Drag & Burlesque Diaries

Flame Foxxe

Drag and Burlesque Diaries pulls back the curtain on the incredible lives and raw experiences of marginalized performance artists. Host Flame Foxxe sits down with a variety of performers—including drag kings, queens, burlesque dancers, poets, singers, fire artists, acrobats, pole dancers and more—to explore important, self-selected topics like ballroom culture, selective activism, and navigating community etiquette. It's like a candid slumber party with your favorite queer artists! Join us for a unique blend of deep conversation, silly games, and intimate glimpses into their fabulous world, because this is the space where No Performer is Left Backstage.

Episodes

  1. Tips 4 Tip$ ep.4: Roles & Responsibilities

    FEB 19

    Tips 4 Tip$ ep.4: Roles & Responsibilities

    Tips 4 Tip$ Ep. 4: Roles & Responsibilities ✨ In this week’s episode, we’re diving into the real behind-the-scenes magic of burlesque and drag — the roles we hold, the responsibilities we carry, and how we show up for ourselves and our community both onstage and off. Flame Foxxe (@flamefoxxe) walks through the Roles & Responsibilities worksheets from the Seductive Sorcery Workbook, breaking down performer expectations, producer dynamics, professionalism, boundaries, and community care. We talk about what it actually means to be reliable, prepared, and intentional in your art — especially in spaces where access and equity matter. This episode also includes a mini movement demo featuring ambulatory burlesque — both seated and standing options — because accessibility is not an afterthought. Whether you perform on your feet, from a chair, or somewhere in between, you deserve choreography that honors your body. We also shout out and uplift the work and influence of legends and educators like @theperlenoire, @burlesquewithgv (Ginger Valentine), and the brilliance of @maisonburlesque.online on TikTok for continuing to expand the conversation around burlesque education and accessibility. If you’ve ever wondered: • What are my responsibilities as a performer? • What do producers actually expect? • How do I stay professional without losing my magic? • How can burlesque be more accessible? This episode is for you. Listen now wherever you stream podcasts.   Follow the pod @dnbdiariespod   Have guest appearance requests, stories, or questions?   Email us at: dnbdiariespod@gmail.com No performer left backstage. ✨

    1h 9m
  2. Ep. 4: Sativa Shakespeare; spinning to the sounds of an infant

    JAN 30

    Ep. 4: Sativa Shakespeare; spinning to the sounds of an infant

    In Episode 4 of Drag & Burlesque Diaries, we’re doing things a little differently. Flame is checking in and recording straight from the hospital—because the show must go on and we truly mean it when we say no performer left backstage! Joining us in the sheet fort tonight is the incredible Sativa Shakespeare! We’re diving deep into what it’s like for per to navigate the stage after entering parenthood and how pers artistry has evolved. But it’s not all "renny and me"—things get spooky when Sativa shares a bone-chilling NOLA ghost story that’ll have you pulling the covers up to your chin. 👻🏰 We also play a high-stakes round of DRAG (our specialized version of MASH) to see what the future holds for per! 🔮 In this episode: • Parenthood & Performance: How Sativa balances the diaper bag with the drag bag. • Haunted NOLA: A ghost story from the heart of the Bayou. • DRAG Fortune: Predicting Sativa’s future venues and malfunctions. Credits & Links: • Intro/Closing Music: The vibes are provided by the talented Mel Diyer. • Follow our Guest: Find Sativa Shakespeare on Instagram @sativashakespeare and show pers some love! • Follow the Pod: Keep up with our shenanigans online at @dnbdiariespod. Want to join the party? We want to hear from you! Email us at dnbdiariespod@gmail.com if you want to appear on the pod or if you have a wild story you want our artists to react to! Grab your snacks and settle in—it’s time for a heart-to-heart. 💖🎙️

    1h 5m
  3. Tips 4 Tip$ ep.2: Know your history, bestie!

    JAN 6 · BONUS

    Tips 4 Tip$ ep.2: Know your history, bestie!

    Before you ever step on stage, there’s something every performer should know: where this art form comes from. In this episode of Tips for Tips, Flame Foxxe takes you on a gentle, honest, slumber-party-style chat about why knowing your drag and burlesque history matters — and how research, respect, and showing up before you perform can make you a stronger artist and a better community member. We talk about going to shows before debuting, learning from performers who came before you, taking classes, studying online, and why history isn’t gatekeeping — it’s grounding. Whether you’re a king, queen, thing, creature, or still figuring it out, this episode is about entering the space with care, curiosity, and confidence. Flame also highlights essential resources for learning more, including DragKingHistory.com, founded by drag king historian and performer Mo B. Dick, as well as burlesque history and education through the Burlesque Hall of Fame. Additional burlesque learning resources mentioned include Unhelpful Tips with Matt Finish and Judith Stein. Drag is community art. Knowing your history helps you honor it — and helps you shine. Resources Mentioned Drag King History: https://www.dragkinghistory.comMo B. Dick: https://mrmobdick.com/about/Burlesque Hall of Fame: https://burlesquehall.comFollow the Podcast 🎙 Drag & Burlesque Diaries Instagram & TikTok: @dnbdiariespod ✨ Host: Flame Foxxe Instagram: @flamefoxxe

    8 min
  4. 09/27/2025

    Ep. 1: Casey J; Healing out loud through art

    E01: Casey J, aka; Strawberry Squirtcake — From Burlesque to Poetry: Art, Trauma, and the Advocacy Stage (⚠️ TRIGGER WARNING: This episode includes brief, general mentions of trauma and abuse. Please listen with care.) Welcome to the very first episode of Drag and Burlesque Diaries! Host Flame Foxxe (they/them) is joined by the incredibly talented Strawberry Squirtcake (she/her), a multifaceted artist whose evolution spans from theater and burlesque to powerful spoken word poetry. In this candid conversation, Strawberry Squirtcake, also known as Casey J, explores the raw relationship between her art and personal history. She shares how trauma and past abuse directly shapes her creative expression, turning vulnerability into artistic strength. This isn't just a discussion about performance; it's a deep dive into how marginalized artists use their bodies and voices to process and reclaim their narratives. Flame Foxxe also shares their personal motivation for launching the podcast, recounting the inspiring story of the performer who ignited their passion for performing and disability and inclusion advocacy through drag. We discuss the vision for creating a community where no performer is left backstage. We welcome your feedback! Questions, stories, and suggestions for future subjects or guests can be sent to dnbdiariespod@gmail.com. Music Credit: • Theme Song: "Dancing in Our Underwear" provided by the incredible Mel Diyer @melthemusician-IG, @meldiyer-TT Production Credit: • Recording, Writing, and Editing by Flame Foxxe. Follow Our Guests & Host: • Strawberry Squirtcake: IG: @berrybound31 | TT: @strawberryjan31 • Drag and Burlesque Diaries: IG: @dnbdiariespod • Host Flame Foxxe: @flamefoxxe

    47 min

About

Drag and Burlesque Diaries pulls back the curtain on the incredible lives and raw experiences of marginalized performance artists. Host Flame Foxxe sits down with a variety of performers—including drag kings, queens, burlesque dancers, poets, singers, fire artists, acrobats, pole dancers and more—to explore important, self-selected topics like ballroom culture, selective activism, and navigating community etiquette. It's like a candid slumber party with your favorite queer artists! Join us for a unique blend of deep conversation, silly games, and intimate glimpses into their fabulous world, because this is the space where No Performer is Left Backstage.