The Unmasked Therapist Podcast

Keystone Therapy Group

Hosted by Kim Rippy, LPC, and Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT, of Keystone Therapy Group, The Unmasked Therapist explores how authenticity transforms the therapeutic relationship. Each episode offers clinical insight, real-world reflection, and practical takeaways for therapists at every stage of their journey. New episodes drop every Monday morning. Learn more at keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision or email podcast@keystonetherapygroup.com. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #TherapistLife #AuthenticTherapy #ClinicalSupervision #ResidentTherapist #SupervisionMatters

  1. Sep 21

    Episode 44: Therapists Need Support Too

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠ and ⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠ explore what happens when therapists become dysregulated and how personal stress, anxiety, and emotions can show up in the therapy space. Kim and Kaitlyn discuss the ways dysregulation can affect therapists at different stages of their careers, including the tendency to take clients home mentally, ruminate about sessions, and struggle to recognize when they are no longer showing up as their most regulated selves. They reflect on how difficult it can be to recognize dysregulation while you are in it and the importance of hindsight, self-awareness, and noticing your own patterns. They also discuss the importance of having people you can turn to when you are struggling, whether that is a supervisor, coworker, peer, or friend. Kim and Kaitlyn explore the vulnerability and fear that can come with admitting you need support, particularly when you worry about how a supervisor or boss might perceive you. They emphasize the value of co-regulation, appropriate professional boundaries, and recognizing when asking for support is necessary to ensure therapists can continue showing up effectively for their clients. The conversation also focuses on the importance of community for therapists. From consultation groups and coworkers to professional trainings and networking events, Kim and Kaitlyn discuss how building genuine connections with other therapists can provide validation, understanding, and a sense of belonging in what can otherwise be an isolating profession. Ultimately, they encourage therapists to pay attention to how dysregulation shows up for them, recognize when personal experiences may be affecting their work, allow themselves to be vulnerable with trusted people, and build a community they can rely on throughout their careers. In this episode, we discuss: • What dysregulation can look like for therapists • How personal stress can show up in the therapy space • Recognizing dysregulation in yourself and your clients • The tendency to take clients home mentally • How rumination and anxiety can affect therapists outside of work • Why dysregulation can be difficult to recognize while you're experiencing it • The importance of self-awareness and recognizing personal patterns • Co-regulation and the role of supportive relationships • Knowing when to reach out for help and support • The vulnerability and fear that can come with asking for help • Navigating boundaries between therapy, supervision, and peer support • Why therapists cannot do this work alone • The importance of community and connection for therapists • Building supportive relationships with coworkers and peers • Finding community through professional trainings, consultation groups, and networking • Managing the isolation that can come with working in the mental health field • Recognizing when personal experiences are affecting your work • Learning what dysregulation looks like for you • Allowing yourself to be vulnerable and letting others see you Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: ⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #TherapistSelfCare #TherapistBurnout #TherapistCommunity #TherapistSupport #CoRegulation #TherapistWellness #MentalHealthProfessionals #ClinicalPsychology #PrivatePractice

  2. Sep 7

    Episode 43: The Contradictions of Being a Therapist: Part 2 — Emotional Weight & Boundaries

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors Kim Rippy, LPC and Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT continue their conversation about the contradictions of being a therapist by exploring what happens when therapists are expected to carry the emotional weight of their clients while still functioning as their own people outside the therapy room. Kim and Kaitlyn discuss the challenge of being fully present for clients, processing intense emotions and experiences throughout the day, and then transitioning back into their personal lives. They explore the pressure to compartmentalize, the emotional depletion that can come from caring deeply about clients, and the difficulty of maintaining patience and presence with family and friends after spending the day offering so much of themselves to others. They also discuss the importance of finding ways to replenish emotional energy, why self-care cannot always look the same from day to day, and the tension between setting boundaries with clients while wanting to remain flexible and accommodating. From managing client emails and fees to navigating the business realities of private practice, Kim and Kaitlyn explore how therapists can reconcile the contradictions between what they encourage their clients to do and what they sometimes expect of themselves. Ultimately, they return to the importance of authenticity, flexibility, supervision, and remembering the therapist each person originally envisioned becoming. In this episode, we discuss: • The emotional weight therapists carry from their clients • Why “leaving your clients at the office” can be easier said than done • The pressure to compartmentalize between sessions and after work • Being deeply present for clients while still being present in your personal life • Emotional depletion and compassion fatigue • Why therapists may have more patience for clients than their own families • Finding flexible and individualized ways to replenish yourself • Knowing when to push yourself and when to slow down • Setting boundaries with clients while remaining authentic and connected • The pressure to be endlessly accommodating • Balancing clinical care with the realities of running a private practice • The contradiction between telling clients their productivity does not determine their worth while navigating productivity as a business owner • Using supervision and reflection to navigate therapist contradictions • Reconnecting with the therapist you envisioned becoming • Finding the middle ground between competing expectations Connect with us: Supervision: www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #TherapistBurnout #TherapistSelfCare #TherapistBoundaries #EmotionalLabor #TherapeuticRelationship #TherapistEducation #PrivatePractice #HumanCenteredTherapy

  3. Aug 31

    Episode 42: Authenticity, Supervision, and Sex Therapy

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisor ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ sits down with Hallie McGuinness, a resident in counseling and sex therapy trainee, to talk about her experiences with supervision, finding her niche as a therapist, and learning to bring more of her authentic self into the therapy space. Kim and Hallie begin by discussing Hallie’s path into the field and her decision to pursue sex therapy, including some of the misconceptions that exist around what sex therapy actually looks like. They explore how sex therapy remains talk therapy while addressing concerns such as sexual dysfunction, desire discrepancy, anxiety, trauma, and intimacy. They also discuss the importance of specialized training and the ways therapists can develop a niche within an already specialized area of practice. The conversation then turns to supervision, including Hallie’s expectations of supervision when she first entered the field and how those expectations changed through her experiences as a resident. Kim and Hallie discuss the benefits of group supervision, the value of hearing multiple clinical perspectives, and the ways different supervision styles can complement one another. They also explore how bringing authenticity and vulnerability into supervision can help therapists feel more comfortable doing the same with their clients. Throughout the conversation, they reflect on the pressure therapists and supervisees often feel to have all the answers, be perfect, and move quickly through their required hours. Kim and Hallie share lessons from their own experiences and discuss what therapists can gain when they focus less on perfection and more on learning, connection, and the quality of their clinical work. In this episode, we discuss:• Hallie’s journey into counseling and sex therapy• Common misconceptions about sex therapy• What sex therapy actually looks like in practice• The importance of specialized training and finding a clinical niche• Expectations of supervision versus the reality of supervision• The benefits of group supervision and multiple clinical perspectives• Differences between individual and group supervision• How supervision styles can influence clinical practice• Bringing authenticity and vulnerability into supervision• The pressure therapists feel to have all the answers• What therapists and supervisees can learn from not being perfect• Why supervisees should focus on the quality of their experience rather than simply completing hours• The importance of supervisors recognizing their own biases and limitations• Lessons Hallie has taken from supervision into her work with clients Connect with us:Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapistEmail: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #SexTherapy #TherapistEducation #GroupSupervision #ClinicalSkills #TherapistAuthenticity #Supervision #CounselingIntern #TherapistLife #HumanCenteredTherapy

  4. Aug 24

    Episode 41: The Contradictions of Being a Therapist: Part 1 — Authenticity & Boundaries

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors Kim Rippy, LPC and Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT explore the many contradictions therapists face in their work. Inspired by the famous monologue from Barbie, Kim and Kaitlyn discuss the often conflicting expectations therapists navigate when it comes to being authentic, building meaningful relationships with clients, and maintaining professional boundaries. They explore what it means to build a genuine therapeutic relationship without becoming a client’s friend, and how therapists can balance vulnerability and authenticity with the responsibility to maintain appropriate boundaries. Kim and Kaitlyn also discuss the tension between caring deeply about clients while remaining emotionally regulated, and the challenges that can arise when therapists are deeply affected by what their clients are experiencing. Throughout the conversation, they reflect on the gray areas that exist within therapeutic relationships, including how much therapists should share about themselves, how long-term clients may come to know their therapists on a personal level, and how therapists can recognize when authenticity is helpful versus when it begins to shift the focus away from the client. Ultimately, Kim and Kaitlyn emphasize using ethics as a guide rather than a source of fear, seeking supervision when something feels unclear, and remembering that the therapist’s authentic self is one of their most important tools. In this episode, we discuss: • The contradictions therapists face in their professional roles • Being human without becoming “too human” in the therapy room • Building genuine relationships while maintaining professional boundaries • Why therapists cannot be friends with their clients • Navigating the gray areas of therapeutic relationships • How much therapists should share about their personal lives • Being vulnerable enough to create safety while maintaining boundaries • Caring deeply about clients without becoming emotionally overwhelmed • Managing the emotional impact of clients’ experiences • The tension between authenticity and professionalism • How long-term clients may come to know their therapists personally • Using ethics and supervision to navigate difficult boundaries • Why authenticity can be an important part of effective therapy Connect with us: Supervision: www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #TherapistBoundaries #TherapeuticRelationship #AuthenticTherapy #TherapistEducation #PrivatePractice #ClinicalSkills #HumanCenteredTherapy

  5. Aug 17

    Re-release: Episode 6: Why Clients Cancel: Boundaries, No-Shows, and Real-World Clinical Work

    Re-release: In this episode, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠ talk about one of the most challenging and confusing parts of early clinical work: cancellations, no-shows, and inconsistent attendance. These moments bring up questions about boundaries, financial policies, client investment, and the balance between being human and being a clinician. We break down the differences between each type of missed session, how they impact the therapeutic relationship, and why your approach matters both clinically and ethically. Kaitlyn and Kim share how these situations show up in real sessions, why new clinicians often feel guilty or unsure about charging fees, and how to understand the clinical meaning behind patterns of missed appointments. They discuss the tension between being flexible and maintaining structure, how to navigate conversations about attendance with authenticity, and why consistency is foundational to therapeutic progress. You will also hear how supervision can support you in handling these moments without slipping into performance mode or abandoning your boundaries. Key Takeaways:• The clinical differences between no-shows, late cancellations, and inconsistent attendance• Why charging for missed sessions exists and how to understand client investment• How to hold boundaries without losing authenticity or compassion• What missed appointments can communicate clinically• The role of supervision in navigating guilt, uncertainty, and boundary-setting• How consistency and structure support safety in the therapeutic relationship Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠⁠ Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠@TheUnmaskedTherapist⁠⁠ Email: ⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠ If this episode was helpful, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. All therapy skills discussed should be used within the scope of your experience and with appropriate clinical supervision. #AuthenticTherapist #TherapistBoundaries #NoShows #TherapyBusiness #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistTraining #HumanCenteredTherapy #ClientEngagement #NewTherapistSupport

  6. Aug 10

    Episode 40: When Therapy Changes Relationships

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ explore a complicated question: Can therapy contribute to relationships ending? Drawing from their experiences working with individuals and couples, Kim and Kaitlyn discuss what happens when clients begin questioning their relationships, setting boundaries, and considering whether a relationship is still healthy for them. They explore the responsibility therapists have when clients look to them for guidance, emphasizing the importance of recognizing the authority therapists naturally hold in their clients’ lives while still allowing clients to make their own decisions. Rather than telling clients what to do, they discuss how therapists can help clients explore their options, consider multiple perspectives, and make intentional choices without inadvertently steering them toward the outcome the therapist believes is best. Throughout the conversation, Kim and Kaitlyn reflect on the difference between supporting a client’s decision and making that decision for them. They also discuss what happens when clients ask directly, “What do you think I should do?” and share an exercise they use to help clients connect with their own instincts when they feel stuck. In this episode, we discuss: • Whether therapy contributes to relationships ending • The therapist’s influence and authority in clients’ lives • Supporting clients without telling them what to do • How therapists can unintentionally steer clients toward a particular decision • Exploring both sides of a relationship decision without bias • The importance of client autonomy and intentional decision-making • What to do when a client asks, “What would you do?” • Using stuckness as an opportunity for reflection • Helping clients identify what they truly want and need • The difference between guiding a client and making a decision for them • Why a relationship ending is not necessarily a sign that therapy has failed Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #TherapistBoundaries #ClientAutonomy #TherapeuticRelationship #ClinicalSkills #TherapistEducation #PrivatePractice #CouplesTherapy #RelationshipTherapy #HumanCenteredTherapy

  7. Aug 3

    Episode 39: Setting the Foundation for Therapy

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ continue their discussion on intake sessions by taking a closer look at informed consent. While informed consent is often viewed as a required administrative task, Kim and Kaitlyn explore how it can serve as the foundation for a strong therapeutic relationship and provide an opportunity to establish clear expectations, boundaries, and safety from the very beginning. Drawing from their experiences in both private practice and agency settings, they discuss the essential topics they cover with clients during a first session, including confidentiality, communication policies, scheduling expectations, cancellation fees, and therapist availability. They also share the lessons they have learned over the years, highlighting how informed consent evolves as therapists encounter new situations, refine their boundaries, and identify areas where greater clarity can benefit both clients and clinicians. Throughout the conversation, they emphasize the importance of transparency, consistency, and proactive communication. By approaching informed consent as more than just paperwork, therapists can reduce misunderstandings, strengthen the therapeutic alliance, and create a framework that supports effective clinical work from day one. In this episode, we discuss:• Key components of informed consent and why they matter• How confidentiality and its limits are explained to clients• Setting expectations around scheduling, cancellations, and communication• Establishing healthy boundaries early in the therapeutic relationship• The role of transparency in building trust and safety• How therapist experience shapes informed consent practices over time• Addressing common issues proactively rather than reactively• Special considerations when working with teens and families• Telehealth-specific boundaries and confidentiality considerations• Why informed consent is more than just a form to sign Connect with us:Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapistEmail: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer:This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #InformedConsent #TherapistBoundaries #PrivatePractice #TherapyIntake #TherapeuticRelationship #ClinicalSkills #TherapistEducation #TelehealthTherapy #HumanCenteredTherapy

  8. Jul 27

    Episode 38: Are You Rescuing Them—or Yourself?

    In this episode of The Unmasked Therapist Podcast, Clinical Supervisors ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kim Rippy, LPC⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, explore the therapist's urge to rescue clients from discomfort. Whether it shows up as offering reassurance, searching for answers, softening difficult realities, or trying to ease a client's pain, the desire to rescue often comes from a genuine place of care. But what happens when our efforts to help actually interfere with the therapeutic process? Kim and Kaitlyn discuss the many ways rescuing can appear in both individual and couples therapy, from sitting with grief and loss to navigating relational impasses where no easy solution exists. They explore how therapists can recognize their own discomfort, differentiate between regulation and rescuing, and develop the capacity to remain present with clients through difficult emotions rather than rushing toward relief. Throughout the conversation, they highlight the importance of honoring clients' experiences, trusting the therapeutic process, and allowing discomfort to serve its purpose. By examining the impulse to rescue, therapists can better understand what is happening within themselves and create space for deeper healing, growth, and connection. In this episode, we discuss:• What rescuing clients from discomfort looks like in therapy• How rescuing can show up in both individual and couples work• The connection between rescuing, countertransference, and therapist discomfort• The difference between helping, regulating, and rescuing• Working with grief, loss, and other emotionally intense experiences• Why discomfort is often necessary for growth and healing• How therapists can recognize and manage their own urge to rescue• The importance of honoring clients' experiences rather than minimizing them• Questions therapists can ask themselves when they notice the impulse to rescue• How authenticity and self-awareness support effective clinical work Connect with us: Supervision: ⁠⁠www.keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision/⁠⁠ Instagram: @TheUnmaskedTherapist Email: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Supervision@KeystoneTherapyGroup.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ If this episode resonated with you, leave a five-star review and subscribe for more conversations about authentic, grounded, human-centered therapy. Disclaimer: This podcast is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for clinical supervision. All information shared represents our own opinions and should not be taken as legal or clinical direction. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #UnmaskedTherapist #TherapistPodcast #MentalHealthPodcast #ClinicalSupervision #TherapistGrowth #PersonOfTheTherapist #Authenticity #Countertransference #GriefWork #CouplesTherapy #IndividualTherapy #TherapeuticRelationship #ClinicalReflection #HumanCenteredTherapy

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Hosted by Kim Rippy, LPC, and Kaitlyn Steel, LMFT, of Keystone Therapy Group, The Unmasked Therapist explores how authenticity transforms the therapeutic relationship. Each episode offers clinical insight, real-world reflection, and practical takeaways for therapists at every stage of their journey. New episodes drop every Monday morning. Learn more at keystonetherapygroup.com/supervision or email podcast@keystonetherapygroup.com. #TheUnmaskedTherapist #TherapistLife #AuthenticTherapy #ClinicalSupervision #ResidentTherapist #SupervisionMatters