Arrivals: A Birth Story Podcast

Merelise Wilson
  • 4.8 (24)
  • Parenting
  • Weekly

Is there anything more magical than a new life arriving into this world? Every single person, no matter who they are, begins their life here the same way - with someone giving birth to them. It's no wonder we love birth stories - birth is an amazing feat. And beyond the wonder of it all, birth stories have served an important role in history, helping to educate and support women as they embark on their own births. At some point though, birth started being portrayed to us mostly one way - painful, hard, scary. Birth can be those things but it can be so much more, too. Birth can be peaceful, joyful, natural, surgical, triumphant, empowering, and even funny. Every birth story is as unique as the life that comes into this world as a result. This podcast celebrates and makes room for each and every one of those stories. Follow Arrivals on Instagram Follow Merelise on Instagram Intro music by Lewis Beard Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment. 

  1. 4d ago

    How to have a safe Pitocin induction, elective C-sections, and “learn before labor”

    This week, Merelise is joined by Gina Mundy, a mom, childbirth attorney, podcast host, and author of a Parent’s Guide to Safer Childbirth.  Gina shares her three birth stories, all Cesarean births. She discusses how, given her career as a childbirth attorney, she strongly considered opting for an elective C-section with her first baby. She did go into labor spontaneously with her first child, but then ended up having a C-birth.  After decades of hearing heartbreaking stories as a childbirth attorney, she started to notice a pattern to her cases and decided to document what she’d learned in A Parent’s Guide to Safer Childbirth. In her book, she dedicates a large amount of time to explaining the safest way to induce labor with Pitocin, and specifically what not to do.  They discuss her advice for a safe Pitocin induction, her “learn before labor” mantra, why doulas are one of the best choices you can make to improve your birth outcomes, and so much more.  Resource Links:  Follow Gina on InstagramFollow The Childbirth Attorney Podcast on InstagramFollow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on InstagramWant to be a guest on Arrivals? Contact Merelise here!Disclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  2. Oct 22

    A joyful hospital birth, the mothering gene, one and done, and postpartum depression + anxiety

    Trigger warning: this episode contains brief reference to fetal loss. This week, Merelise is joined by mom, attorney and host of the How Do I Do This? podcast, Ryanne Saucier.  Ryanne shares that her journey to motherhood wasn’t necessarily a straight line, and she wasn’t sure at one point if she even wanted to be a mom. However, that all changed when her son was born.  Ryanne highlights how her intuition and awareness of her body played a critical role in her son’s birth story. She shares the amazing moment her son was born with his eyes wide open, a perfect representation of his personality, and she and Merelise bond over their shared post-birth meal. They also discuss Ryanne’s postpartum depression and anxiety and how it influenced, along with other factors, her decision to only have one child. For anyone who is struggling with the decision to have a second child, this episode offers invaluable insight and support from someone who wrestled with the decision herself.  Resource Links:  Follow How Do I Do This? On Instagram Follow Ryanne on InstagramFollow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on InstagramWant to be a guest on Arrivals? Contact Merelise here!Disclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  3. Oct 15

    Three kids under three and a half, pelvic floor PT, big babies, and breastfeeding

    This week, Merelise is joined by her friend, mom and fellow podcaster, Katie Kennedy.  Katie, who is just three months postpartum with her third, shares her three birth stories, including two vaginal births with an epidural and one without. They discuss what it’s been like for Katie to be pregnant or breastfeeding for the past 4 ½ years, the benefits of pelvic floor therapy during pregnancy, what they’ve both learned about breastfeeding, and how birth should be categorized as a major athletic event.  For anyone looking for a positive hospital birth story, this episode has three for you! Resource Links:  Follow Katie on InstagramFollow Katie & Trey’s podcast on InstagramFollow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on InstagramWant to be a guest on Arrivals? Contact Merelise here!Disclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  4. Oct 8

    Replay: A successful VBAC, an Aussie birth perspective, obstructed labor & episiotomy complications

    This week, Merelise is joined by her friend, fellow podcast host and Australian “twin”, Clare Hambridge. Clare shares the birth stories of her son and daughter and in particular, how her experience as an emergency nurse really colored her perspective on pregnancy and birth.  During Clare’s first birth she experienced cervical swelling likely due to her baby being in a “stargazer” position. This swelling resulted in an obstructed labor diagnosis and ultimately led to a decision to move to a C-section. Even though a C-section wasn’t what she hoped for, Clare had the foresight to prepare her C-section preferences just in case, and that prep resulted in her still being able to have a peaceful and personalized birth experience. When she became pregnant with her second baby, she knew immediately that she wanted to have a VBAC and so she found a provider aligned with her goal and excited to support her vision for her second birth. After a few hiccups, Clare had her beautiful VBAC, thanks to her own advocacy, as well as a supportive and skilled team, dedicated to helping her through the process.  Throughout the episode, Clare weaves in education around the differences in the Australian midwifery-led model vs the US obstetric-led model of birth. They also chat about fainting husbands, posterior babies, hypo-birthing, intrusive thoughts, perineal massage, big baby worries, and so much more. This episode is PACKED full of so much birthing-goodness!  Resource Links:  Follow Love Patty Podcast on InstagramLearn more about HypnobirthingWant to be a guest on Arrivals? Contact Merelise here! Follow Arrivals on Instagram Follow Merelise on Instagram Disclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  5. Oct 1

    A midwife doula, a C-section, the UK midwifery model of care, and protecting birthing women

    Trigger warning: this episode contains brief reference to fetal loss. In this episode, Merelise is joined by Charmaine McNeil, a UK-trained midwife and doula, now practicing in the US. Charmaine shares her daughter’s C-section birth story before pivoting to insights on birth practices, healthcare systems, and the importance of informed choices in maternity care. She discusses her unique background, the differences between UK and US maternity care, and the critical role of doulas in advocating for women. They also chat a little bit about Merelise’s second birth, as Charmaine was her doula for it!  Resource Links: Learn more about Charmaine - Pinkyinc DoulaFollow Charmaine on Instagram The Body Myth by Milli Hill Follow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on InstagramDisclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  6. Sep 24

    A birth center birth, Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome, a retroverted uterus, and a bifurcated placenta

    Trigger warning: this episode contains brief discussion of pregnancy loss. This week, Merelise is joined by her friend Dr. Charlie Watts, mom, doula and pelvic floor occupational therapist.  They discuss Charlie’s winding path to birth work and how the experience of birthing her son has changed both her doula and occupational floor practice. Charlie talks Merelise through her difficult pregnancy, where she was first misdiagnosed with a velamentous cord insertion, then discovered she had a connective tissue disorder and was eventually diagnosed with Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome postpartum. She shares the unique challenges that people with connective tissue disorders face in pregnancy and postpartum and what they can do to prepare their bodies for an optimal birth and postpartum recovery.  Charlie reflects on the birth of her son, Judah - a long but beautiful experience, starting with 66 hours of labor at home and culminating in a water birth at The Atlanta Birth Center. However, soon after giving birth to a 9 lb 4 oz baby boy, Charlie’s bliss was interrupted when she began hemorrhaging, possibly due in part to her unexpected bifurcated placenta. The team at the birth center handled everything quickly and got her bleeding under control in time for her to still enjoy a beautiful golden hour with her son and husband.  Throughout the episode, they also discuss fertility, pregnancy loss, the value doulas bring, how your partner can support you in pregnancy and birth, Charlie's retroverted uterus, her misdiagnosis that almost led to a scheduled C-section, the importance of strength training, and so much more. Charlie’s pregnancy and birth story is a wonderful testament to the power of midwifery, informed pregnancy, and advocating for yourself. Resource Links: Follow Charlie on InstagramLearn more about Charlie’s Occupational Therapy PracticeFollow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on InstagramDisclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  7. Sep 17

    A great induction, becoming a mom at 40, polyhydramnios, and a 99th percentile baby

    This week, Merelise is joined by mom, entrepreneur, writer, speaker and wellness expert, Chinae Alexander.  Chinae walks Merelise through her planned induction at 36 weeks due to the size of her baby, and the breezy birth that followed. They also discuss the importance of not settling, becoming a mom at 40, the benefits of acupuncture, psychic predictions of twins, coming to terms with not enjoying pregnancy, the value in spending time with people in different life stages and so much more. Resource Links: Follow Chinae on InstagramFollow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on Instagram Disclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

  8. Sep 10

    The Positive Birth Movement, a 10 pound baby born at home, water births, and the matriflux

    Merelise is joined this week by Milli Hill, mother, author and founder of The Positive Birth Movement.  Milli shares how her birth experiences were inextricably woven with her journey towards founding the Positive Birth Movement and becoming a celebrated author. She explains that after she was induced and her first child was born via forceps and with an episiotomy in hospital, she decided to have home water births for her second and third children. She reflects on how both of those births, supported entirely by midwives, were peaceful, joyful experiences, full of small magical moments. She also recalls the moment she birthed her second daughter at home and found out she was 10 pounds 4 oz, and how thankful she was that no one had “caught” her potentially large baby prior to her birth, or she may not have had the beautiful home birth she did.   Throughout the conversation, Milli and Merelise discuss the impact of birth stories and the media’s portrayal of birth on women’s perception of birth, the role of environment and support in birth, the importance of inclusivity in the dialogue around birth, hypnobirthing, and so much more.  They conclude the conversation by talking about Milli’s latest book, The Body Myth, which is all about the female body through the entirety of its life. Milli explains matriflux, the word she has created to describe all the transformations and versions of ourselves that we experience as women. They discuss the difficulty of living in a world that was created by people without a matriflux, but also how, due to our matriflux, women are naturally more adaptable and comfortable with change. The conclude on the importance of understanding the different phases of our bodies, our menstrual cycles and all the power we contain as women. Resource Links: Follow Milli on InstagramThe Positive Birth BookThe Body MythMore books by MilliThe Positive Birth MovementFollow Arrivals on InstagramFollow Merelise on Instagram Disclaimer: This podcast contains general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment.

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Is there anything more magical than a new life arriving into this world? Every single person, no matter who they are, begins their life here the same way - with someone giving birth to them. It's no wonder we love birth stories - birth is an amazing feat. And beyond the wonder of it all, birth stories have served an important role in history, helping to educate and support women as they embark on their own births. At some point though, birth started being portrayed to us mostly one way - painful, hard, scary. Birth can be those things but it can be so much more, too. Birth can be peaceful, joyful, natural, surgical, triumphant, empowering, and even funny. Every birth story is as unique as the life that comes into this world as a result. This podcast celebrates and makes room for each and every one of those stories. Follow Arrivals on Instagram Follow Merelise on Instagram Intro music by Lewis Beard Disclaimer: This podcast provides general information and discussions around health and related subjects. This information and the other content provided in this podcast and any linked materials are not intended and should not be construed as medical advice, nor is this information a substitute for professional medical expertise or treatment. 

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