The Healing Project: You, Me, & We

Jefferson and Rosa Jones
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Welcome to The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me and We, where personal growth meets relational intelligence. In this space, we are committed to having conversations about loving others well without losing yourself”. We are spiritual leaders, entrepreneurs and emotional health advocates. This podcast will help you to better understand God’s purpose for your life and your relationships. Through deep conversations, story-telling, and real-world solutions, we’ll inspire you to live, love, and lead from a place of healing.”

  1. Mar 10

    Staying Connected While Becoming Someone New

    In this Season 1 finale of The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me & We, Rosa and Jefferson bring the entire I Am Changing series together by exploring one powerful question: How do you keep becoming someone new without losing connection in your relationships? Throughout this season, we’ve talked about internal change, resistance, grief, uneven growth, honesty, and renegotiating relationships. In this final episode, we reflect on what it looks like to continue growing while staying connected to the people you love. Change doesn’t just affect you — it touches every relationship connected to you. In this conversation, Rosa and Jefferson explore how differentiation, honesty, and emotional maturity allow love to grow stronger rather than weaker when people change. In this episode, we discuss: ✨ What it means to stay yourself while staying connected ✨ Why healthy love allows room for two whole people ✨ How growth can deepen intimacy instead of threatening it ✨ The difference between appeasement and alignment in relationships ✨ How to honor personal growth without abandoning the people you love 🌱 Key Truths from this episode: Mature love makes room for two people. Healthy love makes room for growth — it doesn’t panic when growth shows up. Alignment protects relationships better than avoidance. Growth handled with care strengthens connection. Scripture referenced: Galatians 6:5 | 1 Corinthians 13:7 | Ephesians 4:15 As we close Season 1, we invite you to reflect on these questions: • What change am I committing to honor this year? • What change are we committing to protect in our relationships? • What are we intentionally leaving behind? 🎧 Listen or watch the episode: Visit www.thehealingpros.com/podcastor find us on YouTube, Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and all major platforms. 🤍 Support The Healing Project If this series encouraged you, consider supporting the work of The Healing Project. Your generosity helps us continue creating spaces where **faith, emotional health, and relational growth meet. 👉 http://www.thehealingpros.com/donate Thank you for walking through Season 1 with us. And remember: You can love others well without losing yourself.

    49 min

  2. Mar 4

    Renegotiating Relationships After Change (Part 2)

    In Part 2 of this powerful conversation, Rosa and Jefferson move from awareness to action — helping couples and close relationships identify unspoken expectations, rewrite outdated roles, and build healthier relational patterns. Many relationships are quietly operating on agreements no one remembers making. Over time, growth, stress, transitions, and life changes can expose assumptions that were never clearly discussed. And when that happens, tension doesn’t always mean love is failing — it often means clarity is needed. Using the powerful metaphor of renovating a house without a shared blueprint, this episode explores why growth without conversation can feel like instability — and how wisdom, understanding, and communication help relationships grow stronger instead of more fragile. In this episode, you’ll discover: ✨ What unspoken contracts are and how they form ✨ Why silent expectations create quiet resentment ✨ How to move from assumption to honest conversation ✨ What it looks like to outgrow roles with compassion ✨ Why healthy relationships require ongoing updates 🌱 Key Truths Many relationships run on agreements no one remembers making. Assumptions keep relationships stuck. Conversation creates movement. Healthy relationships are continually updated. Reflection prompts are included to help you identify where clarity and conversation may be needed in your own relationships. Click Here 🤍 Support the mission: If this series has encouraged you, consider supporting The Healing Project. You can make a tax-deductible donation or become a monthly partner at www.thehealingpros.com/donate Follow Us on Social Media YouTube: @thehealingpros Instagram: @thehealingpros Facebook: @thehealingpro Website: www.thehealingpros.com

    33 min

  3. Feb 25

    Renegotiating Relationships After Change (Part 1)

    In this episode of The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me & We, Rosa and Jefferson unpack why relationships often start to feel strained after personal growth begins. The truth is simple but powerful: relationships don’t just need love — they need updates. As people evolve, old expectations, roles, and unspoken agreements can quietly become outdated. What once felt easy can begin to feel heavy or misaligned. But tension doesn’t always mean something is wrong — sometimes it means something needs to be adjusted. In Part 1 of this conversation, we explore how to recognize when your relationship needs an update and how to begin renegotiating with wisdom, honesty, and care. 💬 In this episode, you’ll discover: ✨ Why conflict often comes from outdated expectations ✨ How emotional labor and responsibilities shift over time ✨ The hidden danger of unspoken agreements ✨ How clarity prevents resentment ✨ Why renegotiation is a sign of growth — not failure 🌱 Key Truth: Healthy relationships aren’t static — they grow, stretch, and adapt. Listen or watch Episode 19 on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Music. Visit www.thehealingpros.com/podcast 🤍 Support The Healing Project: If this episode encouraged you, consider becoming a monthly partner or making a tax-deductible gift: www.thehealingpros.com/donate Next Episode: We continue this conversation by unpacking unspoken contracts, rewriting roles, and moving from assumption to conversation.

    43 min

  4. Feb 17

    Be Honest About Where You Are

    In this episode of The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me & We, Rosa and Jefferson explore one of the most challenging parts of any relationship: the courage to be honest about where you really are. Sometimes we say we’re fine when we’re tired. Sometimes we stay quiet to avoid tension. And sometimes we hope things will improve without ever naming what’s truly happening inside us. But silence often creates more distance than honesty ever could. Scripture reminds us in Ephesians 4:15 to speak the truth in love—a reminder that honesty and kindness were never meant to be opposites. In this conversation, Rosa and Jefferson share stories and reflections about what it takes to stay connected through emotional honesty, especially when growth is uneven, feelings are complicated, or clarity hasn’t fully formed yet. In this episode, you’ll hear about: ✨ Why honesty is often harder than silence ✨ What helps people feel safe enough to tell the truth ✨ The difference between honesty and criticism ✨ How to stay connected even when you’re in different emotional places You don’t have to be fully healed to be honest. You don’t have to have everything figured out to tell the truth. And you don’t have to be in the same place to stay connected. Reflection Prompts: We’ve included reflection prompts in the show notes to help you process this conversation on your own or with someone you trust. Click here to download https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Dy2VWv... 🎧 Watch or listen to Episode 18 on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Music. Visit www.thehealingpros.com/podcast Support the mission If this episode encouraged you, consider supporting The Healing Project. Your generosity helps us continue creating spaces where faith, emotional health, and relational growth meet. 👉 [www.thehealingpros.com/donate](http://www.thehealingpros.com/donate)

    47 min

  5. Feb 10

    When One Of You Changes First

    In this episode, Jefferson and Rosa explore what happens when growth in a relationship feels uneven—when one person changes first, and the other is still catching up. Growth rarely happens at the same pace, and being “out of sync” doesn’t mean you’re out of love. They talk about why people awaken to change through different experiences—pain, insight, calling, or crisis—and how different timing doesn’t mean different commitment. They also unpack how uneven growth can create power struggles or emotional distance when one partner feels tempted to preach, correct, or withdraw. The episode highlights the difference between invitation and pressure. Invitation says, “Come with me,” while pressure says, “Catch up.” Real change is modeled through consistency, not control, and listeners are encouraged to reflect on where growth feels uneven and choose connection over competition. What listeners will walk away learning:Why growth rarely happens at the same pace in relationshipsHow to stay connected when one partner changes firstThe difference between inviting someone into growth vs. pressuring themHow to avoid superiority, silence, and emotional distanceHow uneven growth can still be shared growth when love leads🎧 Listen or watch Episode 17 on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Music. 🔗 Visit www.thehealingpros.com/podcast 🤍 Support the mission: If this episode encouraged you, consider supporting The Healing Project. You can make a tax-deductible donation or become a monthly partner at 👉 www.thehealingpros.com/donate Thank you for walking with us through this season of change — even when it comes with loss.

    47 min

  6. Feb 3

    Change Brings Loss (Even When It's Good)

    In this episode of The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me & We, Rosa and Jefferson explore a truth many people don’t talk about: even healthy change comes with loss. As we grow, we leave things behind — old habits, familiar roles, previous seasons, and earlier versions of ourselves and our relationships. And even when that change is good, it can still bring grief. In this conversation, Rosa and Jefferson normalize the mixed emotions that come with growth and remind us that gratitude and grief can exist at the same time. Together, they talk about what it means to let go of familiar roles, honor past seasons without returning to them, and make space for the emotional cost of becoming someone new. They also reflect on how relationships change through growth — how love has different shapes in different seasons — and what it looks like to hold space for each other’s grief along the way. 💬 In this episode, you’ll hear about: ✨ Why good change still involves loss ✨ How growth reshapes identity and relationships ✨ The difference between honoring the past and going back to it ✨ How couples grieve old versions of their relationship ✨ What it means to support without trying to fix 🌱 Key Truths: “Just because something is good doesn’t mean it’s not a goodbye.” “You can be grateful and grieving at the same time.” “Support doesn’t mean solving—it means staying.” 📝 Reflection Guide: We’ve created a reflection guide to help you explore what you’re gaining and what you may need to grieve in this season of change. Click here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1Zj2HoG... 🎧 Listen or watch Episode 16 on YouTube, Spotify, or Apple Music. 🔗 Visit www.thehealingpros.com/podcast 🤍 Support the mission: If this episode encouraged you, consider supporting The Healing Project. You can make a tax-deductible donation or become a monthly partner at 👉 www.thehealingpros.com/donate Thank you for walking with us through this season of change — even when it comes with loss.

    44 min

  7. Jan 27

    When People Don't Like The New You

    In this episode of The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me & We, Rosa and Jefferson talk about what happens when your internal growth becomes visible — and the people around you aren’t ready for it. Growth doesn’t just change you; it changes your relationships. When you stop over-giving, over-explaining, or abandoning yourself, the roles people were used to begin to shift. And sometimes, that makes others uncomfortable. Together, they explore why growth can trigger resistance, how boundaries often bring guilt before they bring peace, and how to tell the difference between loving feedback and subtle pressure to return to who you used to be. They also discuss how to tolerate disappointment without shrinking and what it looks like to support one another through identity shifts — especially in close relationships and marriage. In this episode, you’ll hear about: ✨ Why growth disrupts old roles and expectations ✨ The difference between feedback and resistance ✨ Why guilt is not always a sign you’re wrong ✨ How to protect your peace without disappearing ✨ What to do when one partner is changing and the other feels unsure Key Truths: “When you change, the room changes.” “Guilt is not always a signal that you’re wrong — sometimes it’s a sign that you’re growing.” “You don’t have to disappear to keep people comfortable.” If this episode encouraged you, consider supporting The Healing Project. You can make a tax-deductible donation or become a monthly partner at www.thehealingpros.com/donate Thank you for choosing growth — even when it’s uncomfortable. #TheHealingProjectPodcast #YouMeAndWe #IAmChanging #PersonalGrowth #BoundariesMatter #FaithAndHealing #RelationalWisdom #ChristianGrowth #PurposeAndPeace

    44 min

  8. Jan 20

    Change Starts Internally (Even When No One Sees It)

    In this episode of The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me & We, Rosa and Jefferson explore the quiet, often unseen phase of growth — the internal changes that happen before anything shifts on the outside. So much of transformation begins with awareness, not action. Before boundaries, before conversations, before decisions — there’s a season of rethinking, re-feeling, and re-evaluating. And that season can feel lonely, confusing, and hard to explain. Together, they unpack why internal change can feel so disruptive, how awareness always comes before behavior, and why growth often feels like loss before it feels like freedom. They also talk about how personal growth can be misunderstood as distance — especially in relationships — and what it looks like to create safety for change that isn’t fully formed yet. In this episode, you’ll hear about: ✨ Why awareness is the beginning of wisdom ✨ The emotional discomfort of outgrowing old patterns ✨ How growth is often misinterpreted as rejection ✨ What to do when you can’t fully explain your change yet ✨ How couples can navigate internal shifts with curiosity instead of assumptions 🌱 Key Truth: Some of the most important change happens quietly — and it still matters. 🤍 Support the mission: If this episode encouraged you, consider supporting The Healing Project. You can make a tax-deductible donation or become a monthly partner at 👉 www.thehealingpros.com/donate Thank you for growing with us — even in the quiet places.

    42 min
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Welcome to The Healing Project Podcast: You, Me and We, where personal growth meets relational intelligence. In this space, we are committed to having conversations about loving others well without losing yourself”. We are spiritual leaders, entrepreneurs and emotional health advocates. This podcast will help you to better understand God’s purpose for your life and your relationships. Through deep conversations, story-telling, and real-world solutions, we’ll inspire you to live, love, and lead from a place of healing.”

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  • Creator
    Jefferson and Rosa Jones
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    20
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Jefferson and Rosa Jones