Everything Changed with Rosie Fawehimi

Rosie Fawehimi

Welcome to Everything Changed – a podcast born from my own life-changing experience, a breast cancer diagnosis at 35. We all think life-altering moments won’t happen to us… until they do. And when they do, they change us in ways we never imagined. In each episode I will be sharing real stories of resilience, strength, and the moments that redefine us.”

Episodes

  1. JAN 7

    One in 80 Million: What Happens When Both Parents Carry the Same Rare Gene?

    ✨ This episode is sponsored by RevitaLash Cosmetics. Rosie has partnered with RevitaLash, the original lash conditioning brand, to bring you a special offer. Use code ROSIE20 for 20% off your order at revitalash.co.uk. Thank you to RevitaLash for supporting Everything Changed. ⸻ When Nicola Whitbread-Hastings became a mother, she expected the “typical” experience. Instead, she was thrust into a world of medical terminology, 24/7 care, and a diagnosis so rare there are only a few hundred cases worldwide. In this episode of Everything Changed, Nicola joins us to share the raw, unfiltered reality of raising her son, Rudy, who lives with MCAHS1, a genetic condition that causes epilepsy, visual impairment, and profound physical disability. In this episode we discuss: * The COVID diagnosis Navigating the terrifying first weeks of lockdown while realising something was wrong. * Finding out both she and her husband carried the same rare gene. * The survival instinct Why she had to emotionally detach from her second pregnancy to survive the weight of a potential second diagnosis. * Milestones vs inchstones The beautiful, small victories that mean everything. This is a story about resilience, the fight of a special-needs parent, and how the arrival of her second son, Dexter, helped their family rediscover laughter in the chaos. ⸻ Resources mentioned in this episode: Haven House Children’s Hospice: https://www.havenhouse.org.uk/ Follow Rudy’s journey on Instagram: @rudysw0rld ⸻ Timestamps 00:00 – Highlights: The moment everything changed 02:15 – The first signs and the COVID lockdown 08:50 – Getting the MCAHS1 diagnosis 16:10 – The heartbreaking reality of the second pregnancy 21:45 – The IVF journey and travelling to Barcelona 25:30 – Dexter: finding joy in “typical” motherhood 34:00 – Advice for parents facing a new diagnosis

    44 min
  2. 12/24/2025

    I had my baby, then needed urgent mental health care

    ✨ Sponsored by RevitaLash Cosmetics ✨ This episode is proudly sponsored by RevitaLash Cosmetics 💗 Founded by Dr Michael Brinkenhoff to help his wife feel more beautiful during her battle with breast cancer, RevitaLash is best known for its clinically tested RevitaLash Advanced Eyelash Serum. A portion of every purchase supports global breast cancer research, including studies at the Francis Crick Institute in London. Thank you to RevitaLash for supporting Everything Changed. ⸻ 🎙️ Everything Changed | Carly Chan’s story In this episode, Rosie speaks to Carly Chan, who shares the reality of pregnancy sickness that became life-threatening and why giving birth was not the end of her struggle. Just weeks into pregnancy, Carly developed hyperemesis gravidarum (HG), a severe condition that left her bedridden, dehydrated, and unable to function. What’s often dismissed as “bad morning sickness” became months of relentless nausea, isolation, and a devastating impact on her mental health. Carly speaks honestly about: * Losing her sense of identity * Feeling trapped in her own body * Experiencing suicidal thoughts, not because she didn’t want her baby, but because she desperately wanted the sickness to stop Although the physical symptoms ended as soon as her son was born, Carly explains how she struggled to bond with him, feeling intense fear, anxiety, and shame in the early days of motherhood. With support from friends, her husband, and specialist perinatal mental health services, Carly made the terrifying but life-changing decision to enter a Mother and Baby Unit, where she received intensive support for severe postnatal anxiety and depression. This is a powerful, honest conversation about pregnancy, postnatal mental health, and why asking for help can be lifesaving. If this episode resonates with you, you are not alone. ⸻ ⏱️ Timestamps 00:00 “I felt suicidal during pregnancy” 00:36 Meeting Carly and the start of her story 01:58 When pregnancy sickness suddenly took over 04:19 Hospital visits, dehydration and being dismissed 06:12 Diagnosed with hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) 09:49 Giving birth and expecting everything to be okay 10:15 Struggling to bond with her newborn 13:24 Reaching breaking point and suicidal thoughts 15:32 Friends stepping in when Carly couldn’t cope 18:48 The moment she realised she needed more help 19:48 Being told she needed a Mother and Baby Unit 21:57 The first night alone with her baby 24:14 Treatment, exposure therapy and recovery 29:28 How this changed her decision to have more children 32:00 Carly’s message to anyone struggling 33:07 Finding strength, endurance and pride ⸻ 🧡 Support and resources If you are struggling during pregnancy or after birth, these organisations can help: 🤍 Pregnancy Sickness Support https://pregnancysicknesssupport.org.uk Support, information, and peer mentoring for people experiencing hyperemesis gravidarum and severe pregnancy sickness. 💛 PANDAS Foundation https://pandasfoundation.org.uk Support for parents and families affected by perinatal mental illness, including postnatal depression and anxiety.

    36 min
  3. 12/10/2025

    I lost my mobility, my voice, and my identity… and somehow found a new life

    Sponsored by RevitaLash Cosmetics Use code ROSIE20 for 20 percent off at checkout. Kristen’s life changed almost overnight. In early 2022, she suddenly developed extreme anxiety, tremors, and escalating neurological symptoms that no one could explain. Within months, she lost her voice, her confidence, and eventually her mobility — going from walking for half an hour to barely lasting five minutes. Her husband carried her up and down the stairs. She stopped going out. She hid from friends and family because she couldn’t face the questions.  This episode follows Kristen’s raw, honest journey through misdiagnosis, fear, and the emotional shock of becoming a full-time wheelchair user at 26. It also traces the unexpected moment everything shifted — a chance encounter at Paddington Station with another wheelchair user — and how that single conversation opened the door to wheelchair basketball, then padel, and ultimately a new identity. Today, Kristen is Britain’s number-one female wheelchair padel player.  Her story is about identity, loss, resilience, and rebuilding a life that looks nothing like the one she had before — but one she is proud of. 00:00 Losing mobility, losing her voice — everything collapses 00:23 Meet Kristen: nurse and Britain’s No.1 wheelchair padel player 01:31 The sudden anxiety and confusion in 2022 03:37 Misdiagnosis, dismissal, and declining mobility 06:13 Losing her voice — and losing her identity 11:37 The Bath trip: realising she can no longer walk 17:27 Isolation, hiding from the world, husband becoming a carer 23:53 Paddington Station: the moment everything changed 27:58 From wheelchair basketball to becoming No.1 in padel 31:29 The pink hair: reclaiming identity and confidence

    40 min
  4. 11/12/2025

    We Went to Nigeria — and Everything Changed | Everything Changed Episode 4

    🎧 EVERYTHING CHANGED — Episode 4: Gigi’s Story Courtesy of ✨ RevitaLash Cosmetics ✨ www.revitalash.co.uk 💙 Enjoy 20% off with code ROSIE20 ––– 🙏 Special thanks to our guest, Gigi (Grace) Her award-winning podcast Journeys with Grace can be found wherever you get your podcasts or at http://jwgstory.com ––– 🎤 In this episode: Singer-songwriter and British Podcast Award finalist Gigi opens up about the extraordinary twists in her life — from being sent from South London to Nigeria as a child, to facing years of pain from Crohn’s disease, to hearing the words no one ever expects: “We think it’s cancer.” 💫 This is a story of shock, resilience and self-belief — of learning to take control when everything feels lost. Gigi shares how she reversed her illness, rebuilt her life, and found healing through her music and her voice. ––– 🕰️ What we talk about: 00:00 — Growing up between cultures in Brixton and Nigeria 04:00 — Being “sent away” and what that taught her about identity 07:00 — The first taste of fame on Pop Idol 08:40 — Living with Crohn’s and learning to self-heal 14:00 — “I had no symptoms — and then they told me it was cancer.” 20:00 — Advocating for yourself when doctors rush your decisions 24:00 — What it means to be in the driver’s seat of your healing 27:00 — The power of discipline, mindset and self-trust 29:00 — Gigi on what really makes her happy today ––– 💬 Connect with Gigi: Instagram: @jwgstory Podcast: Journeys with Grace 🌿 Follow Rosie: Instagram: @rosiefawehimi Podcast updates: @everythingchangedpod ––– 🎙️ About Everything Changed Real stories. Raw conversations. Life-changing moments. New episodes every other Wednesday on Spotify, YouTube & Apple Podcasts.

    32 min

About

Welcome to Everything Changed – a podcast born from my own life-changing experience, a breast cancer diagnosis at 35. We all think life-altering moments won’t happen to us… until they do. And when they do, they change us in ways we never imagined. In each episode I will be sharing real stories of resilience, strength, and the moments that redefine us.”