Actually Doing Things

Nikki Sharp

Actually Doing Things is a practical podcast about turning intentions into action—inside the gym and out. Host Nikki, a therapist and CrossFit affiliate owner, shares real stories, mindset tools, and simple next steps on fitness, mental health, and community. Less theory, more doing. Hit play, take one step, repeat. 💥

  1. Oct 11

    Stop Saying Maybe | Mark England of Enlifted

    Your mindset is the story you tell yourself, and that story is made of words and breath. Mark England of Enlifted joins Nikki for a 5% speech trick and the 30-Day Soft Talk Challenge. It took three tries to record this one. That turned out to be the perfect setup. ⏱️ CHAPTERS 0:00 Welcome to Actually Doing Things 0:42 Meet Mark England 1:13 Third time's the charm: how we talk ourselves out of things 2:36 From kickboxing in Thailand to a life-changing workshop 5:03 The one-word shift: "He did that to himself" 8:30 Twenty years in: why most people never hit play 11:37 Kidlin's Law: write the question down 14:57 Thirty definitions of mindset (and why they're confusing) 20:11 The Enlifted definition: your mindset is the story you tell yourself 22:10 The 5% slower conversation with kids and parents 29:38 Practice in the room: the Charlie Brown test 30:53 Why kids mirror their parents' breathing 33:35 "Pepper burns twice": breaking old stories with pen and paper 36:48 Regenerative coaching 38:26 The Enlifted coaching quadrants: chest vs. belly breathing, answers vs. questions 45:16 Regenerative vs. degenerative parenting 51:40 Collaboration over competition in a coaching community 57:41 Clean vs. dirty questions 1:00:05 Creating opportunity: "Tough, I'm coming" 1:08:47 Underthink it and win 1:10:19 Why people who breathe better are more fun to be around 1:13:33 The first step: slow down 5% 1:15:35 The Soft Talk Challenge 1:17:49 Live demo: "I think I might be overthinking things" 1:21:53 Your 30-day fridge challenge + the soft talk word list 1:23:07 Wrap-up 🗣️ TRY IT THIS WEEK 1. Slow your speech down by 5% in one conversation. 2. Write the soft talk list big, in all caps, and stick it on the fridge for 30 days: probably, perhaps, feels like, guess, maybe, could, might, possibly, sort of, kind of, potentially, hopefully, try, one day, should, almost like. 3. Catch one, cross it out, and say it again. 📸 Post your fridge sheet and tag @dcfwallawalla and @enlifted.coaches. We'll repost it. 🔗 LINKS Read the blog post: www.wwdcf.com Book a free consultation at DCF: https://wwdcf.com/free-consultation/ Enlifted Coaches: www.enlifted.me Mindset workshop + parents program: November 15. Note: This episode includes a brief mention of suicide. If you or someone you know is struggling, call or text 988 (U.S.), available 24/7. #mindset #crossfit #getfitlivehappykeepgoing #downtownwallawallawa mindset coaching, soft talk, Enlifted, Mark England, breathwork, CrossFit mindset, Walla Walla, parenting tips, slow down speech, Actually Doing Things podcast, how to change your mindset

  2. Sep 14

    A Chiropractor's Confession: "80% of Back Pain Goes Away No Matter What I Do"

    Roughly 8 in 10 adults will have a back episode that stops them cold — and almost none of us do anything about it until it happens. Dr. Mike Ross (DC, CSCS, DACRB) has spent 30 years and a stack of research on the question of why. In this episode he breaks down what actually causes back trouble, why "it went away on its own" is a trap and not a win, and the free, public, unsexy research nobody is selling you. Then he's teaching all of it, hands-on, in 90 minutes. 🧨 BOMBPROOF YOUR BACK — LIVE CLINIC 📅 Saturday, September 19, 2026 🕚 11:00 AM – 12:30 PM 📍 Destination CrossFit, 16 E Poplar St, Walla Walla, WA 💵 $45 Open to everyone — members, non-members, athletes, walkers, anyone who has been "managing it" for too long. No fitness level required. Walk-ins welcome, pay at the door. 👉 REGISTER: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/bombproof-your-back-tickets-1993473710531 Takeaways: We emphasize that back pain affects nearly everyone and requires proactive daily self care.I explain that the Bomb Proof Back clinic teaches simple, evidence based tests and exercises.We state that eighty percent of back episodes improve in four to six weeks regardless of treatment.I note that recurrence rates are high unless individuals perform preventive strengthening and mobility routines.We teach the Bering Sorensen test and practical GHD holds as validated assessments used in the literature.I emphasize that fit people and unfit people share similar risk for back problems and cannot be profiled.We invite people to attend the September clinic to learn tests, reduce risk, and maintain long term function. 🎓 ABOUT DR. MIKE ROSS Dr. Michael Ross, DC, CSCS, DACRB, is board-certified in exercise rehabilitation with 30 years in practice. Former Seattle firefighter, former CrossFit gym owner, current coach at Destination CrossFit, and author of Fulcrum Lever Sport. 🎧 ACTUALLY DOING THINGS Conversations about training, longevity, and the unglamorous work of staying healthy — hosted by Nikki Sharp, owner and head coach at Destination CrossFit. 🏋️ DESTINATION CROSSFIT Downtown Walla Walla, WA — Get Fit · Live Happy · Keep Going Book a free consultation: https://wwdcf.com/free-consultation/ Instagram: @dcfwallawalla Referenced in this episode: Biering-Sørensen, F. (1984). "Physical measurements as risk indicators for low-back trouble over a one-year period." Spine, 9(2), 106–119. #getfitlivehappykeepgoing #crossfit #downtownwallawallawa #backpain #injuryprevention #longevity #wallawalla

  3. Sep 9

    Nutrition, Honestly — with Coach Genie & Coach Helen

    We state that small, sustainable nutrition habits lead to real and lasting results. We focus on whole foods, simple habit changes, and accountability rather than strict macro counting. We explain that hand portions can be nearly as effective as counting macros and far easier to use in daily life. We recommend prioritizing adequate protein, sleep, movement, and recovery before turning to supplements, noting that creatine can help some but is not necessary. We share favorite whole food proteins like fish, cottage cheese, and egg bites, and offer practical travel advice: enjoy local foods, stay active, and return to your habits. We invite you to join our six‑week nutrition challenge for structure, support, and measurable change. Takeaways: We described why we became nutrition coaches and why a habit-based whole foods approach appeals.I explained that hand portion methods often match the results of macro counting while being much easier to use.We recommended aiming for about one gram of protein per pound of body weight to support recovery and performance.I stated that supplements are optional and that creatine may help but is not essential for success for everyone.We shared practical snack and travel strategies such as frozen fruit, cottage cheese, walking, and enjoying local whole foods when abroad.I invited listeners to join the six-week nutrition challenge because group support fosters lasting habit change and accountability. Companies mentioned in this episode: CrossFitWhole30DoritosStarbucksFairlifeCostco

  4. Aug 29

    From Diagnosis to Dad Mode: Jesus's CrossFit Story

    This podcast episode delves into the transformative journey of an individual who embraced CrossFit as a means to combat health challenges, specifically type 2 diabetes. The discussion elucidates the pivotal moment that prompted this decision, illustrating how a medical diagnosis catalyzed a significant lifestyle change. Throughout our conversation, we explore the multifaceted benefits of CrossFit, which extend beyond physical fitness to encompass enhanced energy levels, improved sleep quality, and a more active engagement with family. As the participant shares personal insights regarding their progress, it becomes evident that such commitment not only fosters personal growth but also inspires those within their community. Ultimately, the episode underscores the importance of taking proactive steps towards one’s health, encouraging listeners to initiate their own journeys without delay. Takeaways: The guest's journey into CrossFit commenced following a diagnosis of type 2 diabetes, which served as a pivotal moment for lifestyle change.Since commencing CrossFit, the guest has experienced significant improvements in energy levels and overall health, including reduced medication for diabetes.The supportive community aspect of CrossFit has been instrumental in providing motivation and encouragement for the guest's fitness journey.The guest emphasizes the importance of not delaying the decision to begin exercising, advocating for earlier engagement in physical fitness for optimal health outcomes.Noticing physical changes, the guest has improved strength and endurance, which positively impacts daily activities and interactions with family.The podcast underscores the transformative nature of CrossFit, illustrating how it fosters commitment and encourages participants to set and achieve personal health goals.

  5. Jul 26

    Beyond the Injury: Embracing Change Through Fitness

    Allison's journey into CrossFit represents a profound transformation catalyzed by personal adversity, specifically a severe concussion that altered her ability to engage in previously enjoyed activities. This episode elucidates how a significant injury can lead to the rediscovery of one's identity and the pursuit of resilience through physical fitness. We delve into Allison's initial apprehension toward strength training, her gradual acclimatization to CrossFit, and the myriad challenges she faced in rebuilding her strength and confidence. The discussion further highlights the pivotal role of community support and structured workouts in fostering a sense of belonging and motivation. Ultimately, this narrative underscores the intricate relationship between physical health, emotional well-being, and the importance of perseverance in the face of life's unpredictable challenges. Takeaways: Allison's journey to CrossFit began after suffering a concussion that significantly impacted her ability to engage in previous physical activities.The community aspect of CrossFit played a vital role in Allison's recovery, offering encouragement and motivation during her challenging times.Allison emphasizes the importance of consistency in training, stating that showing up regularly leads to progress and personal growth over time.Throughout her experience, Allison learned to redefine her relationship with fitness, focusing on long-term health and well-being over short-term competitive goals.She highlights the significance of addressing mental health alongside physical training, noting that exercise helped improve her emotional state post-injury.Allison advocates for a balanced approach to fitness that allows for personal growth while also prioritizing family and overall well-being. Companies mentioned in this episode: CrossFitUltimate FrisbeePlanet FitnessDestination CrossFit

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Actually Doing Things is a practical podcast about turning intentions into action—inside the gym and out. Host Nikki, a therapist and CrossFit affiliate owner, shares real stories, mindset tools, and simple next steps on fitness, mental health, and community. Less theory, more doing. Hit play, take one step, repeat. 💥