Regulating & Raising

MaKenzie Byram

Regulating & Raising is a podcast for moms who want to feel calm, aligned, and in control again. Hosted by MaKenzie, this show blends Human Design and nervous system support with real-life motherhood—so you can understand your energy, trust your decisions, and stop feeling like you’re constantly in survival mode. Each episode is a mix of honest solo conversations and expert interviews, covering everything from emotional regulation and identity shifts to clean living, holistic health, and raising a family in a way that actually feels good. This isn’t about doing more or getting it perfect. It’s about learning how to regulate yourself while raising your kids—and building a life that works for your season. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like there has to be a better way… you’re in the right place.

  1. 1d ago

    The 40K Email Empire That Runs While You Log Off with Melissa Seideman

    Melissa, an award-winning email marketing strategist, shares her journey from being a teacher to building a successful email marketing business. She emphasizes the importance of automated email engines, welcome sequences, and the rule of three in email marketing. Her insights provide practical and freeing strategies for mom entrepreneurs. Takeaways Automated email engines allow entrepreneurs to scale revenue and be present for their families.The rule of three, including subject lines, links, and images, can significantly impact open and click rates.Chapters 00:00 The Journey to Email Marketing Success03:14 The Power of Automated Email Engines04:03 Building an Email Empire in Real Life05:43 Strategies for Growing an Email List07:21 Tools for Email Marketing Success09:18 Writing Effective Emails and Creating a Welcome Sequence11:32 Strategies for High Open and Click Rates15:13 Planning and Executing Email Campaigns18:14 Optimizing Email Engagement and List Maintenance24:12 Resources and Support for Email MarketingConnect with Melissa Instagram: @notanotheremailcompany Website: notanotheremailcompany.com Email Edge Membership: notanotheremailcompany.com/join-the-email-edge Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍

  2. 6d ago

    The One Question That Told Me My Ambition Wasn't Mine (with Dr. Sandra Fernandes)

    Dr. Sandra Fernandez didn't stop to pee for an entire workday and didn't notice until her husband asked what was wrong with her. That's what high-functioning burnout actually looks like from the inside, and it's why "sleep more, do less" advice keeps failing ambitious moms who look completely fine on paper. In this episode, Dr. Sandra, a family physician turned burnout coach, breaks down the three real signs of burnout hiding inside a life that still looks successful, why discipline was never the problem, and the one gut-check question she asks clients before any big decision: if nobody expected this of you, would you still choose it? Guest: Dr. Sandra Fernandez, @SandraFernandesMD Her Sustainable Success Workbook: sandrafernandes.com/sustainablesuccessworkbook Follow The Clean Mom Edit: @thecleanmomedit LISTEN to the full episode, then hit subscribe/follow so you never miss one. Share this with the friend who looks like she has it all together but is quietly running on empty, she needs to hear this one. And if this show has helped you, leaving a review takes two minutes and helps another ambitious mom find us. Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍

  3. Sep 14

    Human Design as a Business, Money, and Life-Changing Framework

    This episode is one MaKenzie has been dreaming about for a long time — and it is for the woman who knows she is meant for more and is finally ready to build a business and a life that actually matches how she was designed. MaKenzie sits down with her own mentor, Becca Francis — a Human Design and Gene Keys expert, business mentor, psychic medium, and the woman behind an entire body of work teaching women how to build coaching businesses, make more money, and step into their gifts using their own energetic blueprint. Becca has helped thousands of women monetize their gifts, launch aligned offers, and step into psychic gifts they were once told to hide. Together, MaKenzie and Becca explore Becca's journey from struggling in a corporate law firm for 15 years to leaving her job just 8 months after discovering Human Design. They dive into what it actually means to live your design — starting simple with type, strategy, and authority — and how one shift changed everything for Becca's relationships, business, and marriage. Becca teaches on the ego (heart) center and splenic center as the two hidden money patterns most women are never told about, walks the audience through the "what if that weren't true?" reframe for changing money beliefs, and unpacks deconditioning as a practical, ongoing practice (spoiler: it does not have to take seven years). She also shares her jaw-dropping story of the honeymoon night in the Redwoods that cracked open her psychic gifts, and closes with a real, tangible starting point for the mom just discovering Human Design today. If you have been quietly performing a version of yourself that never fit, this conversation is your permission slip to finally build from your actual blueprint. Connect with Becca Website: beccafrancis.com Instagram: @thebeccafrancis TikTok: @beccafrancismedium Free — Human Design + Money AI Tool: beccafrancis.com/money Free — 5-Day Intuition Challenge: beccafrancis.com/intuition Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍

  4. Sep 8

    Midlife Is Not a Crisis. It Is an Awakening. With Lori Lisai

    This episode is for the woman who has spent decades living everyone else's design — and is finally ready to meet her own. MaKenzie sits down with Lori Lisai, a Human Design guide who helps midlife women navigate transitions and figure out what is next. Through her podcast Midlife by Human Design, her workshops, her 1:1 work, and her retreats, Lori empowers women to see midlife not as a crisis, but as a beginning — one full of possibility, purpose, and unapologetic joy. Before stepping fully into her Human Design work, Lori was a teacher for 26 years, until she followed her generator gut and emotional authority right out of the classroom and into the calling that had been building underneath her career for years. Together, MaKenzie and Lori dive into why Lori reframes midlife not as a crisis but as an awakening, how the Uranus opposition and the estrogen decline of perimenopause are literally rewiring who a woman is, and why the "people-pleasing hormone" naturally drops away so a woman can finally show up as herself. Lori introduces the powerful Wild Woman archetype — the missing phase between mother and crone — and unpacks what happens when women stop performing the version of themselves they outgrew years ago. They also explore Human Design in schools, how Lori applies it to perimenopause, the parts of your chart (like determination, earth gate, and authority) that ground you through hormonal chaos, and MaKenzie's real-life moment teaching her seven-year-old daughter how to use her authority to make decisions. If you are in midlife or watching it approach, this conversation will meet you exactly where you are. Connect with Lori Website: lorilisai.com Instagram: @lorilisai Podcast: Midlife by Human Design Free Human Design Guide + Perimenopause Survival Guide: lorilisai.com/workwithlori Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍 Thank you for being here and for listening.

  5. Sep 1

    EFT Tapping: The Missing Piece Most Women Are Skipping with Meryl Hayton

    This episode is for the high-functioning woman whose life looks great from the outside — but whose body has quietly been holding tension, anxiety, and overthinking for years. MaKenzie sits down with Meryl Hayton, a trauma-informed inner peace specialist, energy healer, retreat leader, speaker, co-author, and creator of the Emotional Clearing Method. Meryl is a certified EFT tapping practitioner and Reiki energy healer who helps women release trauma, calm anxiety, and build self-trust — without forcing, fixing, or pushing themselves into change. Meryl also spent 30 years as a salon owner, deeply listening to women through their layers, before stepping into her calling as a coach in her 50s. Together, MaKenzie and Meryl dive into the truth about EFT tapping — what it actually is, why it works, and why most people who have tried it are missing the piece that would make it stick. Meryl walks the audience through a real tapping session in real time (yes, you can follow along), unpacks why "calming down" is not the same as healing, and explains what is actually happening in your parasympathetic nervous system, amygdala, and hippocampus when you tap. She also opens up about her own journey through anxiety, second-guessing, and inner criticism — and how tapping finally reached the places yoga, therapy, and energy healing could not. If you have been trying to think your way into calm and are ready to actually feel it in your body, this episode is your permission slip to try a new way. What We Cover Meryl's journey from salon owner to nervous system healerWhat EFT tapping is actually doing to your parasympathetic nervous systemWhy general tapping scripts do not work — and what doesA real, live tapping session you can follow along with in the car, in the store, or at the dinner tableThe five-step Clearing Method framework: Clarity, Letting go, Encouragement, Alignment, ReinforcementConnect with Meryl Everywhere under Meryl Hayton: Website: merylhayton.comInstagram, TikTok, Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube: Meryl HaytonFree — The Clearing Method Workbook (23 pages)Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍

  6. Aug 11

    Grief Is Not Just Sadness: Suicide Loss and Living Alongside It

    This episode is sacred. It is for the woman who is carrying grief that does not seem to lessen with time — and is finally ready to be met in it instead of asked to move past it. MaKenzie sits down with Mercedes "Merci" Medina, a grief practitioner, trauma-informed hypnotherapist, death doula, and the founder of Morning House — a space for those learning how to live alongside their grief. After losing her father to suicide at 18, Merci came to understand grief not as a season to survive, but as a lifelong relationship that reshapes every part of life, time and time again. Through grief support, hypnotherapy, somatic practices, death work, and grief circles, Merci helps people face their grief in an open, honest, unmasked way — making room for the ugly and complicated parts that the world wants us to hide. What We Cover Merci's relationship with death from a young age and how she built Morning HouseWhy grief has no timeline — no matter what society tells youThe 15 years it took Merci to verbalize how her dad diedThe shame of suicide loss and the work of releasing itWhy grief is not just sadness — it is anger, guilt, apathy, and depression tooThe vicious cycle of anger and guilt after suicide lossWhy trying to censor or reframe your grief in the moment keeps you stuckHow avoiding grief creates patterns in your relationships (staying too long, walls up, fear of being left)The healing power of being witnessed in communityWhy the deeper you feel grief, the more you can love your lifeChoosing different healing modalities beyond talk therapy — hypnotherapy, Reiki, EFT, and grief circlesWhy joy, play, and creativity are part of the grief work — not separate from itGrief circles and the surprising power of doing collages while sharing heavy storiesConnect with Merci Instagram: @morninggrief.house TikTok: @morninggrief.house Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍 Thank you for being here and for listening.

  7. Aug 4

    Reclaiming Your Intuition: The Signal Beneath the Noise

    This episode is for the woman who has been getting whispers from her intuition for years — and is finally ready to stop second-guessing them. MaKenzie sits down with Kelsey Anderson, an Energy Intuitive, Spiritual Guide, and host of the Reclamation podcast. Kelsey shares her journey from climbing the corporate ladder as a business management consultant to fully stepping into her intuitive gifts — abilities she had as a young child, shut down as a people-pleasing eldest daughter, and finally reclaimed through the great awakening of motherhood. Together, MaKenzie and Kelsey explore what actually happens in a woman's body and energy field when she keeps overriding her intuition, why postpartum can be one of the most spiritually cracking-open seasons of a woman's life, and how she rebuilt herself from the inside out through postpartum anxiety, OCD, and depression. Kelsey also shares her powerful reframe on manifestation — that it is not sitting in meditation waiting for something to happen, but aligned action paired with the frequency of what is already available to you. She also opens up about her upcoming book, The Signal, and the practical community-building work she is doing to help other women trust themselves again. If you have been silencing your intuition to make other people comfortable — this conversation is your permission slip to finally start listening. What We Cover Kelsey's journey from business management consulting to intuitive workKelsey's upcoming book, The Signal — trusting your intuition through the noise of modern lifeConnect with Kelsey Website: kelseyandersonintuitive.comInstagram: @kelseyandersonintuitiveSubstack, YouTube, and TikTok: Kelsey Anderson IntuitiveBook — The SignalFree Guide — Intuition Foundations Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍 Thank you for being here and for listening.

  8. Jul 28

    Coming Home to Yourself: Breath, Identity, and the Bonus Mom Experience

    This episode is for the mom who is physically present with her babies but mentally a hundred miles away — and is finally ready to come home to herself. MaKenzie sits down with Caitlin Lane, a Healing Arts Therapist who masterfully blends ancient wisdom and modern science to help people get out of their overthinking minds and step fully into their bodies. Caitlin's work is rooted in the power of breath, honoring feminine wisdom, and guiding others into the deepest connection with themselves. Off the clock, she is a devoted wife, a dreamer, a bonus mom, and a self-described lover girl whose life is anchored by her deepest values — time, presence, and community. Together they explore the identity loss so many moms quietly grieve, why intellectual understanding alone will never bring you home to yourself, and how breath is the fastest doorway back into the body. Caitlin walks the audience through a live 4-4-8 breathwork practice, opens up about the layered complexities of being a bonus mom, and shares what it looks like to stop overriding your body and finally listen to what it has been trying to tell you all along. If you have been feeling more like a shell than a self, this conversation is your soft place to land. What We Cover Why so many women feel "lost" in motherhood — and what is actually happening in the bodyWhy intellectual understanding will never bring you home to yourselfThe 4-4-8 breath practice you can use in the middle of laundry, dinner, or bedtimeWhy breath is the fastest doorway back into your bodyBeing a bonus mom — the grief, the love, and the identity work no one talks aboutConnect with Caitlin Website: thefeminineflow.net Instagram: @bergamotqueen__ Free Community: www.thefeminineflow.net/community Signature Program Waitlist: www.thefeminineflow.net/waitlist Connect with MaKenzie Instagram: @thecleanmomedit Website: www.thecleanmomedit.com Join The Clean Mom Edit Club — Free Community A supportive space for moms ready to slow down, regulate their nervous systems, understand their human design, and come home to themselves. Monthly human design teaching, nervous system practice, cosmic reflection, guided meditation, and a live Q&A with MaKenzie — completely free. Join the Club: https://www.skool.com/the-soft-motherhood-collective-8849/about Get Your Human Design Chart Breakdown Want a personalized walkthrough of your chart? MaKenzie's Chart Breakdown session dives deep into your type, authority, profile, centers, and the practical experiments to start applying it in your life this week. Book your Chart Breakdown: https://www.thecleanmomedit.com/hdexperiences Loved this episode? Leave a review and share it with a mom who needs to hear it — it is the easiest way to help more moms find the show. 🤍 Thank you for being here and for listening.

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Regulating & Raising is a podcast for moms who want to feel calm, aligned, and in control again. Hosted by MaKenzie, this show blends Human Design and nervous system support with real-life motherhood—so you can understand your energy, trust your decisions, and stop feeling like you’re constantly in survival mode. Each episode is a mix of honest solo conversations and expert interviews, covering everything from emotional regulation and identity shifts to clean living, holistic health, and raising a family in a way that actually feels good. This isn’t about doing more or getting it perfect. It’s about learning how to regulate yourself while raising your kids—and building a life that works for your season. If you’ve been feeling overwhelmed, disconnected, or like there has to be a better way… you’re in the right place.