Paul Spacey Podcast

Paul Spacey
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Unfiltered truth from the youth soccer environment and the wider soccer landscape. Raw, direct and brutally honest information for parents, players and coaches. https://pauljspacey.com

  1. 5h ago

    #37 - How To Develop Your Kid Like Yamal, Bellingham and Rooney (And Cavan)

    This episode explores the development of top young soccer players such as Lamine Yamal, Jude Bellingham, Wayne Rooney, Max Dowman and Cavan Sullivan, emphasizing early engagement, playing up, and training with senior players to accelerate growth. Learn how these principles can be applied to development strategies for your own kids. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Youth Player Development 00:24 Common Traits of Top Young Players 01:07 Importance of Early Engagement with the Ball 02:05 Playing Up in Age Groups for Growth 03:15 Family Decisions and Club Loyalty 04:46 Physical and Psychological Benefits of Playing Up 08:04 Case Studies: Rooney, Bellingham, Yamal, Sullivan 11:04 Training with Senior Players Before Debut 14:53 Preparing for Professional Environments 18:04 Grounded Expectations and Future Potential

  2. 6d ago

    #36 - Playing Time. Why The Bench Is Like The Job Interview

    This episode explores the importance of playing time in youth sports as a preparation for adult competition, emphasizing effort, performance, and the broader lessons of resilience and self-improvement. If your son or daughter isn't getting the playing time they want, this eposide will help you understand why and what they can do to fix it. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Playing Time and Adult Preparation 02:02 Training, Practice, and Game Performance 04:06 Preparation for Adult Life Through Youth Sports 07:26 Extra Work to Close Skill Gaps 08:58 The Emotional Toll of Sitting on the Bench 09:54 The Environment of Competition Versus Equal Minutes 10:23 Preparing for Adult Challenges Through Youth Sports 11:19 Lessons in Resilience and Self-Improvement 12:27 Questions for Players and Parents 13:09 Final Advice and Resources

  3. Sep 4

    #35 - The Simple Daily Habits That Fix Your Diet, Training, and Health

    30 years of trial and error. No complicated protocol. What to eat. How to train. How to sleep. The few things worth spending money on, including oral health, which most people skip. Simple habits you can keep for decades. Links below. LINKS TO PRODUCTS FEATURED IN THIS PODCAST: Waterpik - https://amzn.to/4gw9yQU Floss Picks - https://amzn.to/3SLSqO0 Sonicare Toothbrush - https://amzn.to/467Sz1d Uncle Harry's Remineralization - https://amzn.to/4comVQH Dr Bronners Castille Soap - https://amzn.to/4h9skh9 Jojoba Moisturizer - https://amzn.to/4xGdVz0 Goodwipes Flushable Wipes - https://amzn.to/46GJoVI Memory Foam Mattress - https://amzn.to/3UAkfJD Memory Foam Pillow - https://amzn.to/4xyBDNv Organic Cotton Bed Sheet Set - https://amzn.to/4zWhWAO Organic Cotton Fitted Sheet - https://amzn.to/4qQdijy Organic Cotton Pillowcases - https://amzn.to/4yl0W5D Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to health and fitness principles 02:41 The importance of investing in quality daily health essentials 03:50 How to maintain excellent oral health with simple tools 06:17 Skincare and clothing tips for health and comfort 07:52 Weekly grocery list for optimal health 09:38 Moderation in alcohol and treats for long-term wellness 10:21 Simple, effective 30-minute daily workout routine 12:21 Creating a sleep environment for restorative rest 15:10 Final thoughts: consistency and long-term health habits

  4. Sep 1

    #34 - Delusion Is a Skill. Here's How To Use It.

    This episode explores the power of measured delusion in sports and life, emphasizing how believing you're better than you are can drive improvement and confidence. Paul shares practical insights on how to harness this mindset to achieve personal growth on and off the field. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to the concept of being delusional in sports 02:22 Matching effort with self-belief for real progress 04:26 Personal experiences with delusional confidence 07:23 Success stories of delusional belief in high achievers 08:18 How to start acting with a slight delusion 09:04 Neurological basis of tricking your brain 10:02 Practical steps to implement this mindset in practice 11:19 Long-term effects and self-assessment 12:10 Encouragement to try and share your experience 13:13 Final thoughts and resources for further growth

  5. Aug 28

    #33 - How America Can Become A Soccer Powerhouse

    Paul discusses how America can become a world soccer powerhouse by embracing diversity, adaptability, and full-complexity coaching. He emphasizes the importance of an open pyramid, early engagement, and varied styles of play to develop top players. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction: The Need for Adaptability in US Soccer 01:18 America's Lack of World Class Soccer Players 02:10 Harnessing Diversity and Variability in Player Development 04:07 Promotion Relegation and Meritocracy in Soccer 10:15 The Value of Multiple Playing Styles and Approaches 20:13 Coaching the Game in Its Full Complexity 26:50 A 10-Year Development Plan for Young Players 34:52 Recap and Final Thoughts

  6. Aug 25

    #32 - Developing A Winning Mindset To Succeed On And Off The Field

    In this episode, Paul explores how developing a winning mindset through sports can significantly impact success in life and business. He shares practical insights on fostering competitiveness, resilience, and mental toughness in young athletes. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Developing a Winning Mindset 01:54 The Role of Competition in Childhood Development 04:00 Why Not Just Take Part? The Power of Desire to Win 06:04 Practicing Every Practice with a Winning Mindset 07:56 Sports as a Foundation for Business Success 09:54 The Importance of Struggling and Facing Discomfort 12:02 The Paradox of Losing to Win 13:54 Developing a 'Game Face' for Competition 16:09 Transforming Your Persona on the Field 18:00 Final Tips and Encouragement to Develop a Winning Mindset

  7. Aug 21

    #31 - Your Kid Doesn’t Need to Travel That Far for Soccer

    Why are your kids traveling hours to play youth soccer games? Why are they flying to other states? Paul discusses the unnecessary travel, the flaws in the current league system, and potential solutions to localize competition for better player development. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction and overview of youth soccer travel issues 02:04 The proliferation of youth soccer leagues and talent dilution 03:47 The unnecessary nature of travel for most youth players 04:58 Myth of needing to travel for top competition 06:53 The constructed ecosystem of youth soccer and its flaws 08:59 The importance of local leagues and competition 10:46 Challenges in reforming the youth soccer system 12:59 The social and developmental impact of travel 14:46 Potential solutions and the role of leagues and parents 16:45 The influence of social media and status in youth soccer 19:09 The need for collective action to reform youth soccer 20:57 Summary and call to action for local competition 21:47 Closing remarks and resources for parents and coaches

  8. Aug 18

    #30 - Why Pro/Rel Is Coming Soon With Tactical Manager, 3four3 & Erik Hultstrom

    This episode explores the future of promotion and relegation in American soccer, discussing the cultural, financial, and developmental impacts of an open meritocratic system versus the current closed league structure. Experts share insights on how systemic change could transform the sport in the US. Free Parent Starter Pack: https://pauljspacey.com/podcast (get the info coaches won't openly tell you) - Get In Touch Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/pauljgspacey Twitter: https://x.com/PaulSpacey YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@paulspacey Email: https://pauljspacey.com/contact-3/ - Chapters 00:00 Introduction to promotion and relegation debate in US soccer 02:01 Differences between closed MLS system and open pyramid models 04:13 The importance of freedom, opportunity, and merit in promotion systems 06:48 Investment and growth in a meritocratic, open system 10:11 MLS commissioner’s stance on promotion relegation 14:57 Financial incentives and investment in open vs closed systems 20:00 The monopoly nature of MLS and market barriers 25:07 Impact of promotion and relegation on lower leagues and youth soccer 30:01 Player development and competitive intensity in open systems 34:55 Pressure, jeopardy, and the product on the field 39:56 Cultural differences in sports engagement and competition 45:10 European leagues, promotion relegation, and global competitiveness 49:49 Systemic change, future prospects, and systemic insights 55:01 Closing thoughts and resources for youth and coaches

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Unfiltered truth from the youth soccer environment and the wider soccer landscape. Raw, direct and brutally honest information for parents, players and coaches. https://pauljspacey.com

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  • Creator
    Paul Spacey
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    37
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2025 Paul Spacey

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