St-John On Air

StJohndeGlanville

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Neurodiversity, education, meaning of life, happiness and struggles - a personal journey into adulthood. To have the best experience, enjoy in the evening or at night. If you like what I do, buy me a coffee => https://buymeacoffee.com/fzts9andx

Oct 7

The Things We Talk About While Walking

The Things We Talk About While Walking | Long Conversations #2 | St-John On-Air What happens when two best friends disappear into the mountains with 20 kg backpacks, no real plan, a coffee grinder, some chocolate, and several days to talk? This is the second episode of Long Conversations, a monthly series from St-John On-Air where I step away from the usual structured podcast format and simply talk about the experiences that shape us. Every year, my best friend and I go trekking in the mountains. We don't plan everything. We find somewhere to sleep—sometimes a bed, sometimes a floor, sometimes a room full of strangers—and spend hours walking. We're both English teachers, so naturally we talk about work, students, colleagues and the things that have been bothering us. But we also talk about completely different things: running shoes.the new Slipknot single.snowboarding destinations.coffee.food.life. And somewhere between the stupid conversations and the serious ones, something happens. We start talking about our lives. Our problems. Our worries. The things we're trying to figure out. This episode is about male friendship, mental health, emotional intimacy, conversation, walking, nature, time and the strange freedom of having nowhere you need to be. It's also about why some of our most meaningful conversations don't happen when we sit down and say, "We need to talk." They happen while we're walking. Research into walking and wellbeing, nature, attention restoration, physical activity and social connection offers some fascinating explanations for why these experiences can feel so powerful. But this isn't a psychology lecture. It's a conversation. About friendship. About mountains. About getting away from ordinary life without necessarily escaping it. And about what happens when you spend several days with someone who knows you well enough to listen to your problems... and then spend twenty minutes discussing whether your running shoes were a terrible purchase. St-John On-Air: Long Conversations — real experiences, bigger questions, no particular plan. Listen to the episode and take a walk with us.
Aug 28

#036 Who Are You When Nobody Is Watching?

Imagine that nobody would ever know. Nobody would praise you. Nobody would criticise you. Nobody would find out. What would you do differently? In this episode, we explore authenticity, social approval, conformity, and the uncomfortable gap between being a good person and appearing to be one. How much of what we do comes from our genuine values—and how much comes from the desire to be liked, respected, admired, or simply seen in a certain way? Drawing on psychological research and real-life examples, we explore what happens when we remove the audience and ask ourselves a deceptively simple question: Who are you when nobody is watching? Because perhaps our most revealing choices are the ones nobody ever sees.
Aug 17

#035 The Person You Could Have Been

Have you ever wondered who you might have become if you had made one different choice? If you had taken that job.Stayed in that relationship.Moved to another country.Started the business.Picked up the guitar again. We all carry imaginary versions of ourselves—the people we might have been, the lives we might have lived, and the paths we didn't take. In this reflective episode of StJohn-On-Air, I explore counterfactual thinking, possible selves, nostalgia, and narrative identity to ask a deeper question: What can the person you could have been teach you about the person you still want to become? Drawing on the work of psychologists Neal Roese, Kai Epstude, Hazel Markus, Paula Nurius, Constantine Sedikides, Tim Wildschut, and Dan McAdams, we explore why we imagine alternative lives, when those thoughts can help us learn, and when they can turn into regret and rumination. Because you cannot go back and live the life you didn't choose. But perhaps you can still carry something from it forward. Maybe that imaginary version of you isn't saying: "You should have been me." Maybe they're whispering: "There is still time to become a little more like the person you wanted to be." A quiet episode about regret, possibility, identity, and the lives that exist somewhere between memory and imagination.
Aug 9

#034 You Don't Have to Do It Alone: Understanding Body Doubling for ADHD

Why can an ADHD child spend twenty minutes trying to begin five minutes of homework… yet start almost immediately when someone quietly sits beside them? In this episode of StJohn-On-Air, we explore the simple but powerful strategy known as body doubling—a technique widely used by people with ADHD to make starting and sustaining tasks feel more manageable. Drawing on the work of Dr. Russell Barkley, Dr. Thomas Brown, Dr. Edward Deci, Dr. Ross Greene, and Dr. Stephen Porges, we discuss: • What body doubling is—and what it isn't • Why getting started can be one of the hardest parts of ADHD • How calm presence can support attention and emotional regulation • Why body doubling is about companionship, not supervision • Practical ways parents, teachers, partners, and friends can use this strategy without creating dependence Whether you're an adult with ADHD, a parent, an educator, or someone who wants to better understand executive functioning, this episode offers practical ideas grounded in compassion and current psychological research. Sometimes we don't need someone to solve the problem. We simply need someone willing to stay beside us while we begin. Good night... and happy listening.
Jul 16

Dogs, Discipline, and the Life They Quietly Give Us | Long Conversations #1 | St-John On-Air

What does owning a dog really teach us about life? In the first episode of Long Conversations, a new monthly series from St-John On-Air, I step away from the usual research-led format for a more personal and reflective conversation. Drawing on nearly three decades of living with dogs—including my 12-year-old Border Collie, Pepe, my Yakutian Laika, Mara, and the Giant Schnauzer, Bite who shared 17 years of my life—I explore how dogs quietly shape who we become. This isn't an episode about choosing the right breed or dog training techniques. It's about the unexpected lessons dogs teach us about discipline, mental health, emotional regulation, happiness, exercise, routines, resilience, and living in the present. Together, we'll talk about: Why working dogs need both physical and mental stimulation.The hidden benefits of daily dog walks for physical and emotional wellbeing.How dogs help us build healthy habits through routine rather than motivation.The emotional rewards—and real responsibilities—of dog ownership.The challenges of training, veterinary care, ageing, and saying goodbye.What psychologists and researchers have discovered about exercise, stress, loneliness, nature, and human wellbeing.Featuring insights inspired by the work of James Clear, John Cacioppo, Brian Hare, Kelly McGonigal, and Jules Pretty, this episode blends personal storytelling with evidence-based reflections on living a healthier, more intentional life. Whether you're a lifelong dog owner, thinking about welcoming a dog into your family, or simply enjoy thoughtful conversations about personal growth, this episode is for you. St-John On-Air is a podcast exploring mental health, neurodiversity, parenting, psychology, habits, wellbeing, and the everyday experiences that help us better understand ourselves. If this conversation resonates with you, please follow the podcast, leave a rating, and share the episode with someone who might enjoy taking this walk with us.
Jul 12

#033 Understanding Masking

The Exhaustion Nobody Sees: Understanding Masking in Neurodivergent Lives Why do some autistic people and people with ADHD seem to "hold it together" all day—only to completely fall apart once they get home? In this compassionate episode of StJohn-On-Air, I explore the hidden emotional labour of masking (also known as camouflaging): the effort many neurodivergent people invest in hiding their natural behaviours to fit into a world that often misunderstands them. Drawing on the work of Dr. Laura Hull, Dr. Devon Price, Dr. Damian Milton, Dr. Catherine Crompton, Dr. Tony Attwood, Dr. Luke Beardon, Dr. Daniel Siegel, and Carl Rogers, I discuss: What masking really is—and why it developsWhy many autistic people and people with ADHD mask from childhoodThe emotional cost of constantly "performing"Why children often collapse emotionally after schoolHow families, teachers, and friends can create spaces where neurodivergent people no longer need to pretendWhether you're neurodivergent yourself, a parent, an educator, or simply someone who wants to understand others more deeply, this episode offers research, reflection, and hope. Because sometimes the greatest gift we can give another person is the freedom to simply be themselves. Good night... and happy listening.
Jul 3

#032 Body Movin'

Made to Move: Why Exercise Is One of the Greatest Gifts We Can Give Ourselves Why is it so difficult to motivate ourselves to exercise—even when we know it's good for us? In this episode of StJohn-On-Air, I explore what science tells us about movement, motivation, happiness, and healthy ageing. Drawing on the work of evolutionary biologist Dr. Daniel Lieberman, neuroscientist Dr. Wendy Suzuki, psychiatrist Dr. John Ratey, physician Dr. I-Min Lee, exercise scientist Dr. Steven Blair, psychologist Dr. Carol Dweck, behaviour scientist Dr. BJ Fogg, and physician Dr. Peter Attia, we discover why our bodies evolved to conserve energy, how exercise transforms the brain, and why movement may be one of the most powerful investments we can make in our future. In this episode you'll discover: • Why humans didn't evolve to enjoy exercise • How movement improves memory, mood and emotional regulation • Why motivation usually follows action—not the other way around • Practical strategies for making exercise a sustainable habit • Why movement is about freedom, not fitness Whether you're beginning your fitness journey or looking for renewed motivation, this episode offers practical ideas, scientific insight, and a gentle reminder that your body was made to move.
Jun 14

#031 Men's Mental Health

Why do so many men struggle in silence? In this reflective episode of St-John on Air, we explore the psychological, social, and emotional factors that shape men's mental health and why vulnerability is often more difficult for men than many people realize. Drawing on the work of psychologists and researchers including Ronald Levant, James Gross, John Cacioppo, Thomas Joiner, John Oliffe, Carl Rogers, Robert Waldinger, Martin Seligman, and Kristin Neff, we discuss: • Why many men find it difficult to ask for help • The hidden costs of emotional suppression • Loneliness, connection, and mental well-being • How depression can appear differently in men • What friends, partners, parents, and colleagues can do to help • Why vulnerability is not weakness but courage This episode is for men, for those who care about them, and for anyone who believes that no one should have to carry life's burdens alone. A gentle conversation about strength, honesty, and the power of human connection.

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StJohndeGlanville
Years Active

2025 - 2026
Episodes

38
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Explicit
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St-John On Air

St-John On Air

Episodes

The Things We Talk About While Walking

#036 Who Are You When Nobody Is Watching?

#035 The Person You Could Have Been

#034 You Don't Have to Do It Alone: Understanding Body Doubling for ADHD

Dogs, Discipline, and the Life They Quietly Give Us | Long Conversations #1 | St-John On-Air

#033 Understanding Masking

#032 Body Movin'

#031 Men's Mental Health

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