United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle

Rob and Ashley
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Welcome to United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle — a podcast and community created to support, normalize, and celebrate bisexual men and the people who love them. Hosted by Rob and Ashley, a married and fully bisexual couple, we’re here to break the silence around male bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle. For too long, bi men have been hidden, misunderstood, or treated as taboo. We’re here to change that. This is a space for single and married bi men, for their partners who stand beside them, and for anyone ready to explore open relationships with honesty, curiosity, and pride. Whether you’re coming out to your spouse, learning to understand your partner’s bisexuality, or simply looking for a place where you belong — you’re not alone. We share real stories, open conversations, and raw truths about what it means to live authentically. Together, we’ll build a community of acceptance, encouragement, and understanding — one that helps others explore male bisexuality in a way that’s celebrated, not shamed. We are here for you. With you. Because we see you, we understand you, and we believe you deserve to be seen. It’s time to stop hiding. It’s time to take pride. It’s time to be United Bi Swinging.

Episodes

  1. FEB 4

    Our First Bi Swing: What Went Right, What Went Wrong

    In this episode, we share our first swing experience with a fully bisexual couple. We talk about what went right, what went wrong, and what we learned navigating a scenario where the men were also having sex. It was Rob’s first time being with a man in front of me, and we break down the emotions, communication, and takeaways. We also announce our new affiliation with Future Method and tease next week’s deep dive into anal play, pegging, safety, and preparation. **** We’re excited to share that we’re now affiliated with Future Method, a brand focused on safe, intentional anal play and preparation. If you’re curious about learning your body, training safely, or exploring pegging or MM play, check them out. **** Use our link or code below to save 15%: 👉 Link: https://future-method.myshopify.com/?rfsn=8946342.d04b83&utm_source=refersion&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=8946342.d04b83 👉 Code: UBIS Connect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Looking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org 👉 https://MORandMore.org Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :) **What We Talk About on this Podcast** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding - Building a stronger, more open community together Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts. Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

    1h 1m

  2. JAN 14

    Our First Experience: The Plot Twist

    We went into our first experience looking for bi play and somehow ended up with a straight couple, a laugh track, and the universe actively testing us at every turn. From missed signals and awkward timing to a husband who hadn’t even told his wife he was talking to swingers, this night had full 90s sitcom energy. It was hot, chaotic, and wildly imperfect. Along the way, we touch on our very different jealousy styles compersion versus traditional jealousy and how we navigated it all together. Proof that sometimes the messiest beginnings make the best stories. Connect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Looking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org 👉 https://MORandMore.org Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :) **What We Talk About on this Podcast** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding - Building a stronger, more open community together Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts. Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

    1h 3m

  3. 12/31/2025

    Ep. 5 - Rob's Journey as a Bisexual (PART 2): Becoming Whole

    This episode continues Rob’s story as a bi man. In part two, the conversation covers his marriage and the process of navigating same sex attraction while trying to make sense of who he was internally. Rob shares his first coming out experience, the fear that came with it, and what it felt like to begin accepting himself. The episode then moves into meeting his current partner and what it was like to be in a relationship built on acceptance, honesty, and trust. Together, they talk about building their bond, creating a strong foundation, growing their family, and eventually choosing to enter the swinging lifestyle together as a fully bi couple. This episode is not about labels or advice. It is about growth, communication, and choosing honesty even when it feels uncomfortable. We also share that we were guests on Beyond Monogamy with Adam and Pris. Our episode aired on December 28. Please see the link below to check out their amazing podcast!! Beyond Monogamy | Exploring Ethical Non-Monogamy & Swinging Connect with us!! We want to hear from you! TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Looking for more information on mixed-orientation relationships? You can explore helpful resources at MORandMore.org 👉 https://MORandMore.org Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a rating and review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :) **What We Talk About on this Podcast** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding - Building a stronger, more open community together Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts. Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self in and out of the bedroom.

    1h 6m

  4. 12/24/2025

    Boners Ep. 2: Holiday Gift to Our Listeners!

    This quick Christmas Eve bonus episode is our little gift to you. In just eleven minutes, we share three holiday surprises: our signature cocktails for the night, a sweet and playful poem just for the Bi Tribe, and a few updates on where you can catch more of us this week. It’s simple, fun, and full of heart. Merry Christmas, and thanks for being here with us. 💗💜💙 🎄 Ashley's Anything Goes Holiday SmashThis is the official, everything-in-it, fully garnished, holiday cocktail. ⭐ IngredientsBase 2 oz bourbon or rye1.5 oz cranberry juice (100% juice)1 oz fresh orange juice0.5 oz maple syrup (or simple syrup)2–3 dashes orange bitters Flavor Boosters (The “Works”) 1 small squeeze fresh lemon (¼ oz)1 small splash ginger ale or ginger beer for sparkle1 tiny pinch cinnamon inside the shaker (optional but perfect) Garnish (Holiday Showstopper) 1 rosemary sprig (looks like a Christmas tree)3 sugared cranberries on a cocktail pickOptional: orange peel twist expressed over the top 🍸 InstructionsAdd to a shaker: bourbon, cranberry juice, orange juice, maple syrup, lemon, bitters, and cinnamon.Add ice + shake hard for 10 seconds.Strain into a rocks glass filled with fresh ice.Add a tiny splash of ginger ale (½–1 oz).Garnish with:rosemary sprigskewered sugared cranberriesorange twist if you want it extra gorgeous 🎄 Rob's Riff on Nuts 'N' N🥛🥃 Rob’s Nutmeg-Nights Nog — RecipeIngredients: 2 oz bourbon or rye whiskey4 oz eggnog (store-bought or homemade)1 small pinch ground nutmeg1 small pinch ground cinnamonOptional: 1–2 drops vanilla extractspan...

    11 min

  5. 12/17/2025

    Ep. 4 - Rob's Journey as a Bisexual (PART 1): The Path To Honesty

    In this episode, Rob begins sharing his story. (PART 1) From early same-sex attraction and internal conflict to the emotional toll of hiding parts of himself, this conversation focuses less on labels and more on the cost of silence. This is not an episode about graphic experiences. It’s about fear, shame, love, and the long road toward honesty, both with yourself and with the person you’re committed to. We know this topic can bring up a lot for people. Listener discretion is advised. If you’re a partner, a spouse, or someone quietly carrying a similar story, you are not alone. This is Part 1 of Rob’s journey. We also chose to set aside some private, deeper conversations that didn’t fit the flow of this episode. What you’ll hear is the core of Rob’s journey and the moments that shaped it most. Some of that material may be shared at a later time. 📞 Support & Crisis ResourcesIf you or someone you love is struggling or in crisis, you are not alone. Support is available 24/7. 🏳️‍🌈 The Trevor Project (LGBTQ+ Youth & Young Adults)Phone: 1-866-488-7386Text: “START” to 678-678Chat: https://www.thetrevorproject.org/get-help/ 🧡 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (All Ages)Call: 988Text: 988Chat: https://988lifeline.org/Note: You can request to speak with an LGBTQ+-affirming counselor. When available, 988 will route you to a counselor trained in supporting LGBTQ+ individuals. These services are free, confidential, and available any time, day or night. ________________________________________________ 🌈 MOR & More (Mixed-Orientation Relationships and More)Website: https://www.morandmore.org MOR & more was created from a desire to bring light, hope, and connection to mixed-orientation relationships. Born from the founder's own search for understanding and kindness, it is a space that exists to share real stories, foster empathy, and remind others that they are not alone.  Connect with us!! We want to hear from you!  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast...

    59 min

  6. 12/10/2025

    Bonus (Boners) EP 1 - Thank you, Bi Tribe! Gratitude, MOR Resources, & Rob's Type

    Thank you, Bi Tribe. Truly. This bonus episode is all about you, the incredible listeners who’ve supported our show, shared our content, sent messages, and helped us grow across countries and time zones. We’re blown away by how global this community has become. In today’s gratitude-focused episode, we: - Celebrate our listeners and share what this journey means to us - Highlight an amazing resource for anyone in a Mixed-Orientation Relationship (MOR) MORandMore.org - Have a little fun as Rob opens up about his type ;) Whether you’ve been here since Episode 1 or just found us this week, we appreciate you more than you know. Thank you for being part of this story with us. Connect with us!! We want to hear from you!  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle   - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding   - Building a stronger, more open community together    Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.   Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.   Please visit Mixed Orientation Relationships | MOR & more for an amazing website dedicated to provided resources for people in mixed orientation relationships

    43 min

  7. 12/03/2025

    EP. 3 - Bi Chatting VS. Straight Chatting

    Join us as Rob and Ashley take to the ring to go toe-to-toe on bi chatting vs straight chatting. We had very differing opinions on which is more important to have all members of both couples present. We hope you enjoy the playful banter from your ring side seats! Connect with us!! We want to hear from you!  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About on This Podcast** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle   - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding   - Building a stronger, more open community together    Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.   Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self in and out of the bedroom.   Recommended Websites: Mixed Orientation Relationships | MOR & more

    43 min

  8. 11/19/2025

    EP. 2 - Stigmas Against Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle

    In episode 2, Rob and Ashley dive into the top three stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle community — and what it’s really like to navigate them as a bi couple. We share our personal experiences, the misconceptions that still linger, and the amazing people who don’t buy into the hate. Ashley opens up about the emotional moment of being in the same room with another woman who proudly supports her husband’s bisexuality and sexual exploration for the first time. We also talk about how other bi men and couples are finding us, how we’re finding them, and how real connection is still absolutely possible — and a lot of fun — for bi singles and bi couples alike. Connect with us!! We want to hear from you!  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle   - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding   - Building a stronger, more open community together    Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.   Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

    53 min

  9. 11/02/2025

    Ep. 1 - Meet Rob and Ashley: Why We Started United Bi Swinging

    In our very first episode of United Bi Swinging, we're introducing ourselves - Rob and Ashley - a married, fully bisexual in the swinging community. We share who we are, why we started this podcast, and what we hope to create: a supportive, open space for bisexual men and their partners in the lifestyle. This episode sets the stage for everything to come - real conversations, shared experiences, and growing community that celebrates being United Bi Swinging. _____ This podcast explores real stories, honest conversations, and shared experiences from couples and single men navigating bisexuality within the swinging lifestyle.   Our goal is to normalize male bisexuality, create community, and spark open, judgment-free discussions about love, attraction, and authentic connection.   Connect with us!! We want to hear from you!  TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@united_bi_swinging?_r=1&_t=ZT-914NdFlscnX Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/united_bi_swinging?igsh=MXd2NXlhOGJkYWdkZA%3D%3D&utm_source=qr Join Our Subreddit Community to connect with us and with other listeners! See you there!! https://www.reddit.com/r/United_Bi_Swinging/s/R0u3Q4gMup Have a question or story you want us to share on the show? Email us!! ***Everyone will remain anonymous*** Email -> UnitedBiSwinging@gmail.com Please leave us a review to let us know if you find this podcast valuable to help us reach other people! :)  **What We Talk About** - Challenges and stigmas bisexual men face in the lifestyle   - How supportive partners play a crucial role in exploration and understanding   - Building a stronger, more open community together    Please Subscribe and listen wherever you get your podcasts.   Together, we’re rewriting the narrative and celebrating the freedom to be your whole self — in and out of the bedroom.

    41 min
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Welcome to United Bi Swinging: Bisexual Men in the Swinging Lifestyle — a podcast and community created to support, normalize, and celebrate bisexual men and the people who love them. Hosted by Rob and Ashley, a married and fully bisexual couple, we’re here to break the silence around male bisexuality in the swinging lifestyle. For too long, bi men have been hidden, misunderstood, or treated as taboo. We’re here to change that. This is a space for single and married bi men, for their partners who stand beside them, and for anyone ready to explore open relationships with honesty, curiosity, and pride. Whether you’re coming out to your spouse, learning to understand your partner’s bisexuality, or simply looking for a place where you belong — you’re not alone. We share real stories, open conversations, and raw truths about what it means to live authentically. Together, we’ll build a community of acceptance, encouragement, and understanding — one that helps others explore male bisexuality in a way that’s celebrated, not shamed. We are here for you. With you. Because we see you, we understand you, and we believe you deserve to be seen. It’s time to stop hiding. It’s time to take pride. It’s time to be United Bi Swinging.

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