The Appearance of Knowing I was chatting with my parents for my 43rd birthday. We talked about life, the news, and, inevitably, AI. I shared a nascent idea I’ve been playing with: the commodification of knowledge. I love the way that sounds. It suggests the things we know can be bought and traded, or at least that we can buy and trade the appearance of knowing them. To me, it’s so much like the idea of buying a book and putting it on your bookshelf, then letting all your guests think you read it as they admire your living room. “Honey, look, Alex has read The Unabridged Encyclopedia of Humanity; I’ve heard it is a real shocker at the end! Since he owns it, he must have memorized and understood the whole thing. It’s only 150 volumes.” Paying for a personal trainer and watching her work out doesn’t make you fit. Living in Norway doesn’t mean you speak Norwegian. Using AI to summarize a stack of PDFs doesn’t mean you understand them. Access creates an opportunity to learn, but access alone doesn’t mean acquisition of knowledge. The central idea of this article is that teachers create the time, space, and guidance for students to practice self-awareness of their own learning and growth. AI offers a way to catch up and provide a competitive edge, but it also makes us feel further behind. In the rush to become early adopters of a promising new technology, we risk letting go of the very things we hoped to acquire: skills, knowledge, understanding. And for what? Productivity? Being first? The fear of missing out? We’re so busy trying to keep up that we rarely stop to ask what we’re actually learning. In this article, I want to ask: if we’re using AI to acquire new skills, knowledge, and abilities, how do we know what we actually learned? My hunch is that we are creating a learned dependence on AI because we never really read the books, learned to code, or to design. I mean, ask anyone today, and they’ll say, “my god, how did we ever live without AI?” The Good Student Who Follows Instructions We use AI to speed things up, to summarize books, explain difficult ideas, and produce reports that we don’t truly read, understand, or spend time with. We ask for a summary, then a shorter summary, then the three things we need to know. At each step, we get something faster to consume. The problem is that students may not recognize what they lose when they rush, and our classroom routines may reinforce those blind spots. If completing the work efficiently gets a good grade and pleases their parents, why would they question whether they have understood it? Let’s look at it from a student’s perspective. Let’s call him Sam. Sam was asked to produce an essay in two days and submit it to you for your review. You didn’t talk about AI much; you just said to complete it on time and to address the learning objectives. You told him he couldn’t use AI to write the essay, but said little about other uses. Thinking he was in alignment with your expectations, Sam went home and quickly acquired all the relevant literature from a website. He loaded them into Gemini Notebook (formerly NotebookLM), read the first 20 lines of a summary report, thinking that he understood the assignment, and quickly wrote the essay out. After all, Sam has other homework, dinner with his family, and will meet his friends before bed for some online gaming, his one social outlet for the day. He went back to school and turned in the assignment, feeling proud and happy that he did the right thing. He did, after all, want to do the right thing and make his teacher and parents proud. What actually went wrong? To me, it’s busy people rushing through the place where the thinking should have happened: reading the texts, processing what he read, and writing, which he rushed through as a task rather than a form of thinking. I think it continues to go beyond that, though. It’s also the teacher who left the AI conversation at the surface level of “no writing with AI” rather than addressing the other forms of interacting with it. It was the uninvited guest sitting next to each child whom the teacher did not introduce. Finally, the environment. I can’t help but also wonder if the teacher reinforced a rushed, transactional classroom. We only have so much time to get through all this content, so there’s no time to think, just act. Or, class time is filled with the things I need to tell you, so do the thinking at home. The rushed classroom existed before AI, and AI just reveals old problems in many ways, but if schools keep operating that rushed sort of way, we’ll see these problems more and more. The Illusion of Explanatory Depth Rozenblit and Keil (2002) called the core problem of this article the illusion of explanatory depth. In their experiments, participants rated how well they understood everyday devices, like a zipper, then tried to write out detailed explanations of how they worked. The attempt to give a detailed explanation exposed gaps to themselves, and their self-assessed ratings dropped. The researchers proposed that the drop in their scores was a sign that people often confuse what they can see and use with what they actually understand. Here’s a great video from YouTuber Pseudoodle that explains it beautifully. It's worth showing your students too. In short, familiarity and exposure are not understanding. Explaining, teaching another person, or something similar, can help you notice more accurately your own level of understanding. The Role of The Teacher I keep coming back to the teacher’s role in helping students notice what they know. What were you trying to learn? What can you explain now? Where do you still need practice? Those questions give students a reason to pause and look beyond whether the work is finished and to consider its bigger purpose: your growth. The project matters significantly less than your growth. We are not at school to create projects, we are at school to grow into smarter, kinder, thoughtful, creative, analytical, problem-solving people. And when we forget that and focus on the test, the grade, the project, the whatever, AI is going to do it for them. As facilitators of this sort of thinking classroom, we might be the ones creating pauses, especially at first as we develop those habits. We as teachers might ask the question, make time for an explanation, and help students notice a gap without treating it as a failure, but rather an opportunity to learn. Over time, we want students to begin asking those questions themselves as self-regulated learners. Monday-Ready Resources Let’s use metacognitive questions, structured as Foresight, Oversight, and Hindsight to help guide students to be independent and wise users of AI. The questions can really take different shapes depending on the age, independence, subject area, culture, and context of your classroom. That being said, I have written a few guiding questions to provoke thinking, intentionality, and deliberate learning as opposed to task-completion and doing-without-thinking. It has been my claim throughout this article that AI can make it seem that we have depth of knowledge when we speed things up and use AI to summarize texts for us. A student who hasn’t developed a level of self-awareness around their actions needs guidance to use a tool as powerful or potentially harmful as AI. Teachers can support this development through metacognition and well thought out questions. Below I have question banks in the form of text and PDFs that are ready to be presented in class. Let’s go process by process and check out the resources. Foresight One of the metacognitive moves I would highly recommend is getting students to plan in advance and consider how they will know if they have met the targets. What things will they see that they were able to accomplish, do, express, or as today’s article has been suggesting, be able to explain. That’s a hard one, but spending a few minutes on it and revisiting it throughout the work can be a helpful way to keep them on track and to be intentional about when and how they use AI. The purpose is to have students develop self-awareness around both what they want to achieve as their goal, how AI can aid in that work, and how it might derail those intentions. Here are questions you can ask your class. Foresight Guiding Questions * First and foremost, what is it you’re actually trying to learn here? What things are OK to be surface level, what things are important to be deep? * Looking at our rubric, what things will you be able to explain to show your depth of knowledge? * How might you use AI to ensure it supports you to gain a deeper understanding? * The opposite, what things do you want to avoid doing with AI that would give you the illusion of understanding? * After which step in the process could you self-assess and check in with yourself? * Which parts of the process are better with another person and which parts are better with AI? * If you had to make a prediction right now about your current theories about this work, what might they be? Oversight The students set their intentions before starting with AI, and now they are midway through a task. It’s time for a pause. It could be during a lesson for a few minutes, it could be a sequence of lessons in a unit and starting a class with some good old fashioned metacognition. The point being that the students orient themselves and look at their process and whether they are behaving in ways that are consistent with their plans. The focus at this point is self-awareness and noticing both where they are at in terms of their growth, but also considering how their actions are either helping or hindering their intentions. Here are questions you can ask your class. Oversight Guiding Questions * Looking back at your goal and intentions, how might you be doing? What evidence or data do you see to support that evaluation? * If you were to sel