The Motherhood Sh!tshow

Hannah Rodger and Lisa Hodgson
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Let’s face it. Modern motherhood is a shitshow. Hosted by Hannah Rodger, founder of The Mum Hive and Lisa Hodgson, mental load and declutter coach talk unfiltered about the beautiful chaos of motherhood, career, and home life. We were drawn together by our shared sense of Northern English humour, mutual love of brightly coloured jumpers, and the belief that telling it like it is beats sugar-coating every time. We talk candidly about the juggle: the mental load, the career curveballs, the mess (literal and metaphorical), and the moments that make you wonder if you’re smashing it or just barely hanging on. Expect laughter, honesty, practical takeaways, and the occasional gold-star moment for doing the bare minimum. Because motherhood isn’t always pretty, but it’s never boring. Contact Details: Lisa (lisa@lisahodgson.co) , Hannah (hannah@themumhive.com)

  1. 12/17/2025

    The Mental Load Killed My Sex Life

    This week on The Motherhood Sh!tshow, we’re talking about something every parent knows all too well: how the bloody mental load manages to kill your sex life dead. Before we even get into the sexy stuff (or the total lack of it), we kick off with the usual chaos: Lisa’s low-effort BBQ triumph, Hannah’s gastro-ridden week from hell, and the Jewish chicken soup that held the household together. Because of course. Then we dive head-first into the truth: When you’re carrying the emotional, mental, logistical and sensory load of an entire household… the only thing getting lucky is the washing machine. 💥 In this episode we get into: The invisible mental load that absolutely annihilates desireWhy intimacy dies when you’re the walking brain of the householdTouch fatigue, resentment and the “don’t even breathe near me” phasePostpartum expectations vs the very unsexy realityScheduling sex like dentist appointments (romance is DEAD)Why choreplay genuinely works (science says so)How hormonal shifts and identity earthquakes mess with desireThe resentment spiral and how couples fall into it without noticingThe actual reason men misinterpret exhaustion as rejectionWhy intimacy needs mental space, not just time or opportunityThis episode is basically a permission slip for every mum who’s ever thought: “I love him… but I’m not even close to in the mood.” ❤️ The deeper stuff we unpack: Why the pattern isn’t “him vs her” - it’s the dynamic you both fell intoHow childhood survival roles show up in adult relationshipsWhy communication collapses after babies arriveThe resentment thorn - and why it keeps getting nudgedWhat really needs to shift before desire returnsHow sharing the load fairly becomes the foundation for intimacy 🔗 ▶️ To watch the MENTAL LOAD RESET masterclass, click here: https://www.lisahodgson.co/mentalreset Inside this FREE 60-minute masterclass, Lisa teaches the 6-step framework she’s built over 5 years - grounded in global relationship research, behavioural science, communication skills and her experience inside 500+ family homes. It’s designed for couples (or solo), and shows you exactly how to shift your home dynamic so: the load feels fairerresentment dropscommunication improvesyou feel more connected like a team again.  And if you’re craving connection with other mums who get it, join The Mum Hive on Whatsapp here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/Bn9nTQ5WOx1AQvMvu68wyz?mode=hqrt1

    32 min

  2. 12/08/2025

    Help! My Kids are Feral!

    If your kids seem perfectly behaved for everyone else then turn into tiny gremlins the second they see you… you’re not alone. This week we talk about what’s actually normal, what’s developmentally expected, and why none of this means you’re a bad parent. We cover: • Why kids save their wildest behaviour for you • Meltdowns, bedtime chaos and what’s biologically normal • Phases vs red flags • Mum guilt, judgement, and the “am I the problem?” spiral • Neurodiversity, diagnosis hurdles and the emotional load • How our own childhood shapes how we respond Hannah also shares honestly about navigating her child’s challenges and the shame, fear and confusion so many parents carry but rarely say out loud. A small favour: If you see mums talking about feral kids, meltdowns or burnout, please share this episode so more women feel seen and supported. Free resources: Grab the mum tools linked to make the chaos 5 percent easier. Join The Mum Hive FREE whatsapp group here: https://chat.whatsapp.com/Bn9nTQ5WOx1AQvMvu68wyz?mode=hqrt1 The FREE Share The Load Guide - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load  Share The Load Program Waitlist - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-waitlist  Steps to a clutter free life : https://www.lisahodgson.co/clutterfree Contact us: lisa@lisahodgson.co, hannah@themumhive.com

    42 min

  3. 12/02/2025

    Finding Friendships Fraught? It's Not Just You

    This week on The Motherhood Sh!t Show, we dive headfirst into the wild, wonderful, awkward, butt-clenching world of female friendships - as mums, as expats, as women with weird childhood hangovers, and as humans who are absolutely winging it. Before we even get to the deep stuff, Lisa relives her spiritual awakening at the Oasis gig (Manchester pride, accidental Liam Gallagher evangelism and all), and Hannah tells the now-iconic story of the cat poo mistaken for a protein bar - because of course. This show is not called a Sh!t Show for nothing. 💬 In this episode we chat about: Why making friends as grown-ass women is weirder and harder than anyone admitsThe pressure to have a big circle of mum friends (spoiler: bollocks)How drinking-based friendships change when you get soberWhat it’s like trying to form connections as new mums, expats, or bothWhen friendships last forever — and when they really, really don’tThe grief of friendship breakups (yes, it’s a thing)Being a “shit friend” in the past — and forgiving yourselfThe difference between performing friendship vs real connectionWhy we need friends who can handle our weirdnessWhy mums STILL say “sorry the house is a mess” even when everyone knows it looks exactly like a house with kids shouldWhy vulnerability is the secret sauce in friendship… unless someone weaponises it (yikes)How teen behaviour affects mum friendships (because teenagers… are teens)Rediscovering who the hell you are, and finding people who actually see youThis episode is basically a cosy, chaotic, truth-telling hug for anyone who’s ever felt lonely, awkward, or completely unsure how to “adult” at friendship. ❤️ Loved this episode? Send it to the friend who lets you be your complete feral, flawed, fabulous self. And don’t forget to grab our FREE mum resources below - designed to make this circus we call motherhood slightly easier. The FREE Share The Load Guide - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load  Share The Load Program Waitlist - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-waitlist  The Mum Hive Whatsapp group: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1rErsKo5LeZ9jleWJbK0I2vOgVL0uJkAd3aLfLFwe3_k/edit 6 Steps to a clutter free life : https://www.lisahodgson.co/clutterfree Contact us: lisa@lisahodgson.co, hannah@themumhive.com Lisa’s Christmas resources: https://www.lisahodgson.co/free-home-organising-resources

    53 min

  4. 11/26/2025

    Sober Mumming - We Called Time on Mummy Wine

    In this juicy (and very real) episode, Lis and Hannah dive deep into their personal journeys with sobriety - from white cider in the park as teens to wine o’clock as exhausted mums. With eight and six years of sober life under their belts, they reflect on the sneaky grip alcohol had on them, and how breaking free has completely reshaped their motherhood experience. We chat about: The emotional loop of craving → drinking → regrettingWhy “just one glass” never really is just one glassWhat it means to be a grey-area drinkerHow sobriety helped us become more present, emotionally available mumsAnd of course, the books that cracked it all open...📚 Books/Podcasts that supported our journey: This Naked Mind – Annie GraceBeyond Booze – Sarah RusbatchThe Unexpected Joy of Being Sober – Catherine GrayThe Sober Diaries – Clare PooleyThe Sober Awkward Podcast A Thousand Wasted Sundays – Victoria VanstoneWhether you’re sober-curious, stuck in a wine-at-5 loop, or just here for the honesty - this episode might be the sign you didn’t know you needed. We promise, you’re not alone. Other Mum Resources to Make Life Easier The FREE Share The Load Guide - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load  Share The Load Program Waitlist - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-waitlist  The Mum Hive : https://the-mum-hive.mn.co/landing?from=https%3A%2F%2Fthe-mum-hive.mn.co%2Fadmin%2Flanding-page%2Feditor%2Flive%2F3784  6 Steps to a clutter free life : https://www.lisahodgson.co/clutterfree Contact us: lisa@lisahodgson.co, hannah@themumhive.com

    49 min

  5. 11/19/2025

    Back to Work, Not The Same

    Returning to work after babies isn’t the empowering “hot coffee and adult conversations” moment we were promised. It’s more like an emotional triathlon - guilt, logistics, identity shifts and a workplace that still thinks you’re the same person you were before birth… cute. In this episode, we get honest about the messy, lonely, hilarious and sometimes heartbreaking reality of going back to work as a mum. We share our own return-to-work stories, the data behind the motherhood penalty, why confidence takes such a hit, how matrescence changes everything, and what workplaces actually need to do so mothers stop walking out. Plus our Shit Tip of the Week, a camping mishap, manifested Oasis tickets, and why snacks might just save your career. If you’re returning, thinking about returning, or still crying in the bathroom at work... this one’s for you. Join us, and come feel less alone. The FREE Share The Load Guide - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load  Share The Load Program Waitlist - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-waitlist  The Mum Hive : https://the-mum-hive.mn.co/landing?from=https%3A%2F%2Fthe-mum-hive.mn.co%2Fadmin%2Flanding-page%2Feditor%2Flive%2F3784  6 Steps to a clutter free life : https://www.lisahodgson.co/clutterfree Contact Hannah to be part of the 50 coffees with 50 mums project: hannah@themumhive.com Contact Lisa: lisa@lisahodgson.co

    53 min

  6. 11/12/2025

    Mum, The OG Santa

    Feeling the festive frenzy already? You’re not alone. In this Motherhood Sh!tshow episode we get real about the Christmas mental load: the shopping, wrapping, feeding, feelings… and why it so often lands on mums. We talk expectations vs reality, expat Christmas chaos, family dynamics, and how to keep your cash, your calm, and your couple-ship intact. What’s inside ✨ Why Christmas piles extra invisible labour on mums (and what to drop) ✨ Expat Christmas: big feelings, tricky family dynamics, and saying “no thanks” ✨ Expectation vs reality list (Santa photos, matching pyjamas, stocking fillers, “perfect” table…) ✨ “To-DON’T List” ideas to cut the clutter and the cost ✨ January “divorce month” 👀 + why strong couples plan time to work on the relationship ✨ Tiny daily steps (15–20 mins) that make sharing the load the new normal ✨ Sh!t Tips of the Week: unsubscribe + carve out micro-me-time; plan now so you can delegate later ✨ Links & Goodies ✨ 1. Join the Share The Load Waitlist (doors open end of Nov; programme starts mid-Jan): [link] 2. Free Ultimate Festive Planner (printable) 👉🏻 budgets, gifts, meals, cards, sustainable ideas + a page to build your To-DON’T List: https://www.lisahodgson.co/free-home-organ... 3. Hannah’s 50 Coffees with 50 Mums (Sydney) — want in? 👉🏻 Pop her a note to hannah@themumhive.com or DM on LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/hannahrodgerco... 4. The FREE Share The Load Guide 👉🏻 https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load 5. Share The Load Program Waitlist 👉🏻 https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-... 6. The Mum Hive 👉🏻 https://the-mum-hive.mn.co/landing?from=ht... 7. 6 Steps to a clutter-free life 👉🏻 https://www.lisahodgson.co/clutterfree 8. Contact us: lisa@lisahodgson.co, hannah@themumhive.com If this made you feel seen, hit Like, Subscribe, and Share it with your mum group. Drop a comment: What’s going on your Christmas To-DON’T List this year?

    46 min

  7. 11/05/2025

    Sorry Not Sorry: The One About Self-Compassion

    🎙️ Episode: Sorry Not SorryIf I said half the things I say to myself out loud to someone else, I’d look like an absolute arsehole. There, we said it. In this episode, Hannah and Lisa get real about the brutal way we talk to ourselves - and why it’s time to stop apologising for simply being human. We unpack why we’re so good at saying sorry to everyone else but never to ourselves, and how a little self-compassion can make everything; work, motherhood, life - just that bit lighter. Because being kind to yourself isn’t indulgent. It’s survival. 💬 In this episode:Why our inner voice can be such a jerk The power of forgiving yourself How impatience feeds guilt and burnout Why self-kindness is the real productivity hack 💌 Resources & LinksFree Share The Load Guide: lisahodgson.co/share-the-load Share The Load Program Waitlist: lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-waitlist The Mum Hive Community: the-mum-hive.mn.co/landing 6 Steps to a Clutter-Free Life: lisahodgson.co/clutterfree 📬 Contact us: Lisa - lisa@lisahodgson.co Hannah - hannah@themumhive.com

    46 min

  8. 10/29/2025

    Help! My Home Is A Shit Tip!

    Hannah and Lisa focus on the emotional and physical burdens of clutter. They discuss the impact of the holiday season on mental health, the expectations versus reality of parenting, and the importance of shared responsibilities in managing household clutter. The conversation also delves into the role of consumerism in creating clutter and offers practical strategies for decluttering and teaching children about value. Ultimately, the discussion emphasizes the need for intentionality in both decluttering and parenting, encouraging listeners to embrace the journey of motherhood with compassion and mindfulness. Show Links: 6 Steps to a clutter free life : https://www.lisahodgson.co/clutterfree How to make a memory box:  1 x suspension file box : https://www.officeworks.com.au/shop/officeworks/p/really-useful-box-24l-clear-file-box-rub24lfile 1 x Pack of Suspension Files: https://www.officeworks.com.au/shop/officeworks/p/j-burrows-recycled-foolscap-suspension-files-assorted-50-pack-jbsfc50frr The FREE Share The Load Guide - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load  Share The Load Program Waitlist - https://www.lisahodgson.co/share-the-load-waitlist  The Mum Hive : https://the-mum-hive.mn.co/landing?from=https%3A%2F%2Fthe-mum-hive.mn.co%2Fadmin%2Flanding-page%2Feditor%2Flive%2F3784

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Let’s face it. Modern motherhood is a shitshow. Hosted by Hannah Rodger, founder of The Mum Hive and Lisa Hodgson, mental load and declutter coach talk unfiltered about the beautiful chaos of motherhood, career, and home life. We were drawn together by our shared sense of Northern English humour, mutual love of brightly coloured jumpers, and the belief that telling it like it is beats sugar-coating every time. We talk candidly about the juggle: the mental load, the career curveballs, the mess (literal and metaphorical), and the moments that make you wonder if you’re smashing it or just barely hanging on. Expect laughter, honesty, practical takeaways, and the occasional gold-star moment for doing the bare minimum. Because motherhood isn’t always pretty, but it’s never boring. Contact Details: Lisa (lisa@lisahodgson.co) , Hannah (hannah@themumhive.com)

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  • Creator
    Hannah Rodger and Lisa Hodgson
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    15
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Hannah Rodger and Lisa Hodgson
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    The Motherhood Sh!tshow