Agony & Ecstasy

Madison & Marie

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Two seasoned New York City women—one, an erstwhile matchmaker with an open heart (Marie K. Stotz), the other a serial monogamist (Madison Mattox) with a healthy skepticism—talk love, lust, loss, and how to stay hopeful in a city that never settles. agonyandecstasy.substack.com

12/19/2025

Wife Guy with Dylan McBrayer

In the latest installment of their Ask A Man series, Madison and Marie discuss newlywed bliss with creative director Dylan McBrayer. Topics include male insecurity, the perks of a creative partnership and the process of choosing an engagement ring. Should long distance lovers revive the lost art of the e-mail? Does love at first sight exist? The trio breaks down the big questions of our time, with many laughs along the way. Bonus fragrance review at the end of the episode! Follow Dylan: instagram.com/billymacadamia Follow Madison: instagram.com/magic__star___88 Follow Marie: instagram.com/mariekstotz Support and share with friends http://substack.com/@agonyandecstasy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

57 min
12/12/2025

The Way of the Superior Man

Madison and Marie are back to discuss a self help classic: The Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. Will this solve the “masculinity crisis” of modern society? Topics include An Affair to Remember, sexual polarity, “hot” vs. “cool” women, and chanting with the homies. Bonus: Madison shares her tried and true advice on how to get a kiss at the end of a date. Follow Madison: http://instagram.com/magic__star___88 Follow Marie: http://instagram.com/mariekstotz Support and share with friends http://substack.com/@agonyandecstasy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

58 min
12/05/2025

Of Monsters and Men

The girls return from their Thanksgiving break with a review of Guillermo del Toro’s Frankenstein and a few other cultural texts. Not unlike Frankenstein’s Monster, this episode is composed of many different updates and fragments. Other topics include Beaujolais Nouveau, The Neapolitan Novels, complicated friend dynamics, Night Club 101 and male Cancers. Sometimes, the wanting is better than the having. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

1h 7m
11/21/2025

Relationship Therapy with Dr. Tema Watstein

Madison and Marie have their first ever female guest on the pod! Dr. Tema Watstein joins the ladies to discuss couples therapy and polyamorous relationships. She also gives out some much needed free therapy! Topics include: white guy syndrome, lesbians being the least poly people, facilitating breakups, and dating people who are already in relationships. Can men ever change? Tune in to see if Tema can get M&M to change their tune on open relationships… Follow Madison: http://instagram.com/magic__star___88 Follow Marie: http://instagram.com/mariekstotz Support and share with friends http://substack.com/@agonyandecstasy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

58 min
11/14/2025

Unlocked: The Agony & The Ick

Unlocked episode. The girls divulge about their various icks. Fellas, is it gay to take an uber alone? Other topics include wedding season, the Walker’s vortex, and frivolous beauty tips. Editor’s note: the sound is a little wonky in the first part due to reasons that are unclear. I tried my best to fix it! Xo Marie (editor of the pod). Follow Madison: http://instagram.com/magic__star___88 Follow Marie: http://instagram.com/mariekstotz Support and share with friends http://substack.com/@agonyandecstasy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

57 min
11/07/2025

Pen Pals and Tamagotchis

Madison and Marie discuss Lily Allen’s new album, the surprising perks of heartbreak, and experiences with long distance relationships. Is there a civilized way to slide in someone’s DMs? Would it be a good idea to date a reply guy? Follow Madison: http://instagram.com/magic__star___88 Follow Marie: http://instagram.com/mariekstotz Support and share with friends http://substack.com/@agonyandecstasy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

54 min
10/31/2025

Love Letters

First remote recording! Marie shares insight about some hot spots in Paris and the French male gaze. Madison stays home and gets a life-changing haircut (her stylist is single, btw!) The girls open up the mailbag this week and answer three listener questions. How do you balance practicality with fantasy? How do you prevent a relationship from falling into unhealthy social rhythms while you’re living together? What do you do with that person who seems right but it’s always the wrong time? Other topics include Burgundy Chardonnays, Gwyneth Paltrow’s relationship requirements, and integrating the boyfriend with the friend group. Follow Madison: http://instagram.com/magic__star___88 Follow Marie: http://instagram.com/mariekstotz Support and share with friends http://substack.com/@agonyandecstasy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

48 min
10/24/2025

It Girl Syndrome

Madison and Marie review the new Jane Birkin biography and the movie Darling by John Schlesinger. Can one be fabulous forever? Is it enough to inspire without ever creating something of your own? The girls reflect on their muses, hot moms and media references as they unpack the It Girl’s journey. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit agonyandecstasy.substack.com/subscribe

1h 13m

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Two seasoned New York City women—one, an erstwhile matchmaker with an open heart (Marie K. Stotz), the other a serial monogamist (Madison Mattox) with a healthy skepticism—talk love, lust, loss, and how to stay hopeful in a city that never settles. agonyandecstasy.substack.com

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Madison & Marie
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