New MN Breasties

MN Breasties

Three working mamas talking cancer, survivorship, and the raw & real truth of having cancer in your 30's.

  1. Aug 9

    Episode 14: Cancer Trauma, Survivorship, & Learning to feel safe again with Corinne

    Trauma, survivorship, and learning to feel safe again. The Minnesota Breasties welcome licensed therapist and breast cancer survivor Corinne Nechalova for a candid conversation about what happens after treatment ends. They dig into trauma, fear of recurrence, people pleasing, guilt, identity shifts, and the body-based tools that can help survivors feel regulated again. This episode matters because it names the part of cancer survivorship that often goes unspoken: the emotional and nervous system aftermath. Corinne shares from both professional expertise and lived experience, offering language and practical support for survivors, caregivers, and anyone trying to rebuild life after diagnosis. Key topics: In this episode, Corinne shares why she sees breast cancer as a whole person event, not just a medical one, because it affects the body, relationships, identity, and mental health.Corinne explains her background in therapy, somatic work, body work, and energy medicine, and how her own breast cancer experience shaped the way she supports survivors.The conversation centers on the “now what” after treatment ends, including the loneliness, uncertainty, and fear of recurrence that can show up when active treatment is over.Corinne describes common trauma responses after cancer, including hypervigilance, obsessive symptom scanning, panic, sleep disruption, dissociation, and feeling unable to relax or feel safe.Abby and Emilee reflect on how cancer changed their relationship with exercise, sleep, guilt, and time, especially as young moms trying to balance recovery with parenting.The episode highlights how survivorship can intensify boundaries and change patterns of people pleasing, overextending, and ignoring bodily signals.Corinne talks about caregiver strain and why spouses and family members often need support too, even when the focus is understandably on the patient.A major theme is identity reconstruction after cancer, including body image, invisible grief, post traumatic growth, and learning who you are now.The episode closes with a message of connection: survivors do not need to handle this alone, and there are many ways to seek support and community.

  2. Jun 10

    Episode 12: The Untold Truths of Breast Reconstruction: Breaking Myths & Embracing Our Reality.

    The Untold Truths of Breast Reconstruction: Breaking Myths & Embracing Our Reality. This episode is a raw, honest bounce between three fierce young moms navigating the chaos, the pain, and the unspoken truths of breast reconstruction after cancer. If you’re questioning, struggling, or just need to hear real stories, this is for you. In this episode: The stark reality and emotional toll of reconstruction surgeryBusting myths: free boob jobs, feeling your breasts, and the misconceptions about optionsThe deep dive into different types of reconstruction — implants, flat, deep flap, and fat graftingThe physical and mental complications of radiation and surgeriesHow post-surgery mom guilt and invisible mental tolls affect us dailyThe ongoing journey of survivorship — what no one tells you about the years after treatmentThe importance of mental health support and breaking societal taboosBreast Reconstruction Options - American Cancer SocietyDeep Flap Reconstruction - Johns Hopkins MedicineFat Grafting for Breast Reconstruction - Mayo ClinicBook: "The Breast Cancer Survivor's Guide" by Allison M. KesslerSupport for Young Moms Facing Cancer Timestamps: 00:00 - Introduction: The raw truth behind breast reconstructive journeys 02:22 - The emotional weight of being the youngest in cancer treatment spaces 08:29 - Choosing implants: why it’s more complex than you think 11:50 - Steph’s story: opting for deep flap reconstruction for medical reasons 16:36 - The realities of recovery, restrictions, and the physical pain 20:13 - Busting myths: it’s not a free boob job - the real costs and risks 23:00 - Unique incisions, variations, and the misconception of "easy" cosmetic surgery 28:10 - The potential of fat grafting and its limitations 30:52 - The physical toll: nerve pain, sensations, and cosmetic fears 34:46 - The emotional spiral: anxiety, health worries, and the invisible mental load 39:56 - The ongoing need for support: mental health, family, and systemic barriers 46:17 - The terrifying thoughts about the future and survivorship myths 52:39 - Money, work, and the hidden costs of recovery and caretaking 57:39 - The emotional impacts on motherhood, identity, and body image 61:00 - The hope on the horizon: creating communities, survivors’ stories, and breaking the stigma

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Three working mamas talking cancer, survivorship, and the raw & real truth of having cancer in your 30's.

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