What if your soul isn’t a job title? In this deeply personal and philosophical episode, Lizzi explores a question that has followed her for years: Why do we feel so compelled to reduce ourselves to a single gift, identity, or purpose? After attending a retreat where everyone was asked to name their spiritual gift, she found herself struggling to answer. Later, she was told her dharma—her soul’s path—was attunement. While the description resonated deeply, it also sparked a bigger question: Is that all I am? From spiritual gifts and intuition to psychology, neuroscience, identity, and human evolution, this episode explores the tension between our desire for certainty and the reality that human beings are far more complex than any label can contain. Together we’ll explore: Why humans naturally seek identities and categoriesHow spiritual communities can unintentionally encourage people to shrink themselves into rolesThe hidden ways we become attached to identities like healer, empath, teacher, psychic, or strong oneWhy cultivated wisdom deserves just as much reverence as intuitive knowingThe science of attunement, perception, and relational intelligenceThe difference between spirituality and spiritual performanceHow trauma can influence our need to feel special, chosen, or certainWhy understanding the brain doesn’t make life less sacredThe integration of mind, body, emotions, intuition, experience, and soulWalt Whitman’s powerful reminder that we “contain multitudes”This episode is for anyone who has ever questioned whether their gifts “count” because they learned them rather than received them. For the helpers, healers, therapists, teachers, parents, intuitives, and lifelong students who sometimes wonder if they are spiritual enough. Maybe your wisdom doesn’t arrive in visions. Maybe it arrives through listening. Through surviving. Through learning. Through staying present long enough to help another human being come home to themselves. And maybe that’s sacred too. Because perhaps the goal was never to become one thing. Perhaps the goal was simply to become fully alive. Send us Fan Mail Support the show If this episode resonated with you, I’d love for you to share it with someone who might need these words today. To stay connected, follow along for upcoming Untamed Voices episodes and reflections. Remember: your story matters. Your truth belongs. Until next time — stay free, stay human, and keep listening to your untamed voice. Join Untamed Voices Community group of FB https://www.facebook.com/share/g/178tQDFCLb/ Follow me on Insta @ https://www.instagram.com/untamed_voices_lvr?igsh=dWJuZnR0dDQwbjhv&utm_source=qr Podcast Disclaimer This podcast is for educational and informational purposes only and is not a substitute for therapy, diagnosis, or professional mental health treatment. No client information or session content is ever shared. Any examples discussed are generalized, composite, or drawn from the counselor’s personal experiences and do not represent individual clients. Listening to this podcast does not establish a therapeutic relationship. The counselor does not provide individualized advice through public platforms and maintains professional boundaries with current clients. If you are experiencing a mental health crisis, please call 911, go to your nearest emergency room, or contact the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by calling or texting 988.
