Divas of a GenX Experience Podcast

Tea Payne
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Hi we are Tea & Key, two best friend GenX Divas, who share our viewpoints on various topics according to our Generation X experiences.    As a disclaimer, these are our personal views and we understand that not everyone listening to this podcast will agree with our opinions.  Please leave us a comment and share your viewpoint on the topic or on our podcast.  You never know, we may feature your comments on a future segment.   If you’re tracking us, please don’t forget to Like, share and subscribe to our channel.

Episodes

  1. 5D AGO

    Talking down to Grown A$$ Kids and Shrink-flation.. What the heck!

    In this episode, the Divas dive into the real-life dynamics that only GenX can break down with equal parts humor, wisdom, and “now you know better.” We kick things off with a situation many of us know too well: an adult talking down to his grown cousin as if he were still a child. The Divas unpack why some folks get stuck in old family roles, how to set boundaries with relatives who refuse to update their mental software, and why respecting someone’s adulthood is non-negotiable. From there, we shift into a conversation that hits every household—real-feel inflation. Not the numbers they talk about on TV, but the inflation we feel in our wallets, our grocery carts, and our everyday lives. The Divas break down how the cost of living is shifting in ways that don’t always show up on paper. And speaking of grocery carts, we couldn’t ignore the shrinking goods phenomenon. Same price, smaller product, and a whole lot of side-eye from GenXers who remember when a bag of chips actually had chips in it. We talk about how “shrinkflation” is changing the way we shop, budget, and call out these brands with our full chest. It’s honest, it’s relatable, it’s culturally grounded—and it’s exactly the kind of conversation you have with your favorite GenX girlfriends who tell it like it is.

    46 min

  2. DEC 18

    Shooting Sh*t about Politics, Finance & Fitness

    In this episode, your favorite GenX best friends sit down for a wide‑ranging conversation that blends the personal with the powerful. From the shifting landscape of politics and how it impacts everyday life, to the realities of managing money in uncertain times, to the importance of staying strong and fit as we age — nothing is off the table. With their signature mix of humor, honesty, and cultural perspective, they break down: •  🗳️ Politics: How the current political environment is shape communities and families, and why staying informed matters. •  💵 Finance: Lessons learned from decades of working, saving, and building stability — plus what they wish they’d known in their 20s. •  🏋🏾‍♀️ Fitness: The role of health and wellness in sustaining energy, confidence, and longevity.

    1h 4m

  3. DEC 8

    Courtesy or Nah

    🎙️ Episode Description: Courtesy Counts: Respecting the Driver In this candid conversation, Key and Tea unpack the importance of showing courtesy to the person who steps up to drive — especially when the trip involves long miles, tolls, and paid parking. Inspired by a recent experience where a friend left the driver hanging after she generously offered to take everyone to a birthday dinner in New York City, they explore why respect and gratitude matter in friendships and group outings. With humor and honesty, they discuss: •  🚗 The Hidden Costs of Driving: Gas, tolls, parking, and the mental load of navigating city traffic. •  🤝 Courtesy & Respect: Why acknowledging the driver’s effort is more than just good manners — it’s about valuing relationships. •  🎉 The NYC Story: How one friend’s lack of consideration became a lesson in boundaries and expectations. •  💡 Takeaway Wisdom: Practical tips for being a better passenger and showing appreciation when someone offers to drive. This episode is about more than transportation — it’s about friendship, accountability, and the small acts of kindness that keep relationships strong.

    1h 6m

  4. DEC 4

    Dating as a GenX'er

    Dating in your 40s and 50s isn’t the same as it was in your 20s — and in this episode, we’re breaking down the highs, lows, and hilarious realities of navigating love as single GenX’ers. From the rise of dating apps to the challenges of blending families, to the joy of rediscovering yourself in relationships, we’re keeping it real about what it means to look for love at this stage in life. With our signature mix of humor and honesty, we’ll explore: •  💌 Modern Dating: How apps, social media, and technology have changed the game. •  🕰️ Old School vs. New School: The difference between meeting someone at a club in the 90s vs. swiping right today. •  👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏽 Relationship Realities: Balancing independence, careers, and family while still wanting companionship. •  ✨ Lessons Learned: What GenX wisdom brings to the dating table — and why it’s not all bad. Whether you’re single, partnered, or just curious, this episode is a candid look at love, laughter, and the pursuit of connection in midlife. ✨ This description positions the episode as relatable, funny, and insightful, while highlighting the unique GenX perspective.

    1h 1m

  5. DEC 4

    Woman with no Masculine Backup

    In this episode, we dive into the realities faced by women who navigate life without the safety net of masculine backup — whether that means partners, fathers, brothers, or male allies. Too often, these women find themselves taken advantage of in workplaces, relationships, and even within family structures simply because they’re expected to carry everything on their own. With honesty and cultural insight, we explore: •  ❤️ Relationships: The ways power imbalances can leave women vulnerable, and how resilience shows up in unexpected places. •  🧠 Strategies for Strength: Practical tools for setting boundaries, building confidence, and refusing to be diminished. This conversation isn’t about weakness — it’s about resilience, awareness, and reclaiming power. Listeners will walk away with both recognition of the challenges and inspiration to stand firm, even when standing alone.

    49 min

  6. NOV 27

    WHAT'S REALLY GOING ON?

    We discuss many topics surrounding the state of the world such as Trump accounts, abortion, immigration and etc. within this so-called new world order.

    56 min

  7. NOV 27

    Raising Black Sons

    🎙️ Episode Description: From Boys to Men: Raising Sons Across Generations In this episode, Key and Tea reflect on what it was like raising Black sons in the 1990s — a time filled with both challenges and cultural pride. From navigating the realities of safety, community, and identity, to instilling values and everyday lessons, they share the joys and struggles of motherhood during that era. Now, with their sons grown and raising children of their own, Key and Tea explore the generational shifts in parenting. They discuss their son's approach to parenting, and what it feels like to watch their sons step into the role of protector and provider. Listeners will hear: •  👩🏾‍👦90s Parenting Realities: The lessons, fears, and cultural influences that shaped their sons. •  👨🏾‍👧 Generational Shifts: How parenting looks today. •  💡 Wisdom Across Time: The values that endure and the new lessons learned from watching their sons raise families. This episode is a celebration of resilience, growth, and the powerful bond between mothers and sons — across decades and generations.

    31 min

  8. NOV 27

    How Key and Tea Met

    🎙️ Episode Description: Three Decades of Friendship In this episode, we take listeners back to where it all began — two young women in their 20s working at an insurance company in New Jersey. What started as co‑workers quickly grew into a bond that has carried us through nearly 30 years of life, love, family, and everything in between. With laughter, honesty, and a few surprises, we share: •  🌟 The Origin Story: How chance meetings at work turned into sisterhood. •  👩🏾‍🤝‍👩🏽 Friendship Through Seasons: Raising sons together, navigating careers, and supporting each other through ups and downs. •  ✈️ Adventures & Memories: Girlfriend trips, cultural moments, and the joy of shared experiences. •  💡 Lessons Learned: What it takes to maintain a friendship that lasts decades. This episode is a celebration of loyalty, love, and the kind of friendship that feels like family. Whether you’re reflecting on your own long‑time relationships or looking for inspiration to nurture them, you’ll find yourself nodding, laughing, and maybe even tearing up right along with us.

    27 min
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Hi we are Tea & Key, two best friend GenX Divas, who share our viewpoints on various topics according to our Generation X experiences.    As a disclaimer, these are our personal views and we understand that not everyone listening to this podcast will agree with our opinions.  Please leave us a comment and share your viewpoint on the topic or on our podcast.  You never know, we may feature your comments on a future segment.   If you’re tracking us, please don’t forget to Like, share and subscribe to our channel.

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