Life after cancer?

Naomi Jolly

Life After Cancer? Yes the question mark is intentional! A podcast no one wants to need, but just might. Hosted by Naomi, a cancer survivor and fully paid-up member of a club no one asked to join. We discuss what life looks like after cancer walks into it, whether you’re post-treatment, living with cancer long-term, or somewhere in the messy middle. From scanxiety, fertility fears and rogue emotions, to standing in the super market wondering what you came in for, nothing’s off limits. If you’ve ever felt alone in the weirdness of it all, you’re not. One becomes two, and that's a tribe!

  1. Jun 22

    Life After Cancer: WTF Am I Doing With My Life?

    After cancer, nobody really talks about the identity crisis that can follow. The scans end, treatment finishes and everyone expects you to get back to normal… but what if you don't want your old life back? In this honest and vulnerable solo episode, Naomi shares why she's making the terrifying decision to quit teaching, how cancer gave her a 30,000-foot view of her life, and why she believes many of us experience a "life after..." moment, whether that's after cancer, divorce, miscarriage, redundancy or any event that changes us forever. This episode is about the messy middle. It's about learning to trust yourself again, taking tiny steps towards the life you want, and accepting that none of us have it all figured out we're all just fumbling our way forward. If you've ever found yourself thinking, "WTF am I doing with my life?" this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk about:• The post-cancer existential crisis nobody warns you about• Why the scary thing isn't leaving, it's staying• Learning to trust your intuition again• Taking small, imperfect steps towards change• Why you don't need all the answers before you begin• Finding your "enough point" and creating more freedom• How to fumble your way forward, even when you're scared Because maybe life after cancer isn't about becoming who you were before. Maybe it's about becoming who you're meant to be next. 🎙️ Follow and subscribe to Life After Cancer? WTF Now? and share this episode with someone who needs to hear it. 📱 Follow Naomi on Instagram at @lifeaftercancer_wtf Join the Life After Cancer diaries (link in IG bio) think Bridget Jones meets life after cancer: honest conversations, dark humour, the messy middle and everything in between.

    30 min
  2. Jun 8

    Cancer, Sex & Relationships: The Bit Nobody Warns You About

    Cancer changes more than your body, it changes your relationships too. In this honest and unfiltered solo episode, Naomi opens up about the realities of navigating love, intimacy and communication during and after cancer. From miscarriages and fertility struggles to body image, mastectomy reconstruction, menopause, loss of libido and couples counselling, she shares the parts of survivorship that rarely make it into the leaflets. With her usual mix of humour and honesty, Naomi explores what happens when two people live through the same experience but come out the other side changed in different ways. She talks about the grief of losing your old self, learning to recognise your body again, the challenges of sex after treatment, and why relationships after cancer aren't about getting back to normal, they're about creating a new normal together. Whether you're living with cancer, beyond cancer, supporting a loved one, or simply trying to navigate a relationship through life's toughest moments, this episode is a reminder that you're not alone. Topics discussed: Relationships during and after cancerSex and intimacy after treatmentBody confidence, hair loss and mastectomy reconstructionFertility, miscarriage and griefMenopause and loss of libidoCommunication and conflict in relationshipsCouples counselling after traumaCreating a new normal after cancer Chapters 00:00 Navigating Relationships After Cancer 04:17 The Impact of Cancer on Identity and Body Image 10:37 Intimacy and Sexuality Post-Cancer 17:21 Grief and Loss in Relationships 23:33 Counseling and Communication in Relationships 25:38 Embracing Change and New Norms

    24 min

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Life After Cancer? Yes the question mark is intentional! A podcast no one wants to need, but just might. Hosted by Naomi, a cancer survivor and fully paid-up member of a club no one asked to join. We discuss what life looks like after cancer walks into it, whether you’re post-treatment, living with cancer long-term, or somewhere in the messy middle. From scanxiety, fertility fears and rogue emotions, to standing in the super market wondering what you came in for, nothing’s off limits. If you’ve ever felt alone in the weirdness of it all, you’re not. One becomes two, and that's a tribe!