Reign Unfiltered

Michelle Jenmi

Reign Unfiltered is the straight-talking, soul-shifting podcast for women done with shrinking, second-guessing, and settling. Hosted by award-winning identity mentor and business coach Michelle J, this show is your unapologetic guide to leveling up your confidence, owning your voice, and building income from who you really are — no filters, no fluff, just full-on reign. 

  1. FEB 3

    Silent Expectations: The Hidden Rules That Bury Women’s True Identity

    Send us a text There are expectations women carry that are never spoken out loud, but quietly shape how they live, lead, and see themselves. In this tender and deeply personal episode, Michelle J explores the silent expectations women inherit and internalise, including the pressure to be grateful instead of honest, successful but not intimidating, and to never change too much. Over time, these unspoken rules don’t just drain energy ... they bury identity. This episode is for women who feel exposed but unseen, accomplished but restrained, grateful yet quietly unfulfilled. Together, we unpack: Why women confuse silent expectations with characterHow gratitude can become a form of self-silencingThe hidden cost of being “easy” to love or work withWhy growth is often labelled as “intimidating”What it really means to reclaim your identity without guiltThis is not a hype episode.  It’s a mirror. If you’ve ever felt like you had to make yourself smaller, quieter, or easier to stay loved, this conversation will name what you’ve been carrying — and offer permission to put it down. Listen in, take a breath, and remember:  You are not difficult. You are not ungrateful. You are not wrong for changing. Confidence on. Doubt off. 🎧 Listen now & share your favourite moment — tag @MichelleJenmi 💬 Comment: What’s your biggest takeaway from this episode? 🎙️ Look out for new episodes every week. Follow Michelle on her socials Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Click here to Join the FREE Elevate Community on Skool

    18 min
  2. JAN 20

    The Invisible Load: The Silent Identity Crisis Women Carry Every Day

    Send us a text What happens when you’re managing everything, but slowly losing yourself? In this episode of the podcast, we explore the invisible load ... the silent emotional and mental responsibility many women carry while juggling parenting, care giving, leadership, relationships, and work. This is not about burnout as a buzzword.  It’s about the quiet identity erosion that happens when capable women carry too much for too long. We talk about: What the invisible load really isThe emotional signs women often ignore (irritability, numbness, guilt, mental fatigue)Why this isn’t weakness, failure, or lack of gratitudeHow constant responsibility impacts confidence, clarity, and identityWhy awareness is the first step to sustainable changeThis episode is a gentle, sister-to-sister conversation designed to help you feel seen, validated, and relieved; especially if you’ve been telling yourself “I should be coping better.” If you’ve ever felt tired beyond sleep, emotionally stretched, or unsure who you are outside your roles, this episode is for you. To attend a session live, join me inside The Elevation Room, my free community on Skool, where we turn awareness into grounded action. Confidence on. Doubt off. 🎧 Listen now & share your favourite moment — tag @MichelleJenmi 💬 Comment: What’s your biggest takeaway from this episode? 🎙️ Look out for new episodes every week. Follow Michelle on her socials Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Click here to Join the FREE Elevate Community on Skool

    16 min
  3. JAN 6

    The Identity Reset: Why You’re Not Broken ... You’re Transitioning (A New Year Reset for Women)

    Send us a text Why do so many women feel lost, overwhelmed, or emotionally flat at the start of a new year, even when life looks “fine” on the outside? In this opening episode of 2026, The Identity Reset: Why You’re Not Broken ... You’re Transitioning (A New Year Reset for Women), we explore the truth most women are never told: you’re not broken, you’re transitioning. This episode is a powerful New Year identity reset for women who feel disconnected from themselves, tired of performing old roles, and ready to realign with who they’re becoming. Through honest reflection, supportive truth-telling, and guided identity prompts, you’ll learn: Why January can feel heavy instead of hopefulHow identity transitions create confusion before clarityWhat it really means to release an outdated version of yourselfHow to reset your identity without pressure, hustle, or perfectionThis is not a “New Year, New Me” conversation.  It’s an invitation to pause, release, and begin again; on purpose. If this episode resonates and you’re ready to explore your identity more deeply, the Identity Code offers guided support for women navigating this transition. 🎧 New here? Be sure to catch up on Series One... it lays the emotional foundation for everything we’re building this year. You’re not behind. You’re not failing. You’re becoming. 🎧 Listen now & share your favourite moment — tag @MichelleJenmi 💬 Comment: What’s your biggest takeaway from this episode? 🎙️ Look out for new episodes every week. Follow Michelle on her socials Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Click here to Join the FREE Elevate Community on Skool

    10 min
  4. 12/23/2025

    When the Mask No Longer Fits: The Strong Woman Myth, Identity Awakening & Stepping Into Your Power

    Send us a text What happens when the mask you’ve been wearing your whole life…  no longer fits? In this season finale of Reign Unfiltered, Michelle J delivers a raw, uncomfortable, and deeply liberating identity conversation for women who are exhausted from pretending, performing, and holding it all together. This episode explores the two most common masks women wear: the strong woman mask and the good woman mask; and what happens when they begin to crack. When exhaustion sets in. When rage bubbles under the surface. When anxiety rises. When you quietly admit, “I can’t keep this up anymore.” Michelle breaks down why these moments are not a breakdown but an awakening. In this episode, you’ll discover: The hidden cost of wearing the “strong woman” maskWhy the “good woman” role leads to self-erasureThe emotional signs that your mask is slippingWhy exhaustion, rage, and anxiety often signal growthA personal mirror moment that changed everythingWhy discomfort is a necessary part of stepping into powerA reflective exercise to help you identify the mask you’re ready to removeThis episode is for the woman who feels like she’s outgrown her life…  but hasn’t yet given herself permission to stop pretending. As the season closes and the holidays approach, Michelle also shares a powerful message of rest, reflection, and intention with a promise of what’s coming next as Reign Unfiltered returns in the new year with even bolder conversations. This is not the end.  This is the threshold. Confidence on. Doubt off. Your becoming starts here. 🎧 Listen now & share your favourite moment — tag @MichelleJenmi 💬 Comment: What’s your biggest takeaway from this episode? 🎙️ Look out for new episodes every week. Follow Michelle on her socials Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Click here to Join the FREE Elevate Community on Skool

    12 min
  5. 12/16/2025

    Rewriting the Narrative: Your Story Is Not Over. How Women Reclaim Their Identity & Confidence

    Send us a text What if the story you’ve been living … isn’t the story you were meant to finish? In Episode 6 of Reign Unfiltered, Michelle J delivers a raw, poetic, and deeply activating session on rewriting the narrative women tell themselves and why your story is not over, no matter your age, stage of life, or past mistakes. This episode is for the woman who feels stuck, invisible, or scared to break the cycle. The woman who tells herself she’s “too old,” “not confident,” or “just a mum, wife, or helper.” The woman who knows there is more inside her, but doesn’t know how to access it yet. Michelle exposes the real enemy holding women back: internalised fear! The quiet voice that convinces women to shrink, settle, and silence themselves. Through powerful storytelling, truth-telling, and a guided writing exercise, this episode helps listeners take the pen back and reclaim their identity. ✨ In this episode, you’ll learn: Why “I’m too old to start over” is a fear-based lieHow confidence is built through choice, not personalityHow women internalise fear and mistake it for realismWhy motherhood, marriage, and responsibility often silence identityThe moment Michelle realised her dreams mattered tooHow to rewrite the beliefs that have shaped your lifeA guided narrative-rewriting exercise to activate your next chapterWhy breaking the cycle starts with reclaiming your voiceThis is not a motivational talk.  This is an identity reset. If you’ve been feeling disconnected from yourself…  If fear has been writing your story… If you’re ready to reclaim your confidence, your voice, and your future… This episode will meet you exactly where you are — and push you forward. 💜 Confidence on. Doubt off. Your next chapter starts now. 🎧 Listen now & share your favourite moment — tag @MichelleJenmi 💬 Comment: What’s your biggest takeaway from this episode? 🎙️ Look out for new episodes every week. Follow Michelle on her socials Instagram TikTok LinkedIn Click here to Join the FREE Elevate Community on Skool

    25 min

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Reign Unfiltered is the straight-talking, soul-shifting podcast for women done with shrinking, second-guessing, and settling. Hosted by award-winning identity mentor and business coach Michelle J, this show is your unapologetic guide to leveling up your confidence, owning your voice, and building income from who you really are — no filters, no fluff, just full-on reign.