without blaming yourselfPractical ways to start healing today 💛 If this conversation resonates with you, I’d love to stay connected. Join my free Instagram Broadcast Channel, where I share extra reflections, mindset insights, behind-the-scenes thoughts, and little reminders that help you keep growing between episodes. Take one thing from this conversation. Practice it this week. Your future self (and your inner child) will thank you. Jonathan's website: https://freedommotivates.nl/ More from me: Insta | Medium | Substack

    The Patterns You Didn’t Choose (But Can Break)
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I’m Geneviève. Genevieve. Gen. Entrepreneur. Community builder. Research nerd. And your biggest fan. Every week we explore the psychology behind ambition; through honest conversations about business, relationships, grief, creativity, health, purpose and everything that shapes the way we show up in the world. Expect research-backed episodes, real-life stories and conversations with incredible people from around the globe. Because building a successful life starts with building mental wealth. Welcome to Team Hot Mess.

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