Did Me Dirty

Dating Tips By Meg
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Ever been left wondering, "how the hell did I not see that coming?" Or felt like you were playing some sadistic game where only one person knows the rules and always wins? Maybe you've been "done dirty". Join your host Meg and dive deep into her jaw-dropping true story with a raw honesty of what really happens when you get "done dirty"- mind games, violence, tracking, and stalking you 24 hours a day. She gets vulnerable and real with you each week as her story unfolds. Whether you tune in for entertainment or to get expert advice from this sarcastic host, she'll keep you asking for more.

  1. Oct 16

    Lights Out

    🚩 ABUSE DOESN'T ALWAYS START WITH A HIT. SOMETIMES, IT STARTS WITH A LITTLE CONTROL. Maybe they make you feel guilty for having an opinion. Maybe they want to know where you are every second of the day. Maybe they slowly push your friends and family out of your life. Maybe they're checking your phone, tracking your location, controlling your choices, or making you feel like everything is somehow your fault. And maybe, just maybe, you've started changing who you are just to keep the peace. Sound familiar? Let's talk about it. I've experienced different forms of abuse, including emotional, digital, and physical abuse. And one thing I want people to understand is this: abuse isn't always one big, obvious moment. It can be a pattern of behaviors that gradually takes away your freedom, confidence, and sense of self. Different tactics. Same underlying goal: control. That's why recognizing the warning signs early matters. 🚩 Pay attention to how someone responds when you say no. 🚩 Notice whether their jealousy turns into rules about who you can see or talk to. 🚩 Look at whether apologies are followed by real change—or whether the same behavior keeps happening. 🚩 Notice if you're becoming more isolated, more anxious, or less like yourself. One red flag doesn't automatically tell you everything about a relationship. But repeated behaviors, escalating control, and fear are worth taking seriously. And please hear this: you do not have to wait for physical violence to ask for help. You don't have to prove that things are “bad enough.” You don't have to figure it all out before talking to someone. In this Did Me Dirty mini-episode, I'm sharing my experiences and talking about the importance of recognizing abusive patterns, trusting yourself, and reaching out for support. If you're worried about someone you love, don't shame them or make them feel foolish for staying. Listen. Believe them. Keep showing up. Help them explore safe options without taking away their choices. Because prevention isn't just about recognizing the red flags. It's about knowing what to do when you see them. ❤️ The earlier we recognize the pattern, the sooner we can start a different conversation. You don't have to learn the hard way. Let me give you the clues. — Meg ❤️ 📞 Need support? National Domestic Violence Hotline Call 800-799-SAFE (7233) Text START to 88788 Visit https://www.thehotline.org/ love is respect — teen dating abuse support Call 866-331-9474 Text LOVEIS to 22522 Visit https://www.loveisrespect.org/ If you're in immediate danger, call 911. If your phone or online activity may be monitored, consider reaching out from a safer device. Want to bring this conversation to your next event, conference, or community? Set up a call with Meg https://calendaly.com/datingtipsbymeg

  2. Oct 16

    Who Are You Talking To?

    🚩 YOUR PHONE IS NOT A RELATIONSHIP CONTRACT. AND LOVE DOES NOT COME WITH ADMIN ACCESS. Imagine trying to reconnect with someone, only to discover that your private messages aren't so private anymore. Someone is accessing your phone, responding to messages without your knowledge, and creating confusion and accusations around conversations you didn't even know they were having. Let that sink in. When I experienced invasive behavior that affected my phone and my relationships, it wasn't just about technology. It affected my ability to communicate, trust, and feel safe. And THAT is something we need to talk about. 🚩 Demanding to inspect your phone doesn't automatically mean someone loves you. 🚩 Expecting access to all your messages, accounts, and passwords isn't proof of trust. 🚩 Monitoring who you talk to, interfering with your conversations, or using technology to isolate you can be part of a bigger pattern of control. Let's be clear: sharing access should be a choice—not a condition of being loved. Healthy relationships have room for privacy, boundaries, friendships, and independent lives. You can be committed to someone without handing over every password and surrendering your digital privacy. In this Did Me Dirty mini-episode, I'm sharing my experience with digital isolation and invasive phone behavior—and why we need to recognize that abuse doesn't always happen face-to-face. Sometimes the control happens through a screen. Sometimes the evidence is confusing. And sometimes the person experiencing it starts questioning themselves because they can't explain what's happening. If something feels wrong, you deserve to take that feeling seriously. Consider seeking support from someone you trust or a professional who understands abuse and technology safety. And if this sounds familiar, please hear me: you are not foolish for trusting someone, and you don't have to navigate this alone. ❤️ Your phone is yours. Your relationships are yours. Your boundaries are yours. You don't have to learn the hard way. Let me give you the clues. — Meg ❤️ 📞 Need support? Save these resources: National Domestic Violence Hotline Call: 800-799-SAFE (7233) Text: START to 88788 Online: https://www.thehotline.org/get-help/ love is respect — Teen Dating Abuse Support Call: 866-331-9474 Text: LOVEIS to 22522 Online chat and resources: https://www.loveisrespect.org/ VictimConnect Resource Center — support for people affected by stalking and other crimes Call or text: 855-4-VICTIM (855-484-2846) Online: https://victimconnect.org/ If you suspect your phone or accounts are being monitored, use caution before changing settings or contacting support on that device. If possible, seek help using a safer device. If you're in immediate danger, call 911. You deserve privacy. You deserve safety. You deserve support. Want to bring this conversation or one like it to your next event, conference, or community? Set up a call with Meg https://calendly.com/datingtipsbymeg

  3. Oct 12

    Friendly Fire

    SOMEONE COMES ON TOO STRONG, TOO FAST… PAY ATTENTION. Flowers. Constant texts. Big promises. “I've never felt this way about anyone before.” Talking about forever when you've barely had time to learn each other's middle names. 👀 Sounds romantic, right? Sometimes, yes. But sometimes, what looks like a fairytale beginning can be the start of a pattern that deserves a closer look. Let's talk about LOVE BOMBING, JEALOUSY, AND ISOLATION—because emotional abuse doesn't always walk through the door looking like a monster. Sometimes, it shows up saying all the right things. Maybe they get upset when you spend time with your friends. Maybe they question your family’s intentions. Maybe their jealousy gets dressed up as “I just love you so much.” And slowly, without even realizing it, your world starts getting smaller. Your friends? You see them less. Your family? Suddenly, they're “against your relationship.” Your independence? Somehow, it becomes a problem. And you? You're working harder and harder to keep someone else happy while losing pieces of yourself along the way. That's the part we need to talk about. In this Did Me Dirty mini-episode, I share my own experiences and break down warning signs of emotional abuse, including intense early affection, controlling jealousy, and attempts to isolate you from the people who care about you. Here's your reminder: ❤️ 🚩 You don't owe someone instant commitment because they've made big promises. 🚩 Jealousy isn't proof of love. 🚩 Love shouldn't require you to give up your friends, family, independence, or sense of self. 🚩 And that uncomfortable feeling in your gut? You don't have to ignore it just because someone can be incredibly sweet when they want to be. One important thing: Love bombing isn't simply being excited about a new relationship. Look at the pattern. Does the attention come with pressure, control, guilt, or punishment when you set a boundary? Because the question isn't just “How did they treat me when everything was good?” It's also “What happened when I said no?” If any of this feels familiar, you are not stupid, weak, or alone. Talk to someone you trust. Reach out for professional support if you can. You deserve support without judgment. And if you're worried about someone you love? Don't shame them. Don't demand that they leave. Keep the door open, listen, and remind them they still have someone in their corner. 🎧 Watch the mini-episode. Share it with someone who needs to hear it. You don't have to learn the hard way. Let me give you the clues. — Meg ❤️ Schedule a Speaker Call with Meg https;//calendly.com/datingtipsbymeg 📞 Need support? The National Domestic Violence Hotline is available at 800-799-SAFE (7233), by texting START to 88788, or at TheHotline.org. If you suspect your device is being monitored, consider your digital safety before reaching out.

  4. Oct 12

    Invisible Brusies

    THE ABUSE DOESN'T HAVE TO LEAVE A BRUISE TO MESS WITH YOUR HEAD. Let's talk about the part people don't always see. The isolation. The control. The pressure to change who you are just to keep someone else happy. Constantly questioning yourself. Walking on eggshells. Feeling like you're losing yourself while trying to keep the peace. And then someone asks, “But why are you so stressed?” 🙄 Maybe because living under someone else's control can take a serious toll on your mental health. In this Did Me Dirty mental health mini-episode, I'm getting real about the impact intimate partner violence and stalking can have on our minds, our bodies, and the way we see ourselves. We're talking about recognizing when something isn't right, listening to what your body is telling you, being kinder to yourself, and remembering that asking for help isn't weakness. You don't have to wait until you're completely broken to deserve support. You don't have to prove you've suffered enough. And you sure as hell don't have to figure everything out alone. ❤️ Be kind to your mind. Listen to your body. Give yourself permission to get help. Because healing isn't about pretending nothing happened. It's about giving yourself the care you deserved all along. 🎧 Watch the mini-episode, share it with someone who needs the reminder, and let's keep having the conversations that too often go unspoken. You don't have to learn the hard way. Let's talk about it. If you or someone you know is experiencing abuse or stalking, confidential support is available through the National Domestic Violence Hotline: 800-799-SAFE (7233), text START to 88788, or visit TheHotline.org. If you believe your device is being monitored, consider your digital safety when seeking help. Connect on Socials @DatingTipsByMeg — Meg ❤️ Book A Call with Meg https;//calendly.com/datingtipsbymeg

  5. Apr 20

    Outta Here

    From the outside, it can look simple: just leave.But the reality is anything but.In this episode, I break down the real barriers victims face—financial dependence, monitoring, fear of retaliation—and why leaving isn’t a single moment, it’s a process.We also talk about how to actually support someone in this situation: by listening, trusting, and letting them lead.Because no one understands the risk better than the person living it. #financial control #surveillance #abusive relationship #victims #fear #leavingabuse

  6. Apr 20

    Trust Me...or Track Me

    “Who are you texting?”“Why did you like that post?”“Let me see your phone.”If that feels familiar, this episode is for you.I’m getting real about digital abuse—what it looks like, how it starts, and how quickly it crosses the line. I share my own experience of being constantly monitored and controlled online, and why so many people mistake this behavior for love.It’s not.It’s control—and it’s a red flag you can’t ignore. #trust #relationships #privacy #digital abuse #social media

  7. Jan 26

    Freaked

    Stalking doesn’t end when the door locks.In this episode of Did Me Dirty, I break down the invisible damage stalking does to your nervous system why it feels like living after a break-in you can’t undo, or a car crash your body never forgets. No sleep. Constant fear. Shallow breaths. Always waiting for the next hit.This isn’t just “being uncomfortable.” It’s survival mode-and it changes you.If you’ve ever felt this kind of fear, you’re not weak-and you’re not alone. Help exists, and I’ll tell you where to find it.#stalking #personalstory #fear #mentalhealth #stalkingawareness

  8. Jan 6

    Stranger Danger... Nope

    What if the person watching you… already knows you? We grow up believing stalking comes from strangers in dark corners. But the truth is far more unsettling — and far more common. In this episode of Did Me Dirty, I pull back the curtain on a form of stalking that often goes unnoticed because it feels familiar, explain why so many victims minimize what’s happening to them, and share a real story that still stops me in my tracks. This conversation isn’t about paranoia — it’s about patterns. The ones we’re taught to ignore. The ones that escalate when silence takes over. And the ones that can change everything when we finally name them. If you’ve ever felt watched, brushed something off as “no big deal,” or wondered where the line actually is — this episode is for you. 🎧 Listen now — and trust your instincts. Get help finding local resources below. Victim Connect1-855-4-Victim (1-855-484-2846)Confidential referrals for victims of crime, including stalking, through the National Center for Victims of Crime For more on stalking and dating violence/abuse and teen/college abuse follow at Dating Tips By Meg on IG, FB, TikTok and Snapchat #DidMeDirtyPodcast #StrangerDangerNope #StalkingAwareness #NationalStalkingAwarenessMonth #KnowTheSigns #TrustYourInstincts #DigitalStalking #RelationshipSafety #SurvivorVoices #TrueConversations #RedFlags #SafetyEducation #WomenSupportingWomen

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Ever been left wondering, "how the hell did I not see that coming?" Or felt like you were playing some sadistic game where only one person knows the rules and always wins? Maybe you've been "done dirty". Join your host Meg and dive deep into her jaw-dropping true story with a raw honesty of what really happens when you get "done dirty"- mind games, violence, tracking, and stalking you 24 hours a day. She gets vulnerable and real with you each week as her story unfolds. Whether you tune in for entertainment or to get expert advice from this sarcastic host, she'll keep you asking for more.

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  • Creator
    Dating Tips By Meg
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    16
  • Rating
    Clean
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    © Dating Tips By Meg
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    Did Me Dirty