My Parents Lied to Me!

Nicole

The podcast about aging, loss, and all the midlife changes no one warned us about.  I'm here with real stories and expert advice to help you face what's now... and what's next. 

  1. 1d ago

    Do You Really Have a Plan with Becky Easton, Esq

    Most families think having a will, trust, or estate plan means they are “all set.” But are they? In this episode of My Parents Lied to Me, Nicole Porter sits down with estate planning attorney Becky Easton to talk about the real-life gaps families often miss, even when legal documents are already in place. Becky shares why a will does not avoid probate, why trusts need to be properly funded, why beneficiary designations matter, and why families need to revisit their estate plan as life changes. They also talk about the emotional side of planning, including family conversations, guardianship for children, powers of attorney, personal belongings, and the unexpected items families may fight over after someone passes. This conversation is a reminder that legal documents are only one piece of the bigger family preparedness plan. A true plan creates clarity, reduces chaos, and gives families confidence before a crisis happens. Nicole Porter is the founder of Your Parent Porter™, helping families find the gaps between their estate plan, financial plan, home, wishes, documents, and real-life family dynamics. Learn more about Nicole Porter and Your Parent Porter™: www.yourparentporter.com nicole@yourparentporter.com Instagram: @yourparentporter Guest: Becky Easton Estate Planning Attorney, Life Plan Legal Licensed in Arizona and Colorado Email: becky@lifeplanlegalaz.com Topics covered: estate planning, wills, trusts, probate, powers of attorney, beneficiary designations, guardianship, family preparedness, adult children, aging parents, family planning, estate plan gaps, trust funding, probate avoidance, family conversations

    24 min
  2. Jun 18

    Why a Financial Plan is not the Whole Family Plan with Dave Nacke

    In this episode of My Parents Lied to Me, Nicole Porter sits down with financial advisor Dave Nacke of Southwest Financial Concepts to talk about the conversations most families avoid until life forces them to have them. Nicole and Dave discuss why a financial plan and estate plan are important, but not always enough when adult children are suddenly faced with aging parents, long-term care costs, caregiving decisions, Medicare confusion, powers of attorney, home safety concerns, and emotional family dynamics. They explore why proactive family preparedness matters, how long-term care can impact retirement savings, why adult children need to know who their parents’ trusted professionals are, and how families can begin asking better questions before a health crisis, care need, or emergency happens. This conversation is especially valuable for adult children with parents in their 60s, 70s, 80s and beyond who want more clarity, less chaos, and a more complete family plan. Nicole also shares how her SAFE Family Preparedness System™ was created to bring the bigger picture together, including conversations, home, care, legal, financial, family roles, and future decisions. guest info Dave Nacke - Southwest Financial Concepts.   dave@swfinancialconcepts.com (480) 520-2121 Your Parent Porter Nicole Porter - Founder  nicole@yourparentporter.com 480-269-0290 https://yourparentporter.com/ key topics Proactive family conversations about agingFinancial and legal planning for eldersStrategies for funding long-term carChapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 02:36 The Importance of Financial Planning 05:08 Caring for Aging Parents 07:40 Conversations About Care and Finances 09:54 The Role of Caregivers 12:29 Planning for Long-Term Care 14:52 The Need for Open Conversations 17:27 Holistic Financial Planning 19:47 Collaboration for Family Preparedness

    25 min

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The podcast about aging, loss, and all the midlife changes no one warned us about.  I'm here with real stories and expert advice to help you face what's now... and what's next.