Romancing the Threshold

Vanessa Couto
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Exploring the in‑between: where imagination, romance, and the soul’s journey meet. vanessacouto.substack.com

  1. Jun 2

    Kelly Jarvis on the Power of the Small

    The smallest things tend to carry the most: a fairy tale, a love story, a cup of tea made with real attention. Vanessa sits down with writer and fairy tale scholar Kelly Jarvis, whose debut novel, Sea and Stars (out July 7th), is a gothic retelling of Beauty and the Beast set between the Isle of Skye and the old whaling town of Mystic, Connecticut. Together they wander through why this one tale keeps returning to us, what it means to love the beast as he is rather than wait for him to become a prince, the magic that lives in the everyday, and why a lasting love might be built more from choice than from fate. A conversation about small magic, and the medicine that hides in what we were taught not to take seriously. Find the writing at vanessacouto.substack.com and everything else at vanessacouto.com. There's always room by the hearth. Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 27m

  2. May 17

    Karla Sorensen on the Why of Characters, Writing Craft, and the Body of the Writer

    Karla Sorensen writes contemporary romance set in the world of professional football, and inside her pages she's quietly doing something extraordinary: rendering grief with the care of someone who's apprenticed to it, drawing men from the inside of their armor, and writing women with their own sovereignty intact. In this conversation, we talk about how characters arrive (and refuse to leave), what the body of the writer knows that the mind doesn't, and the strange labor of bringing a story into being, of wrestling with it like Jacob with the angel until something cracks. A masterclass, by any honest measure. Come in. The full reflection on this episode lives at vanessacouto.substack.com Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 38m

  3. May 7

    Your Body is Reading the Book Too

    Content note: This episode touches briefly on a sexual assault scene from a romance novel as the entry point for our somatic conversation. The scene itself isn't described in detail. Please listen with care. What if the body of the reader is the third character in every romance novel — the one nobody talks about? In this episode, Vanessa sits down with Alan Massetti, somatic experiencing practitioner, to explore what actually happens in our nervous systems when we read. Why a scene from weeks ago can still be living in your body. Why arousal isn't just sexual. Why the reading slump might be your body asking for time to digest. This conversation widens what it means to read romance as medicine — and offers small, doable somatic practices for bringing the body into your reading life. For more, visit vanessacouto.substack.com. Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 37m

  4. Apr 15

    Which Door Is Yours?

    There are five aspects of the self that culture teaches women to hide — and romance novels have been quietly reopening every single one. In this solo episode, I name them: body, rage, pleasure, instinct, and sovereignty. Five Forbidden Doors, each one guarded by the stories we've been told to dismiss. Drawing on my depth psychology training, my own reading, and responses from real romance readers, I walk you up to each door — just enough to see which one has your name on it. Includes a reading practice you can use tonight with any book on your shelf. This episode is the companion to last week's Your Bookshelf Is Your Grimoire. Explore Forbidden Doors — a six-week romance-as-medicine intensive starting May 16: vanessacouto.com/romance-online-course For more essays and episodes subscribe at vanessacouto.substack.com Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    43 min

  5. Apr 8

    Your Bookshelf Is Your Grimoire

    Almost twenty years ago, a dream about a wedding made me abandon my thesis on Saturn and depression and write instead about the healing power of romantic comedies. That thesis became a spell — I lived everything I wrote, and more than a year later, I met my husband. Then I forgot about it for nearly two decades. After my mother died and 131 romance novels pulled me through a cave year of grief, the spell returned. Same medicine. Deeper cauldron. In this episode: the origin story of my work with romance as medicine, a three-level framework for reading beneath the surface, and a practice you can try tonight with whatever book is on your nightstand. Explore Forbidden Doors — a six-week romance-as-medicine intensive starting May 16: vanessacouto.com/romance-online-course New essays and episodes at vanessacouto.substack.com Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    42 min

  6. Apr 2

    Sharon Lynn Fisher: Small Magic, Ancient Power

    Sharon Lynn Fisher writes cozy gothic romances set in Victorian England: stories full of tea, herbs, cottage witchcraft, and heroines who can't stop asking questions. In this conversation, we talk about what happens when curiosity meets inherited darkness, why the "small magic" of domestic ritual might be doing more than it appears, and the question Sharon's been sitting with: does writing quiet stories matter in a world this loud? We also talk about retellings and the soul of a story, how place inspires her writing, what her readers have taught her about the value of her work, and what transformation tastes like. Book reviews and full essay on Substack: vanessacouto.substack.com Romancing the Threshold a podcast about crossing the threshold with the curiosity of lovers rather than bracing for impact. Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 33m
  7. Cassie Alexander: Getting Curious with the Monster

    Mar 26

    Cassie Alexander: Getting Curious with the Monster

    When AI arrived, most people chose a side — fear or adoration. Cassie Alexander chose a third way: curiosity. Romance author, nurse, monster-romance pioneer — she's spent her career writing about the thing the world decided doesn't count. In this conversation, she and Vanessa explore what it means to stay in relationship with something you can't fully know, what working with AI reveals about how you think, and the question neither of them can stop sitting with: If AI is the new monster — what might it be seeing about us? Romancing the Threshold explores romance novels as threshold medicine, shadow work, and collective dreaming. Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 19m

  8. Mar 8

    When the world gets strange, desire becomes our compass

    In this episode of Romancing the Threshold, Vanessa sits down with author Layla Fae for a conversation that moves through creativity, desire, monster romance, and the unexpected ways we meet change in a world that feels increasingly strange. They talk about Layla’s origin story with the monster in Legend, the cultural expectations placed on women even as we gain more autonomy, and the quiet rebellion of choosing joy over burnout in creative work. The conversation also touches on the tender, complicated terrain of our relationships with technology — including Layla’s newest book, a love letter to the possibility inside the machine — and what it means to cross thresholds with curiosity rather than fear. This is a spacious, intimate exploration of desire as a compass, storytelling as a guide, and the courage it takes to keep becoming in a world that keeps shifting under our feet. To learn more about Vanessa’s work and her upcoming spring offering Forbidden Doors, visit vanessacouto.com. Get full access to Vanessa Couto at vanessacouto.substack.com/subscribe

    1h 16m
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Exploring the in‑between: where imagination, romance, and the soul’s journey meet. vanessacouto.substack.com

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  • Creator
    Vanessa Couto
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    17
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Vanessa Couto
  • Show Website
    Romancing the Threshold