Simply Jewish Parenting

Adina Soclof
  • 5.0 (4)
  • Judaism

Practical Jewish parenting tips for raising resilient, grateful, value-driven children in today’s world. Welcome to Simply Jewish Parenting — practical guidance for raising confident, resilient, values-driven Jewish kids. Hosted by Adina Soclof, Parent Educator, Speech Pathologist, and founder of ParentingSimply.com, this channel helps parents build calm homes, strong character, gratitude, emotional intelligence, and Jewish connection. Expect short, research-based episodes on real parenting challenges: tantrums, entitlement, sibling conflict, screen time, teens pulling away, and holiday overwhelm. Learn how Jewish wisdom, rituals, Shabbat, blessings, Modeh Ani, and traditions can make parenting easier, not harder. Adina has taught thousands of parents and professionals and is the author of Parenting Simply: Preparing Kids for Life. Join a community that understands your struggles and equips you with language, tools, and compassion. Subscribe for Jewish parenting tips, behavior insights, family communication skills, and encouragement—because parenting is hard, but you don’t have to do it alone.

  1. 6d ago

    What If Curiosity Is The Real Answer

    Your child asks “Why do onions make people cry?” while you are trying to get dinner on the table. Or they suddenly want to understand airplanes right when you are doing bedtime. Those moments can feel like interruptions, but they are also openings and how we respond shapes whether curiosity grows or shuts down.  We dig into a very practical idea from Jewish parenting and Jewish learning: you do not need to have all the answers to raise a thoughtful child. I share why “I don’t know” is not a parenting failure, it is a powerful model of humility and lifelong learning. When kids see us treat not knowing as a starting point, they learn to take risks, try ideas, and keep going even when they might be wrong.  We also talk about how to answer questions with a question, using a tone that invites instead of tests. “What do you think?” and “How could we find out?” can turn a toppled block tower into problem-solving practice, and a teen’s skepticism about an ad into real media literacy. We connect these skills to Torah learning too: noticing differences, writing down questions, and seeking understanding together.  Finally, we make room for real life. Some questions are really worries, or objections to rules like bedtime and the dentist. Encouraging curiosity does not mean negotiating every limit, and I share ways to respond to feelings while staying firm. If you want calmer conversations and kids who think for themselves, hit play, then subscribe, share the show with a friend, and leave a review so more parents can find Simply Jewish Parenting.

  2. Oct 20

    Raising Curious Learners

    What if the best learning your child does this week has nothing to do with a test score? We’re kicking off a series on raising curious, interested learners and stepping away from the anxiety loop of grades, performance, and constant evaluation. I care about school, but I care even more about whether your child feels energized by questions, discovery, and the simple thrill of figuring something out. We talk about why focusing too heavily on academics can quietly drain the joy from learning and replace it with “Will this be on the test?” Instead, I share easy ways to shift your after-school conversations toward curiosity: what your child noticed, what surprised them, and what they want to understand next. You’ll hear examples for little kids and teens alike, from watching water go down the drain to wondering how bridges hold weight or why a character made a certain choice in a book. We also explore how real learning shows up outside the classroom through hobbies and everyday life, like baking, photography, comparison shopping, and saving money. And because this is Simply Jewish Parenting, we look at how Jewish home life naturally invites questions about Torah, family minhag, and meaning, plus how to model the life skill of asking for help when you don’t know the answer. Try this week’s takeaway: make room for one relaxed conversation about something your child finds interesting. If you found this helpful, subscribe, share the episode with a friend, and leave a review so more parents can raise curious learners with confidence.

  3. Oct 13

    The After-School Meltdown Fix

    Your child steps through the door and suddenly everything unravels, tears, yelling, collapsing on the floor, picking fights, refusing simple requests. If you’ve ever thought, “How was school fine, but home is a disaster?”, you’re not alone. We talk about the after-school meltdown as a predictable crash after a full day of listening, learning, navigating friendships, following rules, and holding it together with self-control. Home is the safest place to release what they’ve been carrying. Instead of chasing the impossible goal of preventing every hard afternoon, we focus on something far more powerful: helping kids learn how to recover and get calm. We walk through how to notice what your child’s nervous system needs most right after school, whether that is movement (running, biking, jumping), quiet (books, blocks, music, time alone), connection (talking, helping with dinner, simply being near you), or a mix at different times. We also share how to bring your child into the process so they start naming what helps them regulate emotions, because we will not always be there to coach them through it. We get concrete with ideas you can use right away: building a simple after-school routine (often starting with a snack), creating a calming space at home, and even putting together a no-fuss calming box with tools like play-doh, coloring supplies, or a stress ball. The most important nuance: a calming space is support, not punishment. If you want fewer blowups and more emotional regulation, this is a strong place to start. If this helped, subscribe, share the episode with a parent friend, and leave a review so more families can find it. What does your child need most after school: movement, quiet, or connection?

  4. Oct 6

    What If The Meltdown Is A Regulation Need Not Misbehavior

    The door closes, the backpack drops, and suddenly your sweet kid is fighting, crying, or refusing everything you say. If after school feels like a daily emotional explosion, you’re not alone and you’re not failing. We break down the after-school meltdown in a way that makes the chaos make sense, so you can respond with more calm and far less confusion.\n\nWe zoom in on what kids actually do all day: constant self-control, rule-following, academic pressure, social navigation, and nonstop transitions. By the time they get home, many children have used up their emotional energy and home becomes the safest place for all those held-in feelings to spill out. That’s why “I hate this snack” or “I’m not doing homework” is often code for “I’m done” or “I feel overwhelmed.” We also talk about why you still set firm limits on unsafe behavior, while shifting your mindset from punishment to support.\n\nYou’ll get practical parenting tools for the after-school routine, including how to explain the pattern to kids when they’re calm, how to normalize crying as a healthy release, and how to use a parallel story for kids who hate talking about themselves. The biggest takeaway: this is often a regulation problem, not a discipline problem and a simple 20 to 30 minute transition buffer with snack, movement, quiet, connection, or time can change the whole afternoon. If this helped, subscribe, share with a friend who dreads 3 pm, and leave a quick review so more parents can find the show.

  5. Sep 22

    How To Keep Kids Grounded When Sukkot Disrupts

    Sukkot can be pure magic and total chaos at the same time. We love the sukkah meals, the guests, the family energy, and the special memories, but we also know what happens next: bedtimes drift later, meals move around, kids snack more, stimulation climbs, and the “normal” schedule disappears. Then a child who seemed fine an hour ago is suddenly whining, arguing, bouncing off the walls, or melting down over something tiny, and it’s easy to wonder what went wrong.  We walk through why this happens, even when kids are having fun. From long stretches in shul to constant cousin time to sleeping in different places, Yom Tov can overload a child’s system. The goal isn’t rigid control or forcing a perfect routine that doesn’t fit the holiday. Instead, we focus on a few predictable anchors that help kids feel safe and steady inside all the change.  You’ll hear three practical anchors we rely on: giving kids a simple picture of what’s happening next, keeping one or two familiar parts of the day (like a piece of the bedtime routine or a consistent breakfast), and adjusting our expectations as kids run out of self-control later in the day. We also share a concrete challenge to try before Sukkot begins: choose just two predictable supports that you can actually maintain. If this helps, subscribe, share it with a parent who needs it, and leave a review so more families can find us.

  6. Sep 15

    Yom Kippur Parenting Through Small Changes

    Yom Kippur parenting doesn’t have to sound like a sermon, and teshuva doesn’t have to feel like shame. We’re taking a grounded look at how kids actually learn the core ideas of the High Holidays: responsibility, repair, and the courage to try again after we mess up. The surprise is that the most meaningful Yom Kippur prep often happens in ordinary moments at home, not in big speeches. We talk about modeling self reflection out loud in a way that’s simple and non-preachy. Instead of listing what our kids need to fix, we name one thing we want to work on as parents: staying calmer during the morning rush, listening with more patience when we’re tired, putting the phone away at dinner, or bringing a little more steadiness to bedtime. These small kabbalot are realistic, repeatable, and powerful over time, which makes them perfect for Jewish family life during the High Holidays. We also get specific about apologizing and why “I’m sorry, but…” cancels the lesson. When we apologize without excuses, our children see what genuine responsibility looks like, and they learn a life skill they can use with siblings, friends, and eventually their own families. If you want one practical takeaway, it’s this: pick one small parenting change before Yom Kippur, say it out loud in front of your kids, and follow through. Listen now, then subscribe, share with a friend who’s parenting through the holidays, and leave a review so more families can find these Yom Kippur and teshuva parenting tools.

  7. Sep 8

    Back-To-School Calm

    Back-to-school season can look like fresh notebooks on the outside and pure overload on the inside. We feel it too: bedtimes shift, lunches suddenly matter again, homework returns, and it can seem like everyone needs something at the exact same time. What helps isn’t a perfect plan or an Instagram-ready schedule, but a calm, workable back to school routine that reduces friction and gives the whole family a steadier rhythm. We walk through practical parenting strategies you can start using before the first bell, including how to adjust sleep gradually so mornings don’t feel like a daily emergency. Then we zoom in on the moments that tend to unravel, whether that’s mornings, after school, homework time, or bedtime, and how a simple, visible routine can cut decision fatigue and lower conflict. We also talk about creating a designated homework space that signals focus without needing anything fancy. From there, we tackle the big stress multipliers: overpacked calendars and last-minute dinners. We share why simplifying extracurriculars early in the school year can protect the margin kids need, plus how basic meal planning and a shared family calendar system can take the mental load out of your head and put it somewhere everyone can see. We close with a Jewish lens on rhythm and routine: thoughtful structure doesn’t remove warmth, it often creates it. If back to school is the season when you catch yourself yelling more than you want to, we also share a free way to get support. Subscribe for more practical Jewish parenting tools, share this with a friend who needs calmer mornings, and leave a review so more families can find the show.

  8. Sep 1

    Calmer School Mornings

    Back-to-school mornings can make even kind, thoughtful parents sound like drill sergeants, and it usually happens in the same way: too much to do, too little time, and one kid moving at the speed of a snail while you try to hold everything together. We get honest about that “Why am I yelling?” moment, and we focus on what actually helps when you need your family to move without turning the house into a battleground.  We walk through practical communication tools you can use right away to stop yelling and get more cooperation. You’ll hear how small choices can lower resistance while the task stays non-negotiable, how collaborative problem solving turns you and your child into a team, and how giving information in advance makes transitions less abrupt. We also talk about calm, neutral expectations that avoid lectures and power struggles, plus the underrated power of gentle humor that softens your tone and changes the whole mood.  Finally, we zoom in on motivation: noticing what’s going right during the morning routine, and using positive attention to build momentum. You’ll leave with a simple challenge for the week: replace one phrase you say when you’re stressed with one calmer strategy and watch what shifts. If yelling has become a pattern you want to change, check the link in the show notes for the free email course “Stop Yelling and Create a Karma Home.” Subscribe, share this with a fellow parent, and leave a review so more families can find calmer mornings.

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Practical Jewish parenting tips for raising resilient, grateful, value-driven children in today’s world. Welcome to Simply Jewish Parenting — practical guidance for raising confident, resilient, values-driven Jewish kids. Hosted by Adina Soclof, Parent Educator, Speech Pathologist, and founder of ParentingSimply.com, this channel helps parents build calm homes, strong character, gratitude, emotional intelligence, and Jewish connection. Expect short, research-based episodes on real parenting challenges: tantrums, entitlement, sibling conflict, screen time, teens pulling away, and holiday overwhelm. Learn how Jewish wisdom, rituals, Shabbat, blessings, Modeh Ani, and traditions can make parenting easier, not harder. Adina has taught thousands of parents and professionals and is the author of Parenting Simply: Preparing Kids for Life. Join a community that understands your struggles and equips you with language, tools, and compassion. Subscribe for Jewish parenting tips, behavior insights, family communication skills, and encouragement—because parenting is hard, but you don’t have to do it alone.

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  • Creator
    Adina Soclof
  • Years Active
    2025 - 2026
  • Episodes
    50
  • Rating
    Clean
  • Copyright
    © 2026 Simply Jewish Parenting
  • Show Website
    Simply Jewish Parenting

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