Slow-Living as a Way Home

Antüpewma (Daniela Miranda)

Slow Living as a Way Home is a gentle space to breathe, soften, and return to yourself. Hosted by Antüpewma, this short, soulful podcast explores slowness as medicine—through stories, reflections, and simple practices you can carry into daily life. Aquí, we move with intention, corazón, and the quiet rhythm our ancestors trusted. Drop your shoulders, take a breath… and come home to you.

Episodes

  1. FEB 9

    Your Heart Is Exhausted From Protecting Itself

    Let's begin with a breath together. Your heart is exhausted. Not just from working hard. Not just from responsibilities and bills. Your heart is exhausted from protecting itself—from staying defended every single moment, from never quite letting anyone in, from trying to stay safe by staying busy. And here's what I'm learning: some of that protection is necessary. But not all of it is. In This Episode: Why your heart learned to protect itself (and why there's no shame in that) The difference between necessary protection and habitual protection A guided ritual of release to help you let go of protection you no longer need My journey of reclaiming my Indigenous roots with the guidance of an elder Key Teaching: There's a difference between necessary protection and habitual protection. Necessary protection keeps you safe when you're actually in danger. Habitual protection keeps you defended even when you're home, even when you're with people who love you, even when you have a moment to rest but you can't because your heart has forgotten how. Many of us learned habitual protection because at one point, it WAS necessary. We learned it from our parents who learned it from surviving things that required constant vigilance. But now we're carrying protection we don't need anymore. Protection that's keeping us from connection, from rest, from being truly seen. This Week's Practice: Place your hand on your heart. Ask: "Am I protecting myself because I need to right now? Or out of habit?" If you need to protect yourself—honor that. Keep your guard up. Stay safe. But if you're actually safe in this moment—practice softening. Just one percent. Whisper: "I'm here. You don't have to protect me so hard right now." That's the medicine, mija. About the Ritual: This episode includes a ritual of release that requires: Paper Pen A way to release it—either by burning it safely or burying it in the earth If you're listening while driving, save the ritual for when you get home. Come back to it when you have a moment to be still. A Note from Antüpewma: I want to be honest with you—I'm not feeling well this week. I'm a little sick, and you might hear it in my voice. But I wanted to show up anyway because sometimes showing up isn't about being perfect. It's about being present. I'm also sharing something vulnerable in this episode: I'm reclaiming my Indigenous roots. Much of what I'm learning about Mapuche cosmovision, I'm learning now with the guidance of an elder I've been working with since last year. I'm not speaking as someone who has always known this. I'm speaking as someone who is remembering. Connect with Antüpewma: Instagram: @iamdaniela.miranda Website: www.antupewma.com Email: dani@danimiranda.co About Slow Living as a Way Home: This is a space to breathe, to soften, and to return to the rhythm your ancestors trusted—ese ritmo más humano, más tuyo. Here, we move slowly, con corazón, listening for the quiet wisdom beneath the noise. New episodes every Monday. Land Acknowledgment: I record this podcast on the ancestral lands of the Lenape people. I honor their past, present, and future, and acknowledge the ongoing effects of colonization. Keywords: slow living, nervous system healing, Indigenous wisdom, Mapuche teachings, heart healing, protection, trauma healing, ancestral wisdom, decolonization, somatic healing, embodied practice, ritual, ceremony

    18 min
  2. FEB 2

    Returning to Yourself Again and Again

    How many times have you said yes when you meant no? Explained yourself in circles just to justify a boundary? Given so much that there was nothing left for you? These aren't signs of kindness. They're signs of self-abandonment. In this episode, I share what self-abandonment actually looks like, not just in the big dramatic moments, but in the small daily ways we leave ourselves behind through people-pleasing, over-giving, and over-explaining. We explore the concept of stepping outside of yourself to live from fear, survival, and the need to be chosen. And I share the teaching that changed everything for me: the practice isn't to never lose yourself. It's to notice when you have, and choose to come back. We close with a ceremony for returning to your territory a practice you can use anytime you've drifted from yourself. This episode is for anyone who's been abandoning themselves to keep other people comfortable. For anyone who needs permission to finally come back home to themselves. SHOW NOTES IN THIS EPISODE: [00:00] Opening: Checking in after the snow week [01:00] Welcome + Breath: Nothing is being asked of you in this moment [02:00] Personal Story: The daily ways I abandoned myself People-pleasing, over-giving, over-explaining—and what it cost me [06:00] Leaving Your Territory When you abandon yourself, you step outside your own land. Understanding self-abandonment through the lens of az mapu (right relationship) and why it's a survival strategy, not a personal failure. [11:00] Ceremony: Returning to Your Territory A guided practice for noticing where you've left yourself and choosing to come back with love [16:00] Integration + Closing One small return at a time—the practice of coming back to yourself again and again   CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST: If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs permission to stop abandoning themselves. Leave a review to help others find this medicine. Follow along for more episodes exploring slowness, ancestral wisdom, and coming back home to yourself. LANGUAGE NOTE: This podcast weaves together English and Spanish naturally, honoring the way we actually speak and remember. You don't need to understand both languages to receive the medicine—your body will know what it needs to hear. Tags ancestral wisdom, healing, self-care, spirituality, mental health, Mapuche traditions, Indigenous wisdom, nervous system, embodiment, ceremony, slowness, mindfulness, people pleasing, boundaries, self-abandonment, emotional wellness, personal growth, Spanish, bilingual, self-love

    25 min
  3. JAN 19

    Softness Is Not Weakness

    For most of my life, I believed I had to be hard to be safe. Strong meant unbreakable. Protected meant building walls so high that nothing—and no one—could reach me. Until my body said: Enough. In this episode, I share the story of how my mami gave me a book during my divorce, The Knight in Rusty Armor, and how it became a mirror showing me that the armor I thought was protecting me was actually suffocating me. Through personal story and ancestral wisdom, we explore what my ancestors understood that we've forgotten: real strength isn't about how much you can endure without breaking. It's about how well you can bend so you don't have to break at all. We close with the Ceremony of Returning to Soft Earth; a practice that teaches your body how to soften by remembering that the Earth holds us not with rigidity, but with softness. This episode is for anyone who has been holding too tight, armoring too long, or forgetting that softness is not weakness, it's survival. SHOW NOTES IN THIS EPISODE: [00:00] Welcome + Signature Opening Softening into the space, remembering that nothing is being asked of you in this moment [01:30] Personal Story: The Knight in Rusty Armor How my mami's gift during my divorce became a mirror for my own armor, and what I learned about the difference between strength and rigidity [06:00] Ancestral Teaching: Adaptation Over Domination What my ancestors understood about softness—how they built homes that bent with the wind, raised children held in softness, and knew that yielding is not losing, it's adapting [10:30] Ceremony of Returning to Soft Earth A Mapuche-inspired ceremony where you practice letting the Earth hold you with softness, teaching your body to receive rather than hold [16:00] Integration + Closing Carrying the medicine forward: you are allowed to be soft, to bend, to let life touch you without destroying you MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The Knight in Rusty Armor by Robert Fisher Ñuke Mapu (Mother Earth) in Mapuche cosmovision The practice of receiving rather than holding CONNECT WITH THE PODCAST: If this episode resonated with you, please share it with someone who needs permission to soften. Leave a review to help others find this medicine. Follow along for more episodes exploring slowness, ancestral wisdom, and coming back home to yourself. LANGUAGE NOTE: This podcast weaves together English and Spanish naturally, honoring the way we actually speak and remember. You don't need to understand both languages to receive the medicine,your body will know what it needs to hear.

    24 min
  4. When the Wind Teaches You to Listen: Learning to Bend Instead of Break

    JAN 12

    When the Wind Teaches You to Listen: Learning to Bend Instead of Break

    For most of my life, earth was my teacher. It taught me how to root, how to ground, how to stay. But there came a time when I was holding so tight, I forgot how to move. That's when the wind arrived—insistent, almost rude in how it wouldn't let me ignore it. And it taught me something I had forgotten: real strength isn't staying rigid. Real strength is knowing how to bend. In this episode, I share: The moment wind taught me I was holding too tight What it means to listen to wind as a teacher, not just weather Why wind clears not only the land, but the spirit A guided practice to help you soften where you've been rigid I also share what my ancestors knew about wind—that it's not random. That it arrives when something needs to shift. That there are different winds, each bringing exactly what's needed. This isn't about becoming soft or weak. This is about remembering: you are not meant to be fixed. You are meant to move. So this week, when you feel the wind—pause. Let it touch you. Ask it what it came to teach. And then... listen. Slow-Living as a Way Home is a space to breathe, to soften, and to return to the rhythm your ancestors trusted. If you're tired of rushing through your life, this is for you. [00:00] Intro: Wind as teacher, not weather [01:30] My story: When I was holding too tight [04:30] What wind carries (and what it clears) [05:30] The wisdom of the four winds [08:30] Guided practice: Listening to wind [14:30] Integration: What to take into your week

    18 min
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Slow Living as a Way Home is a gentle space to breathe, soften, and return to yourself. Hosted by Antüpewma, this short, soulful podcast explores slowness as medicine—through stories, reflections, and simple practices you can carry into daily life. Aquí, we move with intention, corazón, and the quiet rhythm our ancestors trusted. Drop your shoulders, take a breath… and come home to you.