Command the Room Coaching

Command the Room Coaching LLC
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Command the Room Coaching helps emerging leaders and career changers build the confidence, clarity, and modern leadership skills needed to stand out - in interviews, in their careers, and in life. Hosted by Trey, a fire service battalion chief and leadership coach, and Allie, a career and leadership coach with over a decade of experience helping professionals pivot and grow, this podcast blends straight talk, practical tools, and personal stories that cut through the noise. If you’re ready for real conversations about leadership, career transitions, and personal growth - without the buzzwords - you’re in the right place. Expect honest insights, humor, and strategies that help you command the room, wherever that room may be.

  1. 10h ago

    E28: How to Give Your Boss Feedback Without Making Things Worse

    Giving feedback to your boss can be uncomfortable. What happens when the person responsible for your performance is part of what's holding you back? That's where managing up comes in. In this episode of the Command the Room Coaching Podcast, Allie and Trey discuss how employees can take a more active role in building productive relationships with their managers, whether that means communicating expectations, asking for better feedback, or having a difficult conversation. Trey shares a recent experience where an employee challenged the way he was being supervised, forcing him to reconsider his own approach. Allie shares what happened when she couldn't get meaningful professional development feedback from her manager and had to look elsewhere. Together, they explore: What managing up actually means and why it isn't about controlling your bossHow to communicate what you need to perform at your bestWhy good employees sometimes need to challenge their managersHow to ask for more useful feedback and development opportunitiesWhat leaders should do when employees push backWhy revisiting a difficult conversation can strengthen a working relationship The takeaway: You don't have to be in charge to improve how your team operates. Sometimes the most valuable thing you can do is speak up. Whether you're a new employee, an experienced professional, or a leader trying to build a better team, this conversation offers practical ways to improve the relationship from both sides. Visit commandtheroomcoaching.net for more leadership and career advice.

    E28: How to Give Your Boss Feedback Without Making Things Worse

  2. Oct 17

    E27: Your Career Will End. What Will Be Left? | Leadership, Parenting & Priorities

    A successful career can take years to build. But what happens when the career ends? In this episode, Ally and Trey start with a story about a retired fire chief that raises a much bigger question: how do you lead well, pursue ambitious goals, and build a meaningful career without becoming absent from the life waiting for you at home? They talk about the realities of being working parents, the guilt that comes with competing priorities, why work-life balance rarely means 50/50, and why learning to say no becomes increasingly important as you move into leadership. They also explore the surprising overlap between parenting and leadership, including setting clear expectations, giving people appropriate autonomy, allowing room for failure, treating people fairly rather than identically, and learning when something truly deserves your attention. Because eventually the title goes away. Someone else fills the position. And figuring out what success means before that happens might be one of the most important leadership decisions you make. Visit www.commandtheroomcoaching.net for more career and leadership advice.

    E27: Your Career Will End. What Will Be Left? | Leadership, Parenting & Priorities

  3. Oct 3

    E26: Is College Worth It for Your Career? How to Decide

    Is a college degree still worth the time, money, and effort? The answer isn't as simple as it used to be. In this episode of the Command the Room Coaching Podcast, Allie and Trey dig into a recent look at the job market for workers without college degrees and use it to tackle a bigger career question: when does a degree actually help, and when might another path make more sense? They talk about the resurgence of skilled trades, certifications and alternative credentials, three-year bachelor's programs, employer-paid education, online degrees, and the very real career doors that can still open, or close, based on education. They also look at the numbers behind the headlines. Workers without degrees may be seeing new opportunities, but degree holders still maintain advantages in employment and long-term career mobility. The takeaway isn't “everyone needs college” or “skip college and learn a trade.” It's simpler: understand where you want to go, what that career actually requires, and whether the return justifies the investment. If you're deciding whether to go back to school, pursue a certification, change careers, or simply wondering whether your degree still matters, this conversation is for you. Visit www.commandtheroomcoaching.net

    E26: Is College Worth It for Your Career? How to Decide

  4. Sep 19

    E25: Trey in the Hot Seat - What Would a Leadership Coach Do?

    What would a leadership coach say if he did not have time to prepare the perfect answer? In this episode, Allie puts Trey in the hot seat with realistic workplace and leadership scenarios. They examine what to do when you are eager for a promotion, believe you could outperform the person in charge, feel overlooked despite doing good work, or find yourself carrying more than your share of the load. Trey breaks down how he would coach each person, including the questions he would ask before offering advice. The conversation explores the difference between wanting a title and demonstrating leadership, why ambition can sometimes undermine credibility, and how mentoring, measurable results, and honest feedback can help someone prove they are ready for more responsibility. This episode is for aspiring leaders, recently promoted supervisors, and anyone trying to navigate workplace frustration without damaging their reputation or relationships. In this episode: ● How to communicate that you want to advance ● Why announcing your ambition can sometimes backfire ● Ways to demonstrate leadership before receiving the title ● How mentoring others builds leadership credibility ● What to do when you believe you are outperforming your manager ● How to handle resentment toward less productive coworkers ● Why good coaching starts with questions, not assumptions Listen and decide whether Trey’s advice would survive your own leadership hot seat. www.commandtheroomcoaching.net

    E25: Trey in the Hot Seat - What Would a Leadership Coach Do?

  5. Sep 5

    E24: Micromanagment Isn’t Always the Real Problem

    Micromanagement gets blamed for a lot of workplace frustration, but sometimes it isn’t the real problem. In this episode, Trey and Allie unpack a listener’s experience with a manager who tightly controls schedules, office coverage, and day-to-day decisions. From there, they look at what often sits underneath micromanagement: lack of trust, unclear expectations, poor performance, insecurity, stress, and managers who struggle to let go of the work that made them successful in the first place. They also make the case that not every close check-in is micromanagement. New employees, struggling performers, and high-stakes situations sometimes need more oversight. The problem comes when that level of control becomes the default for everyone. They discuss how leaders can give people more autonomy without giving up accountability, why excessive control eventually kills initiative, and what employees can do when they find themselves working for a micromanager. If you lead people, work for someone who wants a hand in everything, or are wondering whether you might be holding on a little too tightly yourself, this episode gives you a practical way to think about trust, control, and when to get out of the weeds. Commandtheroomcoaching.net

    E24: Micromanagment Isn’t Always the Real Problem

  6. Aug 22

    E23: Being Good at Your Job Isn't Enough

    Most people want to believe that good work eventually gets noticed. Sometimes it does. Often it does not. In this episode, we react to several uncomfortable career truths, including why the idea of a “dream job” can be misleading, why your employer will never care about your career as much as you do, and why your résumé does not need to be perfect to be effective. But the biggest truth may be the hardest to accept: being competent is not always enough. We discuss why relationships, visibility, likability, and self-advocacy influence who gets trusted, promoted, and offered new opportunities. We also explain how to make your work visible without becoming performative, how to communicate your career goals without sounding entitled, and why the story your manager remembers about you may no longer be accurate. Because your work does not always speak for itself. Sometimes you have to help people understand what you have done, what you can contribute, and where you want to go next. In this episode: • Why chasing a dream job can backfire • Why your job will never love you back • When a résumé is good enough • Why being liked and respected matters • How to increase your visibility without bragging • Why managers may overlook employees who never discuss their goals • How to sell yourself without becoming fake or overly promotional Learn more about our coaching and upcoming workshops at CommandTheRoomCoaching.net.

    E23: Being Good at Your Job Isn't Enough

  7. Aug 8

    E22: From Self-Doubt to Self-Command: Taking Control of Your Inner Story

    We all have stories we tell ourselves. Quiet, convincing narratives that shape how we see our abilities and what we believe we deserve. “I’m not ready.” “I don’t belong here.” “If it’s not perfect, I shouldn’t even try.” In this episode of the Command the Room Coaching Podcast, Trey, a fire service veteran and leadership coach, explains how those internal stories take root and quietly hold us back from growth, leadership, and opportunity. You’ll learn how to recognize your own limiting stories, challenge them with real evidence, and rewrite them into a mindset that fuels progress instead of fear. This is not about toxic positivity or empty motivation. It is about awareness, ownership, and rewriting the mental scripts that keep capable people playing small. If you are ready to step into your next level of leadership, this episode will help you start from the inside out. Commandtheroomcoaching.net

    E22: From Self-Doubt to Self-Command: Taking Control of Your Inner Story

  8. Jul 25

    E21: The Real Problem Is Not Gen Z. It’s Lazy Leadership

    In this episode of the Command the Room Coaching Podcast, we take aim at one of the weakest excuses in leadership: blaming “the generation” instead of examining your own adaptability. Too many managers say younger employees are hard to motivate, older employees are hard to coach, or that every age group needs its own rulebook. We do not buy it. People are individuals, not stereotypes, and strong leaders take the time to learn what actually drives the person in front of them. We also get into a harder truth. It is not just generations changing. Society is changing. Work-life balance, remote work, communication norms, and expectations around leadership have shifted for everyone. If your leadership style has not shifted with it, that is the real problem. Listen in, then tell us where you land. Are generational differences overblown, or do they meaningfully shape how people lead and work? For more episodes, coaching resources, and ways to work with us, visit CommandTheRoomCoaching.

    E21: The Real Problem Is Not Gen Z. It’s Lazy Leadership
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Command the Room Coaching helps emerging leaders and career changers build the confidence, clarity, and modern leadership skills needed to stand out - in interviews, in their careers, and in life. Hosted by Trey, a fire service battalion chief and leadership coach, and Allie, a career and leadership coach with over a decade of experience helping professionals pivot and grow, this podcast blends straight talk, practical tools, and personal stories that cut through the noise. If you’re ready for real conversations about leadership, career transitions, and personal growth - without the buzzwords - you’re in the right place. Expect honest insights, humor, and strategies that help you command the room, wherever that room may be.

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  • Creator
    Command the Room Coaching LLC
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    30
  • Rating
    Explicit
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