Get Honest.

Christy Dragotta

Get Honest is designed to help you cultivate a simple and authentic life of faith in a complex world. Get free from the expectations of others and become who you were created to be. Designing a simple life will take work - but the payoff is priceless. Living true to yourself - aligned with your values and beliefs brings a freedom the world can't offer! Join me each week to tackle stubborn mindsets, receive timeless truths and find joy again! You were made for the abundant life! 

  1. 2d ago

    Relationship Series: Are You Trustworthy and Loyal?

    Send us Fan Mail Loyalty is not a personality trait - it is the difference between relationships that survive hard seasons and relationships that collapse under pressure. Christy Dragotta breaks down what it really means to be trustworthy, protect confidences, and choose an inner circle that strengthens your character instead of weakening it. She unpacks Scripture-backed wisdom from Proverbs, 1 Corinthians, and the teachings of Jesus to show why a friend who "loves at all times" is built in the inconvenient moments - when life is messy, when someone is hurting, and when showing up actually costs you time, energy, or comfort. If you've ever wondered how to tell the difference between a fair-weather friend and someone safe to confide in, this episode gives you a clear filter. You'll discover: Why gossip destroys trust faster than almost anything elseHow to respond when a friend betrays your confidenceWhat it looks like to defend someone without covering up wrongdoingWhy "bad company corrupts good character" is more than a warning, it's a strategy for choosing better relationshipsHow to build a circle of friends who push you toward wisdom, not away from itChristy also gets practical about the people you let influence you most - from close friends to voices you follow online - and why time in Scripture is the foundation for discernment, wise friendship, and a life that reflects Jesus. This is a direct, convicting, and deeply useful episode for anyone who wants healthier friendships, stronger boundaries, and a more trustworthy way of showing up for others. Perfect for anyone rethinking their inner circle, healing from broken trust, or trying to become the kind of friend people can truly count on. If you want relationships marked by loyalty, wisdom, and real love, this conversation belongs in your queue. Support the show Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/get.honest.pod/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583228011586 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@get.honest.pod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qID1W7aiLOFkfnv1LcIc5 Apple Pods: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-honest/id1847656941 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Gethonestpod  If you'd like to buy me a cup of coffee, click here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2539292/support

  2. Aug 11

    Relationship Series: Dealing with Past Trauma

    Send us Fan Mail In this episode of Get Honest, we continue the relationship series by digging into a powerful truth: unresolved past trauma can quietly shape how we see ourselves, how we respond to others, and how we show up in every relationship. Christy shares honestly about false identities, childhood wounds, hurtful words, and the ways pain can echo through friendships, family dynamics, marriage, and everyday interactions. She explores why forgiveness matters, how boundaries can protect your heart, and why healing often starts with recognizing the lies you’ve believed about yourself. If you’ve ever felt stuck in old patterns, struggled with offense, or wondered why certain relationships keep reopening the same wounds, this conversation will encourage you to slow down, get honest, and begin the work of healing with God, wise counsel, and healthy community. Key takeaways: Past trauma can create false identitiesHurt people often hurt peopleForgiveness is essential for freedomBoundaries can support healingYour true identity is found in ChristIf this message resonates, this episode will help you take the next step toward wholeness, peace, and healthier relationships. Support the show Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/get.honest.pod/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583228011586 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@get.honest.pod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qID1W7aiLOFkfnv1LcIc5 Apple Pods: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-honest/id1847656941 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Gethonestpod  If you'd like to buy me a cup of coffee, click here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2539292/support

  3. Aug 4

    Relationship Series: Communication Recap

    Send us Fan Mail Unlock the Secrets to Healthy, Honest Communication That Transforms Your Relationships Are you tired of misunderstandings, hurt feelings, or feeling unheard in your relationships? Discover the proven principles that elevate your communication from surface-level to deeply authentic. This episode unveils practical strategies to speak truthfully, take people at their word, set clear boundaries, and listen to understand—not just respond. Whether you're navigating marriage, family, or friendships, these insights will help you build trust and connection that stand the test of time. You’ll learn why honesty isn’t just about avoiding lies—it's about sharing your true feelings with love and grace. Christy Dragotta breaks down how to communicate expectations clearly, handle boundary violations gracefully, and the importance of listening with the intent to understand. She shares powerful frameworks like taking people at face value and responding from a place of love instead of defensiveness or assumptions. Discover how to turn conversations about tough issues like boundary setting, expectations, and conflicts into opportunities for unity and growth. We break down the importance of addressing wounds from the past before engaging in difficult conversations and how to use prayer to root out pain that can distort your current communication. Christy emphasizes that effective communication requires both speaking and listening with purpose—listening to truly understand rather than just to reply. Plus, she reveals how seeking wise counsel and aligning your words with God’s love can prevent misunderstandings and foster peace. Ignoring these principles risks ongoing conflict, resentment, and disconnection—leaving your closest relationships vulnerable to misinterpretation and harm. But by applying these biblical, practical tools, you can create relationships rooted in truth, respect, and love. Whether you’re in a marriage, parenting, or friendship scenario, this episode offers clear actions to improve your communication instantly. Perfect for anyone eager to deepen their relationships through honesty, boundaries, and active listening. Tune in and learn how to communicate in a way that heals, uplifts, and transforms your most important connections. Your authentic, loving relationships start with the words you choose—and the ears you open. Support the show Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/get.honest.pod/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583228011586 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@get.honest.pod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qID1W7aiLOFkfnv1LcIc5 Apple Pods: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-honest/id1847656941 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Gethonestpod  If you'd like to buy me a cup of coffee, click here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2539292/support

  4. Jul 28

    Relationship Series: Communication in Marriage (Part 2)

    Send us Fan Mail Most of us underestimate just how powerful honest, respectful communication is — especially in the hardest moments. If you've ever felt misunderstood, hurt, or unsure how to speak your truth without causing damage, this episode is your lifeline. Christy Dragotta unveils the real secret to meaningful relationships, and specifically a strong marriage: having honest conversations rooted in love, respect, and humility, even when it’s uncomfortable. Why does this matter? Because without effective communication, even the strongest relationships fall apart, replaced by resentment or manipulation. But when you prioritize truth, grace, and active listening, you open the door to deep connection, healing, and mutual understanding. Whether you're single, dating, married, or raising a family—this episode equips you with the tools to communicate from a place of love and authenticity. Perfect for anyone tired of misunderstandings, ready to set better boundaries, or seeking harmony in their closest relationships. Support the show Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/get.honest.pod/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583228011586 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@get.honest.pod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qID1W7aiLOFkfnv1LcIc5 Apple Pods: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-honest/id1847656941 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Gethonestpod  If you'd like to buy me a cup of coffee, click here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2539292/support

  5. Jul 21

    Relationship Series: Communication (part 1)

    Send us Fan Mail Unlock the secrets to honest, loving communication that transforms your relationships—whether with family, friends, or your spouse. When communication breaks down, misunderstandings and resentment take root, but there's a better way. Christy Dragotta reveals practical, biblical strategies to speak your truth with love, set healthy boundaries, and truly listen—so conflicts turn into connection, and love deepens rather than deteriorates. In this episode, you'll discover how simple acts like asking clarifying questions, expressing feelings authentically, and respecting boundaries can dramatically improve your relationships. Christy shares real-life stories—from new parent boundaries and friend to family misunderstandings to marriage days—to illustrate how honest and compassionate communication prevents hurt feelings, builds trust, and fosters grace. You'll learn frameworks like the "respect and respond" method, practical tips for handling differences without conflict, and how to weigh your words before speaking to avoid unnecessary damage. We break down why problems often escalate from unspoken expectations and assumptions—especially in family and marriage—and how intentional, biblical communication can bridge those gaps. Whether you're dealing with family boundaries, marriage disagreements, or everyday interactions, this episode offers tools to speak life, foster understanding, and walk in humility. The stakes are high: without honest dialogue, love can become strain; with it, relationships flourish. Perfect for anyone longing for healthier connections, this episode will empower you to communicate with clarity, grace, and biblical truth. By applying these principles, you'll not only transform your relationships but also walk more confidently in love and authenticity. Start today—because every relationship has the potential to thrive when built on truth and grace. Support the show Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/get.honest.pod/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61583228011586 TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@get.honest.pod Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/5qID1W7aiLOFkfnv1LcIc5 Apple Pods: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-honest/id1847656941 YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Gethonestpod  If you'd like to buy me a cup of coffee, click here: https://www.buzzsprout.com/2539292/support

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Get Honest is designed to help you cultivate a simple and authentic life of faith in a complex world. Get free from the expectations of others and become who you were created to be. Designing a simple life will take work - but the payoff is priceless. Living true to yourself - aligned with your values and beliefs brings a freedom the world can't offer! Join me each week to tackle stubborn mindsets, receive timeless truths and find joy again! You were made for the abundant life!