The Truth Aint In Us

Tonya Wilder

Welcome to The Truth Ain’t In Us — where we talk about what most people are too scared to say out loud.This podcast is raw, bold, and unapologetic.We’re unpacking the uncomfortable — relationships, race, gender roles, success, status, and everything in between.No filters. No fluff. Just truth.If you’ve ever felt silenced, judged, or tired of surface-level conversations…This space is for you.Hit follow. Tag a friend. And get ready to talk about it.

Episodes

  1. MAY 12

    The Truth About Poppers & Pressure

    Are people really doing what they want in the bedroom… or what they feel pressured to do? Tonight on The Truth Ain’t In Us, we’re having the conversation most people avoid. From trending bedroom behaviors to the real truth about poppers, pressure, and partner expectations—we’re breaking down what’s actually going on behind closed doors. Is it pleasure… or preparation? Choice… or quiet pressure? 👀 In this episode, we get into: What poppers are and why people use them The influence of social media on bedroom trends Pressure vs. consent — where’s the line? The risks people don’t talk about Relationship dynamics, roles, and misconceptions Real talk about identity, labels, and community perceptions 💥 This one gets uncomfortable… because it’s real. Truth Nation, we need to hear from YOU: 👉 Have you ever felt pressure to do something in a relationship? 👉 Where do you draw the line between exploration and expectation? Drop your thoughts in the comments 👇 ⏰ LIVE Every Week — Real Conversations. No Filters. This is The Truth Ain’t In Us — where we say what everybody’s thinking but scared to say out loud. 🔔 Don’t forget to: 👍 Like 📲 Subscribe 🔁 Share with someone who needs to hear this #TheTruthAintInUs #RealTalk #Relationships #Consent #Podcast #BedroomTalk #TruthNation Are there real boundaries between love, lust, loyalty, and respect? Where should the line be drawn? And are people really honest about what they expect behind closed doors? This week, we’re getting all the way into the uncomfortable conversations people usually avoid. From emotional boundaries to physical expectations, situationships, commitment, double standards, and the truth about what happens between the sheets… nothing is off limits. 💬 Are boundaries necessary… or are they just rules people break anyway? Join Tonya Wilder and the crew as they keep it real with raw conversation, bold opinions, and unfiltered truth. Because over here… we say what everybody else is thinking. 🎙 The Truth Ain’t In Us Where real talk lives. 👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments: What boundaries should never be crossed in a relationship? Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 10m

  2. MAY 2

    Between the Sheets: Are There Any Boundaries?

    Let’s talk about it… because everybody has an opinion when it comes to relationships, intimacy, and what should or shouldn’t be off limits. Are there real boundaries between love, lust, loyalty, and respect? Where should the line be drawn? And are people really honest about what they expect behind closed doors? This week, we’re getting all the way into the uncomfortable conversations people usually avoid. From emotional boundaries to physical expectations, situationships, commitment, double standards, and the truth about what happens between the sheets… nothing is off limits. 💬 Are boundaries necessary… or are they just rules people break anyway? Join Tonya Wilder and the crew as they keep it real with raw conversation, bold opinions, and unfiltered truth. Because over here… we say what everybody else is thinking. 🎙 The Truth Ain’t In Us Where real talk lives. 👇 Drop your thoughts in the comments: What boundaries should never be crossed in a relationship? Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 15m

  3. APR 23

    The Internet Lied to You… Influencer Life Ain’t What You Think

    Everybody wants to be an influencer… but who’s actually making money? Tonight on The Truth Ain’t In Us, Tonya Wilder and special guest host Don of All Dons Dondi get REAL about influencer culture, fake lifestyles, and the truth nobody wants to say out loud. From viral dreams to broke realities… we’re asking the question that’s been sitting in the back of everybody’s mind: 👉 WHO LIED TO THIS GENERATION? We’re breaking down: The difference between influence vs actual income Why people are quitting jobs too early. Fake luxury, rented lifestyles, and social media pressure. Mental health and comparison culture The harsh truth: likes don’t pay bills 💣 PLUS… we get into some WILD hot topics: A man caught on a Ring camera going completely unhinged 😳 The messy drama involving Rachel Zoe, her husband, and a side chick putting EVERYTHING on blast 👀 And yes… we said what needed to be said: ⚠️ “Some of y’all are not entrepreneurs… you’re unemployed with WiFi.” ⚠️ “Everybody posting like a boss… but living like they broke.” 💬 JOIN THE CONVERSATION Are you chasing a dream… or running from a job? Drop your thoughts in the comments: Is being an influencer a real career or a trend? Would you quit your job TODAY to go viral? How many followers does it REALLY take to make money? 🔔 DON’T FORGET 👍 Like 💬 Comment 📲 Share with somebody chasing a dream with no plan 🔔 Subscribe for more unfiltered conversations Welcome to The Truth Ain’t In Us… where we say what everybody else is scared to say Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 17m

  4. APR 13

    The Rise of the Side Chick Era… And Nobody’s Hiding It

    Is this the new normal in dating… or have the rules completely changed? Tonight’s conversation gets real. More people are openly dating married partners—and they’re not hiding it anymore. From vacations to public posts, the question is no longer if it’s happening… it’s why. So we’re asking: When did “married” stop meaning off limits? 🎙 Hosted by Tonya Wilder 🎤 Featuring Don of All Dons (Dondi) 🧠 Special Guest: Dr. Kathrine Washington Williams 🔥 In this episode: • Are people becoming more comfortable being the side piece publicly? • Has social media normalized cheating? • Has marriage lost its value in modern dating? • Who is really to blame—the married partner or the outsider? • Are we moving toward more open relationships? 💬 Join the conversation LIVE and drop your thoughts: Would you ever knowingly date someone who is marri ed? And if the spouse knows… is it still cheating? Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 24m

  5. APR 3

    Is Justice Rigged? The Afroman Case Got REAL

    Back like we never left and this one is going to get uncomfortable Tonight we are asking a real question Is justice actually blind or does it only work when it wants to We are breaking down the Afroman case and getting into the truth behind what really happened, what people are not saying, and why situations like this keep happening Nothing is off limits in this conversation Join Tonya Wilder, Dondi and special guest Jerome Hill from Hill of Justice as we unpack the legal system, accountability, and the reality most people are afraid to say out loud The Truth Ain’t In Us… and we are going there Tap in live and bring your opinion #TheTruthAintInUs #Afroman #JusticeSystem #LegalTalk #TruthTalk #PodcastLive #ControversialTopics Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 28m

  6. 12/24/2025

    Diddy, Gates, and the Lust Trap

    What's Up Truth Nation! We’re spilling the tea on how lust, ambition, and power are messing with relationships and trust. From Netflix’s The Reckoning of Diddy showing all that control and abuse, to Cassie navigating the wild, messy music world, to Kevin Gates with his age, money, and ego drama, it’s a damn lot.  We’re keeping it real about how desire and ambition can play with young artists, twist trust, and keep the industry cycles toxic. Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 1m

  7. 12/24/2025

    Friends Ain’t Friends No More: The Truth Gets Messy

    On this week’s episode, we dive straight into the kind of conversations your group chat would NEVER survive. We’re talking friendships falling apart, best friends turning into strangers, and why grown‑folks relationships hit different these days. We jumped into Kandi & Todd’s divorce and alleged custody battle, threesomes in marriage, bringing another person into your bedroom, child support battles, prenups, and why clout marriages never end clean.   And while we're on the subject of housewives, why every season somebody’s getting charged, indicted, repossessed, or locked up. Is it the money? The lifestyle? The front? Or the fact that everybody’s trying to keep up with a life they can’t actually afford? Tune in and get our honest takes on it all.  Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 6m

  8. 12/01/2025

    The Truth Ain’t In Us Virtual Party: Money, Gender Roles and Who Really Carries the Weight in Relationships | Featuring Jared Washington, Family and Friends

    If we’re being honest… relationships today are more confusing than ever. On this episode, we sat down with Jared Washington, Friends, and Family to talk about the stuff nobody likes to admit: accountability, money, gender roles, sexuality labels, and who’s actually carrying the weight in modern households. From “you can’t afford to have all these wives” to “you either gay or you not,” the room got real real. Some argued the man still carries responsibility. Some said it’s all about the household dynamic. Some called out the pressure, the broken homes, the unfair burdens, and the unrealistic expectations on both sides. What everyone DID agree on? There’s no one-size-fits-all rule, but there is a lot of hypocrisy, ego, and confusion shaping how we date today. Tap in, because this live episode didn’t shy away from ANY of it. Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 41m

  9. 11/24/2025

    Sabreen Shabazz Unfiltered: Teaching to Tubi's Star Producer, Atlanta Scandals and Bi-Sexual Men!

    Tonya Wilder and Sitara Vaughn sit down with filmmaker and creator Sabreen Shabazz,  the mind behind Secrets, Scores & Scandal, inspired by real Atlanta school scandals and the teachers who lived them. Sabreen shares her journey from teacher to filmmaker, what really went down in Atlanta schools, and why every setback can be a setup for success. No sugarcoating. No fluff. Just the truth. Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 17m
  10. Jojo Lindsey Unfiltered: “Celebrities Want FREE Clothes & Men Want a 3rd Woman!”

    11/17/2025

    Jojo Lindsey Unfiltered: “Celebrities Want FREE Clothes & Men Want a 3rd Woman!”

    Tonight on The Truth Ain’t In Us, host Tonya Wilder and guest host Sitara Vaughn sit down with fashion powerhouse Jojo Lindsey — creator of the luxury brand Bodied by Jojo, designer to celebrities, and the woman behind some of the baddest gowns in Atlanta. And let’s be clear: This episode is G-H-E-T-T-O in the best way. Technical issues, frozen screens, mics dropping — but the truth still gets told. Jojo pulls up and gets raw, fearless, and completely unfiltered about the fashion industry, the toxic celebrity culture of “give me free s***,” the chaos of Atlanta dating, and why some men want two girlfriends and a baby on the way. This ain’t the polished influencer version of Jojo.  This is the REAL one. Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    59 min
  11. “Ain’t Nobody Coming to See You, Otis!” — Charles Malik Whitfield Finally Tells the REAL Story!

    11/16/2025

    “Ain’t Nobody Coming to See You, Otis!” — Charles Malik Whitfield Finally Tells the REAL Story!

    Tonight on The Truth Ain’t In Us, host Tonya Wilder sits down with the one and only Charles Malik Whitfield — actor, storyteller, and the man behind the most memorable line in movie history: “Ain’t nobody coming to see you, Otis!” But this episode?  Yeah… it’s way deeper than the meme. Charles gets raw, real, and unfiltered as he talks about surviving the Bronx, navigating fame, rebuilding after life knocks you down, working with Tyler Perry on Beauty in Black, and the internal battles most people are too scared to admit they’re fighting. This isn’t a polished Hollywood interview.  This is truth with no gloss.  No ego.  No PR filter. Just two people sitting down and telling it like it is. This episode is for anybody who's ever had to fight their way out, level up, or reinvent themselves.  It’s bold.  It’s vulnerable.  It’s unapologetically real. 🎥 NEW EPISODES WEEKLY If you’re here for real stories, real voices, and no sugarcoating — you’re in the right place. Follow Us On All Social Media Platforms:  Instagram | @thetruthaintinus Facebook | @thetruthaintinus TikTok | @thetruthaininus

    1h 3m
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About

Welcome to The Truth Ain’t In Us — where we talk about what most people are too scared to say out loud.This podcast is raw, bold, and unapologetic.We’re unpacking the uncomfortable — relationships, race, gender roles, success, status, and everything in between.No filters. No fluff. Just truth.If you’ve ever felt silenced, judged, or tired of surface-level conversations…This space is for you.Hit follow. Tag a friend. And get ready to talk about it.

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  • Creator
    Tonya Wilder
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 The Truth Aint In Us
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