The Tri-Star Podcast

Duane Brumitt & Chris Beane

Join Professor Duane Brumitt and Professor Chris Beane from Tri-Star Martial Arts Academy in Bradley, IL, as they share faith-based parenting insights, leadership lessons, and practical strategies to help you raise confident, humble, and gritty kids. Whether your child struggles with bullying, focus, or finding their purpose, this podcast equips parents with the tools to help their children become the leaders they were designed to be. tristarkarate.substack.com

  1. Aug 12

    33: Beyond Black Belts: Shaping Future Leaders Through Values

    Episode Summary: In this episode of The Tri-Star Podcast, hosts Duane Brumitt and Chris Beane explore how values like respect, discipline, and integrity in martial arts training can shape future leaders, both on the mat and in life. They discuss the importance of these values as building blocks for character development and offer practical insights into fostering a strong moral compass in children. * Understanding that greatness is forged through comfort and discipline * The role of core values such as respect, discipline, and integrity in martial arts training * How these values can be actively cultivated through consistent practice * The importance of leading by example to reinforce these values at home and beyond the studio Greatness is actually found in comfort. It’s forged through discipline. — Duane Brumitt, host of The Tri-Star Podcast Real respect is about understanding the inherent value in every person, treating them with kindness and empathy. — Chris Beane, co-host of The Tri-Star Podcast We need to be consistent in how we model these behaviors ourselves, showing respect and discipline as well as integrity with all aspects of our lives. — Duane Brumitt, host of The Tri-Star Podcast * Website: TriStar Karate Podcasts * YouTube: Tristar Karate YouTube Channel Call to Action: Don’t miss out on the latest insights from The Tri-Star Podcast. Subscribe and leave a review to help us reach more parents who want to shape their children’s futures through martial arts values. Follow us on our podcast page or subscribe to our YouTube channel for exclusive content. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tristarkarate.substack.com

    33: Beyond Black Belts: Shaping Future Leaders Through Values
  2. Aug 5

    32: Back-to-School Without the Chaos: Routines That Build Confident Kids

    Learn how to establish clear expectations and routines that set kids up for success in school and life, with practical strategies from Duane Brumitt and Chris Beane on the TriStar Podcast. EPISODE SUMMARY In this episode of The Tri-Star Podcast, hosts Chris Beane and Duane Brumitt explore how setting clear expectations and routines can help reduce chaos during back-to-school season. They discuss practical strategies for academic success and fostering independence in children. KEY TOPICS COVERED * Setting clear expectations for the school year * Establishing routines to reduce morning chaos * Create planners and organize backpacks * Teaching time management skills * Promoting positive communication NOTABLE QUOTES & INSIGHTS “Greatness only grows through discipline.” - Chris Beane “These challenges aren’t just about managing schedules or tasks. They’re about building a foundation for your kids to become confident and disciplined individuals when they grow up.” - Chris Beane “Absolutely. And, and that’s the key, right? So those clear expectations can actually make all the difference.” - Duane Brumitt (duanebrumitt@gmail.com) RESOURCES * Visit TriStar Karate’s Podcast Page * Subscribe to TriStar Karate’s YouTube Channel CALL TO ACTION Subscribe, share, and leave a review on your favorite podcast platform. Together, we can help more parents make back-to-school a smooth operation for their kids. * YouTube * Website This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tristarkarate.substack.com

    32: Back-to-School Without the Chaos: Routines That Build Confident Kids
  3. Jul 29

    31: Parental Influence: How Daily Actions Shape Your Child's Future

    Episode Summary: In this episode of The Tri-Star Podcast, Chris Beane and Duane Brumitt discuss how daily actions shape your child’s future, debunking the myth that big moments are necessary for character development. They introduce a simple framework to consistently influence discipline, confidence, and character without turning home life into a boot camp. KEY TOPICS * The myth of one big moment changing everything in parenting. * The power of small daily actions and their impact on your child’s development. * A framework for daily influence: identify moments, reflect on your impact, model desired behaviors, and reinforce through feedback. NOTABLE QUOTES “Character is built in small moments that are repeated daily, consistently.” — Chris Beane “Influence is built in reps. Nobody gets stronger from just one workout; it’s the reps that actually create strength.” — Duane Brumitt “Parenting advice only works in a quiet house with no kids and not parenting.” — Duane Brumitt RESOURCES * Subscribe to our YouTube channel for more content. * Visit our website for podcast episodes and resources. CALL TO ACTION We invite you to subscribe to The Tri-Star Podcast so you don’t miss any future insights. If you enjoyed this episode, please leave us a review or share it with your friends who might benefit from these parenting tips. * YouTube * Website This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tristarkarate.substack.com

    31: Parental Influence: How Daily Actions Shape Your Child's Future
  4. Jul 22

    30: Transform Your Mindset: How to Overcome Procrastination and Build Momentum

    Learn how to overcome procrastination and build momentum in this episode of The Tri-Star Podcast, featuring Duane Brumitt and Chris Beane. Discover the Momentum Framework to tackle projects and tasks effectively. EPISODE SUMMARY * The podcast explores why people procrastinate, offering practical tools and strategies for overcoming it. * Duane Brumitt and Chris Beane discuss the momentum framework and provide actionable steps to manage progress. * Exploring the root causes of procrastination in adults and children. * The importance of breaking down tasks into manageable actions for sustained productivity. * Introducing the momentum framework as a tool to build and maintain productivity. NOTABLE QUOTES OR INSIGHTS “Procrastination just isn’t being lazy.” — Duane Brumitt “Everything feels heavier in the fog. And even the simple tasks feel like they require a huge amount of energy.” — Duane Brumitt “Momentum, momentum, I think is the key word there because momentum is unreliable. But momentum, once it starts, can carry you, propel you forward.” — Chris Beane RESOURCES * View Recording - Tri-Star Podcast Episode 30 * TriStar Karate Podcasts Website CALL TO ACTION Subscribe to the podcast and leave a review on your favorite platform. Follow us for more insightful content: * YouTube * Website This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tristarkarate.substack.com

    30: Transform Your Mindset: How to Overcome Procrastination and Build Momentum
  5. Jul 15

    29: Summer Discipline – Building Character When the Routine Fades

    Learn how to maintain discipline during summer break and build character in this episode of The Tri-Star Podcast with Duane Brumitt and Chris Beane. EPISODE SUMMARY * The podcast explores the challenges of maintaining a disciplined routine over the summer months, offering practical steps for parents to help their children stay focused and resilient throughout the break. * Guests discuss the importance of structure during summer and share personal experiences from the Tri-Star martial arts studio, emphasizing how discipline can be likened to a muscle that needs regular exercise to avoid atrophy. * The concept of “summer discipline slide” where children lose focus on self-discipline, perseverance, and other character-building skills over the break. * Practical steps parents can take to maintain a structured routine during summer, such as setting daily goals, engaging in physical activities, and encouraging reading habits. * The analogy of discipline being like a muscle that needs regular exercise; otherwise, it atrophies. “Summer breaks aren’t supposed to be the break.” - Chris Beane “Kids won’t tell you they’re losing discipline. They’ll just show you. It shows up as more arguing about chores, more ‘I don’t want to,’ more difficulty handling small disappointments.” - Duane Brumitt * YouTube * Website We encourage you to subscribe and leave a review. Your support helps spread the message of maintaining discipline during summer break. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tristarkarate.substack.com

    29: Summer Discipline – Building Character When the Routine Fades
  6. Jul 8

    28: Set in Order: Building a Home That Helps Kids Thrive

    In this episode of The Tri-Star Podcast, hosts Mr. Brumitt and Professor Beane explore how setting a home environment can significantly impact your children’s ability to thrive. They discuss practical strategies for creating clarity, consistency, and a structured atmosphere that fosters growth and discipline. KEY TOPICS * The importance of subjugation in parenting as described by the Greek word “hupotasso.” * Creating a home environment that sets clear expectations and boundaries for children. * The role of leadership, responsibility, and gravity in shaping family culture. * Addressing the challenges of maintaining order amidst distractions and chaos. NOTABLE QUOTES AND INSIGHTS “Home is the same. Sometimes we don’t realize we’re building an environment that rewards certain things—and if we’re not careful, we’re rewarding the wrong thing.” - Mr. Brumitt “Leadership isn’t control. Leadership is responsibility.” - Professor Beane “Order doesn’t mean joy disappears. Order is a gift—because order produces peace.” - Professor Beane RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED * YouTube * Website CALL TO ACTION We hope you found this episode valuable. Please consider subscribing and leaving a review on your favorite podcast platform. You can also follow us on our * YouTube channel * website for more insights and updates. Let’s work together to set our homes in order and help our children thrive. This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit tristarkarate.substack.com

    28: Set in Order: Building a Home That Helps Kids Thrive

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Join Professor Duane Brumitt and Professor Chris Beane from Tri-Star Martial Arts Academy in Bradley, IL, as they share faith-based parenting insights, leadership lessons, and practical strategies to help you raise confident, humble, and gritty kids. Whether your child struggles with bullying, focus, or finding their purpose, this podcast equips parents with the tools to help their children become the leaders they were designed to be. tristarkarate.substack.com