“Jockeying is how I became who I am. Everything I have gone through brought me to a very humble place. I’m thankful for everything, from the FORTY broken bones, to the two divorces, the years I battled alcohol addiction, to the decade-plus I struggled with bulimia. Jockeying demands absolutely everything of you, and that really messes up your head. You have to become an actor, projecting confidence at all times, no matter what.” ~ Joe Steiner At the young age of five, Joe Steiner saw his future. He looked out at a horse track, saw his uncle confidently racing on a horse and said, “I want to do that!” Joe’s grandfather had been a jockey too, so you could almost say the sport was a right of passage in his family. Little did young Joe know then, the complexities that would come with choosing such a mighty dream. A quick trip to the Equibase website, the official database and data collection agency for North American Thoroughbred horse racing, reveals a profile on Joseph J. Steiner. Under his name is a line that reads simply, “10,846 starts, 1,061 firsts, 1,112 seconds, 1,176 thirds, winnings of $17,288,500.” Truly incredible stats. So how did he get here? As a kid, pursuing his dream, he was repeatedly told he was too big to be a competitive jockey and to make matters more complicated, he was very allergic to both horses and hay. But he persisted. Joe reflects, “I think I was destined to become a jockey.” At the ripe age of 17, with the help of his grandfather, the legendary jockey turned trainer, Jonny Longden took Joe under his wing. Within a year, Joe was the second leading jockey in the nation. Along the journey that followed, Joe employed an Anthony Robbins technique to become fearless, contracted with the Saudi Royal Family, and was a stunt double in the Oscar-nominated film, Seabiscuit. Then came the day Joe broke his neck while horse training. By miracle, the surgeon was able to repair his neck, but informed Joe that his racing days were over. If he were to ever fall off a horse and hit his neck, he would die instantly. Depression and alcohol abuse filled much of the next six years of his life. Fortunately, helping a friend train inspired him to start taking his life back. Joe signed up for yoga and began to feel like himself again. After that, even though well aware of the risks, Joe started racing horses again AND winning races. Talk about fearlessness! Around this time, Joe met and married the love of his life. The year his son was born was one of the best years of his career. Such goes the epic tale of Joe Steiner. Now officially retired from racing, he’s determined to help as many people as he can to find their purpose and make good use of the brilliance within them. Joe reflects on the road he has been on, “With life, it doesn’t always happen as you want it to. It's definitely a tough road along the way, but if you stick with it, better times come.” _______________________________________________ **Video broadcast available** on YouTube @imperfectbest **Learn more about Jason Freeman** at AwkwardlyAwesome.com