In this episode of our Transformation Series, we look at how to build a peer learning community across organizations you don't control. One of the most important design choices turns out to be knowing when to step out of the room. Our guest is Lee Fabiaschi, Principal at Ares Management and Director of the Ares Charitable Foundation. She leads a learning community for the Foundation's nonprofit partners, who are working to remove barriers to economic mobility. Lee designs workshops, runs one-on-one organizational consultations, and connects leaders facing similar challenges so they can learn from each other. Lee explains how the community changed across two cohorts. The 2025 pilot offered a broad foundation across measurement, learning, evaluation, and storytelling for participants at every level. Participant feedback then shaped the 2026 cohort, which was built around an in-person kickoff, individual consultations, and peer "braintrust groups" that meet without the funder present. She also shares how she drives engagement without any authority over participants, and why the simplest way to get started is to call it a pilot. In this conversation, we explore: 🚪 Know When to Leave the Room: Having the funder present changes how openly people talk about fundraising gaps, hiring challenges, and organizational struggles. Lee's team now sees its role as building the container and connecting the dots, then stepping back so peers can learn from each other. She shares that sometimes she has to sit on her hands. 🔦 Go Deep: Year-one focus groups and surveys surfaced big topics like measurement, learning, evaluation, and storytelling. Building on that foundation, Lee's team went deep in 2026 with consultations tailored to each organization. 🧩 Designing the Container, Step by Step: The 2026 cohort kicked off in person in Asheville, North Carolina, because some of the most meaningful connections happen in moments you can't architect. Next came months of labor-intensive consultations with each organization and small peer braintrust groups that rotate who brings a challenge. 🎁 Driving Engagement Without Authority: Participation is opt-in, with a clear upfront ask: a year-long commitment to monthly meetings. $500 individual learning credits, and a one-time $5,000 capacity-building fund for each of the six organizations make the "what's in it for me" tangible. Beyond that, Lee is "not above begging and cheerleading." 📏 Measure the Ripple, Then Call It a Pilot: Some sessions delivered their value weeks or months later. For 2027, Lee wants better ways to measure that ripple effect. Her advice: get a real pulse on what your learners need, avoid over-architecting, and launch it as a pilot so you have room to evolve.This conversation is packed with practical lessons for anyone in L&D, OD, or community building who wants peer learning that lasts. Lee's thoughtful, feedback-driven approach is a reminder that the real goal isn't for people to learn from you. It's for them to learn from each other. 🖥️ Shapeshifters Website:https://www.makeshapes.com/shapeshifters 🔗 Connect with Lee: Lee Fabiaschi on LinkedIn Ares Management 🔗 Connect with us: Makeshapes on LinkedIn Makeshapes on X Makeshapes on Instagram Makeshapes on Facebook Makeshapes on TikTok