Family Law Cafe Podcast

Joanna Toch

Joanna Toch introduces you to her network. You get to hear stories that will help and inspire you.Providing great insight in to the support that you can find when trying to tackle your family law problems.

  1. 11/27/2025

    Family Law Cafe Podcast Series 3 Episode 1- Is everything we know about domestic abuse wrong?

    Engage with Us: Website: https://familylawcafe.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familylawcafe Connect with Joanna on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannatoch/ Follow FLC on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/family-law-cafe/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylawcafe X: https://twitter.com/familylawcafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylawcafeUK Mag's paper:  https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/10778012251379423 Mag's  journalistic summary: https://www.cam.ac.uk/stories/domestic-abuse-trauma-bonds We'd love to hear from you! Please leave a comment below sharing your thoughts or any questions you might have. Don’t forget to like this video if you found it insightful and subscribe to our channel for more powerful stories and expert advice. Your support helps us reach and help more people.

    1h 1m

  2. 05/08/2025 · BONUS

    Private Investigators, Secret Strategies & Divorce Truths No One Talks About

    Are you navigating the world of family law or just starting to think about divorce? In this powerful episode of Family Law Cafe On the Road, we’re joined by family solicitor Sandy Brown, private investigator Harry from Answers Investigation, and Family Law Cafe founder Joanna Toch. We dive into real-life experiences with divorce, the legal system, mediation, and how Family Law Cafe is reshaping the family law experience in the UK. 👉 Whether you’re looking for emotional support, strategic legal guidance, or clarity during a confusing time — this episode has you covered. 💬 In this episode: How Family Law Cafe works differently to traditional law firms Why clients feel empowered — not intimidated The truth about mediation, litigation, and legal fees What a private investigator really does in divorce cases How divorce coaching can support your emotional clarity Engage with Us: Website: https://familylawcafe.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familylawcafe Connect with Joanna on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannatoch/ Follow FLC on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/family-law-cafe/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylawcafe X: https://twitter.com/familylawcafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylawcafeUK We'd love to hear from you! Please leave a comment below sharing your thoughts or any questions you might have. Don’t forget to like this video if you found it insightful and subscribe to our channel for more powerful stories and expert advice. Your support helps us reach and help more people.

    38 min

  3. 04/24/2025 · BONUS

    Family Law Cafe on the Road Unfiltered Conversations

    Welcome to Family Law Cafe on the Road — a special live episode filmed at the Business Junction Spring Expo. In this dynamic conversation hosted by Family Law Cafe founder Joanna Toch, we meet the professionals behind the scenes of modern divorce. From mortgage brokers and accountants to foreign exchange experts and entrepreneurs, we explore how financial clarity, strategic advice, and collaboration can transform outcomes for people navigating separation. Whether you’re a business owner going through a divorce or a professional supporting clients through one, this episode is packed with insight, empathy, and real-world expertise. Engage with Us: Website: https://familylawcafe.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familylawcafe Connect with Joanna on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannatoch/ Follow FLC on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/family-law-cafe/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylawcafe X: https://twitter.com/familylawcafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylawcafeUK We'd love to hear from you! Please leave a comment below sharing your thoughts or any questions you might have. Don’t forget to like this video if you found it insightful and subscribe to our channel for more powerful stories and expert advice. Your support helps us reach and help more people.

    38 min

  4. 03/27/2025

    Parallel Legal Battles Criminal & Family Law Insights

    In this episode, Joanna Toch speaks with Oliver Al-Falah, a specialist criminal and regulatory lawyer, about the intersections between criminal law and family law. They discuss how early legal advice can drastically change case outcomes, the impact of criminal allegations on family proceedings, and how legal strategy shapes both family and criminal cases. The conversation covers topics like domestic abuse allegations, controlling and coercive behaviour, malicious communications, harassment, and the role of early intervention in legal disputes. Oliver shares insights from his experience, including cases where family and criminal law overlap, the importance of client-lawyer relationships, and why waiting for a criminal trial before proceeding with a family case is often a mistake. Engage with Us: Website: https://familylawcafe.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familylawcafe Connect with Joanna on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannatoch/ Follow FLC on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/family-law-cafe/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylawcafe X: https://twitter.com/familylawcafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylawcafeUK We'd love to hear from you! Please leave a comment below sharing your thoughts or any questions you might have. Don’t forget to like this video if you found it insightful and subscribe to our channel for more powerful stories and expert advice. Your support helps us reach and help more people.

    47 min

  5. 03/27/2025

    Trusts, Wills & Powers of Attorney What You Need to Know

    Trusts, Wills & Powers of Attorney – What You Need to Know | Family Law Cafe Podcast What is a trust? Do you really need a will? And what happens if you don’t have a power of attorney in place? In this episode of the Family Law Cafe Podcast, host Joanna Toch sits down with solicitor Lissie Squire to break down these essential topics in a clear, jargon-free way. 🔹 Key topics covered: What a trust is and how it works 🏡 Different types of trusts and how they impact families Why having a will is crucial (and what happens if you don’t have one) Powers of attorney explained – who can act on your behalf and when How trusts and wills affect divorce settlements If you're dealing with estate planning, cohabitation disputes, or inheritance issues, this episode is for you! 🎧 Listen now and take control of your legal future. 📍 Need expert advice? There is another way. Visit Family Law Cafe today. #FamilyLawCafe #EstatePlanning #TrustsExplained #WillsAndProbate #PowersOfAttorney #DivorceLaw Website: https://familylawcafe.co.uk/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/familylawcafe Connect with Joanna on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/joannatoch/ Follow FLC on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/family-law-cafe/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@familylawcafe X: https://twitter.com/familylawcafe Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/familylawcafeUK We'd love to hear from you! Please leave a comment below sharing your thoughts or any questions you might have. Don’t forget to like this video if you found it insightful and subscribe to our channel for more powerful stories and expert advice. Your support helps us reach and help more people.

    50 min

  6. 02/27/2025

    Breaking Free: How Coaching Can Transform Your Divorce Journey

    In this insightful episode, Joanna Toch speaks with Louize Yafai, a breakup, divorce, and domestic abuse coach. Louize shares her personal journey through an acrimonious divorce and how it inspired her to become a coach. She discusses the emotional rollercoaster of divorce, strategies for emotional regulation, the importance of taking control, and how coaching can complement legal advice. The conversation also touches on financial abuse, co-parenting, boundary setting, and rebuilding confidence post-divorce. Topics Covered: Louize’s personal experience with divorce and emotional overwhelm How coaching helps individuals process emotions and regain control The importance of a support network in divorce Common emotional patterns in breakups and strategies for emotional regulation How financial abuse manifests and how to rebuild financial independence Co-parenting: The difference between co-parenting and parallel parenting The impact of unresolved trauma on future relationships How boundary setting builds confidence and self-worth Moving on after divorce and preparing for a new relationship Guest Bio: Louize Yafai is a certified breakup, divorce, and domestic abuse coach. Having navigated her own high-conflict divorce, she now helps individuals process emotions, build confidence, and move forward with clarity and empowerment. Five Key Takeaways Divorce is an Emotional Rollercoaster: It’s normal to experience shifting emotions—anger, sadness, relief, and frustration. Coaching helps process these feelings constructively. Lawyers Aren’t Emotional Support Systems: Lawyers provide legal strategy, not emotional guidance. Coaching ensures clients can engage effectively with their legal team. Regaining Financial Independence is Empowering: Many individuals, particularly women, feel lost post-divorce. Small wins, like opening a solo bank account, help rebuild confidence. Co-Parenting Requires Emotional Maturity: It’s about prioritizing the children’s needs over parental conflict. Parallel parenting often exacerbates tension. You Must Heal Before Entering a New Relationship: Without self-reflection and boundary setting, people risk repeating unhealthy relationship patterns.

    53 min

  7. 02/13/2025

    Breaking the Cycle: Healing from Toxic Relationships

    In this episode of the Family Law Cafe Podcast, host Joanna Toch speaks with Anna Florio, a relationship coach specialising in helping individuals—particularly men—navigate relationship challenges and post-divorce recovery. Anna shares her journey from being an informal relationship advisor to becoming an expert in relationship dynamics, especially concerning narcissistic relationships. She discusses why people repeat unhealthy patterns, how past trauma affects relationship choices, and why men often struggle with emotional support during divorce. The conversation also explores emotional abuse, infidelity, and the psychological impact of breakups, offering insights into healing and self-awareness. Show Notes 00:00 Introduction – Joanna Toch introduces the podcast and guest, Anna Florio. 02:00 Anna’s Background – From childhood peacemaker to relationship coach. 06:30 Why We Repeat Relationship Patterns – Recognising subconscious behaviour loops. 12:45 Narcissistic Relationships – Identifying red flags and breaking free. 18:20 Emotional Abuse in Relationships – Why people tolerate toxic behaviour. 24:50 The Psychology of Infidelity – Different motivations for men and women. 31:15 Divorce, Emotional Trauma, and Suicide Rates in Men – Why men struggle post-divorce. 38:00 Moving Forward After a Toxic Relationship – Healing techniques and self-awareness. 45:00 Final Thoughts & Where to Find Anna Florio 5 Key Takeaways Self-awareness is the key to healthy relationships – Recognising and addressing subconscious patterns prevents repeated mistakes. Narcissistic relationships are built on manipulation and control – The cycle of abuse involves idealisation, devaluation, and discarding. Emotional abuse is often dismissed but has lasting damage – Many people stay in toxic relationships due to childhood conditioning. Men struggle with post-divorce emotional support – Societal expectations make it harder for men to seek help. Healing requires introspection and tailored support – Relationship recovery involves emotional work, not just moving on.

    56 min

  8. 01/30/2025

    Changing Lives - the Power of Advocacy with Arlene Small, Family Law Barrister.

    In this episode, host Joanna Toch speaks with Arlene Small, a specialist family law barrister, about the evolving role of barristers, accessibility in family law, and the impact of transparency in the court system. Arlene shares her inspiring journey from the care system to becoming an advocate for empowering clients, her passion for family law, and her perspectives on the challenges and complexities of legal aid, private law cases, and financial remedies. The conversation is both deeply personal and insightful, offering listeners a nuanced view of family law practice. Title: Breaking Barriers in Family Law with Arlene Small Host: Joanna Toch Guest: Arlene Small, Specialist Family Law Barrister Key Discussion Points: •Arlene’s journey from the care system to the bar •Dispelling myths about barristers and making family law more accessible •Challenges of the legal aid system and its impact on justice •The role of transparency in family courts •Advocating for clients in complex and high-stakes family law cases Chat to Family Law Cafe

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Joanna Toch introduces you to her network. You get to hear stories that will help and inspire you.Providing great insight in to the support that you can find when trying to tackle your family law problems.

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    Joanna Toch
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