The Truth Aint In Us

Tonya Wilder

Welcome to The Truth Ain’t In Us — where we talk about what most people are too scared to say out loud.This podcast is raw, bold, and unapologetic.We’re unpacking the uncomfortable — relationships, race, gender roles, success, status, and everything in between.No filters. No fluff. Just truth.If you’ve ever felt silenced, judged, or tired of surface-level conversations…This space is for you.Hit follow. Tag a friend. And get ready to talk about it.

Episodes

  1. MAY 12

    The Truth About Poppers & Pressure

    Are people really doing what they want in the bedroom… or what they feel pressured to do? Tonight on The Truth Ain’t In Us, we’re having the conversation most people avoid. From trending bedroom behaviors to the real truth about poppers, pressure, and partner expectations—we’re breaking down what’s actually going on behind closed doors. Is it pleasure… or preparation? Choice… or quiet pressure? 👀 In this episode, we get into: What poppers are and why people use them The influence of social media on bedroom trends Pressure vs. consent — where’s the line? The risks people don’t talk about Relationship dynamics, roles, and misconceptions Real talk about identity, labels, and community perceptions 💥 This one gets uncomfortable… because it’s real. Truth Nation, we need to hear from YOU: 👉 Have you ever felt pressure to do something in a relationship? 👉 Where do you draw the line between exploration and expectation? Drop your thoughts in the comments 👇 ⏰ LIVE Every Week — Real Conversations. No Filters. This is The Truth Ain’t In Us — where we say what everybody’s thinking but scared to say out loud. 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 📲 Subscribe 🔁 Share with someone who needs to hear this #TheTruthAintInUs #RealTalk #Relationships #Consent #Podcast #BedroomTalk #TruthNation Are there real boundaries between love, lust, loyalty, and respect? Where should the line be drawn? And are people really honest about what they expect behind closed doors? This week, we’re getting all the way into the uncomfortable conversations people usually avoid. From emotional boundaries to physical expectations, situationships, commitment, double standards, and the truth about what happens between the sheets… nothing is off limits. 💬 Are boundaries necessary… or are they just rules people break anyway? Join Tonya Wilder and the crew as they keep it real with raw conversation, bold opinions, and unfiltered truth. Because over here… we say what everybody else is thinking. 🎙 The Truth Ain’t In Us Where real talk lives. 👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments: What boundaries should never be crossed in a relationship? Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 10m
  2. APR 23

    The Internet Lied to You… Influencer Life Ain’t What You Think

    Everybody wants to be an influencer… but who’s actually making money? Tonight on The Truth Ain’t In Us, Tonya Wilder and special guest host Don of All Dons Dondi get REAL about influencer culture, fake lifestyles, and the truth nobody wants to say out loud. From viral dreams to broke realities… we’re asking the question that’s been sitting in the back of everybody’s mind: 👉 WHO LIED TO THIS GENERATION? We’re breaking down: The difference between influence vs actual income Why people are quitting jobs too early. Fake luxury, rented lifestyles, and social media pressure. Mental health and comparison culture The harsh truth: likes don’t pay bills 💣 PLUS… we get into some WILD hot topics: A man caught on a Ring camera going completely unhinged 😳 The messy drama involving Rachel Zoe, her husband, and a side chick putting EVERYTHING on blast 👀 And yes… we said what needed to be said: ⚠️ “Some of y’all are not entrepreneurs… you’re unemployed with WiFi.” ⚠️ “Everybody posting like a boss… but living like they broke.” 💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION Are you chasing a dream… or running from a job? Drop your thoughts in the comments: Is being an influencer a real career or a trend? Would you quit your job TODAY to go viral? How many followers does it REALLY take to make money? 🔔 DON’T FORGET 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📲 Share with somebody chasing a dream with no plan 🔔 Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations Welcome to The Truth Ain’t In Us… where we say what everybody else is scared to say Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 17m

About

Welcome to The Truth Ain’t In Us — where we talk about what most people are too scared to say out loud.This podcast is raw, bold, and unapologetic.We’re unpacking the uncomfortable — relationships, race, gender roles, success, status, and everything in between.No filters. No fluff. Just truth.If you’ve ever felt silenced, judged, or tired of surface-level conversations…This space is for you.Hit follow. Tag a friend. And get ready to talk about it.