Unfiltered-ish

Carina Gardner, Nicki Krawczyk, and Natali Edmonds
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Three smart, hilarious, middle-aged women walk into a podcast and forget to censor a thing. Unfiltered-ish is what happens when business friends-turned-besties grab a mic and let real life roll: the wins, the meltdowns, the marriages, the midlife shifts, and everything in between. It’s funny, messy, heartfelt, and way too relatable.  If you’ve ever wanted to eavesdrop on the kind of unfiltered conversations that usually stay between friends, pour a drink and pull up a chair because they said it all out loud, and you’ll be glad they did.

  1. 51M AGO

    Episode 27: The One Where We Treat Dating Like a Business

    Send us a text, question, or comment What if your dating life isn’t broken — it just needs a better strategy? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we treat dating like a business, Natali, Carina, and Nikki talk about dating apps, burnout, and how to approach modern dating in a completely different way. What starts as a conversation about creating a dating profile quickly turns into a deeper discussion about control, mindset, and why dating can feel so much harder than building a business. They explore:  Dating apps like Bumble and Hinge  Why online dating can feel frustrating and exhausting  Dating burnout and emotional fatigue  Treating dating like a funnel (top of funnel, messaging, and filtering)  How to create a dating profile that actually attracts the right people  Letting go of pressure to “find the one”  Dating for curiosity instead of outcome They also reflect on:  Why business feels easier than personal relationships  Control vs uncertainty in dating  How expectations impact your dating experience  Friendship, support, and navigating midlife together Along the way, they share stories from a week spent together — including photo shoots, AI experiments, hot air balloon rides, and the real conversations that happen when you slow down and talk about what actually matters. If you’ve ever felt stuck in dating, frustrated with dating apps, or unsure how to meet someone in a more intentional way, this episode offers a fresh, practical, and surprisingly empowering perspective. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife, relationships, personal growth, friendship, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    27 min

  2. APR 29

    Episode 26: The One Where We Build the Perfect Dating Application

    Send us a text, question, or comment Are dating apps actually helping — or just making dating harder? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we rethink dating apps, Natali, Carina, and Nikki dive into modern dating, first date expectations, and what really matters in a relationship. What starts as a conversation about Bumble, Hinge, and online dating quickly turns into a deeper discussion about compatibility, red flags, and how women think about relationships in midlife. They explore:  The reality of dating apps (Bumble, Hinge, Match, eHarmony)  Why online dating can feel exhausting  A creative alternative: building your own dating “application”  The kinds of questions that actually reveal compatibility  First date ideas and what makes a good first impression  Relationship expectations, communication, and shared values  Red flags, green flags, and subtle deal breakers  Food habits, generosity, and the small moments that matter They also play with relationship scenarios and games like:  “Could you love someone if…” (deal breaker conversations)  Conversation starters and real-life “pickup lines”  How to initiate meaningful conversations without apps Along the way, the conversation gets funny, honest, and unexpectedly insightful about what women actually want in a partner — and why that’s not always easy to articulate. If you’ve ever felt frustrated with dating apps, questioned your relationship standards, or wondered how to meet someone in a more authentic way, this episode offers a fresh, unfiltered perspective. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about relationships, midlife, dating, personal growth, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    29 min

  3. APR 22

    Episode 25: The One Where We Debate Love, Red Flags, and K-Pop Demon Hunters

    Send us a text, question, or comment What counts as a red flag — and how much should someone’s past matter in a relationship? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we debate love, red flags, and K-Pop Demon Hunters, Natali, Carina, and Nikki react to the movie and unexpectedly dive into a deeper conversation about relationships, dating standards, and how women interpret love very differently. What starts as a playful (and slightly chaotic) reaction to a film turns into a passionate debate about:  Red flags vs green flags in relationships  Can someone change — or are patterns permanent?  Toxic relationships vs healthy love  Emotional vs logical decision-making in dating  Why we’re drawn to complicated people  Trust, self-preservation, and relationship expectations They also unpack how personality shapes the way we view love, including:  Being more cynical vs more naive in relationships  Giving people the benefit of the doubt vs looking for warning signs  Wanting a soulmate vs believing in multiple partners over time  How past experiences influence dating decisions Along the way, they explore:  The idea of “soulmates” vs realistic relationships  Why some people hold out for deep connection while others settle  Female friendship dynamics and how we challenge each other  What it actually means to choose a partner in midlife If you’ve ever questioned your relationship standards, argued with friends about what’s a red flag, or wondered why people see the same situation so differently, this episode will feel relatable, honest, and surprisingly insightful. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about relationships, midlife, personal growth, friendship, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    50 min

  4. APR 15

    Episode 24: The One Where We Actually Go on the Hot Air Balloon Ride

    Send us a text, question, or comment What happens when you actually follow through on the thing you said you’d never do? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we finally go on the hot air balloon ride, Natali, Carina, and Nikki bring Episode 11: The One Where We Make Hot Air Balloon Plans full circle and actually do the thing. What started as a casual, “we would never do that” conversation turns into a real-life experience — complete with early morning nerves, questionable logistics, and a surprisingly honest conversation about fear, friendship, and doing things anyway. They talk about:  Facing fears in midlife  Why we say no to things before we even try them  How quickly “never” can turn into “okay, let’s do it”  Friendship dynamics and saying yes for each other  Letting go of control and trusting the experience Along the way, the conversation takes an unexpected turn into:  Mortality, legacy, and what we want to be remembered for  Whether we feel “ready” for the next chapter of life  Kids, family, and unfinished dreams  Building something meaningful while we’re still here Then — after all the anticipation — they actually go on the hot air balloon ride. From peaceful views and sunrise moments to a chaotic (and very real) landing, they share what it felt like to be thousands of feet in the air, what surprised them most, and whether it lived up to the expectation. If you listened to Episode 11, this is the follow-up you didn’t know you needed. If you’ve ever talked yourself out of something, postponed an experience, or needed a push to finally do the thing — this episode is a reminder that sometimes the best moments come from saying yes. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife, friendship, personal growth, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    37 min

  5. APR 8

    Episode 23: The One Where We Get Honest About Marriage, Money, and Relationships

    Send us a text, question, or comment What happens when you answer uncomfortable questions about money, relationships, family, and marriage — out loud? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we play a confession game, Natali, Carina, and Nikki use a card game to spark honest, unfiltered conversations about relationships, personal habits, family dynamics, and money. What starts as a light, playful game quickly turns into deeper discussions about:  Marriage expectations and relationship roles  What it means to be a “provider” in a relationship  Emotional support vs financial support in partnerships  Gender roles, dating, and modern relationships  Setting boundaries and avoiding one-sided relationships  Family dynamics, childhood influence, and inherited traits  Money conversations and why talking about income feels uncomfortable They also explore how midlife changes the way women think about relationships, including:  Redefining marriage rules  Wanting partnership vs independence  Emotional connection, effort, and feeling valued  The difference between being cared for vs being taken care of Along the way, there are laughs, honest confessions, unexpected disagreements, and real talk about what women actually want in relationships but don’t always say out loud. If you’ve ever questioned relationship dynamics, struggled with boundaries, or wondered how expectations shift in midlife, this episode will feel relatable, thoughtful, and very real. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about relationships, midlife, personal growth, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    49 min

  6. APR 1

    Episode 22: The One Where We Plan Our Dream Trips Together

    Send us a text, question, or comment What’s actually on your bucket list in midlife — and who do you want to experience it with? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we make a midlife bucket list together, Natali, Carina, and Nikki record in person while planning future trips, shared experiences, and the things they want to do in their 40s and beyond. What starts as a light conversation quickly turns into a fun, honest look at friendship, travel goals, and how priorities shift in midlife. They talk about:  Creating a midlife bucket list with friends  Travel dreams like Korea, Japan, Europe, and luxury retreats  Unique experiences like Korean spa transformations, surfing camps, hot air balloon rides, and staying in castles  Why shared experiences matter more than checking things off a list  Trying new things after 40 (even the ones that feel uncomfortable or unexpected)  Redefining fun, adventure, and what feels worth the effort now They also come up with a new idea:  each friend plans a “bucket list trip” and the others have to come, even if it’s something they wouldn’t normally choose. Along the way, the conversation includes everything from dance parties and cooking classes to planetariums, wild donkeys in Arizona, and the reality of balancing ambition with actually enjoying your life. If you’re building a bucket list in your 40s, craving more fun or travel, or thinking about how to create meaningful experiences with friends, this episode will feel relatable, light, and inspiring. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife, friendship, travel, personal growth, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    39 min

  7. MAR 25

    Episode 21: The One Where We Overthink Everything in Midlife

    Send us a text, question, or comment How do you know if you’re being thoughtful — or just stuck in analysis paralysis? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, the one where we overthink everything, Natali, Carina, and Nikki unpack decision fatigue, overthinking in midlife, and the fear of making the wrong choice. What starts as a light conversation quickly turns into an honest look at how women in their 40s and 50s navigate life transitions, identity shifts, and the pressure to get decisions “right.” They talk about: Overthinking major life decisionsDecision fatigue in midlifeAnalysis paralysis and perfectionismFear of regretChanging careers or scaling backRelationship decisions and boundariesThe pressure to choose correctly in your 40sWhy growth often requires uncomfortable choicesThe conversation explores how ambition, personal development, and midlife transitions can actually increase anxiety around decision-making. They reflect on why the stakes feel higher now, how past experiences influence present fear, and what it means to trust yourself again. If you’ve ever spiraled over a decision, postponed something because you wanted more certainty, or wondered why making choices feels harder in midlife, this episode offers humor, honesty, and perspective. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife reinvention, ambition, relationships, overthinking, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    1 hr

  8. MAR 18

    Episode 20: The One Where We Outgrow Friendships in Midlife

    Send us a text, question, or comment What happens when friendships shift in midlife — and how do you know who to keep and who to outgrow? In this episode of Unfiltered-ish, Natali, Carina, and Nikki start with quirky personal confessions (including juggling and an unexpected trivia team story) before diving into something deeper: adult friendships, sibling relationships, boundaries, and how connection evolves in your 40s and 50s. They talk about: Outgrowing friendships in midlifeGrowth-minded relationships vs energy-draining dynamicsWhy some friendships fade without a dramatic endingSetting boundaries with friendsMaintaining long-term friendships from high school and collegeThe unique comfort of sibling relationshipsWhen shared history matters more than shared goalsHow ambition and personal growth affect who stays in your lifeThe conversation also moves into midlife experiences that shape connection — from university leadership and entrepreneurship to cruise vacations, luxury travel, and even the infamous “poop cruise” documentary that will make you rethink everything. This episode explores adult friendship dynamics, emotional maturity, personal growth, and the reality that not every relationship is meant to last forever. If you’ve ever wondered why certain friendships feel harder to maintain after 40, why some people naturally drift away, or how to cultivate deeper, more aligned relationships in midlife, this conversation will resonate. Unfiltered-ish is a women’s podcast about midlife reinvention, friendship, ambition, family dynamics, and the conversations we don’t always say out loud.

    38 min
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Three smart, hilarious, middle-aged women walk into a podcast and forget to censor a thing. Unfiltered-ish is what happens when business friends-turned-besties grab a mic and let real life roll: the wins, the meltdowns, the marriages, the midlife shifts, and everything in between. It’s funny, messy, heartfelt, and way too relatable.  If you’ve ever wanted to eavesdrop on the kind of unfiltered conversations that usually stay between friends, pour a drink and pull up a chair because they said it all out loud, and you’ll be glad they did.

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  • Creator
    Carina Gardner, Nicki Krawczyk, and Natali Edmonds
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    27
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Unfiltered-ish
  • Show Website
    Unfiltered-ish

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