Skills and Pills Podcast

Skills and Pills Podcast

A podcast with Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo. A safe, empowering place for all things self-care, emotional health, and faith. We’re two passionate mental health professionals on a mission to break stigmas, provide credible psychoeducation, and encourage healing for the mind, body, and spirit—all through a Christian lens.

Episodes

  1. 12/23/2025

    Navigating Grief, Family, and Boundaries through the Holidays

    The holiday season has a way of magnifying whatever we’re carrying — and for anyone grieving, that weight can feel unbearable. In this episode, Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo open a compassionate conversation about navigating loss during a time when the world expects celebration. They explore the reality that grief isn’t something we “get over,” but something we slowly learn to live with, rebuild around, and grow through. As Elisabeth Kübler-Ross writes, we may become whole again, but we are never the same — and that truth deserves space, not shame. Drawing on current data and lived experience, they discuss how grief can intertwine with loneliness, depression, and even suicidal ideation during the holidays. Studies from the Centers for Disease Control show that while suicide rates may dip on Christmas Day itself due to increased social connection, those experiencing bereavement often face intensified emotional pain in the surrounding weeks. Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo talk through why this happens, how support networks make a difference, and what it means to seek help before the season becomes too heavy to carry alone. They also guide listeners through practical ways to cope with the absence of someone they love — from setting more realistic expectations to thoughtfully reshaping traditions that once felt sacred. Together, they explore what it means to honor a loved one’s memory through meaningful rituals: lighting a candle, telling stories, or creating intentional moments of remembrance that help keep connection alive. Faith becomes part of the conversation as well. How do we allow ourselves to feel sadness while still holding onto the idea of joy? What does Ecclesiastes 3:4 teach us about giving ourselves permission to mourn? And how does the Garden of Gethsemane remind us that even deep sorrow has a place within spiritual life? Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo reflect on how grief, faith, and emotional honesty can coexist without forcing a premature sense of peace. The episode closes with a grounding reminder: grief has no timeline, no “right way,” and no finish line. What matters is giving yourself grace, letting yourself feel what’s real, and honoring the memories that shaped you. As William Hoy once wrote, “We cannot have things like they were, but we can hold in our hearts the memories of days gone by.” Show Notes / Resources Mentioned: How Do I Say Goodbye — Dean Lewis (song) A Grief Observed — C.S. Lewis (book) 7 Stages of Grief (grief framework) #skillsandpills #therapistadvice #holidayseason

    36 min
  2. 12/16/2025

    Letting Go of “I Have to Do It All”

    This episode takes an honest look at why so many women — especially women of color — struggle silently with their mental health, even while appearing strong on the outside. Research shows just how deep this gap runs: women of color face higher rates of long-term mental health challenges, yet they seek treatment at dramatically lower rates. According to Psychiatric Times, only about 5–10% of Black women access mental health care compared to 21.5% of white women. https://www.psychiatrictimes.com Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo unpack the cultural stigma, generational messaging, faith expectations, and emotional barriers that keep women quiet about their pain. They explore why so many feel pressure to “hold it together,” what it costs to maintain that mask, and how silence reinforces shame even in communities that appear supportive. The conversation moves into the healing power of naming what hurts — how simply saying “I’m not okay” can lift the weight of isolation, create space for vulnerability, and build the kind of community where people feel seen instead of judged. Listeners will hear why transparency brings relief, how sharing struggles breaks stigma, and why everyday conversations — not just therapy — can become life-changing moments of connection. With real talk around faith, resilience, and emotional honesty, this episode invites anyone who feels alone to rethink what support truly looks like. A grounding, compassionate reminder that you’re not the only one carrying what you carry — and speaking your truth is often the first step toward healing. Books referenced:  Behind the Mask: Unveiling Hidden Struggles Stronger Together: How Sharing Your Story Builds Community

    28 min
  3. 12/02/2025

    How Language Shapes (and Sometimes Sabotages) Our Healing Journey

    Words can open us up—or shut us down. In this episode, Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo dive deep into the hidden power of language and how the most familiar phrases can quietly sabotage growth, healing, and connection. So many of us use everyday expressions like “I should be better by now,” “You always do this,” or “That’s toxic” without realizing these “therapy-adjacent” words can distort meaning, reinforce shame, or block honest reflection. This conversation pulls those phrases into the light and explores how to replace judgment with clarity. Inside This Conversation: “The Dirty Words of Therapy” Why some words wound, even when they sound insightful The “Should” Trap and how expectations become emotional quicksand The danger of absolutes like “always” and “never” How social media has turned “therapy speak” into a shield instead of a bridge Why labels like “narcissist” feel satisfying but rarely lead to healing How to catch the small linguistic habits that limit self-awareness The line between language that clarifies…and language that condemns Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo unpack the way phrases, labels, and buzzwords shape the therapeutic process—and how misused language can keep clients stuck in old emotional patterns. They also break down practical reframes that anyone can use to promote self-compassion, honesty, and real change. You’ll hear strategies the hosts use in session to help people shift from blame to understanding, from judgment to curiosity, and from identity labels to behavior patterns. They share the subtle language swaps that make a major difference in healing. If you’ve ever felt trapped by your own self-talk—or overwhelmed by all the “therapy language” online—Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo remind you that healing starts with gentle awareness, not perfection. You’re allowed to rethink your words, rewrite your story, and reclaim your voice. If this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs a softer, clearer way to speak to themselves. And make sure you follow, rate, and subscribe so you never miss an episode. #skillsandpills #therapyforwomen #podcastlaunch

    18 min
  4. 11/25/2025

    Why We’re Starting a Therapy Podcast

    Every movement starts with a moment of honesty—and that’s exactly where Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo begin. In this premiere episode, your hosts open up about the real reason they created this show, the gaps they’ve witnessed in the wellness and therapy space, and why they felt compelled to build a platform that speaks directly to the people and stories often overlooked. Across the U.S., nearly 1 in 5 adults lives with a mental illness, yet most never receive treatment. That reality hits even harder for African American women, who experience nearly twice the rates of depression and anxiety yet often push through in silence. That silence—rooted in stigma, strength narratives, and community pressure—is exactly what Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo are here to challenge. The moment they realized a major gap existed in mental-health conversations Why therapy still feels taboo in many families, workplaces, and communities What voices and stories have been missing—and why representation matters Their shared mission to normalize healing, vulnerability, and emotional wellness If you’re seeking connection, clarity, and conversations that feel like finally exhaling, you’re home. This podcast is designed for listeners exploring therapy, navigating burnout, rebuilding identity, or simply wanting honest talk led by trusted professionals. Expect a tone that’s conversational, curious, culturally aware, and boldly hopeful—guided by the lived experiences and clinical insight of Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo. Weekly episodes featuring expert interviews, lived-experience storytelling, solo “mini-sessions,” and round-table discussions Conversations unpacking burnout, boundaries, emotional exhaustion, identity, self-advocacy, mothering, and reclaiming joy Teasers of upcoming guests including therapists, authors, advocates, and women redefining wellness in their own communities Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo share their fears—being vulnerable, showing up imperfectly, stepping outside the comfort of their clinical roles—and the excitement of creating a space that feels like therapy for the soul. A year from now, “success” means a thriving community of listeners who feel seen, supported, and less alone on their healing journey. Season 1 officially drops this winter, right in time for a holiday season when many people quietly struggle. Make sure you subscribe, share, and bring someone with you—because healing grows when we don’t do it alone. Dr. Monica Riffey, DNP, PMHNP-BC, MSN, BSN, RN is a Psychiatric Mental Health Nurse Practitioner, private practice owner, and artist. Her passions are biblically integrative mental health services and wholistic wellness.  She is an advocate for the intersection of mental health and faith-based communities. Dr. Mo holds degrees from Old Dominion University, Herzing University, and Longwood University. Dr. Josephs began her career as a generalist social worker serving as a Virginia Beach, VA Community Service Board Case Manager in 2002. She discovered her passion for adult learning and clinical mental health counseling during her graduate programs in 2014. She began teaching and supervising counselors in training in 2018. She currently devotes her time to counselor education and supervision. In addition, she serves the public as a national disruptive event consultant for Fortune 500 companies and municipalities, responding to major life interruptions, mass shootings, and national disasters. Dr. Josephs’ research interests include counselor wellness, multiculturalism and social justice, and trauma and resilience. She finds great joy in being an educator, mentor, and advisor to the next generation of counselors. Her greatest desire is to assist others to live, love, and work to their highest optimal potential.

    29 min

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A podcast with Dr. Mo and Dr. Jo. A safe, empowering place for all things self-care, emotional health, and faith. We’re two passionate mental health professionals on a mission to break stigmas, provide credible psychoeducation, and encourage healing for the mind, body, and spirit—all through a Christian lens.