Uncensored with MxTomie

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Welcome to Uncensored, Hosted by Mx Tomie ⛓ Conversations not to be missed! This isn’t your typical conversation about kink. Here, we explore the raw, unfiltered realities of dominance, submission, consent, and erotic control with real people who live it, teach it, and crave it. Uncover what it means to truly take control — or surrender to it!

  1. FEB 9

    Building a Venture-Backed Brand While Being Openly Kinky Online | Kim of the Internet

    EP 48: In this episode of Uncensored, Mx Tomie sits down with Kim of the Internet—who exited Omsom for reportedly millions, a Forbes 30 Under 30 honoree, Adweek Young Influential, and one of the internet’s sharpest voices on kink, power, and visibility. Kim opens up about her unconventional upbringing, building a venture-backed CPG brand while coming into kink as a Mommy Dom, and navigating visibility, stigma, and success as a public founder. She reflects on exiting Omsom, solo travel, and why she became an online BDSM educator to counter widespread misinformation. The conversation dives into dominance, emotional labor, boundaries, attachment styles, entitlement, and how BDSM becomes a framework for communication, leadership, and self-knowledge—far beyond the bedroom. 👉 Watch the full uncensored version on Patreon. Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/kimoftheinternet/?hl=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

    43 min

  2. FEB 4

    Louisa Ferre on Opera, Corporate Life & Becoming a Professional Dom: Power, Desire & 2 Days in Dubai

    EP 47: In this episode of Uncensored, we interview Louisa Ferre, a professional dominatrix based in San Francisco and Los Angeles, to talk about BDSM, femdom, dominant girlfriend experience, and the real business of professional domination. Louisa shares how her background in classical music and corporate work informs her sessions, her experience with dungeon mentorships, and how she navigated the transition into online sex work during the pandemic. We discuss common myths about dominance, red flags in dom mentorship programs, emotional labor in BDSM, and how power dynamics extend beyond the dungeon into travel, lifestyle, and long-term dynamics. Chapters: 00:00 – 00:01:00 Setting the Scene 00:01:01 – 00:02:05 Welcome & Guest Introduction 00:02:05 – 00:03:12 Multiple Lives, One Throughline 00:03:12 – 00:05:08 Origin Story: From Music & Corporate to OnlyFans 00:05:08 – 00:06:00 Moving to the Bay & Dungeon Mentorship 00:06:01 – 00:08:28 Tumblr Era: BL, Femdom & “Love of the Game” 00:08:29 – 00:10:24 Early Kink Influences & Queer Theater Community 00:10:25 – 00:12:01 Classical Training: Discipline, Breath & Timing

    41 min
  3. The Truth About Working in Dungeon Houses

    JAN 27

    The Truth About Working in Dungeon Houses

    Follow Our Guest: X- https://x.com/ElenaDeLuca?lang=en Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

    56 min

  4. JAN 20

    Unmarried, Successful, and Happy — Cindy Gallup on Life Without Marriage

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    1 hr

  5. JAN 12

    A Dominatrix Breaks Down Power, Consent, and Censorship | Danielle Blunt

    EP 44: In this candid, no-holds-barred conversation, Mx Tomie sits down with Danielle Blunt—a dominatrix, researcher, and organizer working at the intersection of sexuality, technology, censorship, and power. Danielle is the co-founder of Hacking//Hustling and a leading voice on how digital platforms, financial systems, and so-called “safety” policies disproportionately harm sex workers and marginalized communities. Together, they explore how domination isn’t just about pleasure, but about risk, ethics, and what happens at the edge of consent—both in intimate dynamics and in our relationship to technology and capitalism. From Danielle’s early training in old-guard BDSM spaces to the real consequences of platform censorship and financial discrimination, this conversation connects the dungeon to the digital world in ways you probably haven’t considered. If you’ve ever wondered who decides what’s “acceptable,” who gets punished for desire, and why intimacy always involves risk—this episode is for you. Chapters 0:00 — 1:05 Danielle Blunt Introduction 1:00 — 2:02 Mx Tomie Formally Introduces Danielle Blunt 2:15 – 3:25 Danielle is Anti‑Pleasure, Pro‑Torture? 3:25 – 5:30 Origin Story: Sex, Taboo & Power 5:30 – 8:26 The Old Guard BDSM Chateau 8:26 – 12:28 Lifestyle Domination, Manipulation & Negotiation 12:28 – 18:20 Edge Play: A Deep‑Dive Story 18:20 – 22:31 Repair Work, Consent & The Unknown 22:31 – 26:05 Long‑Term Subs, DS Dynamics & Training 26:00 – 30:13 Femdom GFE, Sex & The “Untouchable Dom” Myth 30:13 – 32:34 Censorship, “Safety” Rhetoric & Who’s Protected 32:34 – 35:55 Financial Discrimination & Banking Deplatforming 35:55 – 37:43 Digital Security & Threat Modeling 37:43 – 40:30 Censorship, Codes & Fetish Evolution 40:30 – 42:55 Content Creation Fatigue & Forced Innovation 42:55 – 44:10 Quick‑Fire Segment (Presented by IWantClips) 44:10 – 45:05 Outro & Closing Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/missblunt.nyc/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

    45 min

  6. JAN 8

    The Real Reason We Struggle to Talk About S3x | Dr Tara

    EP 43: Mx Tomie sits down with award-winning sexologist and TV sex expert Dr. Tara to explore how pleasure, kink, and communication intersect with power, shame, and liberation. They unpack why conversations about sex—and money—are often the hardest in long-term relationships, how shame is used as a tool of control (especially against women and marginalized communities), and how reclaiming pleasure can radically shift how we show up in our lives. From morning “pleasure routines” that replace coffee, to kink-aware ways of talking about desire with a vanilla partner, to the deeper psychology behind BDSM and humiliation, this episode weaves together practical tools, personal stories, and unapologetically real talk. Dr. Tara also shares insights from her domme training with a professional dominatrix, her perspective on television as a form of sex education, and what happens when high-powered people finally have permission to let go—and be held. Chapters 0:00 — 1:00 Dr. Tara Introduction 1:00 — 2:00 Mx Tomie Introduces Dr. Tara 2:00 — 04:50 Sexual Wellness as “Morning Coffee” and Pleasure Routine 04:50 – 7:36 Sex Toys, Pleasure Pathways & “Desensitization” Myths 07:36 – 10:01 Growing Up Repressed in Bangkok & Finding Sexology 10:01 – 12:44 Sex, Money, Power & Walking on Eggshells 12:44 – 16:38 Kinks, Shame & What Clients Confess 16:38 – 21:21 Three Practical Tips for Sharing Kinks with a Partner 21:21 – 26:50 Coaching Couples, Normalizing Kink & Finding the Right Therapist 26:50 – 28:50 Dom Training: From Theory to Practice 28:50 – 30:33 | Favorite Dom Activities & Dominant Archetypes 28:58 – 30:38 TV, Sex Ed & Where the Biggest Gaps Are 30:38 – 34:04 Shame as Social Control & Performing Sex 34:04 – 35:09 Cultural Shame Around Divorce & Staying “For the Kids” Follow Our Guest: IG - https://www.instagram.com/luvbites.co/ Support the Show 💻 Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months! 📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

    58 min

  7. JAN 2

    If I Didn’t Make It on the Meter, I Made It in the Backseat of the Taxi

    EP 42: A Vietnam War veteran turned anti-war activist. The Queen of Hell’s Kitchen. A trans activist and longtime sex worker who survived eras most people only read about. In this unforgettable episode, Renee Imperato sits down with Mx Tomie to share New York stories you won’t find in history books—from growing up in 1940s Hell’s Kitchen against the backdrop of the theater district, to Vietnam’s war zones and Agent Orange, from Mafia-run queer clubs to a 30-year career driving NYC taxis, where backseats became mobile dungeons. Renee reflects on being raised by drag queens, carrying an axe for protection, surviving loss and violence, and how war radicalized her into a lifelong anti-imperialist. What emerges is not just a conversation, but a living archive of queer, trans, sex worker, and anti-war history—told with tenderness, sharp humor, and an absolute refusal to apologize. Follow Our Guest IG - https://www.instagram.com/reneimperato/ Support the Show 💻  Join today, visit iwantclips.com use code MXTOMIE for 15% off your shopping cart, and Artists claim 90% rev share for your first three months!  📲 Be sure to subscribe — help us reach 10K subs! Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie 🌶️ For the extra-spicy, uncut content we can’t air here, join the    Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/cw/UncensoredwithMxTomie Follow Mx Tomie 🖤 IG — https://www.instagram.com/mx.tomie.digital TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@mx.tomie Follow Uncensored with Mx Tomie IG — https://www.instagram.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie/ TikTok — https://www.tiktok.com/@uncensoredwithmxtomie FB — https://www.facebook.com/uncensoredwithmxtomie YouTube — https://www.youtube.com/@UncensoredWithMxTomie

    1h 22m

  8. 12/23/2025

    Why Doms Need Safewords Too: Parker Penn on Risk, Consent, and Power Exchange

    EP 41: Mx Tomie sits down with NYC-based domme, escort, and creative Parker Penn to explore where art, sex, power, risk, and healing intersect. They discuss professional dominance, kink as somatic mindfulness, consent beyond clichés, and the vulnerability and ethics of domming—venturing into edgy terrain along the way. Parker also shares how motorcycles, art, and erotic practice all strip identity down to pure sensation and meaning-making.

    1h 1m
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Welcome to Uncensored, Hosted by Mx Tomie ⛓ Conversations not to be missed! This isn’t your typical conversation about kink. Here, we explore the raw, unfiltered realities of dominance, submission, consent, and erotic control with real people who live it, teach it, and crave it. Uncover what it means to truly take control — or surrender to it!

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    Uncensored With MxTomie
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    235
  • Rating
    Explicit
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