Fatherhood in Focus

The Modern Fatherhood Club

The podcast for new dads, expectant fathers, and men navigating the mental and emotional chaos of modern parenting. Hosted by Aidan, father of two and founder of The Modern Fatherhood Club, each episode delivers real talk, raw reflection, and practical insight to help you become the dad your kids actually need. No filters. No fluff. Just the truth about: Mental health, burnout & emotional resilience Paternity leave, pressure & identity loss Strengthening connection with your kids Navigating relationship strain Leading with presence, passion & purpose Whether you’re an exhausted dad trying to hold it together, or an expectant father preparing for impact this is your space. Walk away with mindset shifts, tools, and real stories that help you show up stronger for your kids, your partner, and yourself. Subscribe now to lead with clarity, confidence, and connection.

  1. EPISODE 1

    The Realities of Fatherhood: Struggles, Strength, and Growth

    Fatherhood is an incredible journey, but it can drain you. If you’re feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or questioning if you're enough, you're not alone. My boys and partner are my world, but it hasn’t always been easy. In 2020, after my youngest was born, I felt lost and out of control. I was overwhelmed by worthlessness and the weight of my own expectations. One day, I hit rock bottom and admitted, “I can’t cope, I don’t want to be alive anymore!” That moment changed everything. It lifted the weight and gave me the strength to fight back. Fatherhood gave me a major reality check. My message to you: open your heart, share your struggles, and don’t let it consume you. 📢 Subscribe now and never miss your weekly dose of motivation. Let’s redefine fatherhood together and create the legacy your kids will look up to! 👉 Join the movement at Modern Fatherhood Club for FREE Guides, resources, and community support. 👨‍👧‍👦 You’re not just any dad—you’re a dad who’s ready to show up, step up, and make a difference. Let’s fuel the weekend together! Visit www.themodernfatherhoodclub.com or email me at hello@themodernfatherhoodclub.com. FOR NEW MUMS: If you're a new mum and want to celebrate the impact your partner is having as a new dad, please reach out to me. Your stories are just as important, and I'd love to share them. FOLLOW TMFC:  https://www.instagram.com/the_modern_fatherhood_club/

    19 min
  2. EPISODE 4

    Breaking the Silence: Understanding Postnatal Depression in Fathers

    In this episode we delve into a critical and often overlooked topic: Postnatal Depression (PND) in fathers. Join me as I explore the realities of PND, a condition commonly associated with mothers but one that affects dads too, often catching them off guard. Here I shed light on the pressures and mental health challenges new fathers face. I highlight the importance of recognising the signs of PND, the impact it can have on the family, and the necessity of seeking support. This episode offers valuable insights for both dads and mums, emphasising the need for open conversations and mutual support in navigating the complex emotions of parenthood. Tune in to gain a deeper understanding of how PND manifests in fathers, the barriers to seeking help, and practical advice on supporting each other through this challenging phase. Remember, acknowledging and addressing these challenges is the first step towards healthier, happier family dynamics. JOIN THE COMMUNITY: If you feel alone in your journey or need a supportive community, join The Modern Fatherhood Club. Share your experiences, get advice, and connect with other dads who understand what you're going through. Visit www.themodernfatherhoodclub.com or email me at hello@themodernfatherhoodclub.com FOR NEW MUMS: If you're a new mum and want to celebrate the impact your partner is having as a new dad, please reach out to me. Your stories are just as important, and I'd love to share them.   FOLLOW ME: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/the_modern_fatherhood_club/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100088883814360 SUBSCRIBE: 📢 Subscribe now and never miss your weekly dose of motivation. Let’s redefine fatherhood together and create the legacy your kids will look up to! 👉 Join the movement at Modern Fatherhood Club for FREE Guides, resources, and community support. 👨‍👧‍👦 You’re not just any dad—you’re a dad who’s ready to show up, step up, and make a difference. Let’s fuel the weekend together!

    55 min
  3. EPISODE 23

    Resilient Fatherhood: Why Your Presence Matters More Than Perfection

    🎙️ Welcome to Friday Fuel – your weekly reset for showing up as the dad your family needs. Fatherhood isn’t about perfection—it’s about presence. The relentless challenges, the sacrifices, the overwhelming responsibility—it all pushes you to your limits. But in this episode, we shift the focus from exhaustion to empowerment. 🚀 💡 In This Episode, We Cover: ✅ The secret to building resilience as a dad and avoiding burnout. ✅ Why presence matters more than perfection—and how to make every moment count. ✅ How self-care fuels better fatherhood (without guilt!). 🔑 Why It Matters:Too many dads are running on empty, believing they need to do more, provide more, be more—when in reality, their greatest impact comes from simply being there. Let’s reframe fatherhood and build habits that make you the strongest, most present dad you can be. 🔥 Actionable Takeaways: 1️⃣ Identify one habit that recharges you and commit to it daily. 2️⃣ Set a "distraction-free" zone each day to be fully present with your kids. 3️⃣ Reframe tough moments as growth opportunities—your kids are watching how you handle challenges.   👊 Let’s Do This! If this episode hit home, share it with another dad who needs to hear it. 📣 Follow @ModernFatherhoodClub for tools, insights, and resources to thrive as a modern dad. 🌐 Share your journey and connect with your tribe at The Modern Fatherhood Club. 📢 Need Help Finding Your Way? Access the FREE  Burnout Guide and start your 30-day reset—because when you thrive, so does your family. Get it Here

    17 min

About

The podcast for new dads, expectant fathers, and men navigating the mental and emotional chaos of modern parenting. Hosted by Aidan, father of two and founder of The Modern Fatherhood Club, each episode delivers real talk, raw reflection, and practical insight to help you become the dad your kids actually need. No filters. No fluff. Just the truth about: Mental health, burnout & emotional resilience Paternity leave, pressure & identity loss Strengthening connection with your kids Navigating relationship strain Leading with presence, passion & purpose Whether you’re an exhausted dad trying to hold it together, or an expectant father preparing for impact this is your space. Walk away with mindset shifts, tools, and real stories that help you show up stronger for your kids, your partner, and yourself. Subscribe now to lead with clarity, confidence, and connection.