Unseen but Not Untold: Overcoming Covert Narcissistic Abuse

Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD – Founder of The Flying Monkey, MD®
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Unseen but Not Untold breaks the silence on covert narcissistic abuse. Host Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD ("Dr. Z"), integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, shares her journey through covert narcissistic abuse and recovery. She describes why covert narcissistic abuse is representative of spiritual warfare, rather than a personality disorder. Dr. Zacharia shares the divinely led blueprint she used to transform her pain into strength and purpose. Podcast website: pod.theflyingmonkeymd.org Primary website: www.theflyingmonkeymd.org/store

  1. Jun 23

    Episode 31: Paying Forward Gratitude - Divine Purpose After Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD, covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, calls survivors to pay forward their gratitude to God by sharing their testimony of how He worked in their lives. Drawing from Scripture, Dr. Zacharia discusses the importance of sharing one’s testimony as part of their divine purpose. She also addresses spiritual blindness and religious hypocrisy as sources of disillusionment with Christianity while offering guidance on reconnecting with God after spiritual trauma. Through symbolic reflections on the snail and the duck, this episode highlights how healing, faith and transformation in one’s life can impact the lives of others in the most unexpected ways.

    29 min

  2. Jun 16

    Episode 30: The Holy Spirit Is Speaking - Embracing Your God-Given Gifts After Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD, covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, explores the role of the Holy Spirit and the unique gifts God entrusts to believers. Survivors of covert narcissistic abuse often know God is calling them into something greater, yet fear, self-doubt and past experiences of rejection can make embracing those gifts feel overwhelming. Dr. Zacharia examines how covert narcissistic abuse can suppress spiritual gifts and how healing creates the foundation necessary to steward them faithfully with God leading the way. Drawing from both the Old and New Testaments, she provides an in-depth Biblical analysis of the Holy Spirit, His role within the Holy Trinity, His presence throughout Scripture and the transformative shift that occurred at Pentecost when the Holy Spirit was poured out upon all believers. Listeners will learn how the Holy Spirit communicates with believers and gain a deeper understanding of the gifts He bestows and their purpose within the larger Body of Christ. Dr. Zacharia also explores the rich symbolism of water and fire throughout Scripture, revealing how the Holy Spirit cleanses, renews, empowers, refines and prepares believers for their divine calling. Whether you are new to your faith, returning after a period of spiritual distance or seeking greater clarity about the gifts God has placed within you, this episode offers Biblical insight, encouragement and hope.

    43 min

  3. Jun 9

    Episode 29: Do I Run or Do I Stay? Living as God’s Chosen One After Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD, integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, explores the internal struggle survivors face when stepping into their God-given purpose. Dr. Zacharia speaks directly to those wrestling with doubt, fear and hesitation—especially after the destabilizing impact of covert narcissistic abuse. Through Scripture, personal reflection and symbolism, she illustrates the cost of misalignment and the strength that comes from being placed where God designed His chosen ones to thrive. This episode is a call to courage: to recognize fear for what it is, that comfort is not always alignment and that purpose requires leaving what feels safe to enter what is divinely appointed.

    34 min

  4. Jun 2

    Episode 28: God Has Your Back - Remaining Anchored in God’s Truth After Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD, covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, discusses trusting in God's timing and remaining anchored in His truth during the wilderness season that follows covert narcissistic abuse recovery. Drawing from Scripture, personal experiences and lessons learned throughout her own wilderness season, Dr. Zacharia explores the challenges of divine timing. She discusses surrendering control, breaking cycles of hyper-independence and learning to discern God's voice from deception. She also examines how God uses seasons of uncertainty to prepare His chosen ones for their purpose. This episode highlights Jesus' wilderness testing, David's redirected plans for building a temple, the Parable of the Sower and Paul's faith in prison. Dr. Zacharia explains why identity must be rooted in Christ rather than outcomes. She also explores two unique symbols—the parrot and the Tibetan snow lion—to illustrate spiritual formation, courage and stability during uncertain seasons. If you have been questioning God's timing, wondering why your purpose seems delayed or struggling to trust His plan when the path ahead is unclear, this episode offers biblical reflection and encouragement. Dr. Zacharia reminds listeners that the wilderness season is not wasted space. It is a place of preparation, refinement and deeper dependence on God.

    35 min

  5. May 26

    Episode 27: The Covert Narcissist Targeted You Because of God’s Light Within You - It’s Time to Walk in Your Divine Authority

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD, board-certified endocrinologist and covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert, explores what it means to embrace your God given authority in your divine purpose. Dr. Zacharia reflects on leaving her career in endocrinology to fully step into the calling God placed on her life. One she did not see coming and how she came to embrace the authority God gave her despite initial feelings of imposter syndrome. She also shares a powerful reflection on Michael Jackson, discussing how his music, humility, creativity and global impact reflected his role as God's chosen one as well. She examines how his life serves as a modern example of someone who fully embodied the gifts God gave him despite opposition and misunderstanding. Dr. Zacharia also highlights the stories of Joshua as a reminder that God often calls those who feel overlooked, hidden or unqualified — and strengthens them through obedience, faith and refinement. This conversation is ultimately about reclaiming your identity, standing firmly in God’s truth and understanding that what the covert narcissist tried to destroy within you is the exact gift the world needs most right now. New! Unseen but Not Untold Podcast Website:pod.theflyingmonkeymd.org Explore the TFM Transformation Course and the Do Not Be Afraid series on Dr. Zacharia's main website:www.theflyingmonkeymd.org

    25 min

  6. May 12

    Episode 26: Rest More, Not Do More — The Hidden Paradox in Your Divine Purpose After Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Zacharia, integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, explores the importance of rest while walking in your divine purpose after covert narcissistic abuse. This episode unpacks the connection between survival mode, hyper-independence, overfunctioning and the pressure many survivors carry into their God-given calling. Dr. Zacharia explains why many chosen ones believe they must constantly strive, overwork and force results in order to fulfill their purpose when in fact God is calling them into surrender and deeper trust instead. Through personal testimony, biblical reflection and spiritual insight, Dr. Zacharia shares how God blocked certain paths in her own life that were rooted in fearful striving rather than divine alignment. This episode explores how divine timing, spiritual recalibration and rest are essential parts of preparation, refinement and sustainable leadership as God's chosen one.

    20 min

  7. May 5

    Episode 25: Rising Into Leadership as God’s Chosen One After Covert Narcissistic Abuse

    In this powerful episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Zacharia, integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, explores what it means to rise into leadership as God’s chosen one after covert narcissistic abuse. She reveals how pain is not just healed but transformed into purpose rooted in truth, service and spiritual authority. Dr. Zacharia challenges traditional views of leadership, emphasizing that leadership in Christ is not about status, recognition or self-elevation but about surrender, stewardship and obedience to God. She explains how true authority flows through alignment with Him and requires both compassion and accountability. Drawing from the example of Jesus, she highlights how righteous leadership is grounded in humility, service and truth even in the face of rejection, misunderstanding and opposition. She also speaks to being set apart, called to break molds and carry assignments that differ from what is mainstream, as this is what brings about transformation and change. Through personal reflection, Dr. Zacharia shares how her own journey from abuse into healing became a divine calling, and how the wilderness season is not abandonment but preparation, refinement and deeper trust in God. She also explores the role of discernment after narcissistic abuse, explaining the shift from self-sacrifice to healthy God-led service where boundaries and stewardship of energy are essential. This episode offers clarity, grounding and encouragement for those stepping into leadership after covert narcissistic abuse, reminding you that what was transformed through your pain is now being used to lead, transform and guide others back to truth.

    35 min

  8. Apr 28

    Episode 24: Life After Covert Narcissistic Abuse - Rediscovering the Wonder of God Within Us and Around Us

    In this episode of Unseen but Not Untold, Dr. Zacharia, integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, explores wonder and what it means to rediscover it after covert narcissistic abuse. Through personal reflection and spiritual insight, she shares how survivors move out of survival mode and emotional constriction into a life where awareness expands and the ability to fully experience life begins to return. Healing becomes not just leaving the abuse behind but reclaiming curiosity, stillness and a sense of vitality. She reflects on wonder found in both extraordinary and everyday moments, from the vastness of space to the quiet details of nature and daily life. Through her travel experiences, including her first solo trip abroad, she shares how these moments gave her reprieve and reminded her of the sweetness of doing nothing—dolce far niente—opening the door to a deeper sense of wonder she would later experience while walking in her divine purpose. Drawing from Scripture, Dr. Zacharia highlights a few of the many moments in the Bible where people were left in a state of wonder through the miracles and intercessions God performed on their behalf. Using the symbolism of the owl and the feather, she highlights two expressions of wonder. For those healing after covert narcissistic abuse, this episode is a reminder that wonder is not lost. It is further amplified as you heal, bringing a renewed sense of peace, clarity and connection to God in both profound and simple moments.

    24 min
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Unseen but Not Untold breaks the silence on covert narcissistic abuse. Host Dr. Christine C. Zacharia, MD ("Dr. Z"), integrative covert narcissistic abuse recovery expert and board-certified endocrinologist, shares her journey through covert narcissistic abuse and recovery. She describes why covert narcissistic abuse is representative of spiritual warfare, rather than a personality disorder. Dr. Zacharia shares the divinely led blueprint she used to transform her pain into strength and purpose. Podcast website: pod.theflyingmonkeymd.org Primary website: www.theflyingmonkeymd.org/store

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