Kinda Religious

Eli Zaffirini
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Exploring religion, spirituality, and skepticism through real stories. No debates. No shouting. Just thoughtful conversations about how we find meaning, identity, and connection in a changing world.

  1. 4d ago

    The Dead Will Return To Haunt Us

    Death scholar Dr. Candi Cann joins Kinda Religious for a wide-ranging, often funny conversation about how we deal with death. We cover why COVID didn't change how we talk about dying, DIY versus traditional funerals, and what food means in death rituals. We also get into why "the dead will return to haunt us," how grief theory has changed, the corporatization of funeral homes, and mourning through apps, VR and AI. Dr. Cann’s Website: https://www.candikcann.com Topic Timestamps 0:27 – Intro and guest bio1:16 – Did COVID change how we talk about death? (Not much. Will-writing is still around 50%.)5:00 – Comparing COVID with the 1920s flu epidemic, and "trauma fatigue"8:39 – DIY and personalized funerals versus traditional ritual11:35 – Arlington burials and the comfort of ritual15:35 – Food in death rituals across cultures16:17 – Dying to Eat, Peter Brown and feeding tubes at early Christian graves17:36 – Sin eaters in the Middle Ages18:55 – Offerings in China, Buddhism, and Jewish and Muslim round foods (bagels, couscous)22:18 – Recipes as a connection to the dead: grandma's recipe box, a family cookbook, recipes on headstones, "XXX" in rum balls31:08 – "The dead will return to haunt us," The Body Keeps the Score, and ghosts and Geist35:06 – 9/11 versus COVID: why we memorialize one and not the other41:53 – How American mourning has changed over fifty years42:21 – Kübler-Ross and stage models versus the dual process model and continuing bonds46:18 – Corporatization of the funeral industry (the "McDonald's of funeral homes," funeral homes owned by hospitals in Korea, and the funeral home that bakes cookies)51:06 – Funeral food, and grief as physical work52:57 – Social media and grief55:00 – Technology and mourning: candle apps, Chinese tomb-sweeping apps, Singapore columbarium livestreams, virtual grave tending57:33 – AI replicas, chatbots and the VR reunion in the Korean show Missing You1:02:30 – What makes a good death (hospice, death doulas, agency)1:04:06 – Closing question

  2. Oct 13

    Satanic Minister to Label Pacifist

    In this episode, Stephen Long shares his journey from Satanism to a broader understanding of spirituality, exploring the history of Satanism, its cultural perceptions, and personal practices that foster transcendence and community. Discover how religious identities evolve and the importance of pluralism in modern spiritual life. Links: Stephen Bradford Long's Website: https://stephenbradfordlong.com/Stephen's Sacred Tension Substack: https://sacredtension.substack.com/Sacred Tension Podcast: https://sacredtension.substack.com/podcastSacred Tension Podcast on Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/3KR4hS0sBuYSrkzWgO5Cq8 Topic Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Stephen Long's Journey and Background 02:01 The Crumbling of Christian Faith and Search for Non-Theistic Religion 03:52 The Appeal of Satanism and Its Cultural Expressions 07:14 Literary and Cultural Influences on Satanic Identity 10:07 The Different Traditions of Satanism and Their Inspirations 14:54 The Evolution of Satanic Symbols and Rituals 20:01 The Relationship Between Satanism and Social Justice 24:59 The Impact of the Satanic Panic and Cultural Myths 29:55 Personal Transition Away from Satanism and Search for Transcendence 39:52 The Power of Rituals in Healing Religious Trauma 50:01 The Role of Pluralism and Religious Freedom Today 59:59 Practices and Beliefs in Modern Spirituality and Personal Rituals 01:09:49 The Practice of the Headless Way and Non-Duality

  3. Sep 29

    "America is in Her Deconstruciton Era"

    In this episode, atheist and ex-Christian content creator Ruth Reck shares her journey through religious spaces, her deconstruction of faith, and her insights into how religion influences culture and politics. She discusses her visits to religious sites, her views on spirituality, and the importance of understanding different faith communities. Links: https://www.ruthreckmedia.com/ https://www.instagram.com/diaryofruthreck/ https://www.tiktok.com/@diaryofruthreck https://diary-of-ruth-reck-shop.fourthwall.com/ Topic Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Ruth Reck and her journey 01:53 Visit to the Ark Encounter and creationist beliefs 03:53 Experiences at the Creation Museum and its displays 06:47 Debate over evidence and scientific validity of creationism 09:59 The emotional impact of religious displays and their insensitivity 14:59 Ruth's personal religious background and deconstruction 20:01 The influence of religion on politics and society 25:00 Comparison of mega church experiences and their atmosphere 30:14 The beauty and awe of religious architecture like mosques 34:59 The commercialization and grift within religious institutions 39:46 Ruth's journey through Egypt and her reflections on religious sites 44:48 The role of religion in community service and social good 49:49 Spirituality, personal beliefs, and the search for meaning 54:57 The impact of religious indoctrination and deconstruction 59:59 The importance of understanding diverse faith communities

  4. Aug 18

    Teaching the Bible in Public Schools

    This episode explores the controversy surrounding the Texas State Board of Education's new K-12 reading list, which heavily features Protestant Christian texts and biblical stories. Blake Ziegler, Field Organizer for Texas and National Campaigns at the Religious Action Center of Reform Judaism, discusses the implications for religious freedom, diversity, and education in public schools. Resources: https://rac.org/blog/texas-public-schools-will-require-bible-readings-students-take-action-nowhttps://www.texastribune.org/2026/06/25/texas-education-board-judeo-christian-required-reading-list/ Topic Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to the Texas reading list controversy 04:03 Public transparency and community response 07:55 Religious representation and translation issues 12:11 Concerns about teaching religion in public schools 16:00 The role of Judeo-Christian rhetoric and its implications 20:11 Balancing religious diversity and constitutional principles 24:01 The significance of the George Washington letter 27:48 The impact of translation choices on religious understanding 31:56 The future of religious education in Texas 35:48 Critiques of specific texts and interpretations 40:03 The misuse of Judeo-Christian rhetoric and its effects 42:06 The erasure of other faiths and the importance of inclusivity 44:02 The role of religious studies and respectful education 45:58 The importance of diverse perspectives in religious education 47:50 Partnerships with faith communities and advocacy groups 49:47 Teaching about religion versus teaching religion 51:50 The significance of multiple translations and interpretations 53:57 Creating a respectful and inclusive learning environment 56:09 Personal spiritual practices and community connection 57:49 Final thoughts and future outlook

  5. Aug 4

    Something Real: Artificial Intelligence and Intimacy

    Pastor and professor Michael Grayston talks about what artificial intelligence may be doing to our relationships, our work, and even our spiritual lives. His concern is what happens when a helpful tool begins to function as a friend, counselor, romantic partner, or spiritual authority. We discuss AI companionship, loneliness, job displacement, prayer, creativity, and what Michael calls “counterfeit intimacy”—as well as his hope that, in a world increasingly filled with artificial voices, people will begin to crave something real. Topic Timestamps: 00:00 The Influence of AI on Human Relationships04:32 The Dangers of Dependence on AI and Technology33:43 The Impact of AI on Writing and Creativity37:19 The Dangers of Counterfeit Relationships41:45 The Role of Faith Leaders in Addressing AI Challenges43:49 The Importance of Human Connection and Authenticity47:47 The Use of AI in Churches and Faith Communities58:06 Navigating AI and Spiritual/Moral Advice01:02:04 The Significance of Knowledge and Love

  6. Jul 21

    Exploring Sacred Spaces

    Travel content creator Taylor Parr shares his incredible stories of global travel (about 40 countries in all), exploring religious sites, cultural traditions, and the profound impact of travel on his worldview. Discover how these experiences deepen understanding, challenge stereotypes, and inspire a life of gratitude and connection. Links: Taylor on Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/travelwithtparr/Taylor on TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@travelwithtparrTaylor on YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@travelwithtparrStarkey Hearing Foundation - https://www.starkeyhearingfoundation.org/ Topic Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction to Taylor Parr and his travel background 02:44 - How healthcare mission work sparked Taylor’s love for travel 06:17 - Traveling with friends and family: first trips and expanding horizons 08:44 - Visiting religious sites: Egypt's Karnak Temple and biblical connections 10:21 - Growing up Lutheran and exploring biblical sites around the world 12:50 - Experiencing the energy of Jerusalem and the Mount of Olives 15:35 - Traveling to conflict zones: Syria and the realities of war-torn environments 19:44 - Visiting destruction in Aleppo and the resilience of its people 25:51 - Visiting mosques in Turkey, Pakistan, and learning about Islamic traditions 33:14 - The impact of documenting travel through YouTube and preserving memories 41:50 - Navigating stereotypes and misconceptions about places like Afghanistan 49:25 - How travel broadens understanding of religion and belief systems 51:42 - Experiences that influence worldview and faith 54:32 - Visiting Turkey's Christian sites and early church history 58:18 - Discovering lesser-known religious sites and symbols around the world 62:23 - Power of seeing joy in unexpected places: Congo orphanage story 66:42 - Connecting with higher power through service and helping others 67:38 - Reflection on gratitude and building love and connections in life 70:13 - Final thoughts: travel as a pathway to spiritual and cultural understanding

  7. Jul 7

    Religious Freedom in the U.S. Military

    In this episode, Cara Schulz discusses the challenges faced by religious minorities in the U.S. Military, the importance of religious freedom, and her personal journey into paganism. She highlights the impact of military policies on religious recognition and shares insights on pagan ethics, community, and resilience. Resources: Cara’s Religious News Service Article: https://religionnews.com/2026/06/08/i-was-a-pagan-in-the-military-before-we-had-rights-were-going-back/ Cara Schulz - Personal Website: https://caraschulz.com  Topic Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Religious Freedom 02:02 The Impact of Military Codes on Religious Minorities 05:08 The Role of AI in Political Discussions 08:04 Experiences of Being a Minority in the Military 08:08 The Evolution of Religious Recognition in the Military 08:08 The Veteran Pentacle Quest and Its Significance 08:26 Understanding Hellenic Paganism 11:43 Personal Journey to Hellenic Paganism 30:10 Understanding Achilles: Hubris and Community Values 34:53 Pagan Ethics: A Deep Dive into Moral Frameworks 39:06 Misconceptions of Paganism: Distinguishing Between Paganism and Witchcraft 44:09 Respectful Inquiry: Engaging with Pagan Beliefs 50:26 Freedom and Community: The Ongoing Struggle for Religious Acceptance 58:36 Rituals and Reflections: The Spiritual Significance of Monthly Practices

  8. Jun 23

    Finding Freedom in Flexibility

    Therapist Danielle Kaplan shares insights on dialectical thinking, the importance of flexibility in life, and how ancient philosophies influence modern therapy. She discusses practices that resonate with Jewish tradition like dialectical behavior therapy, mindfulness, and contingency planning to help create a meaningful life. Resources: Danielle’s Practice: http://www.keepaustincentered.com The Order of Time by Carlo Rovelli: https://www.amazon.com/Order-Time-Carlo-Rovelli/dp/0735216118  Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT): https://behavioraltech.org/what-is-dbt/ Topic Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction 02:19 Exploring Identity and Cultural Judaism 05:02 Dialectical Thinking and Its Applications 07:32 Understanding Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) 10:03 Acceptance and Change in Therapy 12:47 Mindfulness and Eastern Philosophical Influences 15:31 The Nature of Truth and Non-Judgment 18:10 Contradictory Ideas in Judaism 20:11 The Role of Rituals and Structure in Grief 22:41 Contingency Planning and Flexibility in Life 24:54 Conclusion and Reflections on Therapy and Life 35:52 The Power of Grieving and Celebrating Mindfully 36:51 Coping Ahead: Preparing for the Worst 38:01 The Nature of Fear and Anticipation 38:48 Finding Freedom from Anxiety 40:45 The Role of Rituals in Life 42:22 Belief vs. Practice in Spirituality 44:26 Creating Meaning through Actions 45:51 The Importance of Doing 47:32 Hope as a Verb 49:10 The Impact of Social Media on Mental Health 55:21 Building a Life Worth Living 01:00:46 The Significance of Rituals and Fire

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Exploring religion, spirituality, and skepticism through real stories. No debates. No shouting. Just thoughtful conversations about how we find meaning, identity, and connection in a changing world.

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  • Creator
    Eli Zaffirini
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    29
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2026 Eli Zaffirini