Everything Is Onions

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Life is layered, just like an onion. On “Everything Is Onions,” we peel back the surface to uncover the truths, lessons, and humor beneath every topic. From relationships to career advice, and everything in between, this podcast dives deep into the things that matter most to Black women—served with the wisdom of a big sister and the wit of your favorite auntie. Get ready for laughs, life lessons, and a whole lot of realness.

  1. 12/23/2025

    The Exhaustion Nobody Talks About | Social Media Overload

    In this Single Peel episode, Koko delves into the overwhelming nature of information overload and its impact on individuals. It explores the effects of constant exposure and comparison, leading to pressure, fragmented processing, and challenges with self-worth. Takeaways Information overloadComparison and self-worth

    7 min

  2. 12/12/2025

    People Say The Craziest Things Online

    In this episode of Everything is Onions, host Koko delves into the boldness of online interactions and the consequences that arise from disrespectful comments made to strangers. She emphasizes the importance of recognizing that behind every screen is a real person with feelings and backgrounds that can influence their reactions. The conversation explores the disconnect between online behavior and real-life consequences, urging listeners to communicate with respect and accountability. Coco shares personal anecdotes and societal observations to highlight the dangers of miscommunication and the need for understanding different communication styles.

    26 min

  3. 12/09/2025

    Finding Your Voice: A Journey to Assertiveness

    In this insightful episode of Everything Is Onions, Koko explores how overcoming conflict avoidance is crucial for establishing healthy boundaries and fostering stronger relationships. She emphasizes the power of self advocacy as a path to significant personal growth, encouraging listeners to speak their truth and embrace assertive communication for a more empowered life. Tune in to discover how shifting your approach to confrontation can profoundly impact your interactions and well-being.

    23 min

  4. 12/05/2025

    Why You Shine in Some Rooms… and Shrink in Others— The Psychology of Social Roles

    In this episode of Everything is Onions, host Koko explores the complexities of identity and social dynamics, likening life to a series of chessboards where different rules apply. She discusses how individuals often feel like the main character in one environment but invisible in another, emphasizing the importance of understanding the varying expectations and perceptions across different social settings. The conversation delves into the fluidity of self-concept, the significance of adapting to different roles, and the necessity of recognizing one's contextual influence in various spaces. Ultimately, Coco encourages listeners to embrace their multifaceted identities and to seek environments that align with their authentic selves.

    15 min

  5. 12/03/2025

    The Most Dangerous Moment in an Abusive Relationship

    This episode peels back the layers of domestic violence in a way most people never do. We break down the psychology, the warning signs, the escalation patterns, and the harsh truth: leaving an abusive man is the most dangerous moment of a woman’s life. We talk about the tragic case in Tiffin, Ohio — a mother trying to leave, doing everything she was “supposed” to do, and the deadly retaliation that followed. We examine why abusive men treat separation as betrayal, not heartbreak, and why the violence often peaks when a woman finally decides to walk away. This conversation also dives into the ways Black women are uniquely unprotected: • Less believed when reporting abuse • More likely to be arrested for self-defense • Higher homicide risks • Greater exposure to firearm-related partner violence • Increased shame and cultural pressure to stay silent We also look at how cases like Duchess Dior, Ms. Pat’s story, and Reasonable Doubt Season 2 reflect a deeper reality: women learn to survive inside danger long before anyone else sees it. This is not an episode about “why she stayed.” It’s an episode about why leaving almost kills her. If you or someone you know is in danger, please use these resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE (7233) Text: START to 88788 Chat available online Black-centered organizations: Ujima: The National Center on Violence Against Women in the Black Community The Safe Sisters Circle Sista Afya Community Care Black Women’s Health Imperative If this episode opened your eyes or touched you deeply, don’t forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe. This conversation saves lives.

    33 min

  6. 12/03/2025

    How Manipulators Trap You: The Truth Behind the Danish Deception

    In this episode, we peel back the layers of The Danish Deception — the viral story that has the internet clowning, debating, and asking the real question: How do intelligent, grown women keep getting caught up in someone’s performance? Koko breaks down: • Why validation can blind you faster than red flags • How manipulators study you before they scam you • The psychology behind charm, masks, and fabricated personas • How boundary testing works (and why women ignore it) • Love bombing, emotional extraction, and financial entanglement • Why intuition whispers early — and why we talk ourselves out of it • What the Danish Deceiver reveals about presentation vs reality • What it really means when the spell breaks and everything makes sense in reverse This isn’t about blaming women — it’s about understanding the patterns, the psychology, and the ways we make ourselves easy targets when we want to believe someone too badly. If you’ve ever dealt with a liar, a manipulator, a walking performance piece, or someone who came in too fast and too polished… this episode is for you.

    43 min

  7. 12/03/2025

    Doctors, Police & Power: Why Black Women and Black Men Aren’t Safe in America

    This episode peels back a painful truth: the parallels between power, race, gender, and the institutions that claim to protect us. I break down why the statements “Men are to women as white people are to Black people” and “Police officers are to Black men as doctors and nurses are to Black women” hit so hard — not because they’re dramatic, but because the patterns are real. Using CDC, DOJ, NIH, and Mapping Police Violence data, I dive into the history, the statistics, and the lived experiences behind Black maternal mortality, medical neglect, police violence, and the way these systems consistently fail Black families. If you’ve ever felt unseen in a doctor’s office or unsafe around police, this episode is for you. If you’ve ever questioned the parallels between institutions, this episode explains them. And if you love layered conversations about race, gender, power, and survival — welcome. ➡️ Listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts & more ➡️ Like, comment, and subscribe ➡️ Share this with someone who needs to hear it Chapters: 0:00 – Opening Thought 1:12 – Intro 2:07– The First Peel 6:43 – The Messy Middle 21:17 – No Tears, Just Truths 24:37 – Outro #EverythingIsOnions #BlackWomen #BlackMen #MedicalRacism #PoliceBrutality #MaternalMortality #BlackCommunity #Podcast

    25 min

  8. 11/23/2025

    Envy, Boundaries & Being Chosen: The Conversation You Didn’t Know You Needed

    In this episode of Everything Is Onions, Koko peels back one of the most uncomfortable but necessary conversations: envy, self-abandonment, “pick me” culture, and the myth that the grass is greener somewhere else. From the viral TikTok Brenay, Tim, Akira, and Devon situation that sparked the discussion, to the psychology behind wanting what someone else has, to the difference between rules and boundaries, to the deeper truth about why some people fight to be chosen… This episode goes THERE. Koko breaks down: -Why envy makes you crave lives you’re not prepared to maintain -How “never-been-picked” energy leads to chaos -Why social media has people romanticizing highlight reels -The spiritual danger of stepping into someone else’s assignment -The real difference between boundaries vs rules -The heartbreak of self-abandonment -What rebuilding yourself actually looks like -How to stop settling and choosing validation over peace And the truth about why being chosen means NOTHING if you lose yourself in the process If you’ve ever questioned your worth, settled for less, or found yourself in situations you KNOW you deserved better than… this episode is for you. Like, comment, and subscribe — and let me know in the comments what part of today’s episode peeled YOUR layer back.

    27 min
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Life is layered, just like an onion. On “Everything Is Onions,” we peel back the surface to uncover the truths, lessons, and humor beneath every topic. From relationships to career advice, and everything in between, this podcast dives deep into the things that matter most to Black women—served with the wisdom of a big sister and the wit of your favorite auntie. Get ready for laughs, life lessons, and a whole lot of realness.

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  • Creator
    Koko
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    13
  • Rating
    Explicit
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    © 2025 Koko
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    Everything Is Onions