Cassandra Uncaged: Hope For Christian Women In Neurodiverse Marriage | Cassandra Syndrome, Asperger Marriage, Autistic Spouse

Libby Clark - Cassandra Uncaged; Hope For Christian Women In Neurodiverse Marriage
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Are you tired of feeling all alone in your neurodiverse marriage, and no one quite understanding or believing what you go through? Would you like a personal shepherdess to guide you OUT of the VALLEYS of neurodiversity…INTO life-giving green pastures — nourishment for your soul? I was a very sad and confused wife for 32 years, when my husband was finally diagnosed with Asperger’s in 2017. Now going on 40 years of marriage, we have an amazing story to share, and I’ve come out on the other side, victorious. It’s not that I’ve arrived – it’s that I’m successfully learning how to center myself afresh in Jesus every day, because I need to, every day! There is an enemy that never takes a vacation from trying to feed lies to us. Neurodiversity is challenging enough! We can’t afford to be letting lies in. Come on the journey with me, my Cassandra-friend, and I’ll lead you to green pastures to heal your soul, so that no matter what is happening around you, you can be your healthiest version – who God created you to be. And you might be pleasantly surprised at how others around you respond to this healthy new version of you! YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIVE THE WAY YOU’VE BEEN LIVING ANY MORE! Hope REALLY IS on the way. Allow MY breakthrough to make a way for YOUR breakthrough! Open the curtains, get your song back, and step into your story of origin, adding a joy-filled chapter! Let’s create a community of thriving (not just surviving) women!!!!

  1. 11H AGO

    E18 | 5. God Defends a Wife In a Neurodiverse Marriage — And Acts In Her Silence

    How does a wife in a neurodiverse marriage disconnect the unhealthy attachment that exists and allow God to defend her? How can she experience tangible emotional safety and relief? In today’s episode, Libby and her husband, Steve, continue their story, and you will hear how a beautiful transition unfolded for Libby, who once felt like a crumpled woman in the corner. Stick around for the activation and experience this for yourself. You don’t have to live in despair. Hope is on the way. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    25 min

  2. FEB 2

    E17 | 4. In A Neurodiverse Marriage, Departing the False System Becomes The Grand Wake Up

    Would you describe your neurodiverse marriage as a false system? When others look in from the outside, does it look mostly OK, and no one has any idea of its true reality? How do you depart from a false system? What does it take to wake up a mindblind husband so he can choose to fight for his marriage? In today’s episode, Libby shares her story, revealing that ultimately strength and virtue win, allowing God’s light to pierce through the mindblindness, which reveals the truth to your husband. Hear the encouraging outcome that made Steve fight for his marriage. Hope is on the way! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    23 min

  3. JAN 26

    E16 | 3. A Wife In Neurodiversity Can Become a Mirror He Can’t Escape: Telling My Husband He Had Asperger’s

    In neurodiversity, the traits of ASD that mimic narcissism can feel like hopelessness to an exhausted and discouraged wife who is trying to get through to him. What does it take to hold up a mirror to a husband in such a way that he can process the reflection of who he is and how he shows up? How can a wife withstand the storm of initial resistance? Libby and her husband, Steve, share their story of how Libby told Steve he had Asperger’s and offer hope-filled tips on withstanding the storm. Be encouraged! Books mentioned in today’s show; A Very Late Diagnosis Of Asperger’s Syndrome Alone, Together Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    25 min

  4. JAN 19

    E15 | 2. When A Wife In Neurodiversity Refuses to Play His Game

    This episode continues our 7-part series on When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage. Libby will share a story of how she learned to disengage from the game that evolves out of the narcissistic-swirl within Asperger traits. Her husband Steve’s insight adds valuable understanding of how those with Asperger’s resist any change to rigid patterns, but also how important it is to break through that resistance. Libby and Steve’s breakthrough can be yours! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    21 min

  5. JAN 12

    E14 | 1. A Wife’s Virtue Exposes The Darkness Within Narcissistic Asperger Traits

    Libby’s husband, Steve, joins Libby today as they begin a powerful 7-part series of When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage. Libby shares a story from back in the day, when she learned to stop covering the non-reality in their marriage in public, and Steve shares how that impacted him. Learn how becoming whole begins to expose falseness, honesty reveals distortion, and becoming a living contrast reveals truth, all through calm virtue. Journal prompts from this episode’s activation; In what ways am I not living as a princess-daughter? How can I walk virtuously in truth, going forward? What is one next step can I take? Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    25 min

  6. JAN 5

    E13 | Introduction: When Virtue Confronts Narcissism in a Neurodiverse Marriage

    In this episide, Libby introduces a 7-part series on how a wife in a neurodiverse marriage can confront the effect of Asperger’s that mimics narcissism—by walking in virtue. Libby decodes what the essence of virtue is, and how any Christian wife can access this key. For the following 7 episodes, Libby’s husband Steve will join the conversation, for a powerful understanding of how to dismantle the false empire of narcissism. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    19 min

  7. 12/29/2025

    E12 | Seventeen Encouraging Truths For A Wife In A Neurodiverse Marriage

    Specifically for a wife in a neurodiverse marriage (married to a man with Asperger’s), Libby walks us through Psalm 86 to bring rich encouragement as we usher in a New Year. This is foundational truth to center us, in the midst of a challenging life. Learn of the amazing connection of this year in the Hebraic calendar, making the annointing within this message very powerful and relevant. Down below Libby lists the 17 truths from Psalm 86. Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice-memo question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care. Connecting Heaven and Earth; 17 Truths For Your Neurodiverse Life From Psalm 86:1-17 (correlating with the new Hebrew year: 5786). God is personal within your neurodiverse pain. God loves to hear that you trust Him with your neurodiverse dynamics! God hears your cry within neurodiversity! God is able to heal a broken ‘Cassandra’ soul. God is good, all the time (He didn’t cause the chaos). God pays attention to what we specifically ask for. You have a no-fail 911 line to God! God loves to hear you tell Him that there is no other god like Him! One day, all nations will worship the Lord! We can bring forth the wondrous things of God (for neurodiversity) by declaring His wonder and greatness! The Holy Spirit is a teacher who will teach us God’s ways! Your heart can be whole and healthy within neurodiversity! God can bring you out of the deep, miry pit of neurodiverse loneliness. God will deliver you from the overwhelm of your neurodiversity. God is FULL of compassion within neurodiversity! When you cry out to God—He will hear you. You can ask God to give you a ‘sign’ of His favor!

    36 min

  8. 12/22/2025

    E11 | This Christmas - Does Your Neurodiverse Family Feel Like A Snow Globe Family?

    Often, neurodiversity has us feeling like we are stuck in a little snow globe, going through storms, but no one else really understands ‘what REALLY goes on’ within our home. Christmastime can be challenging, as we try to have fa-la-la amidst neurotranslating to our loved ones; Asperger husbands as well as both neurotypical and atypical children; but we are exhausted and overfunctioning. Where is the hope? Libby will shepherd your heart to find a place of Kingdom HOPE! Stay Connected! Join the free Friends Uncaged Community! Resources and Coaching Leave a voice memo comment — or ask a question you’d like discussed on the podcast. Listen to the Podcast here! Resources: Soaking music for soul care.

    17 min
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Are you tired of feeling all alone in your neurodiverse marriage, and no one quite understanding or believing what you go through? Would you like a personal shepherdess to guide you OUT of the VALLEYS of neurodiversity…INTO life-giving green pastures — nourishment for your soul? I was a very sad and confused wife for 32 years, when my husband was finally diagnosed with Asperger’s in 2017. Now going on 40 years of marriage, we have an amazing story to share, and I’ve come out on the other side, victorious. It’s not that I’ve arrived – it’s that I’m successfully learning how to center myself afresh in Jesus every day, because I need to, every day! There is an enemy that never takes a vacation from trying to feed lies to us. Neurodiversity is challenging enough! We can’t afford to be letting lies in. Come on the journey with me, my Cassandra-friend, and I’ll lead you to green pastures to heal your soul, so that no matter what is happening around you, you can be your healthiest version – who God created you to be. And you might be pleasantly surprised at how others around you respond to this healthy new version of you! YOU DON’T HAVE TO LIVE THE WAY YOU’VE BEEN LIVING ANY MORE! Hope REALLY IS on the way. Allow MY breakthrough to make a way for YOUR breakthrough! Open the curtains, get your song back, and step into your story of origin, adding a joy-filled chapter! Let’s create a community of thriving (not just surviving) women!!!!

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