Therapy was Full Podcast

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Hosted by Dustin Hayes, a Navy veteran and coffee shop owner, and Terrence Davis, a Marine Corps vet turned real estate professional, Therapy Was Full is where veterans, survivors, and seekers get real about the battles no one sees. This isn’t your typical vet podcast — no victim mindsets, no sugarcoating. Just raw stories about fatherhood, trauma, shame, healing, hustle, self improvement and the messy, beautiful process of rebuilding yourself from the inside out. Every week, Dustin and Terrence sit down to unpack the weight of the past, the realities of being men in a broken system, and what it takes to move forward when no one handed you the manual.

Episodes

  1. 3D AGO

    Warrior in the Garden – Finding Peace Without War | Therapy was Full Ep-12

    In this raw, unfiltered episode of Therapy Was Full, hosts Dustin Hayes (CEO of Red White & Badass Brew) and Terrence Davis dive deep into the veteran transition nightmare: from battle-hardened warriors to lost gardeners in civilian life. What happens when you lose your military purpose? Dustin and Terrence spill on medical retirements, TAPS program's epic fails ("It's garbage—box-check BS"), 60-job rejections, and the myth of "easy vet hires." Hear Terrence's wild story: quitting a 6-figure gig to avoid leaving his daughter, burning a "perfect" life of cash and chaos for real family purpose. They break down the internal war—craving business highs like combat rushes, embracing failure ("I'm not a failure, I failed today"), bad mentorship traps, and building teams that align with your morals (not deadbeats justifying b******t). If you're a vet feeling purposeless, chasing entrepreneurship chaos, or rebuilding post-service—this ep hits hard. No victim vibes, just Marine-tough truths on prepping 18 months out, watering your own grass, and turning war skills into wins. Timestamps & highlights in comments. Like, subscribe, and comment: "What would you do if you couldn't fail?"

    1h 32m

  2. FEB 13

    Lifting the Weight – Dads, Betrayal, and the Real Path to Freedom | Therapy was Full Ep -11

    In this no-holds-barred live therapy session, Dustin Hayes and Terrence Davis sit down with Marine veteran and Truth First Life Coach Nathan Sutton—and things get real FAST. What starts as Dustin unpacking his decision to cut off his abusive dad spirals into raw confessions: fantasies of revenge on 24-hour firewatch, suicidal thoughts fueled by justice-seeking rage, grieving the father you wanted while he's still alive, and the brutal cycle of generational trauma. Nathan drops bombshells with the "invisible weight" metaphor—bench-pressing 1000lbs of resentment, the garden hose analogy for holding back emotions (anger AND love), and why chasing justice keeps you imprisoned. The hosts confront their own buttons: betrayed trust in marriage, protecting your energy vs. scarcity mindset, and the terrifying freedom of finally letting go. From "I wanted to kill my dad" to a 73-year-old vet who ditched 47 years of meds after one conversation, this episode is unfiltered truth about forgiveness, inherent value, and rebuilding without the past controlling you. If you've ever carried invisible weight from your dad, your spouse, or your own choices—this one's for you. No victim mentality. Just Marine-tough honesty and the path to real freedom. Timestamps & key moments in the comments. Like, subscribe, and drop your own "weight" story below—we read every one. Therapy Was Full.

    1h 41m

  3. FEB 13

    The Mindset That Built an Epic Life | Therapy was Full Ep -10

    In this powerful episode of Therapy Was Full Podcast, co-hosts Terrence Davis (Marine Corps vet turned real estate pro) and Dustin Hayes (Navy vet & coffee shop owner) go deep with guest Jason Stewart — founder of Epic Fighting, real estate investor, exotic car hustler, and passionate veteran advocate. Jason opens up about losing his multimillion-dollar construction business (and discovering true friends in the aftermath), then rebuilding stronger with smart plays: exotic car flips for profit, "proximity is power" living in Coronado, buying the dream asset first (McLaren mindset), and scaling wealth to fuel massive impact — like helping veterans avoid suicide and escape dark places.

    1h 50m

  4. JAN 17

    The Dark Secrets of the Military that Could Have Destroyed Chelsey Gray | Therapy Was Full Ep-9

    I joined to serve my country, but I ended up fighting a war within my own ranks.” In this incredibly raw and unfiltered interview, we sit down with Chelsey, a former U.S. Marine, who steps out of the shadows to share the harrowing reality of her service. While the military often speaks of brotherhood and honor, Chelsey experienced the devastating "dark side" of the uniform. Today, she breaks her silence on: • The betrayal of trust: Navigating sexual assault within the Corps. • The cycle of manipulation: How those in power took advantage of her dedication. • The psychological toll: Surviving the grooming and gaslighting that often follows military trauma. • The path to healing: Why she is finally choosing to speak her truth. This isn't just a story about the military; it’s a story about the resilience of the human spirit in the face of systemic betrayal.

    2h 33m

  5. JAN 17

    The Great Relationship Debate |Therapy Was Full Ep-9

    We almost didnt air this episode, in this episode we discuss relationship rules and guidlines. Is it ok to tell you partner another person is attractive? What do you think?

    2h 8m

  6. 11/18/2025

    Faith, Trauma, and the Cost of Telling the Truth | Therapy was Full Podcast

    This episode goes deeper than anything we’ve shared before. The crew sits down with Jamie Torres and cracks open the kind of stories most people bury forever — therapy gone wrong, church trauma, coverups, victim‑blaming, broken faith, and the pressure to look perfect on social media while your life is on fire behind the scenes. Jamie shares her journey through trigeminal neuralgia, religious betrayal, and rebuilding her relationship with God. Terrence and Dustin open up about mischaracterization, anger, forgiveness, and what happens when the people who were supposed to protect you end up breaking you. This is an unfiltered look at trauma, faith, accountability, and the power of telling the truth even when it costs you everything. If you’ve ever questioned your faith, fought to be honest, or felt punished for your transparency, this one hits home.

    1h 32m

  7. 11/12/2025

    PTSD and Pillow Talk: | Therapy Was Full Podcast

    Military relationships aren't just about long-distance—they're about long-lasting impact. In this raw and revealing episode of Therapy Was Full, co-hosts Dustin Hayes and Terrence Davis are joined by Miss Laurie and Miss Ty to unpack what really happens when love, loyalty, and military trauma collide. From infidelity rumors to emotional shutdowns, from "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" to Maslow's Hierarchy of Needs—this isn't a relationship podcast, it's a survival manual for anyone who’s tried to love while at war with themselves.

    1h 35m

  8. 10/27/2025

    From Combat Boots to Closing Deals: Mission After the Military | Therapy was Full Podcast

    What happens when the uniform comes off but the mission isn't over? In this episode of Therapy Was Full, we sit down with Clint Jordan, a 21-year Air Force veteran turned entrepreneur, to unpack the messy reality of military transition and the power of building community after service. Clint shares how he went from structured deployments to launching a military real estate network, opening a CrossFit gym, and founding the Veteran Business Alliance (VBA)—a hub for vets turning passion into purpose. But this episode isn’t just about business. It’s about what’s not talked about: the isolation, the awkward exits, the need for brotherhood in a world that suddenly speaks a different language.

    49 min

  9. 10/18/2025

    From War Zones to Movie Sets: The Journey of Faheem Fazli | Therapy Was Full Podcast

    In this powerful episode, Afghan-American actor and former U.S. Marine linguist Faheem Fazli joins the crew to share his remarkable story — from surviving war zones to standing on Hollywood sets. Faheem opens up about translating between the Marines and the Taliban, navigating tribal complexities in Afghanistan, and calling out the corruption that swallowed billions in U.S. aid. He talks cultural identity, CIA secrets, and the emotional toll of standing between two worlds. This isn’t your average immigrant story — it’s a wake-up call about loyalty, history, and what it means to serve two countries at once. He also drops insight into his upcoming book and film projects, leaving us with a reminder that storytelling can be its own form of service.  @FahimFazli

    58 min

  10. 10/17/2025

    Building Legacies with Dirty Hands | Therapy was Full Podcast

    In this episode of Therapy Was Full, Dustin Hayes is joined by co-host Sergio Gutierrez and guest Chris Park for a raw conversation about fatherhood, entrepreneurship, and leading by example in the middle of real-life chaos. Chris opens up about parenting after divorce, juggling business calls with school drop-offs, and trying to stay present while building a future. Sergio shares thoughts on legacy, art, and how not having kids gives him a unique perspective on the struggle. Together, they unpack what it means to be a “dirty hat dad” — someone who leads from the front, even when everything is falling apart behind them. From teaching kids about credit to questioning public school values, this one’s about fatherhood without the filters, business without the bulls***, and why failing in front of your kids might be the most powerful thing you can do.

    48 min

  11. 10/04/2025

    Redefining leadership after trauma

    Terrence Davis and Dustin Hayes get brutally honest about the chaos they grew up in — from abusive homes to generational trauma, fractured fatherhood, and surviving pain with silence. Terrence opens up about being raised by a drug-addicted mother, a physically abusive grandmother, and a dad who showed up late — and empty-handed. Dustin shares how his father broke him physically and emotionally, and how that shaped his approach to relationships, leadership, and business. From surviving addiction to navigating broken family dynamics and building businesses while battling inner chaos, this episode is a raw, layered journey through what it takes to break generational curses. Trigger warning: abuse, addiction, generational trauma, and dark humor. Key Themes: The “Warrior in the Garden” paradox Why chaos feels comfortable (even when it’s killing you) Redefining leadership after trauma The price of loyalty in toxic relationships Building boundaries without building walls

    2h 43m

  12. 09/29/2025

    Built from Broken | Therapy was Full Podcast

    In the very first episode of Therapy Was Full, co-hosts Dustin Hayes (Navy veteran & coffee shop owner) and Terrence Davis (Marine Corps veteran & real estate pro) kick off with real talk about the stories that shaped them — and the ones they never told anyone. From father wounds and broken systems to how they each learned to lead, parent, and heal without a map… this is the unfiltered start of something different.

    44 min
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Hosted by Dustin Hayes, a Navy veteran and coffee shop owner, and Terrence Davis, a Marine Corps vet turned real estate professional, Therapy Was Full is where veterans, survivors, and seekers get real about the battles no one sees. This isn’t your typical vet podcast — no victim mindsets, no sugarcoating. Just raw stories about fatherhood, trauma, shame, healing, hustle, self improvement and the messy, beautiful process of rebuilding yourself from the inside out. Every week, Dustin and Terrence sit down to unpack the weight of the past, the realities of being men in a broken system, and what it takes to move forward when no one handed you the manual.

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  • Creator
    therapywasfull
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    12
  • Rating
    Explicit
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