Still Here: A Shattered Hearts Oasis Podcast

Leah Ozment
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Still Here: A Shattered Hearts Oasis Podcast is a grief-informed, trauma-aware journey through child loss, healing, resilience, and learning how to live after the unimaginable. Hosted by Leah, a licensed clinical social worker and grieving mother, this podcast tells the raw story of losing her son, Thomas, in a motorcycle accident and the path that followed: early grief, survival, organ donation, trauma in medical systems, and the slow, sacred process of living forward. Blending personal narrative, clinical insight, mental health education, and real-life experience, each episode offers support for grieving mothers, bereaved parents, trauma survivors, organ donor families, and anyone navigating profound loss. This is not a podcast about moving on. It is about honoring grief, understanding trauma, finding meaning, and discovering resilience in the depths of heartbreak. Listeners will find validation, language for their pain, and a safe space to breathe. You do not have to be okay to be here. You only have to still be here.

Episodes

  1. 12/08/2025

    Things People Say to Grieving Moms - and Why They Hurt

    There are sentences grieving moms hear over and over — almost word-for-word — no matter how old their child was, how they died, or how long it’s been. And the wild part is this: the sayings are almost predictable. “He’s in a better place.” “You’re so strong.” “God needed another angel.” “Time heals.” “You have to stay positive.” If you’re a grieving mom, you already know how those words hit. Not on the surface. Not as ideas. But in the body — like a shock, a jolt, a collapse, or a shut-down. In this episode, we’re talking about why these sentences hurt the way they do, what grief does inside you that no one sees, and why your reactions aren’t “overreactions” at all. They’re the nervous system trying to survive the unimaginable. This episode isn’t about calling people out. It’s about giving grieving moms language for what happens internally when the world speaks a language that no longer fits. It’s about understanding the internal shifts that happen after child loss — the boundary changes, the energy changes, the clarity that shows up out of nowhere, the zero-tolerance that forms overnight. I also talk about what makes child loss grief different from every other kind of grief. It hits the body differently. It lands on the nervous system differently. It alters your sense of safety, identity, and reality in ways most people will never understand. So if you hear me talk about sharp boundaries or emotional distance, know this: this isn’t coldness. This is what traumatic loss requires. My hope is that wherever you are in your grief — three days or thirty years — you’ll hear something in this episode that helps you understand yourself a little more clearly. That helps you release some of the guilt you’ve carried for your reactions. That helps you feel less alone in the internal changes you may not have words for yet. I also share how even the most well-intended people can accidentally cause harm when they’re trying to comfort a grieving mom. And I offer a deeper look at why support systems need to allow space for “opting out,” emotional boundaries, and choices that protect your nervous system — especially around events like weddings, holidays, milestones, and moments where joy and grief collide. This is a conversation about truth. About the inner landscape of grief that almost no one talks about. And about helping grieving moms feel seen in the ways they’ve needed for far too long. Welcome to Episode 2 of Still Here: A Shattered Hearts Oasis Podcast — the place where grief gets language, and where grieving moms are finally allowed to tell the truth about what survival actually looks like. Keywords: child loss grief, grieving moms podcast, traumatic loss support, why grief sayings hurt, grief and the nervous system, grief boundaries and triggers, life after losing a child, grief education for parents, understanding grief reactions, Shattered Hearts Oasis podcast

    30 min

  2. 11/23/2025

    The Night Everything Split

    Episode 1: The Day Everything Split Some moments divide your life into Before and After. This is the story of mine. In this first episode, I walk you through the night everything changed — the text, the ditch, the road, and the moment I saw the first image of a world without my son Thomas. Told with the same raw honesty that shaped Shattered Hearts Oasis, this episode blends memory, shock, and the lived experience of early grief in its truest form. Still Here is a space where grief is spoken out loud — without rushing, fixing, or softening the truth. If you are a grieving mother, love someone who is, or want to understand what child loss actually feels like on the inside… this is where the story begins. You’re not alone. And somehow, neither am I.

    19 min
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About

Still Here: A Shattered Hearts Oasis Podcast is a grief-informed, trauma-aware journey through child loss, healing, resilience, and learning how to live after the unimaginable. Hosted by Leah, a licensed clinical social worker and grieving mother, this podcast tells the raw story of losing her son, Thomas, in a motorcycle accident and the path that followed: early grief, survival, organ donation, trauma in medical systems, and the slow, sacred process of living forward. Blending personal narrative, clinical insight, mental health education, and real-life experience, each episode offers support for grieving mothers, bereaved parents, trauma survivors, organ donor families, and anyone navigating profound loss. This is not a podcast about moving on. It is about honoring grief, understanding trauma, finding meaning, and discovering resilience in the depths of heartbreak. Listeners will find validation, language for their pain, and a safe space to breathe. You do not have to be okay to be here. You only have to still be here.

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