Midlife & Beyond Conversations

Jo Blackwell

For women 50+ navigating change with courage and curiosity, wanting to feel confident, grounded, and inspired. Join Jo each week for a solo reflection or a conversation with a guest on confidence, menopause, reinvention, wellbeing, and ageing with purpose. Real stories. Practical wisdom. A calm companion for your midlife and beyond journey. joblackwellmidlifeandbeyond.substack.com

  1. 1d ago

    Could Life Feel Better Without Alcohol?

    Do you ever wake up regretting how much you drank the night before—even though, from the outside, your drinking looks perfectly “normal”? My guest, Kate Bee, is the founder of The Sober School, an online community helping women change their relationship with alcohol without shame, labels or a lifetime declaration that they will never drink again. Kate describes her own experience of feeling lost somewhere between “normal” drinking and the stereotypes associated with alcoholism. We explore grey-area drinking, the way alcohol has been woven into female friendship and empowerment, and why it can begin to affect us differently during perimenopause and beyond. We also discuss: * How to recognise when alcohol is no longer working for you * Why moderation rules can become exhausting * The connection between alcohol, anxiety, sleep and menopause * Whether you need to identify as an alcoholic before choosing to stop * Why Kate recommends a meaningful alcohol-free experiment rather than focusing on “forever” * The unmet needs that can lie beneath the urge to drink * Socialising and celebrating without alcohol * How sobriety helped Kate understand her personality, values and the life she genuinely wanted This is a warm, non-judgemental conversation for anyone who has privately wondered: Is this becoming too much? Find Kate Bee The Sober School: https://thesoberschool.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/thesoberschool/ Kate offers free guides, videos and other resources through The Sober School website. Find Jo My book, Ageing Wonderfully Well: https://geni.us/AgeingWonderfullyWell Midlife & Beyond: https://joblackwell.co.uk Important: This conversation is for general information and support, not medical advice. If you may be physically dependent on alcohol, do not stop suddenly without medical guidance, as withdrawal can be dangerous. NHS alcohol support and guidance. Get full access to Midlife & Beyond with Jo Blackwell at joblackwellmidlifeandbeyond.substack.com/subscribe

    Could Life Feel Better Without Alcohol?
  2. Aug 11

    How to Find More Joy in the Every Day

    Have you ever felt that something was missing—and wondered whether changing direction would finally make you happy? Ulrika Torquato left a career in medicine to pursue her dream of becoming a singer. But even after making that enormous change, the happiness she expected didn’t arrive. What changed her life was a much quieter realisation: while she was caught up in her thoughts, she was missing the beauty already present around her. In this warm and thoughtful conversation, Ulrika and I talk about slowing down, becoming more present and learning to notice the small moments that can easily pass us by – a bird in flight, a cup of coffee or time spent with someone we love. Ulrika also introduces Joyering, the simple practice and web-based app she created to help us actively collect these moments. It’s a lovely, playful way to look away from other people’s lives and reconnect with our own. We discuss: * Why a dramatic life change doesn’t necessarily bring happiness * The difference between experiencing a moment and merely recording it * How our phones can disconnect us from the people beside us * Why small moments reveal what truly matters to us * Joyering as a gentle practice for anxiety and difficult times * Why the small things are often the big things after all Find Ulrika and try Joyering: https://joyering.com https://ulrikatorquato.com Find more from Jo: Book: https://geni.us/AgeingWonderfullyWell YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@JoBlackwell-MidlifeAndBeyondWebsite: https://www.joblackwell.co.uk Get full access to Midlife & Beyond with Jo Blackwell at joblackwellmidlifeandbeyond.substack.com/subscribe

    How to Find More Joy in the Every Day

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For women 50+ navigating change with courage and curiosity, wanting to feel confident, grounded, and inspired. Join Jo each week for a solo reflection or a conversation with a guest on confidence, menopause, reinvention, wellbeing, and ageing with purpose. Real stories. Practical wisdom. A calm companion for your midlife and beyond journey. joblackwellmidlifeandbeyond.substack.com