PAPA | Family Court Voice

PAPA | Family Court Voice

NEW PODCAST from @PAPA🎙️Giving a voice to those impacted by the family court and parental alienation. ❤️♻️ https://www.papaorg.co.uk

Episodes

  1. FEB 19

    EVERY CHILD MATTERS: Ian & Claire Awareness is how we fight

    What happens when a loving parent is pushed out of their child’s life by the family court system?In this deeply emotional and honest episode of the Family Court Voice Podcast, Mark is joined by Ian and Claire, founders of Every Child Matters, to talk openly about parental alienation, family courts, mental health, and the devastating impact false allegations can have on children and parents alike This episode is raw, confronting, and necessary.If you’ve experienced family court, parental alienation, or felt invisible in the system — you are not alone.00:00 Introduction to Family Court Issues02:53 Ian's Journey Through the Family Court09:58 The Impact of False Allegations17:28 Meeting at the Awareness Walk26:16 The Need for Systemic Change39:21 The Impact of Parental Alienation40:29 The Flaws in the Family Court System41:52 Finding Hope After Divorce46:28 Building Community and Support54:24 The Importance of Sharing Our Stories🧡 Support. Awareness. Change.🔎 Find & Support Every Child MattersFacebook Groups & Page: Every Child MattersTikTok: Every Child Matters📣 If this episode resonates with you:👍 Like the video💬 Share your story in the comments (you are safe here)🔔 Subscribe for more real conversations about family court & mental health🎙️ ABOUT THE PODCASTThe PAPA Family Court Voice Podcast explores family court reform, parental alienation, co-parenting, mental health, and accountability — with real conversations that challenge the system.⚠️ Disclaimer: Thoughts and views expressed are those of the speakers only and not necessarily the views of PAPA or any of its members. Family Court Voice and PAPA do not have access to any confidential court files and all interviews are reported in good faith.

    1h 5m
  2. JAN 7

    FAMILY COURT: Jason Appleyard A McKenzie Friend EXPOSES the System

    What really happens inside the Family Court system — and how does it impact fathers, mothers, and children? In this powerful episode of the Family Court Voice Podcast, Mark sits down with Jason Appleyard, founder of the Alienated Dads Network and an experienced McKenzie Friend, to talk candidly about family court, parental alienation, institutional bias, and the psychological realities parents face when navigating the system. Jason shares his deeply personal journey through family court, how it led him to support other parents, and why he believes the system operates more like theatre than justice. From litigating in person to challenging false allegations, managing fear in court, protecting children’s wellbeing, and maintaining mental health — this conversation pulls no punches. ⚠️ Content Warning: This episode discusses family court, parental conflict, emotional abuse, mental health, and child welfare. 🔗 Links mentioned in this episode: Alienated Dads Network (YouTube): https://www.youtube.com/@alienateddadsnetworkMcKenzie Friend Near Me website: https://mckenziefriendnearme.uk/💬 If you’re a parent navigating family court, or supporting someone who is, this conversation may help you feel less alone. 👍 Like, comment, and subscribe to support the podcast and help raise awareness. ⏱️ Chapters / Timestamps00:00 – “It’s all just theatre” – Jason’s opening view of Family Court00:47 – Three words to describe the Family Court system01:01 – Introduction to the Family Court Voice Podcast02:17 – Jason’s background & why he began raising awareness03:15 – Fathers for Justice, protest culture & early mistakes05:40 – Learning the system & “playing the game”07:40 – Court outcomes, difficult decisions & prioritising his daughter10:15 – Letting go of anger, accountability & personal growth12:09 – Relationships, self-awareness & emotional maturity15:59 – Why solicitors escalate conflict18:50 – Jason’s relationship with his daughter today20:17 – Helping others through Family Court21:19 – Family Court psychology & “professional gaslighting”24:08 – Institutional bias & how fathers are treated25:12 – Alienated Dads Network: YouTube & messaging28:29 – Protecting children & reducing conflict32:05 – Becoming a McKenzie Friend & supporting litigants in person35:48 – New McKenzie Friend DME website & AI tools38:40 – Solicitors vs McKenzie Friends: pros & cons40:27 – Law changes, contact centres & financial incentives43:49 – False allegations & why safe parents lose contact46:51 – Enforcement bias & double standards in court49:00 – Bigger picture: systemic issues & long-term impact Family Court UK, Parental Alienation, McKenzie Friend, Alienated Dads, Family Court Bias, Fathers Rights UK, Litigant in Person, Child Contact Orders, CAFCASS, Domestic Abuse Allegations, Family Law Podcast

    1h 3m
  3. 11/27/2025

    Jared Whitaker: Abuse Men Rarely Talk About

    In this episode, Mark sits down with author and advocate Jared to talk about male victims of abuse, parental alienation, family court failures, and the healing journey after trauma. Jared shares the shocking reality of being abused, disbelieved, and arrested after defending himself — and how writing helped him rebuild. This conversation dives deep into evidence, court bias, mental health, and how men can safely navigate abusive relationships. ⏱️ Chapters00:00 – Abuse Begins & Police Dismissal00:50 – Podcast Introduction01:09 – Jared’s Background & Career Change02:25 – Leaving Corporate Life & Writing About Abuse03:59 – Discovering a Community of Male Survivors04:11 – Writing His First Book & Continuing the Series05:57 – Abuse Is Not a Gender War06:27 – “The Words We Never Heard”08:30 – Character Awareness & Writing Style10:56 – Empaths & Abusive Dynamics11:53 – Escalation of Abuse & Self-Blame13:08 – Plot Twist & Reader Experience14:03 – How Abuse Gradually Builds15:30 – Overview of Jared’s Other Books17:34 – The Indifference of Good Men18:42 – Why Men Stay Silent20:17 – Misandry & The Forgotten Fathers21:12 – Jared’s Parental Alienation Story22:00 – How Contact Was Restricted23:31 – “I’m Scared of Him” & Court Weaponization24:32 – Perjury & No Accountability26:08 – Child Arrangement Orders Ignored27:25 – Non-Molestation Order Process29:03 – Going to the Police About Abuse30:07 – Advice for Male Victims Reporting Abuse31:32 – Hidden Cameras & Evidence Collection33:17 – The Arrest Incident34:53 – Court Ignores Evidence37:38 – Courts Empower High-Conflict Individuals38:32 – Judges Ignoring Evidence39:16 – Court Is a Money Machine40:12 – Mental Health & Therapy41:51 – Good Days & Bad Days43:02 – Writing as Therapy44:32 – Public Victim-Blaming46:00 – Gym, Exercise & Healing47:19 – Strongman Training48:28 – Strongman Figures49:52 – New Crime Novel Coming Soon50:42 – Three Things Jared Is Grateful For51:17 – Three Reforms Needed for Family Court52:34 – Three Words to Describe Family Court53:01 – Repeal of Parental Rights Discussion56:49 – Where to Find Jared 🔗 Connect with Jared📚 Books: amazon.co.uk/dp/B0D4VVJSSR🌐 Website: linktr.ee/jwhitakerauthor📸 Instagram: instagram.com/jwhitakerauthor🐦 Twitter/X: x.com/JWhitakerAuthor 💬 If you or someone you know is in an abusive relationshipDocument everything.Collect evidence safely.Reach out to support services.You’re not alone. 🔥 Hashtags#FamilyCourt #ParentalAlienation #MaleVictims #DomesticAbuse #MenMatter #Podcast #JaredAuthor #FamilyCourtReform #AbuseAwareness

    58 min
  4. 11/11/2025

    Unpacking the APPG Report: Family Court Challenges

    Mark discusses the APPG report on family separation, highlighting systemic issues in the family court system. He critiques the lack of official recognition of the report, the repetitive nature of its findings, and the ineffectiveness of proposed reforms. Mark emphasises the need for accountability, better training for professionals, and a focus on the welfare of children. He shares personal experiences and frustrations with the current system, advocating for transparency and real change. 00:00 Introduction to Family Court Issues 01:55 Overview of the APPG Report 04:38 The Family Court System: Problems and Challenges 08:56 The Role of Training and Expertise in Family Courts 10:29 Desired Outcomes and Cost Implications 11:50 Learning from International Practices 13:47 The Need for Consistency in Judicial Processes 16:37 The Impact of Delays and Accusations 18:43 Addressing Domestic Abuse Allegations 21:11 The Financial Burden of Family Courts 24:02 The Consequences of Prolonged Court Proceedings 27:10 The Role of Legal Aid and Financial Incentives 29:29 Exploring Alternative Parenting Models 31:30 The Need for Accountability in Family Court 33:18 The Importance of Data Transparency 35:21 The Flaws in Family Court Incentives 37:44 Domestic Abuse and Its Complexities 41:10 The Best Interest of the Child: A Misnomer 45:13 Training Deficiencies in Family Court Professionals 48:53 Systemic Issues in Family Law 52:37 Proposals for Reform and Improvement #familycourt #parentalalienation #domesticabuse #reform

    58 min

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NEW PODCAST from @PAPA🎙️Giving a voice to those impacted by the family court and parental alienation. ❤️♻️ https://www.papaorg.co.uk