Come Undone with Jess Cameron

Jess Cameron

A provocative pod for the round pegs in square holes.   For those who like to think differently. The curious ones. The explorers of new ideas. It’s for those who believe traditional success doesn’t have to come through traditional means.    We talk business, relationships, life and love - but we talk about them in a way you’ve rarely heard them discussed.    'Come Undone' is about being open to unlearning and unbecoming everything that’s holding you back. It’s about shedding the need to be your perfect self so that you can discover your authentic self.   Conversations that'll keep you mentally flexible. Together, we'll expand our minds so we can elevate our lives.

Episodes

  1. 5D AGO

    Why We Don’t Ask for What We Need

    In this episode of Come Undone, we sit with a question that subtly shapes so many of our relationships: Why is it so  hard to ask for what we need? Through the lens of biology, nervous system wiring, and masculine–feminine dynamics, this episode discusses why so many women (in particular) struggle to express their needs directly — not because they don’t know what they need, but because of two main reasons: A subconscious program that signals it's unsafe to show too many needsHaving to ask feels like it “defeats the purpose!”What begins as a simple reflection unfolds into an exploration of the invisible tests we place on the people we love, and exposes the distortion many of us carry: the belief that love is shown by anticipating needs rather than communication.  This is not a conversation about gender roles. It’s about understanding. About recognising how deeply safety, survival, and people-pleasing are woven into the feminine experience — and how those patterns quietly fuel resentment, passive aggression, and emotional distance when needs go unspoken. It's an invitation to soften into a new perspective, to stop hurting your own feelings, and to replace silent tests with honest requests.  A powerful listen for anyone wanting to discover how to shift a relationship from a default lose–lose dynamic into something far more enjoyable — where both people get to win! Want to connect personally? Join me on Instagram --> https://www.instagram.com/thatsjesscameron Want to work with me? Check out the website --> https://jesscameron.com/

    45 min
  2. Who Should Pay for Dinner? - Balancing Masculine & Feminine in Work & Relationships

    JAN 21

    Who Should Pay for Dinner? - Balancing Masculine & Feminine in Work & Relationships

    This one’s for the ladies!  What happens when we stop trying to be equal, and start learning how to be complementary?  In this episode, Jess is joined by Megan Granville for a deeply honest, nuanced conversation about masculine and feminine dynamics—in relationships, friendships, leadership, and in the workplace.  Together, they explore why so many of us feel exhausted, disconnected, or stuck in “doing mode,” and how unlearning masculine conditioning can feel both liberating and terrifying.  From feminism, to dating norms, to sexism in the workplace - this episode challenges the idea that equality means sameness, and instead invites a more balanced way of relating.  This is a conversation for anyone who: Feels the tension between independence and surrenderStruggles to soften after years of being in survival or hustle modeWants deeper, more authentic relationshipsIs questioning what it practically looks like to show up in their feminine energyYou’ll hear real-life examples and practical insights on: The misunderstood power of feminine energy (and why it’s not weakness)How masculine dominance shows up in relationships and workplacesThe paradox of advocating feminism in a masculine wayWhat true balance between structure and flow actually looks likeThis episode isn’t about choosing one energy over the other. It’s about learning how to hold both—so you can relate, lead, love, and live with more ease.  Come undone with us—and discover what becomes possible when you stop forcing and start receiving. Want to connect personally? Join me on Instagram --> https://www.instagram.com/thatsjesscameron Want to work with me? Check out the website --> https://jesscameron.com/

    1h 24m

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A provocative pod for the round pegs in square holes.   For those who like to think differently. The curious ones. The explorers of new ideas. It’s for those who believe traditional success doesn’t have to come through traditional means.    We talk business, relationships, life and love - but we talk about them in a way you’ve rarely heard them discussed.    'Come Undone' is about being open to unlearning and unbecoming everything that’s holding you back. It’s about shedding the need to be your perfect self so that you can discover your authentic self.   Conversations that'll keep you mentally flexible. Together, we'll expand our minds so we can elevate our lives.