The Caves and Rivers Podcast

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Two friends figuring out life with Jesus. Come laugh, cry & grow with Bernice & Eunice as we talk faith, young womanhood & everything in between.

  1. 2d ago

    Does Jesus Have Dreads?! // The Friends We Keep // S02 EP05

    What actually makes someone a good friend? Is it shared interests, years of history, mutual understanding, or the willingness to show up when things get difficult? In this episode of Caves and Rivers, Bernice and Eunice have an honest, thoughtful, and sometimes hilarious conversation about friendship: how it begins, why it matters, and what it takes to build relationships that go beyond convenience and common interests. From adult friendships and unexpected connections to difficult conversations, accountability, and the pressure to maintain lifelong relationships, they explore what it means to love people well through different seasons of life. They also reflect on the biblical picture of friendship, the character of God, and how healthy relationships can shape us, challenge us, and draw us closer to Jesus. Because maybe friendship isn't about finding people who understand us perfectly, but learning how to grow together despite our imperfections. Join the conversation, and share this episode with a friend. Key themes explored Mutuality: Why friendship requires more than shared interests or proximity. Making friends as adults: How friendships begin and why new connections can become harder to establish. Divine connections: Recognizing God's involvement in the friendships we develop. Friendship and accountability: Why genuine love sometimes requires uncomfortable conversations. Disposable friendships: Have we become too quick to walk away when relationships become inconvenient? Seasonal versus lifelong friendships: Understanding that a friendship ending does not necessarily invalidate its value. Friendship with Jesus: Exploring intimacy, trust, obedience, and His lordship. Realistic expectations: Learning to love imperfect people without expecting them to meet every need. Scripture references mentioned: 2 Timothy 2:13, John 15:15, Proverbs 27:17, and Ecclesiastes 4:9–12.

  2. Sep 14

    The Discipleship Gap // Deciphering Discipleship Pt. 2// S02 EP04

    What does real discipleship look like? Bernice and Eunice explore why sermons, Christian content, and occasional conversations cannot replace the kind of relationship we see throughout Scripture. They unpack discipleship through three ideas—modeling, intimacy, and submission—and discuss the vulnerability, trust, obedience, and proximity required to genuinely help another person follow Jesus. They also wrestle with the modern discipleship gap: What happens when you cannot find someone to disciple you? What if you do not feel qualified to disciple anyone else? And where does the Holy Spirit fit into all of this? A reflective conversation about following Jesus, learning from others, and becoming the kind of believer whose life can be imitated.

  3. Jul 13

    Wait, 76% of Christians Have Never Been Discipled?! // Deciphering Discipleship Pt. 1 // S02 EP03

    What does it really mean to be a disciple? Is discipleship something we pursue, or something we're invited into? In this episode, Bernice and Eunice wrestle with the biblical model of discipleship, the surprising statistic that 76% of Christians say they've never been discipled, and the tension between salvation and spiritual formation. It's an honest, thought-provoking conversation that raises more questions than answers—and sets the stage for Part 2.

  4. Jun 8

    At His Word // When God Asked Me to Move to a New City // S02 EP02

    In this episode, Eunice and Bernice talk about obedience: the kind that is uncomfortable, inconvenient, and sometimes hard to understand. What starts as a funny conversation about discovering their “Type A” tendencies turns into a deeper reflection on delayed obedience, partial obedience, and the struggle to trust God’s instruction without always needing the full explanation. Together, they discuss what it means to live “at His word,” how obedience reveals our love for God, and why following God may look like going, stopping, texting, calling, staying silent, or moving before everything makes sense. Resources Mentioned/Scriptures Referenced Bernice referenced the teaching “ A teaching from 1 Chronicles and the life of King David” from the podcast Obedience as Worship. 1 Samuel 15:22–23; Matthew 4:4; Deuteronomy 8:3; Matthew 8:5–13; Luke 7:1–10; 1 Samuel 30:8; John 14:15; John 14:21; Genesis 12:1–4; Genesis 22:1–19; 1 Kings 13; Acts 23:11; Acts 27:21–26; Colossians 3:16; Ephesians 5:19.

  5. Apr 6

    We Planned Everything… God Said “Relax” // When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned // S02 EP01

    Life doesn’t always go according to plan—and if you’re someone who likes structure, that can feel overwhelming. In this episode, we talk about control, expectations, and what it looks like to trust God when things don’t unfold the way you imagined. From over-planning our lives to facing unexpected setbacks, we unpack the tension between having a vision and surrendering it. We share personal stories about academic pressure, identity, and navigating seasons that didn’t go as expected—and how God still shows up in the detours. If you’ve ever felt behind, frustrated, or unsure because life didn’t go your way, this conversation will remind you: you’re not off track. 🙏 Key Scriptures: Proverbs 16:9 Psalm 37:23

  6. 11/17/2025

    Careers, Callings & Side Missions // Faith at Work AT Work // S01 EP 07

    Careers don’t have to be linear—Bernice & Eunice share how God uses detours, promotions, and side missions to shape purpose. If you’re navigating your own career journey, wrestling with calling, or just need a reminder that God cares about your work life as much as your spiritual life, this conversation is for you!

  7. 11/07/2025

    Northern Nigeria, Yoruba Songs, and Avoiding Lagos in December // What We've Been "Sturdying" Lately // S01 EP06

    Between jokes about Lagos in December and “holy noise” kidnappings, Eunice and Bernice open up about what God’s been teaching them—deep Bible study, forgiveness, and learning to truly believe His Word.

  8. 10/27/2025

    So... We Read GOD'S GENERALS // S01 EP05

    Bernice and Eunice dive into God’s Generals by Roberts Liardon — unpacking the real stories behind 12 powerful Christian leaders. From faith and miracles to burnout, pride, and redemption, they talk about what it means to serve God with both zeal and balance. Honest, funny, and reflective, this episode reminds us that God still uses imperfect people to do extraordinary things.

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