If you don't know who you are, how do you know which way to go? The October series ends with the practical episode we promised: how to actually move through change. Deanna and Ang start in the center of the compass (the needle, which is you) and then walk through four directions: North, Name the threshold. East, Express gratitude. South, Spot resistance. West, Welcome change. Along the way: what throws your needle off, three kinds of change (including the one nobody sends flowers for), the "thank, grieve, welcome" practice, why one step forward and two steps back is normal, mapping your skills, values, people, and strategies, and the smallest step you can take this week. The episode closes with a short guided walk around the compass. CHAPTERS 0:00 Never Eat Soggy Waffles 0:44 If you don't know who you are, how do you know which way to go? 4:42 Every hero needs a compass 12:46 How to recalibrate: people who don't flinch 16:07 NORTH: Name the threshold 19:41 Three kinds of change 23:05 EAST: Express gratitude 28:01 Thank, grieve, welcome 31:14 SOUTH: Spot resistance 34:28 One step forward, two steps back 37:47 Resilience and the next generation 40:41 Map your resources: skills, values, support, strategies 44:55 WEST: Welcome change 48:24 The smallest step this week 49:25 Peers, guides, and witnesses 52:00 Guided pause: walk the compass 53:56 Comment COMPASS COMMENT "COMPASS" Comment COMPASS on this episode (or message us) and we'll send you the four directions and the resource map. RESOURCES MENTIONED William Bridges, the Transition Model (endings, neutral zone, new beginnings): https://wmbridges.com/about/what-is-transition/ Nancy K. Schlossberg, transition research (anticipated, unanticipated, and non-event transitions): https://www.transitionsthroughlife.com/ Joseph Campbell, The Hero with a Thousand Faces: https://www.jcf.org/learn/joseph-campbell-heros-journey How a compass works (Earth's magnetic field, NOAA): https://sos.noaa.gov/catalog/datasets/earths-magnetic-field-compass-needles/ The Feeling Wheel (from last week with Sara Amos, LCSW): https://thefeelingswheel.com/original-fw/ The Season Check worksheet (Episode 10): https://www.themorningshare.com/season-check The Threshold Pause worksheet: https://www.themorningshare.com/threshold Every Hero Says No resistance guide (Episode 11): https://www.themorningshare.com/every-hero-says-no CONNECT WITH US If you or someone you know is facing any kind of change, listen, then share and pass it along. Website: https://www.themorningshare.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/themorningsharepod/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@TheMorningShare Substack (including The Table): https://themorningshare.substack.com/ Email: info@themorningshare.com Next month, we come home to ourselves.