Do We Love That For You?

Heather and Zia
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Our podcast is going to be explaining in “jersey words” the things we experience, products we use, people we encounter, and anything else we think of. Every episode will be different the only guarantee is that both Zia and Heather will be here.

Episodes

  1. 1H AGO

    Do We Love...Laughing

    Did you love that for us? Ever used a fake name at a bar and felt a little guilty about it? We flip that script and show how “bar names” are less about pretending and more about protecting—practical boundaries for women navigating crowded rooms, pushy strangers, and the instant-find world of social media. From there, we broaden the lens: what it means for Gen X and beyond to actively lift up younger women at work, and how to turn mentorship from a buzzword into a habit that actually changes someone’s week. We get honest about the moments that still sting—outfit policing, whispered critiques, the side-eyes that shrink confidence—and swap them for tools that help: sharing the playbook for raises, setting calendar boundaries without guilt, and giving credit in rooms where it moves careers. Friendship becomes the backbone of it all. We talk about the comfort of being fully seen, laughing through the “did she just kick that chair” stories, and how acceptance lowers the mental cost of showing up as yourself. There’s real body talk too. Early passion in running and dance can leave a tab on our joints, so we map compassionate pivots: walking that counts, yoga for mobility, dance for joy, and low-impact training that keeps us moving without the crash. Between the big themes, we let the local color through—Jersey vs Philly loyalties, Z100 nostalgia, subs and Taylor Ham, beach-day snacks, coffee versus tea, and the accents that always give us away. Hit play for a blend of humor, boundary-setting, and practical empowerment you can use today. If this conversation made you nod, laugh, or rethink a habit, follow the show, share it with a friend who needs a lift, and leave a quick review to help others find us. Your support helps us keep the honesty—and the laughs—coming.

    41 min
  2. Do We Love... Protection

    JAN 31

    Do We Love... Protection

    Did you love that for us? Ever notice how protection can look like a hundred different tiny choices? We swap stories that start with a kicked bar stool at Starbucks and land on a deeper truth: real friendship is knowing when to slide the third chair away, when to step between someone you love and a brewing problem, and when to check a friend’s face and ask the question they’re avoiding. If love is a verb, protection is one of its clearest forms. That care shows up in the fun places too. A simple hunt for coffee aromas spirals into a joyful rabbit hole of goth coffee shops, celestial interiors, a New Jersey spot called Nightshade, and the way curiosity can both nourish and hijack your day. We talk about setting soft boundaries around the scroll, following odd threads that teach you something new, and turning curiosity into a shared adventure instead of a lonely spiral. We also tackle honesty at home: Do you pretend to like what your partner likes? We pressure-test it with a lighthearted Popeyes versus Chick-fil-A debate and land on a practical approach—compromise generously, pretend rarely, and say what you prefer without putting down what they love. From there we compare daily rituals that reveal who we are: blasting music in the car, strict gas-tank policies, the case for making the bed when you live with pets, and small monthly resets that actually stick. Our five-minute loves segment champions sunscreen as self-respect and a no-chips February as a doable reset, not a personality change. Along the way we share listener prompts, Seaside Heights nostalgia, and news: the show’s now on YouTube, with shorts and TikTok on the way so more folks—Apple and Android alike—can tune in easily. If you’re into friendship dynamics, relationship honesty, protective instincts, coffee culture, and everyday habits that boost your mood, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who always has your back, and tell us: what’s one thing you’ll protect without apology?

    40 min

  3. JAN 24

    Do we love ... Being Snarky

    Did you love that for us? Ever wonder how a single word can flip the mood of a whole conversation? We bring Leon, our son-in-law and longtime listener, into the studio for a warm, fast-moving hangout that spans family dynamics, regional quirks, and the tiny choices that define everyday life. From Florida sunshine to New York winters, we trace the path of a marriage that found its rhythm through travel, music, and the kind of curiosity that turns “stuff” into stories. We geek out over pens and stationery—not as a flex, but as a love letter to tools that make words feel intentional. That flows straight into a candid riff on language: what do we mean when we say “whatever” or reply with “sure”? Phones light up with the same word, yet the tone hits different. We unpack how context, care, and clarity can save a plan and spare a feeling, and why small language shifts are big relationship wins. Storm buzz is real, too. Snowmageddon hits the forecast, and we compare New Hampshire, New York, and Texas responses while Leon pulls back the curtain on disaster restoration: frozen pipes, power dips, and the people who show up when things leak, crack, or break. In between, we hit smell-versus-taste surprises (featuring our infamous cayenne coffee), whether to skip TV intros or blast them in the car, and listener-fueled “five-minute loves”: family NFL loyalties, cauliflower as a starch stand-in, and the eternal Wawa vs Stewart’s showdown. Fresh subs and frozen coffee meet small-town ice cream and local pride—there’s room for both. Pull up a chair, grab your favorite drink, and join a conversation that feels like Friday night around the kitchen island. If this episode made you laugh, nod, or text a friend about cayenne coffee, tap follow, share it with someone who needs a smile, and leave us a quick review to help others find the show.

    38 min

  4. JAN 17

    Do We Love .... Surprises?

    Did you love that for us? Surprise visits, new life, and a four-minute commute that somehow takes five: this one has range in the best way. We kick off with a stealth birthday drop-in that revives a family Starbucks ritual and turns an ordinary Monday into a memory. Then the news lands: a nephew named Charles arrives on the same day, tying names, legacy, and timing into one perfect thread. We talk about why those links matter, and how small traditions—cake pops, nicknames, the right coffee order—carry meaning forward. That care extends to what we share online. We draw a firm line on posting baby photos without consent, swapping notes on how creators can stay open without oversharing. It leads to a funny twist: friends and coworkers who only just discovered the show. We finally make the invite explicit—come listen if you want—and unpack the awkwardness of self-promotion in a world that rewards shouting. The vibe is warm, honest, and a little stubborn in the best way. Then the Great Sandwich Debate explodes. Is a hot dog a sandwich? What about tacos, pop tarts, or pierogi? With the Sandwich Alignment Chart as our map, we spar between purist and chaotic definitions, and even argue about the right bread for an Italian sub. Food culture spills into memory as we swap pizza favorites and the joy of a family pizzeria where folding boxes felt like belonging. From there, we vent about driving: brake-happy neighbors, regional quirks from Jersey to New Hampshire, and the uneasy truth that maybe we’re just getting older. Gas, hybrid, or electric gets a fair shake, too, grounded in range anxiety and the need to feel in control behind the wheel. We wrap with a look at red carpet fashion after J Lo’s viral dress, calling out the odd double standard that celebrates nudity on screen but clutches pearls over sheer gowns. Throughout, it’s laughter, candor, and practical boundaries—life’s small moments stitched to bigger questions. If you love honest friendship, food debates, and real-life texture, you’re home. Tap play, subscribe, and tell us: where do you land on the sandwich spectrum? a2tDztBfjq7yZHZlPKJm

    39 min
  5. Do We Love... Visits?

    JAN 10

    Do We Love... Visits?

    Did you love that for us? Join us while we discuss a snowy mystery for medical truth, tracing a line from a hunting shack and mountain lion tracks to childhood illness, a prednisone allergy, PTSD, and the grit it takes to heal. We laugh about car names and cake pops, explain our E rating, and share everyday choices about lip care, keepsakes, shoes, and maps. • surprise reunion, birthday visit, coffee tradition • mystery shack on the tree line, fresh build, hunting blind • mountain lion tracks, winter safety, respect for wildlife • childhood pneumonia, induced coma, lifelong asthma • prednisone allergy, medical ID, self-advocacy in ER • PTSD after military service, weight gain, structured weight loss • autoimmune diagnoses, VA care, meds and weight fluctuation • why we carry an E rating, adult topics without shock value • Jersey Devils fandom origin story, season tickets, family lore • naming cars, music-fueled road trips, coping rituals • lip care picks, tallow balm shout-out, gloss vs balm • keepsakes vs knickknacks, memory over clutter, gifting early • shoes on or off at home, comfort and courtesy • Google Maps over Waze, dirt roads and practical navigation • plans to post weight-loss photo and matching shirts We’re going to try a reel or YouTube short this week. Wish me luck on that. I will post a picture of my weight loss journey so everybody can see it.

    37 min
  6. Do We Love… All The Changes?

    JAN 3

    Do We Love… All The Changes?

    Did you love that for us? We push back on “new year, new me” and share why health and timing—not dates—drive change. Between a Boston arena comedy night, a beekeeping plan, and a layered family story from a New Jersey dance studio, we keep it honest, warm, and a little chaotic in the best way. • why we skip resolution pressure and let health set the pace • how we keep long-distance friendship strong with reciprocity • the dance studio roots behind “many moms” and found family • a packed Matt Rife show, crowd anxiety, and a New York whoop • beekeeping school plans, hive setup, and first-year patience • winter coffee picks and which snowfall makes us tap out • where we’d move south and why mountains still tempt • listener “Do We Love” questions and how to send more Anyone who's listening, jump on any of our socials and and throw up more questions. We love the do you loves and anything you want us to talk about

    33 min
  7. Hope Strikes Back

    12/26/2025

    Hope Strikes Back

    Did you love that for us? Big moves feel different when they start at home. We kick off a new year with a sharper show identity, a brand-new intro courtesy of DJ Slink, and a title switch that finally sounds like us: Do We Love That? The premise is simple and bold—make the choice, own it, and keep moving—because that’s how our real conversations go. We share how family feedback pushed us to level up, from tightening our cold open to launching a five-minute hot-seat that forces fast decisions. You’ll hear us speed through the calls everyone argues about: are Christmas movies a win or a skip, Coke or Pepsi loyalty, when to take down the tree, and whether winter means warming the car or just driving cold. We even get into snow day hacks like wipers up vs. down and why Jersey habits die hard. It’s playful, opinionated, and designed to invite your voice into the mix. Upgrades are part of the story too. New microphones are in the studio pipeline to improve sound quality for guests and rapid segments, and we talk honestly about the tradeoffs of expanding to YouTube while protecting the cozy morning recording vibe that keeps us real. Nostalgia threads through everything—Friends-style episode nods, Everybody Loves Raymond memories, and a quick detour into holiday updates, family travel, and the board games currently on our table, from Horrified to Yellowstone. If you’ve been with us since the “Hope” era, this is the evolution you asked for: clearer titles, tighter pacing, and more ways to jump in. If you’re new here, welcome to a show that blends humor, honesty, and everyday choices with a warm, 90s-infused heart. Hit play, then tell us your picks: Coke or Pepsi? Wipers up or down? And what should we decide on next? Enjoy the ride, share this episode with a friend who needs a laugh, and tap follow so you never miss our next Do We Love That sprint. Your hot take could be the spark for our next segment.

    32 min

  8. 12/20/2025

    Hope is Counting Down the Dayz....

    Did you love that for us? Whats the deal with how one movie, one song, or one odd tradition can flip your whole season from hectic to happy? We invited Eliza to sit down with us and pull on those threads—sharing the holiday rituals we cling to, the ones we outgrow, and the playful twists that keep December fresh. From Love Hard and The Santa Clause to the eternal Die Hard question, we build a watch-list that blends nostalgia with discovery and admit to the classics we still haven’t seen. We volley between Justin Bieber’s Mistletoe and the power riffs of Trans-Siberian Orchestra, while Italian records sneak in as unofficial “holiday music” because they scored our childhood kitchens. We tour neighborhood decor wars—blow-up villages, synchronized lights, and a skeleton house that changes costumes across the seasons—and laugh about the fine line between delightful and overwhelming.  Then we get practical. Lists rescue our sanity, reusable gift bags save time, and wrapping hacks add joy without the 2 a.m. meltdown. We map out a lasagna Christmas dinner and a friendly “meatball off,” explain why Christmas morning at home lets kids actually enjoy their gifts, and share our secret-ruled games for adult children that turn small moments into family lore. We even look ahead to travel dreams—Bermuda, anyone?—and how to keep the heart of the holidays beating across multiple homes. If you’re juggling traditions, schedules, and big feelings, press play and come plan with us. Subscribe, leave a review to help more listeners find the show, and tell us: what tradition anchors your season?

    37 min

  9. 12/13/2025

    Hope equals Esperanza

    Did you love that for us? Two friends swap stories about a jarring iPhone update, older parents navigating new tech, and the tender, funny realities of being an only child versus growing up in a big family. Winter arrives with live tree needles, a quarter‑mile icy driveway, missed dumpster pickups, coyotes, and a Santa parade that melts the noise. • iPhone update friction, button remaps, screenshot changes • parents with legacy phones and the cost of no updates • voicemail as memory and teaching with annotated screenshots • only child boundaries versus sibling negotiation • fairness in parenting and avoiding favoritism • birthdays near holidays and keeping celebrations distinct • live versus artificial trees, clutter and allergies • snow, plows, gravel driveways, and delivery workarounds • coyotes at dawn, dogs on deck, shifting winter wildlife • Santa runs, neighborhood traditions, and lighthearted wrap‑up Tune in next week to see who our secret guest is

    44 min

  10. 12/06/2025

    Hope is not a town In NJ.... Oh Wait ...

    Did you love that for us? A Fallout tee, a bus lot, and two Jersey girls who couldn’t stop asking questions—Every super team up has an origin story... this is ours. From there, the story folds into a decade of quick curbside chats, dinners that overwhelmed our New York spouses, and a long-distance rhythm that still lands us at the same table whenever we can. This week we pull on the thread of how small moments become big bonds and follow it through holiday chaos, blocked drive-thrus, and roadside snow that swallows headlights whole. We start with a simple Black Friday plan and meet a Starbucks protest at the door. - WTF Where is our Cake Pops ? With caffeine on the line, we pivot to a grocery-store kiosk with lease rules that keep the lights on, then land at a local coffee spot where cake pops rescue tradition. That detour opens a bigger conversation about supporting small businesses,  -  And then there’s the misadventure you didn’t know you needed: a condo upgrade, a cold-water bidet, and the fastest route to a telehealth appointment. If you’ve ever built a friendship out of ordinary moments, fought for your coffee ritual, or turned a travel nightmare into a story you now love, you’ll feel at home here. Hit play, share this with your favorite person, and tell us the small moment that started your best friendship. Subscribe, leave a review, and drop your own chaotic coffee or travel tale—we’ll read our favorites on the show.

    39 min

  11. 11/22/2025

    Episode 1 a new hope...

    Did you love that for us? In this kick off episode two jersey girls discuss life after Jersey with a side of Taylor Ham....

    33 min
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About

Our podcast is going to be explaining in “jersey words” the things we experience, products we use, people we encounter, and anything else we think of. Every episode will be different the only guarantee is that both Zia and Heather will be here.

Information

  • Creator
    Heather and Zia
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Do We Love That For You?
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