Love At Any Age with Laurie Gerber

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Feeling discouraged, “out of practice,” attracting the same men, losing hope, not trusting your choices, or feeling invisible in the dating world? Love at Any Age with Laurie Gerber is your weekly guide for navigating midlife dating: you’ll get emotional prep, tactical coaching, mindset shifts, proven dating tools, messaging help, and real stories from women just like you. If you’re a woman over 50 who’s done the work but still struggling with love, Love at Any Age is for you. This podcast speaks to women navigating dating after divorce, widowhood, or just a desire for a better partnership next time. Subscribe if you want to date with intention, feel empowered again, and build a love life that fits who you are now. You’re not done. Love has no expiration date.

  1. 12H AGO

    Ep 16: The Truth About Casual Dating After Divorce

    Can you really find passionate, healthy love after a devastating divorce at 50?  This episode is less about theory and more about lived experience. Lauren Handel Zander, my coach and mentor, walks through the emotional aftermath of divorce, the mistakes she made, the phases she moved through, and the unexpected way love eventually arrived. Dating after divorce over 50 can feel intimidating, discouraging, or flat-out hopeless, especially when you believe the good ones are gone. This episode is an unusually candid conversation about what really happens after divorce, and it’s designed for women over 50 who want both companionship and passion without settling. Dating After Divorce Tips: This is our first episode entirely dedicated to giving people hope about dating after divorce! We cover: 💔 The moment Lauren knew her marriage was over 🌱 How she knew she was ready to date again 🔄 The three distinct stages of dating after divorce 🧹 The definition of creating a “clean scene” and what it looks like 📱 How she worked video chat and dating apps differently than expected 🔥 The moment it stopped being casual and how casual caused healing 💞 Why this relationship worked when others did not 😲 The big reveal at the end that shocked me the most Dating After Divorce Topic List & Timestamps 00:00–03:05 The Shock of Divorce  Lauren shares how she was blindsided after 25 years of marriage and what the first year really looked like emotionally. 03:05–10:16 The “Gap Year” After Divorce  Why she revisited old crushes, what she learned, and how this stage rebuilt her confidence. 10:16–19:48 Dating Apps Over 50 and the Clean Scene  Her strict rules for Bumble, fast video calls, ruthless deleting, and why she refused to waste time. 19:48–27:16 Responsible Hookups vs Adults with Potential  How she separated casual dating from long-term prospects and applied Head, Heart, and Hoo-Ha differently. 27:16–33:01 When Casual Turned Into Something More  The moment that changed everything and revealed emotional availability in action. 33:01–39:15 Age Gaps, Culture, and Family Challenges  Navigating an age gap, family dynamics, and blending lives in midlife. 39:15–47:32 Why You Cannot Settle in Midlife Dating  What it takes to attract a partner who meets you on all 3 levels and why healing work matters. 47:32–End Next Week…  Laurie previews next week’s episode on how to tell if someone is emotionally available and what to look for before you invest months or years. Resources Mentioned ✅ Inner.U Love course by Lauren Handel Zander: https://inner-u.mykajabi.com/laurie-inneru-sales-page If you want guidance navigating dating over 50 without burnout, confusion, or settling, start here: 👉 Join Laurie’s free webinar and explore her coaching resources at https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar Stay Connected With Laurie Gerber YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/

    49 min

  2. FEB 12

    4 Reasons You Keep Choosing the Wrong Man | Epi 15

    Do you keep picking badly? This episode focuses on breaking toxic dating cycles, understanding why you attract the wrong men, and recognizing how family of origin trauma in dating influences attraction, chemistry, and choice. Laurie walks through the 4 most common unconscious patterns that lead women toward emotionally unavailable men and shows you how to start fixing those dating mistakes. Dating after 50 can feel discouraging when you keep ending up with the same kind of relationship, even though you believe you are choosing differently. In this episode, Laurie Gerber explains why so many women over 50 repeat the same patterns and how to interrupt them before they derail another relationship. In this episode, Laurie covers: The red flags most people can work through, and the ones they cannot Why dating after 50 often repeats familiar patterns instead of creating new outcomes The hidden reason emotionally unavailable men feel so compelling How family of origin trauma shapes attraction and chemistry The difference between potential, intensity, and real compatibility Where women most often override their own instincts while dating How to pick the right partner without relying on hope or chemistry alone Timestamps for the Choosing Wrong Man Episode 00:00–01:59  Why You Keep Choosing the Wrong Person (And How to Stop)  Laurie sets up the core problem this episode tackles: repeating dating patterns that leave smart women feeling discouraged and stuck. 02:00–03:17  The 3H Method: Head, Heart, and Attraction Explained  An overview of the 3H method and why ignoring any one of these three voters almost guarantees dating the wrong person again. 03:17–05:08  The 4 Hidden Reasons You Repeat the Same Dating Pattern  Laurie introduces the four unconscious drivers that quietly shape who you feel drawn to and why insight alone has not been enough to change them. 05:08–08:59  Familiar Feels Safe Even When It Hurts (Family of Origin Patterns)  How early family dynamics wire attraction and why chemistry often points toward what is unfinished rather than what is healthy. 09:00–11:10  Overriding Your Head, Heart, or Attraction in Dating  Examples of how women silence one part of themselves to make dating work, and why that internal override always comes back to cost you. 11:10–13:27  Selling Out on What You Want (And Why It Backfires)  Laurie explains how exhaustion, loneliness, and fear lead to compromises that feel practical in the moment but undermine long-term love. 13:27–16:07  Where You Abandon Yourself in Early Dating  A look at the exact moments women ignore red flags, rationalize discomfort, or stop listening to their own inner signals. 16:07–18:34  Dating Rules That Stop You From Repeating Old Patterns  Why clear rules and external accountability matter, including how structure protects you when attraction clouds judgment. 18:34–22:08  Confusing Potential With Reality in Midlife Dating  Laurie breaks down how hope and investment distort decision-making and offers practical ways to assess real compatibility instead. 22:08–25:03  What Is Actually a Dealbreaker (And What Isn’t)  A grounded distinction between issues couples can work through and core mismatches that should not be negotiated away. 25:03–28:40  Mistaking Intensity for Intimacy (Chemistry, Trauma Bonding, Love Bombing)  How emotional highs, fast closeness, and shared wounds can feel like connection while masking serious incompatibilities. 28:40–34:46  Valentine’s Day Reset: How to Pick Differently This Time  Laurie reframes Valentine’s Day as a reset for love and offers a mindset shift to help you choose more consciously going forward. A quick invitation if you want help with this If you are listening to this and thinking, oh wow, this explains a lot, I want to make sure you know there is a next step if you want support applying this to your own dating life. I teach all of this in much more detail in my free training called 3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love. It walks you through how to date using your head, your heart, and your attraction together, so you stop second-guessing yourself and stop repeating the same patterns. If you want help figuring out where you sell out, what actually matters to you now, and how to pick differently next time, you can watch it here: https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar It is a great place to start if you are serious about changing how you date. 🔗 Links & Resources 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age Stay connected with Laurie: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/ 📩 Email me directly at: lauriegerbercoach@gmail.com

    35 min

  3. FEB 4

    6 Secrets to Sex over 50 from an 82-year old Expert | EPI #14

    Is Sex over 50 scaring you? Laurie Gerber sits down with internationally recognized sexuality expert Joan Price (age 82) to talk openly about how desire changes, why and how pleasure is still available, and what midlife women need to unlearn in order to feel confident pursuing healthy, exciting intimacy after 50. Joan shares insights from more than 20 years of work helping midlife women and older navigate sex through menopause, dating after loss, and in long-term relationships where bodies, hormones, and expectations have changed. This episode is a shame-free, practical conversation about what is possible when women understand how desire actually works later in life. In This Episode, Laurie Covers – Dating Over 50, Sex Over 50, and Midlife Desire The two kinds of desire and how desire shifts in midlife from mainly one to mainly the other If you are thinking about opting out of sex over 50, the one question you need to ask yourself first The biggest mistake people make when talking to a partner about sex and how to avoid it A mistaken assumption Laurie held about what men want, especially what men want over 60 The real definition of erectile dysfunction, and why Laurie realized she had it wrong The biggest myth about grief and sex, and why it keeps women stuck after loss Timestamps – Midlife Dating Tips and Sex Over 50 00:00 – 02:45 | Women Over 50 Dating and the Unspoken Sex Obstacle Laurie introduces the episode and explains why doubts about sex often block women from fully engaging in dating after 50. 02:46 – 07:30 | Sex Over 50 and What Has Changed Since Our Younger Years Joan explains why bodies, hormones, and expectations shift with age and why that does not mean desire disappears. 07:31 – 14:30 | Dating Over 50 and the Two Types of Desire A clear explanation of spontaneous desire versus responsive desire and why this distinction matters so much for midlife women. 14:31 – 21:15 | Flirting Over 50 and Talking About Sex Without Shame How to communicate wants and boundaries in a way that builds connection rather than defensiveness. 21:16 – 29:40 | Erectile Dysfunction and Erection Problems in Male Partners Joan breaks down erectile dysfunction versus normal age-related erection changes and why pleasure does not depend on penetration. 29:41 – 37:45 | Sex for Menopause, Lubrication, and Practical Workarounds Realistic, practical tools that support comfort, arousal, and pleasure for midlife women. 37:46 – 43:10 | Dating After 50 When Grief Is Part of the Story Why there is no universal timeline for sex or dating after loss and how women can trust their own readiness. 43:11 – 49:30 | Midlife Women, Hope, and Rewriting the Rules of Intimacy Joan shares her personal journey and what she wishes women between 50 and 90 understood about desire and connection. Why Sex for Menopause Changes Midlife Dating Sex for menopause requires a different understanding of arousal, timing, and pressure. Joan explains why slower warm-up, less goal-oriented sex, and clearer communication actually create more pleasure for both partners. This reframing helps women release the belief that desire is supposed to appear instantly in order to be real. What Men Want Over 60 and Why Women Over 50 Misread the Signals Many women assume that what men want has not changed, when in reality, aging bodies affect men too. Joan explains why men over 60 often want clarity, reassurance, and collaboration more than performance and why instructions are not criticism when delivered with care. Links & Resources – Women Over 50 Dating Support 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age Webinar: Great Sex Without Penetration https://joanprice.com/product/great-sex-without-penetration Get books at Joan Price’s website (autographed books and resources): https://joanprice.com/books Lubes: https://joanprice.com/2024/04/wicked-sensual-care-sexual-lubricant.html Sex Toy Reviews: https://joanprice.com/tag/sex-toys Stay Connected With Laurie – Dating Advice Over 50 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/ What’s Next – Midlife Dating Tips Next week, Laurie tackles a topic many women over 50 dating struggle with: how to stop picking the same kind of man over and over again, just in time for Valentine’s Day. If you want more support right now, visit https://lauriegerber.com/webinar to watch Laurie’s free webinar and explore tools designed specifically for women navigating dating after 50.

    45 min

  4. JAN 29

    Dating After 50: The 10-Step Guide for Getting Ready (When You’re Done Wasting Time)

    Getting Ready to Date Again After 50 with Intentional Dating Getting ready to date again after 50 requires more than choosing the right app. In this episode of Love at Any Age, Laurie shares midlife dating tips designed to help women over 50 approach dating with clarity, confidence, and intention. If dating after 50 has felt exhausting, confusing, or disappointing, this conversation reframes dating readiness as a skill set you can build step by step. Laurie walks through the 10 readiness factors she has seen consistently predict success for midlife women who find healthy love. These are the same principles she has tested over 20 years of coaching women over 50 dating in real life and online. Whether you are returning to dating after divorce, widowhood, or a long break, this episode focuses on how to prepare for dating in a way that feels grounded, self-respecting, and sustainable. In This Episode: Midlife Dating Tips for Women Over 50 Dating with Confidence ✅ Why dating readiness matters more than chemistry ✅ The biggest mistakes women make when getting ready to date again ✅ What intentional dating actually looks like after 50 ✅ How mindset shapes who you attract ✅ The preparation most women skip and later regret Timestamps: How to Prepare for Dating After 50 00:00 – 01:30 | Why dating readiness matters more than the app you choose Laurie explains why intentional dating starts before you ever create a profile. 01:30 – 04:05 | Reframing your relationship history as growth How women over 50 dating again can release shame and use the past as wisdom. 04:05 – 06:56 | Clearing energetic and emotional space for new love Why unfinished connections block dating readiness and what to do instead. 06:56 – 08:42 | Body confidence and dating after 50 How your relationship with your body affects attraction and intimacy. 08:42 – 10:41 | Defining what you actually want before you date Why clarity prevents wasted time and disappointment in midlife dating. 10:41 – 13:25 | Asking better questions in early dating How spark questions support intentional dating and better decision-making. 13:25 – 15:44 | Dating mindset over 50 and limiting beliefs Why mindset is not optional when dating after 50. 15:44 – 17:40 | Letting go of negative dating talk How language shapes confidence and dating outcomes. 17:40 – 21:39 | Choosing the right dating site for women over 50 How to decide between platforms like Match.com, eHarmony, Facebook Dating, and Meetup. 21:39 – 24:29 | Writing profiles that attract the right partners Why specificity beats clichés in dating after 50. 24:29 – 28:32 | Photos that communicate confidence and warmth How great photos support dating with confidence and authenticity. 28:32 – 30:27 | Final encouragement and what is coming next A preview of next week’s conversation on sex and love after 50. You’ll Learn: Midlife Dating Tips to Support Dating Readiness ✅ How to know if you are truly ready to date again ✅ What intentional dating looks like in midlife ✅ How to avoid repeating old relationship patterns ✅ Why preparation builds dating confidence ✅ How mindset influences attraction after 50 Links & Resources 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age 🎓 Free Webinar: https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar Referenced Episodes and Resources Season 1, Episode 2: Detoxing from past relationships https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=F4F6eEZ5j18 Season 1, Episode 3: Learning from relationship history https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A53BiuAiw6o Season 1, Episode 6: Spark questions and early dating https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rNcaQKJxBqA Season 1, Episode 9: Body image and self-confidence https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8W5KKb93h8E Season 1, Episode 12 with Evan Marc Katz on dating profiles https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sawFhaAk5NQ Watch the Webinar If you want help creating clarity around what you are looking for before dating again, watch Laurie’s free webinar and build your personal clarity framework: 👉 https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar Coming Next: Sex, Desire, and Dating After 50 Laurie is joined by Joan Price for a candid conversation about sex, desire, and love after 50, including myths about intimacy, desire differences, and erectile dysfunction. This is an explicit and deeply hopeful conversation you will not want to miss. Stay Connected with Laurie YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/

    31 min

  5. JAN 22

    Dating Over 50: A Sneak Peek at Love at Any Age Season 2

    How this season will help you date with confidence again Finding Love Over 50, After Divorce, and Beyond This short preview episode sets the stage for what’s coming next on Love at Any Age, especially for women focused on finding love over 50 and navigating dating in a new chapter of life.   Laurie Gerber shares how Season 2 builds directly on the foundation of Season 1while introducing exciting new guests, deeper conversations, and highly practical guidance for women over 50 who want to date with more confidence, clarity, and momentum. Season 2 is shaped by three things: your YouTube comments, Laurie’s 20+ years of coaching experience, and the real-life challenges her clients are facing right now.  The goal is simple but ambitious: to help you show up stronger, more prepared, and less shaken by the inevitable bumps of dating—so healthy, lasting love becomes more likely and less painful. 🎙️ Special Guests for Finding Love After Divorce & Over 50 Laurie previews several standout guests who will be joining her this season: Joan Price — An expert on sex and intimacy for adults 50+, joining Laurie for honest conversations about desire styles, libido differences, erectile dysfunction, and how intimacy evolves in midlife. Lauren Handel-Zander — Laurie’s own coach and the creator of the Head-Heart-Hoo-Ha framework. Lauren shares her personal story of navigating an unexpected divorce in her 50s and how she found new love using the very tools she teaches. Dominique Sachse — A podcaster who inspired Laurie to start Love at Any Age. Dominique opens up about a very public breakup, a surprising rekindling of an old romance, and how that relationship became the healthiest love of her life. This will be a special “hope episode” designed to remind you what’s possible. 🔮 Season 2 Topics: Dating After Divorce & Over 50 Women Dating Season 2 launches around Valentine’s Day and dives into the questions women over 50 ask most when they’re ready to date again—or already dating and feeling discouraged. Here’s a preview of what’s coming: How to Get Ready to Date Again A highly actionable Top 10 list for women who think this might be their year to seriously pursue love, drawn from the most common obstacles Laurie sees in coaching. Flirting and Sex in Midlife Dating Addressing insecurities, confidence issues, and the internal work that helps women feel comfortable and alive again in this part of dating—plus expert guidance from Joan Price. How to Stop Picking the Same Guy Again Why so many smart women know what they want—but keep choosing partners who aren’t right and how to reset your “picker” without blaming yourself. Creating Real Momentum in Dating How to move from texting to real conversations, from first dates to second dates, and how to find the sweet spot between too fast and too slow. Ghosting: Why It Happens and How to Handle It What ghosting really means, how to respond without losing confidence, and how to stop this fear from keeping you off the dating scene altogether. 💬 Laurie’s Bigger Mission: Finding Love Over 50 Without Losing Yourself Laurie is upfront: dating isn’t easy. If it were, everyone would have healthy love—and most people don’t. Season 2 is about helping you build emotional strength, resilience, and confidence so you’re not knocked down by rejection, silence, or disappointment. The focus is on developing a thicker skin without becoming guarded, staying open without being naïve, and showing up as your strongest, most present self so love has a real chance to find you. 📣 Your Voice Shapes Season 2 of Love at Any Age Some episodes are already recorded. Others are still being planned. Laurie invites you to leave comments on YouTube, Spotify, Podbean, or Apple Podcasts and tell her what you want more of—because Season 2 will continue to evolve based on what you ask for. Season 2 launches next week. New episodes drop Fridays at 7:00 a.m. Eastern. 🔗 Links & Resources for Midlife Dating 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age 💖 Ready to go deeper? Watch Laurie’s free training: 3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love 👉 https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar Stay connected with Laurie: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/

    7 min

  6. JAN 16

    Dating Over 50: What You Missed From Season One

    Avoid Modern Dating Mistakes: Watch the Whole 1st Season Dating over 50 is hard. That’s why I recorded these 12 episodes. Here’s a guide to what each episode adds to your dating foundation: Episode 1 — How to Stop Repeating the Same Dating Mistakes Learn how unconscious patterns form in dating, why smart women still repeat them, and how attending to practical needs, emotional safety, and attraction (all at once) changes everything. 🔗 https://youtu.be/na3ihxavm6g?si=JRUkJQH_lzo4Iui0 Episode 2 — How to Detox From Past Relationships Discover why unresolved pain from past relationships (and childhood dynamics) silently sabotages new love — and how to fully clear it so you can move forward without emotional baggage. 🔗https://youtu.be/F4F6eEZ5j18?si=n8rhEVFJMPGOxWf1 Episode 3 — How to Know What You Want in a Partner Move beyond vague lists and dating clichés and define what truly matters to you emotionally, practically, and romantically — so dating feels clearer and less overwhelming. 🔗 https://youtu.be/A53BiuAiw6o?si=zUm8Pf9Yx-Kw23Rt Episode 4 — How to Use the Three-Date Strategy Learn how to evaluate compatibility in real time, stay grounded while dating, and make decisions without rushing or getting stuck in uncertainty. 🔗 https://youtu.be/cfHrKi86I3s?si=IIe9MDE6MEw0wIEU Episode 5 — How to Handle Early-Stage Conflict Understand how to talk about money, sex, health, location, and other deal-breakers early — without killing attraction or avoiding the truth. 🔗 https://youtu.be/qN-d5vMFdwE?si=Foe6Wcjl3ybbdKh7 Episode 6 — The Questions to Ask Before and During the First Three Dates Get the exact framework for asking better questions, reading signals accurately, and avoiding over-investment before real compatibility is clear. 🔗 https://youtu.be/rNcaQKJxBqA?si=22G38LL8sEEWIAS- Episode 7 — The Five Dating Mistakes Women Over 50 Still Make A candid breakdown of the most common habits that sabotage dating success — and what to do instead. 🔗 https://youtu.be/g8u2GrCWsuA?si=O2m3uxaSwcQjr_K9 Episode 8 — How to Handle Rejection (Giving and Receiving) Learn how to build emotional resilience, reduce fear around dating, and handle rejection with confidence and clarity. It’s not personal. 🔗 https://youtu.be/ugW2K8_SYzw?si=B11ki0iPKJ1oH4uB Episode 9 — Self-Love, Body Image, and Dating Confidence Address how body image affects dating decisions and attraction — face the choice ahead and explore practical paths toward true confidence. 🔗 https://youtu.be/8W5KKb93h8E?si=Hv6FoS8c3qGiNaxc Episode 10 — Self-Love Obstacles That Undermine Dating Identify how family dynamics, habits, unresolved past issues, and self-esteem interfere with dating — and how to rebuild confidence through action. 🔗 https://youtu.be/8LvhNBaKBNw?si=9CjuJeR4QEei20JZ Episode 11 — Dating Sunday and How to Approach Online Dating Learn how to use dating apps strategically, reduce overwhelm, and approach online dating with the right mindset, avoiding burnout. 🔗 https://youtu.be/s9lUAAZs6o4 Episode 12 — AI, Technology, and the Future of Dating (with Evan Mark Katz) Explore how AI and technology are shaping modern dating, when they help, when they hurt, and how finding your suitable companion is likely to feel. 🔗 https://youtu.be/sawFhaAk5NQ 🔗 Links & Resources for Midlife Dating 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age Stay connected with Laurie: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/ ❤️ Online Dating Over 50? More Resources: If Season One helped you feel clearer, calmer, or more hopeful about dating, the next step is learning how to apply these tools consistently — not just understand them. The free webinar walks you through the full framework visually and practically, so you can start making different choices in real time. 🎯 Watch the training here: https://lauriegerber.com/webinar Next week, tune in for a preview of Season Two. It’s going to be epic.

    18 min

  7. JAN 8

    AI, Dating Profiles & Real Compatibility | Love at Any Age | Epi #12

    In the season finale of Love at Any Age, Laurie welcomes her very first guest: renowned dating coach Evan Marc Katz. Together, they tackle a topic that’s quietly reshaping modern dating—AI. This wide-ranging, deeply human conversation explores where technology helps, where it harms, and why outsourcing connection comes at a cost. Laurie and Evan unpack why AI-written profiles feel “off,” what true compatibility actually is (and isn’t), and how to write a dating profile that no one else on earth could replicate—without relying on algorithms to do your relating for you. If you’re dating over 50 and wondering how to stay authentic, hopeful, and effective in a tech-heavy dating world, this episode delivers clarity, reassurance, and real strategy. In This Episode, Laurie & Evan Cover: ✅ Why AI-written profiles all start to sound the same ✅ The hidden cost of frictionless dating (and why ease isn’t the goal) ✅ What “true compatibility” actually looks like—and why most people chase the wrong markers ✅ How to write a profile that makes someone deeply enticed ✅ What we mean by making the right effort Timestamps ✅ 00:00–01:07 — Season finale intro + why Laurie invited Evan Marc Katz ✅ 01:07–04:35 — Laurie’s AI dating meltdown (and why this topic matters now) ✅ 04:35–08:37 — How dating apps changed courtship—and why people feel disposable ✅ 08:37–10:57 — Mitigating dehumanization without quitting online dating ✅ 10:57–15:26 — AI-written profiles: why they’re better… and still not good enough ✅ 15:26–22:28 — The real formula for a standout dating profile (show, don’t tell) ✅ 22:28–25:26 — Why “marketing yourself” isn’t narcissistic—it’s necessary ✅ 25:26–29:29 — Can AI actually predict compatibility? (Spoiler: not yet) ✅ 29:29–33:39 — The myths people believe about compatibility—and the science that debunks them ✅ 33:39–40:10 — “Doing the work” vs making effort (and why language matters) ✅ 40:10–44:04 — What effort actually gives you: the life most people want ✅ 44:04–47:30 — Staying human in a frictionless, algorithm-driven world ✅ 47:30–51:02 — Where to find Evan + season wrap-up and what’s next Links & Resources 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age Featured Guest Evan Marc Katz Website & free resources: https://www.evanmarckatz.com/age Podcast: Love U Podcast https://www.evanmarckatz.com/the-love-u-podcast Laurie’s Resources ✅ Free webinar: 3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love  https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar The Environmental Evils of AI  https://news.mit.edu/2025/explained-generative-ai-environmental-impact-0117 Stay connected with Laurie: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/

    49 min

  8. 12/31/2025

    Dating Sunday: Your Online Dating Game Plan After 50 | Ep 11

    Dating Sunday is the biggest day of the year for online dating—and Laurie’s making the case for why it should be part of your strategy (especially if you’re dating after 50). She validates the real frustrations (catfishing, safety concerns, feeling “shopped”), then shows you how to use online dating on your own terms: start with mindset, diversify your pool, be selective about platforms, don’t rush into paying, and follow a simple plan so you don’t burn out. In This Episode, Laurie Covers: ✅ Why “Dating Sunday” can change your whole year (if you use it right) ✅ The sneaky way fear turns into a runaway train—and how to stop it ✅ The truth about choosing the “perfect” dating app (it’s not what you think) ✅ A simple rule that prevents online dating fatigue fast ✅ The small prep step that makes you way more successful in week one Timestamp ✅ 00:00–02:45 — What Dating Sunday is, and why it matters (this year: January 4) ✅ 02:45–06:35 — The real frustrations women share about apps (and why Laurie validates them) ✅ 06:35–09:40 — Your fears are data: how to sort irrational vs rational fears (plus a key “ask early” strategy) ✅ 09:40–12:32 — The “why” that keeps you in the game: benefits of healthy love (and why it helps your life) ✅ 12:32–17:34 — Five practical tips to do online dating without burnout ✅ 17:34–25:30 — How to choose a dating site (without over-fixating) + the “start slow” plan ✅ 25:30–29:08 — Paying for apps, upgrades, and staying focused on the big picture ✅ 29:08–32:10 — Homework, accountability in the comments, and next week’s season finale teaser Links & Resources 📺 Watch Past Episodes: https://lauriegerber.com/love-at-any-age ✅ Take Laurie’s “Are You Ready to Date?” 5-minute quiz (mentioned in the episode): https://lauriegerber.com/quiz ✅ Laurie’s free webinar: 3 Secrets to Finding and Maintaining Healthy Love: https://www.lauriegerber.com/webinar Stay connected with Laurie: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@lauriegerbercoach Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lauriegerber_coach/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lauriegerberdatingcoach LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauriegerber Podbean: https://lauriegerbercoach.podbean.com/

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Feeling discouraged, “out of practice,” attracting the same men, losing hope, not trusting your choices, or feeling invisible in the dating world? Love at Any Age with Laurie Gerber is your weekly guide for navigating midlife dating: you’ll get emotional prep, tactical coaching, mindset shifts, proven dating tools, messaging help, and real stories from women just like you. If you’re a woman over 50 who’s done the work but still struggling with love, Love at Any Age is for you. This podcast speaks to women navigating dating after divorce, widowhood, or just a desire for a better partnership next time. Subscribe if you want to date with intention, feel empowered again, and build a love life that fits who you are now. You’re not done. Love has no expiration date.

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