The Aisle Afterparty

Adam Knight, Amber Buttler, Harry Hyom, Dean John

Welcome to The Aisle Afterparty, the wedding podcast where wedding pros spill the tea, tell the wildest stories, and give engaged couples the real tips nobody else will! Hosted by a team of wedding photographers, a videographer, and a DJ with front-row seats to wedding chaos, this podcast dishes out hilarious behind-the-scenes confessions, hot takes on wedding trends, and honest advice to help you plan your best day ever (and survive the dance floor aftermath). Subscribe for candid Q&As, jaw-dropping vendor tales, and must-know wedding tips for couples and wedding industry insiders. Whether you’re tying the knot or spinning the decks, The Aisle Afterparty will have you laughing all the way down the aisle.

Episodes

  1. 4D AGO

    Weddings 2025 Wrapped: What Actually Changed & How to Plan Smarter for 2026 (Ep 6)

    Send us a text If you planned a wedding in 2025, you probably made very different choices than couples did a few years ago — even if you didn’t realise it. In this episode of The Aisle Afterparty, wedding photographers Adam & Amber, videographer Harry, and DJ Dean break down what actually changed in weddings throughout 2025 — not trends, not predictions, but real patterns we saw week after week on real wedding days — and what couples planning a 2026 wedding should take from it. This isn’t about what looks good on Pinterest. It’s about what made weddings feel better. 💍 What we cover in this episode: • Experience over aesthetics Why couples in 2025 stopped obsessing over décor and started prioritising comfort, flow, food, and atmosphere — and why guests noticed immediately. • Shorter, tighter wedding timelines Later starts, fewer filler moments, less downtime - and how protecting energy made weddings feel calmer and more fun. • Traditions becoming optional From cake cuttings to first dances and receiving lines, why couples felt more confident skipping traditions that didn’t earn their place. • Smarter wedding budgets (not smaller ones) How couples reallocated spend, cut low-impact upgrades, and made clearer decisions about what actually mattered. • Intentional wedding content The rise of next-day highlights, short-form video, and content creators - without turning the wedding into a production. • What quietly faded in 2025 Over-styled tables, wedding favours, packed schedules, and anything that interrupted momentum. • Mistakes couples still made — and how to avoid them in 2026 Time misjudgements, emotional burnout, over-pleasing, and decisions guests never noticed. • What we expect more of in 2026 Later starts, calmer timelines, hybrid memories (pro photos + fast content), and personalisation without performance. 🎧 Listener Q&A: Planning for 2026 We answer real questions from couples about: • What to prioritise first • Which “trends” to ignore completely • Breaking traditions without family fallout • Making a wedding feel personal without it being gimmicky • The one thing couples will regret not planning for If you’re planning a 2026/2027 wedding, work in the wedding industry, or just want honest insight into how weddings are actually evolving, this episode will help you make calmer, smarter decisions — without the noise. Great weddings aren’t flawless. They’re intentional. Support the show 🎧 The Aisle Afterparty — where the wedding chat doesn’t stop at “I do”. Sponsored by David Mellor Family Jewellers https://davidmellorjewellers.com/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheAisleAfterparty Subscribe for more episodes, and join the conversation in the comments below 👇 #WeddingPodcast #TheAisleAfterparty #WeddingTrends #WeddingSuppliers #BehindTheScenes #Wedding

    39 min
  2. 12/23/2025

    Christmas Wedding Special: Festive, Fake & Fully Unhinged (Ep 5)

    Send us a text Welcome to Episode 5 of The Aisle Afterparty — the Christmas Special you didn’t ask for but 100% deserve. This week, photographers Adam & Amber, videographer Harry, and DJ Dean throw tinsel on the microphones and dive headfirst into the wonderfully chaotic world of Christmas weddings — where fairy lights sparkle, mulled wine flows, and someone inevitably suggests a snow machine. We’re talking the most Christmassy moments we’ve ever witnessed at weddings, whether Christmas jumpers belong on the dance floor, and if snow machines are magical… or a lawsuit waiting to happen. Expect festive chaos, real wedding stories, questionable decisions, and enough Christmas energy to make Mariah nervous. 🎄 In this episode: • The most Christmassy moments we’ve ever seen at a wedding • Christmas weddings: magical vibes vs logistical nightmares • Fairy lights, mulled wine, golden-hour-all-day & weather drama • Festive or Excessive - snow machines, reindeer entrances & Santa celebrants • Christmas movie chat (is Die Hard a Christmas movie?) and a wedding quiz (yes, Love Actually makes an appearance) • Secret Santa: wedding-supplier edition • Our dream Christmas gifts for wedding pros • Food, drink, canapés, unlimited bars & wedding catering horror stories • Listener questions covering jumpers, elves, mince pies, Fairytale of New York and snow-machine safety • Festive advice for couples tying the knot this winter If you’re planning a Christmas wedding, working one, or just want to feel better about your own festive decisions, this episode is your seasonal survival guide — with jokes. 🎅✨ May your guests be merry and your photos be sharp. Happy Christmas from The Aisle Afterparty! Christmas Episode sponsored by Oakley Road Garage, Southampton: https://www.instagram.com/oakleyroadgarage/ Delicious cookies provided by The Cookie Queen https://www.instagram.com/thecookiequeensouthampton/?hl=en Sponsored by David Mellor JewellersHampshire’s trusted family jeweller for nearly 50 years.Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the show 🎧 The Aisle Afterparty — where the wedding chat doesn’t stop at “I do”. Sponsored by David Mellor Family Jewellers https://davidmellorjewellers.com/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheAisleAfterparty Subscribe for more episodes, and join the conversation in the comments below 👇 #WeddingPodcast #TheAisleAfterparty #WeddingTrends #WeddingSuppliers #BehindTheScenes #Wedding

    1h 9m
  3. 12/09/2025

    Wedding Regrets: Overspending, Underspending & The Decisions Couples Wish They Could Undo (Ep 4)

    Send us a text Welcome back to The Aisle Afterparty — the wedding podcast where four suppliers spill the prosecco, the tea, and occasionally their dignity. Photographers Adam & Amber, videographer Harry, and DJ Dean dive straight into the biggest wedding regrets couples have once the confetti’s settled and the bank account stops crying. From blown budgets to dodgy decisions, we’re covering the choices couples look back on and think, “Why did no one stop us!?” We’re talking: 💸 Overspending on flowers, cakes, planners and venues 👠 Designer shoes no one ever saw 🎁 Fancy wedding favours left behind like unwanted raffle prizes 🪩 Décor that cost a fortune and lived for six hours 📹 The classic “we should’ve hired a videographer” heartbreak 🎶 Live band vs DJ vs… the Spotify playlist that betrayed you mid-first dance 🧍‍♂️ Best man drama (because of course) 💄 Makeup regrets ✈️ The dreamy-but-chaotic world of weddings abroad And yes — Amber’s Lapland wedding story makes an appearance. It includes Santa, snow, and… a dead reindeer. Honestly, it’s a lot. If you’re planning a wedding, recovering from one, or just love hearing the messy side of “I do,” this episode is basically free group therapy with better jokes. Support the show 🎧 The Aisle Afterparty — where the wedding chat doesn’t stop at “I do”. Sponsored by David Mellor Family Jewellers https://davidmellorjewellers.com/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheAisleAfterparty Subscribe for more episodes, and join the conversation in the comments below 👇 #WeddingPodcast #TheAisleAfterparty #WeddingTrends #WeddingSuppliers #BehindTheScenes #Wedding

    50 min
  4. 11/25/2025

    Wedding Guests: The Icons, the Nightmares & the Unhinged Moments We’ll Never Forget (Ep 3)

    Send us a text Welcome back to The Aisle Afterparty — the wedding podcast where four wedding pros overshare, laugh too loudly, and reveal exactly what goes on when the guests arrive and the prosecco starts flowing. Photographers Adam & Amber, videographer Harry, and DJ Dean dive headfirst into the wild world of wedding guests — the legends, the troublemakers, the emotional wrecks, and the ones who make you question humanity with a single dance move. From the guest in Crocs who thinks they’re a style icon, to the rogue uncle stealing the videographer’s shots, to influencers livestreaming the ceremony like it’s Coachella — nothing is off the table. Told through a cheeky, David Attenborough-style lens, we break down the classic “species” of guests you’ll meet at almost every wedding… and yes, we absolutely have stories to back it up. Whether you love weddings, work them, or are just here for the chaos, this episode gives you a hilarious peek behind the curtain at the people who unintentionally steal the show. 💍 In this episode: • The most iconic (and chaotic) guest types we see • Behind-the-scenes stories we’ll be laughing about forever • Why every wedding has “that one guest” — and how to spot them Support the show 🎧 The Aisle Afterparty — where the wedding chat doesn’t stop at “I do”. Sponsored by David Mellor Family Jewellers https://davidmellorjewellers.com/ Watch on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheAisleAfterparty Subscribe for more episodes, and join the conversation in the comments below 👇 #WeddingPodcast #TheAisleAfterparty #WeddingTrends #WeddingSuppliers #BehindTheScenes #Wedding

    40 min

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Welcome to The Aisle Afterparty, the wedding podcast where wedding pros spill the tea, tell the wildest stories, and give engaged couples the real tips nobody else will! Hosted by a team of wedding photographers, a videographer, and a DJ with front-row seats to wedding chaos, this podcast dishes out hilarious behind-the-scenes confessions, hot takes on wedding trends, and honest advice to help you plan your best day ever (and survive the dance floor aftermath). Subscribe for candid Q&As, jaw-dropping vendor tales, and must-know wedding tips for couples and wedding industry insiders. Whether you’re tying the knot or spinning the decks, The Aisle Afterparty will have you laughing all the way down the aisle.